1st Section: Before you consider dating:

· The most important thing is your relationship with God   · Allow God to reveal & examine any old wounds or hurts from the past. Psalm 147:3 (HCSB) Psalm 34:18 (HCSB)  Romans 8:28 (HCSB) · Forgive  Look at it as a learning experience. Ask God to break every soul ties that may be in your heart. Rededicate yourself, your mind & body back to God Psalm 51:10 (HCSB)  Anoint yourself daily & asking God to keep you covered

Now if you decide to start dating, this is the 2nd section.

·      Learn what your type is (Make a LIST)  Know your responsibility -The man that finds a wife, finds a good thing

Based upon that LIST, are they compatible with you & are you compatible with THEM.

The 3rd& last section: When you have someone or a particular person in mind.

·      Talk less & LISTEN MORE  Test or investigate everything. (1 John 4:1 Try the spirit by THE SPIRIT)

·      Trust has to be EARNED, not GIVEN  (This will help you to guard your heart

·      2 Timothy 5:22 Says Lay hands suddenly on NO MAN ·    Don’t assume NOTHING

·      Don’t put yourself or them in an uncomfortable situations  Stay away from foolish people & people who will test your will & morals (1 Corinthians 15:33 (HCSB)

33  Do not be deceived: “Bad company corrupts good morals. Or good character”

Never think you can change someone   Sex will not make them love you 

Know the difference between someone you need to date & someone for ministry (refer them to someone of the SAME sex)