Before passing judgments, it is time to pause and ask- what's their story?
Food, smoking, alcohol, porn, makeup, exercise are all various forms of addictions. Behind the scenes is pain and suffering. 

Listen to this week's episode to understand how we have been conditioned into belief systems that are far from truth. The real truth is not out there in books or encyclopedias or in the words of "educated " or "learned" people. The real truth is the voice within that defies every belief system out there. I chose to live authentically when I was a teenager. Many times I felt alone and felt judged and laughed at. Many times I felt like going with the tribe but then I felt claustrophobic and knew right away that I was not living my truth. 
I was fat because I felt pain. Food was a bandaid that made me feel better. Not anymore. Because I know I am worthy and I am beautiful and I am healthy and I am happy. I don't need external validation. I am enough and am completely in alignment with my authentic inner Self. That, for me, is enough. 
The day we find this deep connection, all addictions will come to an eend and so will outer judgments.