And please notice he didn’t even speak of children. But it is the same. What environment is required, for you to feel well enough to be with your children as they are? This is not hippie s**t. This is legit, fully clinically tested, certifiable attachment therory and what makes us HUMAN. Its the essence of relationship. Where is that more authentic by it’s very nature than in our offspring. Can we hold the space for the gemstone that is possible? Not easy, but possible. It takes some ART. Get artistic parents. Loosen up just a smidge - it won’t kill you and it may save them.

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