Good or Not So Good, death of a loved one can leave a hole in our heart. I'd like to think that the Good Death leaves more peace behind, where the Not So Good Death can leave pain, anxiety, and important thoughts unexpressed, which can add to or complicate the grieving process. We will hear some examples of the Not So Good Death and some ways to encourage The Good Death. 
https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/seven_keys_to_good_death 
https://www.shanti.org
https://agsjournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/jgs.15321
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8931066/ 
https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(98)90329-4/fulltext
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