Why do men people leave relationships with people they might have made promises to or women they love?

Lack of peacefulness Cannot do anything without you complaining. You are criticising him constantly. You are negative. Cannot do anything without you trying to control outcomes. You try to tell him what to do. You do not give him space. You do everything for him to make him feel wanted and loved.

Let go of control Let him choose Let him be an adult. Do not do everything for him. Make requests not demands. Appreciate him Give him space

If his choice is to leave you, that is best for the relationship. You cannot do this relationship alone. Or drag someone who is unwilling.