In this episode, I spoke with dating coach for Asian men, Rob Wang. We go into the deeper aspects of what creates genuine attraction as an Asian man and how you can develop confidence in not just your dating life, but life in general.
We talked about:
Rob burned out from corporate and spiraled into depression
Dating doesn't have to be complicated
Dating doesn't mean leaving behind your true self, your authentic self
Attraction comes from the emotional authenticity within
What Rob's current work is for himself in dating and relationships
Understanding your emotions also means understanding your body
Attraction is an emotion and requires awareness
Express emotions with "I feel" rather than "I feel like"
Being the "Nice guy" vs the "Kind guy"
This inner work is not about "fixing" yourself, but embracing yourself
Confidence comes from giving yourself permission to have
Connect With Rob:
Work with him to become a better guy to date: https://www.greatdateguy.com/ (https://www.greatdateguy.com)
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rlwang (https://www.facebook.com/rlwang)
Books mentioned
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma - https://amzn.to/302jWIX (https://amzn.to/302jWIX)
No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life - https://amzn.to/3g3fiQd (https://amzn.to/3g3fiQd)
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