Question: If I see that there is no love in me and hatred is growing, how can I reach the point where it becomes painful? How can I not take this for granted? How can I cry out because of it?

Answer: You cannot do anything on your own because this is your nature. You are being shown the truth, and not even all of it. What you must do in your prayers, in your requests, to the Creator, is to express your desire for these qualities to leave you.

Question: How can I constantly act together with the Creator? How can I correctly express love? If the Creator hides Himself, is it better to conceal my egoism or, conversely, to manifest love?

Answer: It is better to conceal your egoism and reveal it only to the extent that you wish to show it to the Creator and ask Him to correct it. In other words, strive to be in controlled egoism as much as possible.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 8/11/24, Writings of Rabash “Laboring and Finding”

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