I found Eboni the CEO of self-love brand The Identity of She on Instagram when I happened across her brand and the amazing things it's doing to help you love yourself. She's going to chat about her issue with diet culture and self-confidence today but what attracted me to her was that I saw she was on a weight loss journey too yet she runs a body positive business which she is front and centre of. This meant we got to chat about the argument of weightloss vs body positivity and if the two are a contradiction or can happily co-exist. This isn't a popular debate because not many people, especially from the bopo community are willing to consider that weight loss can be necessary and when it is it has nothing to do with how much we love or accept our bodies.