Believe Unlimited: Recent Episodes
William Pavlik
Believe Unlimited helps those who believe they want more from the life they are living and helps them build a space of personal belief, free from criticism so they may impact their lives and others.
Teach & Share
When we have fully integrated our understanding into who we are, we then can Teach & Share that understanding. If we find that we have trouble sharing our understanding with someone and have difficulty with explaining or relating it with others, we have not fully made it part of ourselves. When we can relate it to others it is ours.
Commitment
Make a commitment to yourself to live the new understanding. Commit it to habit and integrate it into you life. Commit to yourself that you choose to learn and adapt with each new understanding.
Acceptance
When we have a new understanding forming in our experience, there will be times that we fall short or fall off of that understanding, and be sure that friends will let you know. We may even battle with believing that we have found that new understanding.
Acknowledgement
We must acknowledge the new information as part of our new understanding. Stay true to ourselves. And grow into the new understanding.
Acquisition
Starting with the questions and the desire to acquire a new understanding. We can learn to understand anything we desire. This is the first step in creating a different or enhanced understanding of anything we choose
AAACTS of Understanding
A - Acquisition
A - Acknowledgement
A - Acceptance
C - Commitment
T - Teach &
S - Share
Learning anything new starts with the best question you can ever ask yourself. Why do I believe what I believe and is the more to learn?
Take It All In.
Embrace the good days and the not so good days as they each have value for the growth we desire. All is contributing to the whole of our desires and life is unfolding as it should.
Couldn't Feel How You Feel ... If you hadn't felt how you felt.
All our experiences are building our knowledge and wisdom on how we want to live and what choices are best for us to pursue the experiences that are true to our desires. All is well, and moving as needed.
Feeling The Chaos.
When the feeling of chaos comes into our lives we can take a deep breath and search ourselves for what is truly going on. The feeling of chaos is an indicator of what we are "doing" is has triggered an alert that we are "Not Being" true and there is a great opportunity to hone out what we are really wanting. Embrace the experience and find the path you truly desire for your life.
Helping The Homeless.
The "Homeless" people we see are easily identified and most of us have compassion for these individuals.
The reality is that most people that we encounter are symbolically homeless. They have forgotten or lost themselves and are just as vulnerable and could benefit from our help and care each day.
What The Hell?
Wowzer ... things go off-kilter and my life seems to be spinning off track. What choice do I get to make now is the thought I am thinking.
Benefits & Consequences
Most of us make our decisions based upon. Does this benefit me - us? What are the consequences of this choice for me - us? Most times we cannot see the full effects of the decisions we make, we are usually nearsighted. Sometimes the most difficult consequences turn out to have the greatest benefits.
What if we listen to our sub-conscious and made the choice from what is true for us.
F*!; Your Feelings
We can choose to feel our feelings, not "forget" our feelings...
When we are mindful of the feelings we are feeling, we can use the experience to learn about the meaning of the feelings we are experiencing and grow from each experience.
Power of Focus
When we focus we can see past obstacles, this is how we move towards our goals.
When we focus, we can miss the opportunity to see the beauty of what is before us.
Be mindful of both.
Living Right, And How Do You Know?
This is one of my favourite stories about how I know that all the choices and experiences I am having in my life are somehow connected and that even when I am unaware of the Why something is happening. When I listen to my inner self. It is all working for my benefit.
Big Events Don't Just Happen.
Many times we have big events, a blow-up, argument, fight with a friend or family member(s). When we examine these big events, typically they stem from an accumulation of small events that have not yet been resolved and blow up in our face as it were. Keeping the pressure low and on top of the little events in our life we may reduce the impact of the Big events we do experience.
Whelmed Point
Most of us are only aware of being overwhelmed, this is too late. The trick is to be aware of your whelmed point. And to stay below it, to release pressures as they build up and to proactively keep ourselves below the overwhelmed point.
Forgive Yourself First
Forgiving others is very important, truly vital to living a peaceful life. However, forgiving the correct person first is even more important. Forgiving yourself for any part of the role we played or even that we may have allowed someone to take advantage of us. Forgiving our-self First, then it is simpler to forgive others.
Living Life As A Pseudonym
Are you living true to yourself or living under an assumed identity to fit in and perform in the life you have chosen to live, Are you living true to yourself and living all that is truly within you to live.
When Wisdom Begins
We all have the wisdom to share, what do you do with the knowledge that you have learned. Do you build it into wisdom and teach all that you have learned in small bits of wisdom.
No, Should, Can't, Have To
These words are those that hold us back the most from living the life we want. When we can reframe these works into choice it opens the freedom to make the choices in our world that give us strength. We can achieve all we desire when we get to and make the choice for our life.
Be Resilient, Like Children
Have you ever watch a child below the age of 6, attempt to learn a new skill. It is a magical journey of discovery, Most children will attempt over and over and over again to successfully achieve that which they want to master. They are not deterred by their conscious mind as it is not truly awake until then. They will try endlessly, we learn to be become limited by our mind and that is when fear of failure comes.
This Is My Life.
When we give ourselves permission to make the choices about our lives, that we truly desire, we will live the life that needs no vacation or break from. We live true to ourselves we are flowing with all that is within.
Is Joy, Happiness?
Yes, there is a difference. The joy we feel comes from within, and the happiness comes from the experiences we have. Happiness flows from the joy we have within. When we experience happiness without joy in our heart, we will seek that experience and never find true happiness.
Wholly Scotoma, Batman
We see only that which we focus upon. We can control what we see and be open to seeing the new in all we experience and learn and grow from that.
Accepting My Life Is Because Of Me
This is the greatest opportunity that we have before us. How we can take advantage of all the experiences in our lives and learn to apply and create the experience we want.
When I Notice ...
The dishes are not done, the garbage is taken out, or any other situation when we notice that something is not as we desire. Now, at that moment we get to choose what to do about it, because, we noticed. Many times other do not notice what we notice and it is up to us to create a solution to the thing we are noticing. This is an opportunity to make it as we want.
Premeditated Resentment
Do we make the actions of others, that do not fulfill our idea of what someone should act like a resentment? What if we took the responsibility for how we feel about what others did or did not do "correctly"? We can approach all this differently and have conversations to help others to act towards us the way in which we desire.
Not Perfection, Only Progression
Perfection is a form of procrastination. The desire to produce something that is next to perfect can really hold us back. You can choose to move forward and get better when you want progression instead of perfection.
Loving The Contrast
Identifying the purpose and enjoying the not so exciting times of our lives. You can choose to embrace all the dark things in your life as making the choice to see all the light and beautiful things of life simple and purposeful.
Because, You Don't Deserve It
Have you ever felt this way?
What if, you felt you deserve the good things you desire, would that make sense that you would have more chance of getting them, How do we become worthy to deserve all the desires of our life? What if you didn't have to do anything, only believe that you are worthy of what you desire.
Closer Than Ever Before
On the way to creating the life we want from the life that we may not have wanted. There is growth, and certain times during our growth we may get discouraged. If you do remember that you have come a long way and you are literally closer than you have been before.
Continuity Of Feeling
When we feel an emotion, either "good or bad" it is a guide to allow us to assess what is going on is it something we want or is it something we do not want in our life. When we have those experiences that we do not want we can ask a simple question to assist ourselves in making a shift to better feeling thoughts and then make a choice from a place closer to who we really are.
Just Be Positive... NOT !
When we have an experience we are feeling "bad" about and really struggling with the feelings we are having and they are anger, frustration, or loss. Jumping all the way to positive feeling thought, and sending someone love. This can be too big of a leap, if you can achieve it, great, go for it. If you cannot, then shift slowly and purposefully to move yourself to better feelings.
What Should I Do?
What do we do when we have a decision to make and how do we go about making that decision?
Is it easier not to make the choice and what happens if we make a wrong choice?
To Grind or Not To Grind?
This may be the question you are wondering, we all do not have the same personality, and good thing we don't. Some of us create results by just getting out there and getting it done, grinding everyday, doing the necessary step to get to the goal that we have set. Some of do NOT do this well, Does this mean we can't have the goals we want> Of course not, however we must determine how we create the results we have, and do those things to create what we want.
How I Look...
Should Have Nothing to do With How You Feel,
Although ...
How You Feel has Everything to do With How You Look.
Have you ever noticed someone that looked so radiant that they were beautiful, and you hardly notice their actual appearance or even noticed someone that was physically beautiful and they were unattractive because they had bad vibe or attitude?
Be excited about who you are.
I Believe I Will.
This is about the stand that I have chosen to live by. You may get the double entendre.
My wish for you is that you live into your best version of yourself, and by believing .... you will.
But, They Really Need Help!
Sometimes we can see so clearly what someone needs to change and it is difficult not to help them. There is a method on which we can determine if they are ready to receive the help that we have to offer. Telling your story of where you were the events that happened and the result you are having and where the change is taking you. Then wait for them to figure it out for themselves.
Wait For Permission.
The best way to help someone change is to WAIT until they are receptive to the tips you may be able to help them with. It is the point at which they ask you for help. Telling you what is going on in their life is not the same as asking for help in resolving it. Only at the point at which they ask you for help is any of your insights, welcomed.
You're Annoying Me ... I have been the annoyed and the annoy-er. It is at the moment when we unsolicited give someone tips or a solution to a problem that WE see they are struggling with. Many times I have burst into the solution to their problem and hurt them by doing so. When we are supportive and not attempting to fix their problem, they may ask how you did it.
Living With Purpose
Live each day on purpose and with purpose. Learn to make the hurts and pains and the joys and victories of your life a growing experience to create and shape the life you have learned you want to live. Make a choice to use all that you have to live the life you want.
Does The Pain End?
It may or it may not, and it doesn't matter either way. You can still live a joyous experience and live a purposeful life and the life you can to live, regardless of the pain we have felt or are feeling. You and I have a choice on what we use the experiences of our life for. They can help us to grow, or they can break us down, and either way, we can create value for ourselves and others from either experience.
Why Do I Hurt?
We hurt due to being out of alignment with our desires. When we have pain in our body we protect the injury and allow it to heal before we put full pressure on it again. Sometimes, when we hurt emotionally we put more pressure on ourselves to heal, faster and put ourselves down because we are not healing at the speed we desire. And that does not make sense.
Sentimental Appreciation.
What a marvelous description of how to view a relationship that has ended and the growth that has taken place due to the hardship of processing the pain of the loss of the relationship that was.
Because, It's Wrong!
A statement I have heard many times and one that I feel says more about the person speaking the words than the action they are describing as wrong. We all have unique life experiences and all develop things that are "right and wrong". These are more about ourselves and our own desires for our life than they are about the correctness or incorrectness of anything. To become free of feeling that things are wrong, maybe allow that these things are NOT what I choose for my experience and allow what is to be.
What I Expect.
We can learn to expect good things in our life, and learn to release the expectation of return.
When we have an expectation of a return to any of our actions it can diminish our experience of the return that is given.
Real is only a perception of the mind that is experiencing an event.
Every event we have had or do have in our lives is Real for us. That in it of itself does not make the event Real. Each of us will have different experiences with the events we experience. The perception of that event creates our reality for ourselves. We can have the same or similar experience and have a completely different story about that event.
Our life is an outward manifestation of our inward thinking.
The Residual Accumulation of Thought is what you and I experience each and every day. The bad news is that we will never BE the expression of our true self today. The good news is that we will never be the expression of our true self, only moving towards that. That means as good as it gets it can always get better. As bad as it has gotten, we can change right now and then be OK with where we are and move towards that which we truly desire. and today must change, as we move into tomorrow and all our tomorrows.
But, I Want It NOW!
We all think that if we had IT now. Everything would be better. That is not really true, sometimes the waiting for what we want is the preparation time that will give us the ability to receive what we wanted. Nothing in life has a need for it to be now, outside of our understanding that we only truly live in this moment that we are living right now. All things will take some time to see come to fruition in our lives
How Do I Get What I Want?
That is through Knowing what you want specifically and the move into Believing... all of the steps of belief.
There are many different paths to getting what you want, Knowing your own personality style will assist you in achieving your desires. Knowing what you really want, and then believing.
You Are So ...
Stupid and just an idiot, you always make mistakes and it costs us.
(Is that really a true Statement ? )
I have many times and even today had an off morning. I was being really hard on myself. What do you do when you do that with yourself?
I have learned to release it very quickly by knowing Who I am, and does this moment fit in the whole of Who I know myself to be?
It's Like Wiping Your Bum ...
with the Other Hand. When we make a new decision and have different thoughts and actions it is not going to feel "Normal" or "Comfortable". It may even feel what is best described as "Weird".
We must persevere through the uncomfortable until we have made the new thoughts and experience feel almost normal. At that point, we can choose to make a new decision based upon is this now moving me in the direction I want.
Acceptance is the greatest way that we can create in our lives. We bring more benefit when we accept what we do want, than when we resist what we don't want.
We must apply new lessons to our lives and check the results and then again apply new lessons again.
This is a continual process for your life.
This is the easy part, it is also the difficult part if we are resistant to change. It is truly exciting to choose to learn what we really want in our lives and to go after those things. The work is part of living, it is as simple as asking the right questions to life's choices and making a decision and moving towards that choice. If we choose "wrong" (there is no wrong only a new perspective) we get to make a new choice. Life is about choosing from a place of joy and then moving towards it.
We all need to find people and information to grow to be the best that we can be and to live a life of purpose. There are many people that can help, we only need to be open to them and be available to learn all the information we can from all that is available and with the internet, there is so much information available. We must vet the people we take teaching from, have they experienced what we are going through and have they created the results we would like through that experience?
One of the Steps of Healing is Awareness.
Awareness of the problem we have and what is not fitting for us in the life we want.
Awareness of the Change required to live the life we want.
Awareness of the Opportunity that can be found in the challenge we have experienced.
As we go through hard times, there becomes a time for healing. There are many different ways to heal, I have found that these 4 steps have worked best for me.
These are
Awareness
Seeking Help
The Work
Acceptance and Application
A question was asked " I forgive you but I will never forget what you did! Is it truly forgiveness? ". Forgiveness is truly about releasing the experience so that we may find purpose in the experience. Life is about what we experience and what we do with that experience. Learning to release fully is healing.
In addition to not looking forward enough, there are times we can look too far ahead and not be aware of what is right before us. There is a need for a balance. When things are out of balance we can look closely at the things happening right before us to gain a perspective on where we need to focus. Once we have seen what is before us, we can look toward the long term again.
Life is like a balance beam, you can't look at your feet and keep your balance, we must look into the distance to know where to step. And how to navigate through the challenges that we face today.
Are you a Feeling Bad Expert?
Are you continually finding the news and events are oh so terrible and there is always a tragedy that is striking you and you feel pain for the people? There may be another perspective that you may want to try, it can be more fun.
Where ever you are at, Emotionally, Spiritually, Financially, or even Physically. You have created your own reality and you have a choice in whether you continue or make a shift in where you are to where you want to be. You are the key to unlocking your own potential. You have all the stops, locks and passages of your own understanding. You might need some help to shift these, however, you are the key to it all. You can do it.
You can use your mind as a solution tool. Set your intent on having your Sub-conscious work for you finding the solutions for the things that are troubling you right now. Kinda like using your mind like Google. Your mind is all ready up all night keeping you breathing and the heart pumping. Set the intent not for your conscious mind, alternatively choose your Sub-conscious.
Sometimes in our lives, we have had experiences that we can not change and can not put back the way they were. We can never have the things we thought we wanted and it will not be the way we originally wanted. We can choose to create the best from what we have, to add to our experience and to make the most of what we have now, by making the best we can from the scrambled situation we are currently in.
We have heard many people say and have said these word ourselves. It may be TRUE. It may not be our fault, however only at the point of refusing to blame someone else. And then taking full responsibility for our own lives and experiences can we effect change in that situation. When we blame other for our lives, we give the power to change our lives for the better to the person we are blaming, they must do something different in order for us to find a resolution for that situation. We can choose to take responsibility and then we have regained the power to effect change of results in our life.
There are many important days in our lives, I have heard it said that the two most important days are...
1 - The day we were born.
2 - The day we figure out why.
They are both births so to speak and the second day will become the most important once we get to it. Many people are able to figure this out very young. Some unfortunately never do and live a life of frustration. Knowing why we came into this experience is a point at which our lives can shift to a much simpler life. Not easy, only simpler as we then know the best choices for the path of our life.
When we love someone, and we really want them to feel loved, do we give our heart away?
When we give the care of our hearts to someone else it is not only not fair to the other person, we can never have control over how full our heart is our how much we can give.
We must be in full ownership of our own heart then we can share Love like we want to. To Love fully with out loss.
Do we use our minds to create the best for ourselves? And if we don't, how can we use that experience to create more clearly and have a better understanding of what we really want, and then choose to pursue it.
When we have a pattern in our life that we want to change, there are times that we can be so focused what we don't want that we miss the value of the very reason we have that belief at all. We must acknowledge and appreciate that experience for keeping us safe up until now. Now we add new knowledge and new input from supporters and create the new belief that we do want. Adding to that which we already have.
Keys to knowing your boundaries. How to set them and how to uphold them, Learning that setting boundaries is easy if you have been pushed past them. Setting implementable consequences and holding to them.
We all have things that are awesome about ourselves. The best thing we can do for building our beliefs is to remind ourselves of the awesome things that we have done. And when we have been awesome to others.
There are many ways we create beliefs,
There are 3 main ways are created.
1 - Repetition of Experiences
2 - Taught by Authority Figures
3 - Events of Heightened Emotional States
All of our beliefs create the place in life that we are, and where we are going. To shift the beliefs we need to create new thoughts by putting new information in, by coaching, books, videos, seminars.
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Controlling our children is a crazy thought, however I have see so many people get so upset that their child did not behave the way the demand of them. We are an influence in our child's life, doing the best to influence them to make great choices and the allowing them to make the choice that the child wanted is the simplest way. When we need them to do something the way we want, we set ourselves up for future disappointments.
We have 2 options in every moment that we experience. We can choose to feel good or we can choose to feel bad about any situation. And even further we can choose better feeling thoughts and we can choose worse feeling thoughts about where we currently are. We can spiral up into the best feeling thoughts or we can spiral down to the worst feeling thoughts. This is our own choice. Each one of us is responsible to choose our own feelings and to make the choice we really want.
When we think of speak about our body, are we being loving and supportive? OR Simply beating up on our body. Remember we know all the "bad" stuff we have done and we know all the "bad" things about our body. When we speak or think about our body, let us be a coach and mentor that speaks belief into ourselves and tell nice story's and think nice thoughts and be so appreciative about the body that we take with us everywhere we go.
Having good hygiene is important. What about your mental hygiene? Do you keep it clean in your mind, or is it dirty and a place that is hard on ourselves and says those nasty thought about ourselves. When we program our own mind the tell ourselves that we are awesome and forgive ourselves for the mistake we have made and understand that the main purpose of mistakes are to learn and grow from , NOT to remind us that we what an idiot we were. Every great experience helps us to remember how to be great, every mistake helps us to learn and grow. So Bathe your mind often is praise and wonderful kind words and thoughts.
Breaking free of our old results and creating new results can seem difficult. It is easier if we have a system for change that works for us. When we create a system the works with our strengths and we stay committed to the change. New results are inevitable. You can create your own system or follow someones that works for you. Making the system is simply working with your knowledge of how you learn and bombarding yourself with new information. A wise man once told me, "We cannot think of solutions with the same brain that created the problem, without changing the input"
We have many influencers in our lives and most of them want the best for us, some of them don't. The one way we can know is when they are around us, do they use the term " You're Too ...." loud, sensitive, tall, small, smart, dumb, flaky, etc. These statements can sting us, and the more we care about the person, can limit us from being all we came to be. The truth is what they are saying is, I am not enough to keep up with you. No I don't believe that anyone is truly Not Enough, only in that moment when they are wielding the TOO ,,, they are not supporting you. We all must find our own place of being and not worry about the Too Sayers. Be all you came to be.
The simplest way to know when things are going good, is to have an abundant knowledge of when things have been not so good. In our lives, we have had many different experiences and some we had deemed good and some bad. When we have a broad variety of experiences it makes it simpler to know when something is bad, or only a deviation of the good that we want and that it cannot keep up from the good we seek and makes us more aware of the good we are currently experiencing.
So self-care can be hard, with all the commitments and responsibilities we have each and every day. The thing I have observed in my life and the lives of others around me is when things get really difficult, our mind or body WILL schedule some self-care time. When we schedule time, we can make it work in our lives, if we don't we will have downtime, usually at the most inopportune time. Making a choice to make the time we need to self reflect and set priorities is of most importance. Make the choice to be proactive rather than reactive.
It is important to know where you want to go, having a vision and plan to achieve something in our lives is very important. The challenge is knowing where we are at, right now, whether we like it or not, is the MOST important part. We can not plan a journey with out having the starting coordinates. Once we know where we are specifically, plotting a course to where we want to be is now possible. This is when we know we are moving towards our goal, rather than only wishing for our goal.
Most of the experiences of our lives are what we view as random, maybe they have not been. Maybe they have been for a purpose. We can choose to make them purposeful when ever we want to. Like many of the most influential persons in the world, they chose to make their experiences meaningful in their lives and the lives of many others,
When we are on our path to our goals and we find ourselves losing momentum and spinning out just before the attaining of our goal. It is time to reflect and get honest with our self and determine whether we are giving up, making excuses OR we may only need to take another run at it. Being honest and true, knowing that we can back down and create momentum to hit the climb to our goal and miss the bumps along the way that slowed us down. Even when we are going "backward" we are moving forward to our goal if we use the knowledge gain from the first attempt or the 2nd. What is key, is to continue taking runs at it until we crest the peak and achieve the goal we desire.
Even when we have the truest intention of helping and uplifting someone, when we do it without permission we are hurting not helping. Learning to watch and evaluate the others responses to our conversation is key to being supportive. Learning to let go of all the Seminars and training of my past and Only be present for the person before me is much more supportive then spewing all of the positive mental BS at them and hoping it will help. I met a fantastic person the called me on this very thing this week and I found it refreshing and enlightening. Help only when asked to do so. Otherwise, leave all the quotes and encouraging works in the backpack, until they want some. I appreciate all the people I am meeting.
The short answer is WE CAN'T. The best way to fix someone else in a relationship is to focus on working on yourself and how you feel. The journey of relationships is the same journey as the creation of who you really are. When you have lost your zeal for the relationship you are in, it is time to reflect on why you chose to be in this relationship at the beginning. Was it on purpose or did you just "fall " into it. Taking responsibility for our own feelings is the best way to be true to yourself and that is the best place to know whether you are in the "right" relationship. Any relationship can work when both people make it work.
Living true and authentic to oneself is the greatest joy. It is so simple and so much fun. You can not offend me, I am awesome about who I am. Your permission and or approval is not required for me to enjoy my day. I am also more kind, more loving, more fun, and there are so many other benefits.
Joy me in living true to yourself. It is easy if you do.
I believe we have all had that experience before. if can be embarrassing and frustrating. Let's realize that the reason we do is that our mind is working at forgetting more information then it is working at remembering unless we train our mind to notice and remember that which we want to remember. We can learn to create patterns and habits around creating a focus on things wanted so that our mind automatically remembers names.
The way you will know if you are ready to love again is when you show up authentic to who you are. When we work at getting someone to like us in hopes that they may love us, we are working in a Lose / Lose area. Someday they will find out who you really are and if they don't like that person, well, it is start all over again time. We must be true and authentic to ourselves and show up as our real selves. That is the only time we can expect to have a long term relationship. When we do show up authentic, it is simple. We only need to be ourselves and there are no surprises down the road.
We I was young I had a I will never list. In hind site it is a very powerful list. I would have done it different knowing what I know now. Most of the I will never on my list I have achieved and I have learned that I get what I focus on.
Be aware of the patterns we create in our lives, watch that we do not create a pattern by accident. Like drinking when we are feeling down. How to create a shift in our mood, before we bring home the work stuff. Living life on purpose and controlling the patterns we create so that we can live in the most abundant way possible.
When you have problems in your life, Wait ... These can be a breeze for you.
When you have a challenge in your life, Wait ... These will drive you.
When you have an opportunity in your life, Wait ... These will mould you.
When you have a Gift in your life, The wait is over, Now you are Living Life.
Take hold of life's bumps and build the life you want.
I know all of the great things I have done in my life, also I know all of those things I am not proud of doing in my life. Most of all it is that I know ALL of those things I have done. Not only some of them, I know every last thing I have ever done and must choose to see myself from the place of are these that I am not proud of Truly who I am, or are they only experiences that allow myself to know I don't want to be that experience.
The easy answer is, It is not up to anyone else to make you happy, it is an inside job. When we give our power of controlling our own happiness to an other person we are doom to live an unhappy life. Happiness is something only I can control for me, and there is nothing or anything anyone else can do to change it. When we take the responsibility for our own happiness, life becomes simpler, my fun and enjoyable.
Waking up with appreciation is a great way to start your day off well. Appreciating something as simple as," Hey, I woke up today." This may not be the highlight, although it is still a great way to begin your day.
Making connections with other human being is fun, most of us have fun talking with friends and family. and remember that at one time you great friends were once simply that person, three feet away, and someone said Hi. See if you can have some fun with saying hi to someone new today.
When we think of heroes, it is what they have given to others that we admire so much. We must also remember that without the receiver of the hero's gift, the Hero would not have given to anyone. Each of us are, givers and receivers. If we chose to become an amazing receiver, we would enhance the opportunities for heroes to come into our experience. Heroes are a gift to us all, and the receiver pulls that gift out for us to witness.
Be Great Receivers.
Ever heard that our youth are lazy? Let me correct that thinking, our your are creative and brilliant and are not interested in our antiquated thinking on how to make money and build a living. That are the sharpest minds with unlimited resources able to create a shift in our world that with impact all of us.
They have the one key ingredient of collaboration and they will shift your thinking if you allow it.
That may be a contrary statement to how you believe you feel. Only take a minute and think about those things or events that you really wanted, like your phone, a Concert, Sporting event, your car, your home. All of these were marketed to you. Marketing is our friend. Embrace the marketing you experience, and you may find something that you didn't even know existed until you received the marketing and now it is your favorite part of your life. We are bombarded with marketing, although if we are open to new ideas, we may find something that is a good fit for us.
We all have a style, the question is. Is your style authentic to yourself? Some of us have hidden behind a style that made us blend in or even in complete contrast. Being true to yourself is the most freeing and rewarding experience we have. What if being yourself was the simplest thing you have ever done, and releasing the game of playing the role of being something that you think you should be. By the way, being authentically yourself is the most freeing experience you will have. So start now and be now.
When thinking of a Vision for life, Is it the same as when I was younger? Is it serving me at this time? How did I forget my vision, and why? When I choose to embrace all the experiences I have had and channel that into a New vision for my life. WOW, I am getting better at this all the time. Stepping out of a habit that has stripped my vision and working with the information I have gleaned over the years, I can be more specific about where I want to go and create a new habit to help me get on the path to them, and continually realign and create a new vision at each step. Knowing I will never get there or be done.
Our daily habits can strip us of our Vision for our life, we need to break from the "normal" mundane habits of our life and renew our vision for our life. To dream again and to become alive and excited about this life we get to live. And get serious about creating and not existing in the life we have allowed to take over. Live your passion.
It has been said that Knowledge is Power, although that is only a half truth. Knowledge applied to experiences is Power and the greatest power is to teach others that which we have learned.
Experience is truly the greatest teacher and preparation is key.
When we have painful experiences, these are the fuel that drives our Future Visions for our lives. Learn how to frame your experiences and create the plan for your future.
When we are listening, we hear what is said with the understanding that we have about what we heard. It is not always accurate. I will share an experience that does not turn out the way I thought it would. The fun is in the learning.
When we are listening, we hear what is said with the understanding that we have about what we heard. It is not always accurate.
When we experience the Holidays alone. It can feel like everyone is seeing friends and family expect ME.
Reach out and connect.
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The keys to a positive attitude and life is to learn how you best shift from one state to another. Once you know this then you can manage any event without "Losing It"
Remember to allow time to exercise you mind and being as well as your body, when thinking of being healthy.
When we are feeling good, bad, or even indifferent. We are the only ones who truly know how we are feeling. Many people will jump in and say "Oh yeah, I know what that is like" as they steal the conversation away. The truth is only WE have had the experience that we have had.