It's here, the discussion about The Good Death. I broke it up so you can ponder the ideas here and see how the ideas compare to your own ideas about The Good Death. 
I referenced and quoted many items and here are the links:
https://health.ucsd.edu/news/releases/pages/2016-03-30-successful-dying-elements-of-a-good-death.aspx  

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4828197
https://www.orderofthegooddeath.com
Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie (Albom M. Tuesdays with Morrie. New York, NY: Bantam Doubleday Dell; 1997)
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