We must show each other how much we desire to connect because it is precisely in the connection between us that we attain the Creator.

The Creator cannot be revealed in one person. At a minimum, two people are necessary, two who reject each other and simultaneously strive to be together above their egoism. There must be a dipole, two interconnected opposite qualities: love and hate, one above the other.

That is a challenge for humanity because people do not understand it. Either I am all in love or entirely feel hatred. Either I love a little or hate a little. However, opposing these two qualities and connecting them one above the other is very difficult.

Nevertheless, it is necessary to live in this, not rejecting, but developing both qualities—the thickness of egoism (Aviut), the restriction of its direct use (Tzimtzum), and the screen (Masach)—when I begin to work above egoism in the quality of bestowal, in connection with the upper light, i.e., in love. Then I turn into a complete Partzuf—a soul.

The problem is that I have to implement all this. Kabbalah is not a simple method. Such an action requires gradual mastery. It is truly a wisdom, a skill that must be learned gradually. Therefore, spiritual work takes many years.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 2/24/20, “Preparation for the Convention”

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