Question: Pleasure comes from the Creator. How can I strengthen my connection with the Creator at this point so that I bestow to Him rather than receive for myself?

Answer: If you restrict your connection with the Creator, meaning you do not sever the connection, but simply do not receive pleasure and stop yourself in order to establish your relationship, you will not receive anything until you have established it.

But once you do the calculation and see that you can create a condition for the Creator to receive contentment from your action, you start implementing it.

Question: How can I properly establish our relationship so that the Creator receives contentment from my action now?

Answer: To do this, you need to stop receiving from the Creator what He wants to give, pause, and feel in what state you are with the Creator. You make a restriction (Tzimtzum) on your desire to receive and see how you can be connected with the Creator without breaking the conditions of the restriction.

Question: Will He give me the understanding of how to stay connected with Him without breaking this connection if I make a restriction on myself?

Answer: You have to twist it this way and that. This is called “flirting” or “dancing” with the Creator. There are various terms describing the movement of creation relative to the Creator and vice versa. Overall, it is like a dance.

Question: How does this flirting manifest? Is it in a request and in a prayer?

Answer: Yes, essentially, the Creator feels it.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/25/24, Writings of Rabash “Concerning the Will to Receive – 1”

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