"My father died last week after a long illness. I am in charge of the funeral. I received a call yesterday from a man claiming to be my father's love child. He wants to come to the funeral. I checked him out and he's telling the truth. My family is already upset. Inviting him might put them over the edge. I'm thinking about allowing him to come so he can properly pay his last respects. It's not his fault my father made bad choices. Does he deserve to come? Should I invite him?"

"Father's Day was Sunday. The day has me thinking about the two men I am dating. I know I will soon need to make a choice between them. They are very different and very good in their own respects. One man is a businessman and very wealthy. The other is not wealthy and loves to be outdoors playing sports. I want to have kids so it's important that I choose the right man. The wealthy one will be able to provide, but won't be able to give our kids as much time as the other man I am dating. Do I go with the 'Money Man' OR the 'Average Guy' with lots of time to spend with our kids? Which guy would you choose?"

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