Today I found horrible news. The relationship I was in that to the naked eye seemed to be going perfect was coming crashing down with the help of an unlocked Facebook account and text messages one party possibly wished they had deleted. Trust, loyalty, and honesty above all else are the most important foundations for any relationship that started in a stage were one or both parties were occupying unstable attachment styles. When one, (or all 3) goes out the window, how in earth are you supposed to feel emotionally secure in your relationships to self and other. Especially when choices about the next steps you’ll need to take to manoeuvre this situation are pressing? That’s my dilemma for today. And while crying helped a big deal... it was time for me to start investing so I could start answering those very same questions.