It's dying that scares me--a bit. The death itself, as I am learning, is rather peaceful as the body dies. My fear comes from not knowing how I will die, who will be around me, and whether I will have said all I want to say to those I care about most.
There is a game out there to help ease my fears, and yours as well.
Coda Alliance, a nonprofit whose motto is "Empowering easier, early, end-of-life conversations", developed GoWish cards.
Listen as I play the game myself.

https://codaalliance.org

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