April Intentional healing

Day 2 : What do I want? Me. Not what my children, partner, friends, parents or colleagues want. Me!

Sharing prompts for inner child work. Let us meet daily here to heal. Time varies between 2100 and 24.00. If you are not here, you may still watch the video!

Start self-care with SIFTSEM. Morning Gratitude , meditation, deep breathing, Carthartic shake, affirmations, self-hugs, tapping, cathartic shake and setting an intention.

Throughout the day Mindfulness Segment intending Boundaries Less complaining Laughter Forgiveness. Kindness Healthy eating Exercise SIFTSEM

Night Bed time reflection Praise yourself What can you improve, learn from your day.

Welcome to SIFTSEM

Siftem number. Date

Evaluation of last SIFTSEM

Intention of the week

Significance or accomplishments of the day:

Intention for the day :

Self-care needs met: Gratitude. Meditation. Affirmations. Deep breathing. Vision Board. Catharsis. Exercise. Socialise. Boundaries. Journal. Random Kindness.

1.Pause and take 15 deep breaths. 2.Distress temperature from 0 (calm) to 10 (very distressed) 3.Trigger = X 4.Pre-triggers Old. History . Recent triggers List self-care today? S I F T Root cause- One to 5 whys. Up to 3 quite useful

Why to your key issue or dominant thoughts=A Why to answer to A = B Why to answer to B= C Why to answer to C= D Why to answer to D =E E & X = Root cause = Unmet need 10.Meeting needs.

Immediate solutions:

5 love languages and 5 senses : hugs, rocking, calming oils, gratitude, affirmations, thought replacement and role reversal

Intermediate Solution.

Love on three levels Self-care

Second level

Third level

Long-term Solutions.

Distress temperature

Evaluation on intention and developmental needs

SIFTSEM TOOL- Sensations, Images, Feelings, Thoughts, Soothing, Endorphin Release, and Meeting Unmet Needs.: A solution focused emotional-regulation and cognitive restructuring tool for triggers. https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B08TQCYC7G/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_XXRY91QWKMGGNXE0ESMX

Question today : Who am I ?

Day 1. Who am I You cannot know what you want unless you know who you are. Who you are needs to become kindness to you first. Explore your character. Love languages.Attachment styles. The ideal person. Your values and belief system. Your dark side.

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