Question: When attempting to implement bestowal to friends, sometimes we reveal a discrepancy. It turns out that we try to give the wrong thing, in the wrong way, or at the wrong time. How should we properly correct such situations?

Answer: When we intend to help someone or give something back to them, we focus only on our intentions.

Therefore, we cannot precisely measure who has a greater or lesser intention. We should try to do everything within our power.

Question: We try to work for the sake of bestowal, but when we make some decisions, not everyone immediately joins in. There are active friends and less active ones. Is it right to show initiative or should we wait until others join in?

Answer: You should show initiative and pull the less active ones along by your example, effort, and in any way possible.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 5/23/24, Writings of Rabash “The Desire to Bestow – 1”

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