Counsel with persons is often desirable, but we let God be the final judge. Who are you to judge?" It would have been impressive heroics if he had walked up to the Judge and said, "Here I am."

Who dared to be judge, jury, and executioner of his own sick brother?

God alone can judge our sex situation.

Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book) and Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12)