In our world today, there are plenty of people who want to be the big man or the big momma.  You know what I mean.  There are plenty of leaders, men and women alike, who want everyone to know that they are in charge.  They love to give orders and expect everyone else to obey without delay.

Sometimes people with the big man delusion or the big momma delusion decide to become church planters. But let me say that there is a way to lead a church without acting like you are the big man or the big momma that everyone needs to fear and obey.