In Episode 18 of the Love, Evolved Podcast, I was so honored to talk with Kellen + Perri Chase, who openly share about their beautiful relationship - the story of how they met, how they handle conflict, keeping each other a priority during parenting, and so much more.
Perri Chase is an incredible spiritual teacher for thousands of people, sharing her knowledge and embodied wisdom around working with energetic mastery of the feminine + masculine in business and life. Kellen is the support system holding it all together in the background, and also works with men in Perri's community.
These two together are such a joy to witness, and their love and adoration for each other is so strong. They are incredible models of conscious relationships, and I was so grateful to have them on.
Note: I confused them at the beginning when I said I was excited to talk about how they practice masculine/feminine polarity - I should be more clear when using that phrase, I'm not talking about the popular way it's being taught, but rather the true meaning of that phrase which is the union of the masculine + feminine, specifically inner union and how that is facilitated in partnership through outer union.
Perri actually speaks beautifully about this when she introduces herself and the work that she does, and this was a big reason I was drawn to her, because I could see clearly that she works with both the feminine + masculine in this way. I'll record an episode soon where I clarify what I mean about 'true' polarity - which is inner alchemical union, or the balance of masculine/feminine within, not what popular teachers are talking about.
Other areas we touched upon:
What their relationship and attraction look like
What women really want
Choosing partners from a place beyond trauma and preferences by learning to open and receive
The whole purpose of relationships - mirroring in order to help heal each others' wounds, and how relationships may or may not last forever
When people act out of desperation in unnatural ways in order to cling to relationships that may have reached completion
How Perri decided to stop acting like a chameleon to please partners and just be truly herself, take it or leave it
How to avoid taking on your partner's mood and turning into the rescuer
The ego death process that happens in conscious relationships
The misconception in the masculine/feminine polarity spaces that 'the male leads' - nobody's ego should be leading a relationship
Inner union as the most important aspect of the spiritual path of divine union
Parenting and how Kellen + Perri play untraditional roles that work perfectly for them
The heaviness of Mom guilt
How they do conflict
Final words of wisdom/advice for men, women + couples and how you can work with them
I loved this episode, I've never laughed so much with guests before and our conversation was both fun and impactful. Cannot wait for you to listen.
Let us know in the comments below (or reach out to any of us) with comments + questions.
How to contact Perri + Kellen:
https://perrichase.com/
https://www.instagram.com/perri.chase/
How to contact Leigh-Anne:
https://www.love-evolved.us/
https://www.instagram.com/love.evolv.ed/
About Me:
I'm a holistic psychologist based in LA specializing in love, sex and relationships, and use a combination of therapy + breathwork with clients, couples, and groups.