Question: If the Creator is the goal throughout the journey and unification and love of friends are the means of revealing the Creator, then it turns out that this is an egoistic action. Will there be a moment when the means are more important than the goal?

Answer: Then what is special about the very action of unification if it is not aimed at achieving the result of merging opposite parts above your individual egoism?

Comment: But reaching adhesion seems rather selfish: I want, I desire, adhesion.

My Response: This is an action above the ego, which does not disappear. You remain divided into parts, and an even greater differentiation of egoism manifests in you.

At every moment, you feel the inner division and opposition growing between you, not as between primitive people, but as between developed people in whom there are disagreements about tastes in cooking, art, life, and so on.

At the same time, you begin to feel exactly how your mutual complement emerges above all this in attaining the Creator since He is comprehended in the difference between you and your correct unity. We have no other tool to sense Him, to model Him, in ourselves.

We must necessarily consist of opposite properties that can combine. Thus, from their combination we will understand what the Creator is; He belongs to another state above this world, which is something we cannot comprehend. But when we model this state in ourselves and arrange it, we begin to understand it, but still from the opposite.

In fact, we do not feel the Creator, but something we create in ourselves. Therefore, the Creator is called Boreh—”Bo – Reh,” “come and see.” Come, that is, create Him in yourself, and then you will feel Him, get to know Him.

We create this as black and white—two opposites that unite into one single whole and complement each other.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 2/24/20, “Preparation for the Convention”

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