Question: How is our making concessions toward one another in a ten related to a common Hisaron (deficiency) appearing?

Answer: In this way, you want to feel what the other feels, and he does the same toward you. This creates a common Kli.

Each of you tries to unite in the other’s desire to bestow: the first in the second and the second in the first.

Question: When we annul ourselves before our friends, we can receive from them. But what can we give them in this state?

Answer: You unite with them in order to create a common Kli. A friend bestows to me, and I bestow to him to the extent that we can unite.
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From the 3rd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 6/25/2025, “Winning the War”

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