I think we are all hypocrites to a certain extent. We all say we care about one thing, yet do another. We all say we believe in certain things and then do things that totally negate those beliefs.
How can we truly discover someone’s values? Can we simply trust that they value what they say they value? Or do we need to watch their actions?
The best way to determine what someone values is to watch what they spend their time, money and energy on.