Step 4 of the Nar-Anon Program: Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. In the second part of Step 4, questions 14 - 31 are discussed:

1. Do I trust my own judgment? Why or why not?
2. Under what circumstances have I used my lack of trust as a weapon against others?
3. Who do I trust today and why?
4. What issues do I still not entrust to my Higher Power?
5. Why have I allowed someone to take advantage of me? What can I do differently?
6. What are some of my fears or anxieties?
7. How do I know if my fears are rational or irrational?
8. What do I believe causes my fears?
9. How can my Higher Power help with my fears?
10. What resentments am I holding onto from my past?
11. What do I gain from holding onto these resentments?
12. How are these resentments still affecting my life today?
13. Why do I resent it when others do not behave or act the way I think they should?
14. How do my resentments affect my relationships?
15. What do I fear will happen if I let go of my imaginary power?
16. Do I feel powerless and frightened of failure if I let go? If so, why?
17. How has my controlling affected the well-being of others? Myself?
18. What can I do to let go of feeling the need to control?

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