Every one has this issue or this blessing . Many people use opinions  as a building factor others use it a form to break down others, I am here to tell you to use it as neither. The words of others mean nothing to you, all that matters is what you tell yourself. We often rely to much on peoples actions and words and this has proven to be a problem in most individuals lives, however the ones who has found a ways to be successful in  what ever they choose there craft to be, succeed beyond measure when they just focus on what they have to say and let the world speak amongst them selves. The true value of you is found with in you not with others perception of you.