Question: What should one do if there is a fear of destroying what is already built and that someone will be buried under the ruins, unable to rise by himself?

Answer: There must be a stronger connection with the Creator than any destruction.

Question: It turns out that elders are those not afraid of destruction or descents. On the contrary, do they draw strength from this breakage?

Answer: That is absolutely correct. We need to learn not to fear falls, i.e., to beware of them. When they happen, we should start asking for their correction.

Question: What do I need to destroy in myself?

Answer: It is necessary to destroy your egoism concerning others. And your love for everyone, if it exists, must be expanded and elevated.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 7/1/24, Writings of Rabash “Ruin by Elders—Construction; Construction by Youths—Ruin”

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