That sounds harsh until you realize that being wanted is better than being needed. He loves us and has chosen us. What a privilege. 

Join Rick and Gary as they explore how God has chosen us from the first chapter of Ephesians. 

"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ:  According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love," Ephesians 5:3-4.