It Doesn't Really Mather came to be after Savannah Mather realized in her two months left of her undergrad that she wasn't sure if she really wanted anything to do with her degree anymore. Although terrified, Savannah realized everyone shares those feelings of doubt when it comes to their future. Therefore it doesn't really Mather, right? It Doesn't Really Mather quickly turned into a sort of public diary where Savannah shares the uncomfortable, and often unspoken dilemmas we all face, but rarely admit.
In this episode of IDRM, Savannah talks about how frustrating it can be to feel like you're no longer in control of your life. But remember: It's more important to be present where you are now, otherwise you will miss out on your entire life.
IDRM is back! Savannah talks about how frustrating it is to feel like you have no direction or plan, comparing yourself and your success to others, and how to accept that life is never going to go how you planned.
In this week's episode of IDRM, Savannah talks about the idea of being able to go back to the thing that you had to let go of in order to grow and rediscover yourself. Is right person, wrong time real? Can we reconnect with the people who held us back before? Is forgiveness the same thing as closure?
In this week's episode of IDRM, Savannah discusses finding closure when it seems unforeseeable, whether it be with a failed relationship, friendship, a project, or even with yourself.
On this week's episode of IDRM, Savannah opens up about her struggles with financial insecurity and how it has affected her ability to build relationships and self confidence. They say money isn't everything...but it is when you feel like you have nothing.
On this episode of IDRM, Savannah answers a few questions from the card game, We're Not Really Strangers, and shares some of her more personal feelings about what's going on in her life.
In this week's episode, Savannah dives into a topic a bit unconventional from what she usually talks about. The news lately has been extremely discouraging, and a lot of people are suffering from news anxiety due to so much tragedy in the headlines. Between mass shootings, fights over women's basic reproductive rights, and a stronger, more dangerous Covid-19 variant, it seems as though nothing is going well right now.
In this week's episode of IDRM, Savannah gives career advice after a listener requested she talk more about it. Finding a job is both frustrating and exciting especially as a recent college graduate. How are you supposed to know what you want? How do you even start to find one? Don't worry, everyone else is in the same exact boat.
In the fourth episode of It Doesn't Really Mather, Savannah sits down with her first guest and best friend Sher to discuss the messy and complicated experience of dating in college.
In this week's episode, Savannah opens up about her own personal struggles with social anxiety, learning how to love the person she is becoming, and realizing it's okay to prioritize herself when she needs it.
Savannah Discusses the harsh reality of feeling lonely when you don't have many quality friends, something that Savannah herself has dealt with for years. At the end of the day, Savannah explains that it is okay to be alone and to focus on yourself instead of giving in to the pressure to maintain relationships and a social life that isn't fulfilling.
Welcome to the first (and hopefully not the last) episode of It Doesn't Really Mather! Savannah recently discovered that she doesn't really want to enter the career that she for so long envisioned herself in. She has two months until she graduates from college and she has no idea what the fu*k to do with herself, thus this first episode was born. At the end of the day, we've all felt this sort of uncertainty before, so then it doesn't really Mather, right?