Now you see me! Now you don't!
Immature? Possibly. Inconsiderate? Definitely; for you at least. However, there are so many factors that can lead to Ghost-ing, we can't just loop everything in one category. Have you ever dated a person who consistently did everything you told them not to? Have you ever engaged with someone who immediately reminded you of your most traumatic experience ever? A Ghost-er may be wrong, SOMETIMES, but definitely not ALL!