Assuming the best
Tell me if you can relate to these scenarios:
•Your husband is in a grumpy mood and you automatically assume that it’s about you.
•Your partner doesn’t want to go to your work event and you assume that they are purposely trying to upset you or be difficult.
•Your spouse didn’t help with the kids’ bedtime, again, and you assume that they just don’t care.
We often assume the worst about our partners. That they are upset with us. That they are doing something against us. That they don’t care about us enough.
And those assumptions naturally create resentment and disconnection.
If you want to experience a connected, intimate, passionate relationship with your partner, and I know you do, assuming the worst isn’t going to get you there.
In today's episode of the Uplevel Your Relationships Podcast, I talk about how to shift from assuming the worst to assuming the best of this person that loves you and chooses to be with you.
Have a listen and then get in touch!
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Have a gorgeous week,
xo Allison
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