Why do we often find it much easier to extend grace to our loved ones than to ourselves? Unfortunately, many of us condemn ourselves for failures, rather than exercising self-compassion. This episode will teach you practical ways to root out negative self-talk and find grace and compassion for yourself through your mistakes and imperfections.
Transformation Tip: “Talk to yourself like someone you love.” - Brene Brown

Self-compassion results in resilience - it keeps your mental state healthy when dealing with difficult situations

Three components of self-compassion:

  • Be kind to yourself
  • Common humanity (everyone makes mistakes)
  • Mindfulness

Ways to show yourself compassion:

  • Root out negative self-talk
    • Awareness of negative thought patterns
  • When you get 20/20 hindsight - where does it take you?
    • Failure = “I just learned something”
  • Everyone makes mistakes
    • You are human!
    • Failure is where you learn (growth mindset)
  • Mindfulness
    • Embracing where you are
    • Excepting your experience just the way it is
    • Care for yourself in your present moment

Transformation Application:Think about one negative narrative that often goes through your mind. Imagine what you normally tell yourself and then change that statement into a statement that has grace and compassion. Write it down and practice using the new statement.

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