What if one surrendered the self who believes it is creating life? There is a greater intelligence at play, one that is beyond the limitations of the illusion of a separate self. If one can open their palms to allow this energy, God, to orchestrate through them then true contentment and remembrance can weave. Peace beyond comprehension is available NOW if one can surrender and allow it.
I go into A Course in Miracles here as a powerful pathway for awakening from the illusion.