All or nothing thinking comes at a cost. The cost is not only just hiding or ignoring our truest self (which is what perfectionism does); the cost of all or nothing thinking is hurting our truest self. Knocking her down and rejecting her. It’s when we’re able to see our mistakes as neutral, when we take the pressure off of what we “should be” doing/saying/looking like, when we start checking in with our truest self and gaining from her wisdom versus shooting her down for being different or nonconforming – that’s when we start living authentically. That’s when we start to truly be known. 

My ask, friends, is that when we mistakes and failures occur, that we would accept them and give space to them. Maybe we’ll begin to see that they weren’t mistakes or failures at all actually. Maybe they were just messages from our true selves, reminding you that the vastness of life isn’t found by following other people’s rules perfectly.

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