As a married man, A Godly man, I am speaking from what I’ve learned and believe to be true.
I believe God made nothing without order. 
As I look around today it seems that order is being blurred more and more everyday causing chaos and confusion which I believe is by design.

On one hand who wouldn’t want to live life however they wanted. I get that.
But on the other hand imagine if everyone wanted to live like that. Order was made so we didn’t have chaos and confusion.

Yes my wife is to submit to me but also me to my wife and God at the head of our household.
My wife and I have lived with and without order and Order wins every time.

God is Good. Trust in God!