Grieve Outside the Box: A Traveling Lady Shaman's A-Z Guide to Embracing the Death Doula Within

Future Chaplain and weaver of words, Andi Scarbrough joins us to chat about using mixed media to journal the loss of a loved one. How can we use the somatic experience of Journaling to build a field guide of grief as if we were Wildlife Documentarians? Exploring taboo subjects like the loss of a child and suicide, Andi shares how she has used dance, poetry, and vocalizing to process the alchemical fires of deep loss. A must listen.

We discuss:

  • "Wildlife documentarian" style of Journaling your grief journey
  • Weather tracking your emotional atmosphere
  • Neutral observer of the experience
  • Time-stamping your grief
  • Field notes road map inside and outside yourself towards your heart
  • Engaging your senses to come into presence (essential oils, tea, candles, etc)
  • Repetitive thoughts as a guide to enter journaling
  • Free form writing, create a sacred space and "let it rip" then burn it
  • Haiku as a way to keep the artist pipes from freezing
  • "Being in the horror of it is just as fleeting as the beauty of it"
  • Sharing Taboo moments publicly and how "trigger warnings" may not always serve
  • Keeping memorabilia in a footlocker to remember
  • Becoming a living scrapbook as a legacy of loving
  • Shamanic Journeying to process the suicides of Andi's Father and Grandfather
  • "A death is as traumatic as it needs to be in order to trigger the changes needed within everyone around"
  • Suicide as the taboo amongst taboos
  • Destigmatizing mental health support

Andi shares potent practices, prompts, and tools for listeners to engage with in their own journaling grief work.

About Andi:

Holistic Hairdresser, Reiki Master, Breathwork Facilitator, studying towards Chaplaincy.

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