Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle: Recent Episodes
Candace Payne + Jenny Randle
Ever feel like you gotta get your should together? Is your should about to hit the fan? Have you been sitting in your shoulds for most of your life wondering if you could be more, see more, do more?
Podcast hosts, authors and speakers Candace Payne + Jenny Randle want to stomp out your flaming bag of should.
With a whole lot of faith together, we'll sort through the pain, purpose and promise to find freedom in the things we all tell ourselves we should and should not do. Because there’s so much more in you.
Listen on in and Shut the Should Up!
Hey everyone! Candace and Jenny here, and we can hardly believe that we are already wrapping up Season 5. It's been a wild ride, but we couldn't be more grateful for all of our amazing listeners who have been with us every step of the way.
As we take a look back at some of our favorite moments from seasons past, we can't help but feel a little nostalgic. From hilarious guest interviews to heartfelt conversations about motherhood and ministry, we've had so many amazing memories over the years.
But as we wrap up this final episode of Season 5, we're also looking ahead to the future and what's to come for both of us in our personal and professional lives. It's an exciting time, but also a little bittersweet as we say goodbye to this season.
So get ready for all the laughs, all the nostalgia, and all the feels as we close out Season 5. And to all of our listeners out there, we want to remind you to always lean in and listen, even when it's hard. We're forever rooting for you to shut your shoulds up and embrace all of the amazing opportunities that life has to offer. Thanks for tuning in!
Continuing a Summer Heat Series with friends of the show, Candace and Jenny welcome to the show, Hannah Keeley.
Hannah Keeley is America's #1 Mom Coach, an Ordained Christian Minister, a Master Board-Certified Life Coach, and a mom of seven whose work is founded in God’s Word and combines faith and psychology to help moms create radical transformation in their lives!
Hannah’s theme verse behind her coaching techniques is Romans 12:2:
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - his good, pleasing, and perfect will."
Listen in, join the conversation, and discover how to connect with Hannah on her Instagram: @hannahkeeley.
Should I stay or should I go?
Many people with faith backgrounds are asking themselves these questions the older they get, and the more the world around them changes and challenges their faith. Today, a friend of the show and outstanding human, Natalie Runion offers a much-needed conversation.
Pastor’s kid turned pastor, Natalie, her husband Tony and their two daughters live in Colorado Springs, Colorado where she served as a pastor of women and a worship pastor. In her twenty years of ministry as a worship leader, songwriter, and pastor, Natalie has served various organizations and ministries across the country.
In 2019 after watching many of her peers walk away from the church and their faith, Natalie began Raised to Stay, a ministry for those who have wandered, wondered, and wrestled with the Church and the challenges of full-time ministry. Known for her black boxes of hard truth on social media for the Church and church leaders, her heart is to see a generation finish their race as they partner with a good Father who is faithful to complete the work He began in each of us.
Natalie is a sought-after speaker and writer in the local and global Church, writing for She Reads Truth and other Christian publications. Her debut book, Raised to Stay, published with David C Cook will be available in Summer 2023! You can learn more about Raised to Stay on Instagram at @raisedtostay and preorder her book on Amazon and other major retailers.
Candace and Jenny invite friends of the show for this special series to learn and lean into some incredible conversations with powerful women. In today's episode, Dr. Jamie Morgan is no exception.
In her decades in ministry, Dr. Jamie Morgan has witnessed a troubling trend - countless numbers of Christian women almost answer their callings, almost use their gifts and talents to build the kingdom, and almost fulfill their destinies.
author of the book, Her Calling: A Woman's Guide to Fulfilling Her God-Given Destiny?
Dr. Morgan is available for interviews answering questions such as:
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- What steps should women take to discover God’s calling for them?
- Don't let your past limit you
- Passion sign posts
- Talents and giftings
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Dust off dreams
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What are the limiting mindsets hindering women from walking in their calling?
- What does life look like when we're walking out our destiny?
- Why is this a message that women need to hear today?
Connect with Dr. Jamie at https://trailblazermentoring.com.
As you listen to this episode, challenge the shoulds that rise in your own thoughts that limit and destroy the dreams you are called to live out.
“Disappointment bruises the bravest of souls. The nagging ache of uncertainty causes us to grow weary and afraid to hope. Doubt entices us to wonder if God is good when life is not. Yet, our hard questions can become opportunities for Jesus to show us who He is.”
On this powerful episode of Shut the Should Up, Candace and Jenny invite Angela Donadio for an incredible discussion on being brave in every moment that matters.
In Angela's book, Brave Enough To Believe, she speaks of her two near-death experiences and what God did through them.
- “What do I need to learn from this?”How can I use this for your glory?”
- Your purpose is attached to the presence of God
- Don’t ask why questions
- Thomas - doubt and disappointment
About the Authors:
Angela Donadio is an author, speaker, and host of the Make Life Matter Podcast.
A seasoned Bible teacher and ordained minister, she empowers women in Africa
and serves alongside her husband, Dale, to lead a multiethnic church. She is a
survivor of two near-death health crises, a grateful mom, and an adventure junkie.
Angeladonadio.com
Hubert Morris, an ordained minister for more than 50 years, has served as a
pastor, presbyter, and university vice-president. He has taken the gospel to Africa,
China, Haiti, and Sri Lanka, and is currently the president of Assist Ministries, Inc.
Married to Glenda for 59 years, they are blessed with three daughters and ten
grandchildren.
About the Book:
Discover Jesus’ invitation to come closer when doubt drives us away.
Disappointment bruises the bravest of souls. The nagging ache of uncertainty
causes us to grow weary and afraid to hope. Doubt entices us to wonder if God is
good when life is not. Yet, our hard questions can become opportunities for Jesus
to show us who He is.
Perhaps you know Thomas for his bouts with doubt. But Jesus knew Thomas for
the courage to question and the bravery to believe. When a crisis of faith revealed
his deepest doubts, Jesus met Thomas’s deepest longings.
The authors bring two unique perspectives to flip the script on the story of
Thomas. Whether you are a seeker, skeptic, or seasoned leader, you will learn
to live untangled from uncertainty, leverage adversity, and lead with confidence
through challenging circumstances.
Thomas exchanged his uncertainty for a life of tenacious faith. When we encounter
Jesus, we can too.
Get the book at : Angeladonadio.com
In this episode of Shut the Should Up, find and question what really matters most.
Candace and Jenny offer some insight on what to experience and live when moments get difficult.
- Ask yourself what you are talking about most (past or future? Talk about present - reflective / remembering, goals and go… JUST BE) - See PEOPLE.
- There is vanity in humanity. Rest in the intentionality of knowing God.
- Do you feel shame or freedom at the moment you are living? You are free to be.
- Enjoy the gifts of God.
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In this episode of Shut the Should Up, find and question what really matters most.
Candace and Jenny ask all the important questions to help isolate the important priorities of the heart.
For more info on booking Candace Payne or Jenny Randle for a speaking or live event, visit www.shuttheshouldup.com.
In this episode of a five-part miniseries on embracing every season, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle discuss all things Spring. Whether it's a song request from a third-grade school performance or a short story of a child who misses the one day of sun in Spring, the conversation leads to all things new.
How do you hold and handle a new season? How do you make the most of it when things spring to life?
Candace + Jenny challenge you to grow and adjust to your season, even when it may feel as though you're floundering in the "new".
📣 Everybody chant a little louder: 📣
"UM, UM...sounds so dumb; instead of saying UM, just pause!"
In this episode, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle take on their filler phrases while discussing the hard winter seasons of life.
How do you not just endure but embrace a winter season of life when things naturally must die?
Join the conversation and continue discovering the wisdom from the book of Ecclesiastes.
In this five-part miniseries and episode, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle challenge us to live present in every moment.
Through random singing of songs with the word "seasons" in them and stories about family criticisms, find yourself encouraged to embrace the season that you're currently living. Dive deep into the biblical book of Ecclesiastes, chapter 3, verses 1-15.
Whether you are in a season you're loving or hating, Candace + Jenny encourage us to embrace every moment and how not to waste another season.
Want to discover how to embrace the wonder in every day?
Dive deeper with Candace’s book Simple Joys https://amzn.to/3SJXpZX
In the final episode of a five-part miniseries on revival, Rob Fultz joins Candace Payne + Jenny Randle for a unique perspective and revival story at Lee University.
Rob brings 20+ years of local church and campus ministry experience to every message and event. He is a passionate and purposeful communicator who seeks to connect audiences' hearts and minds through the stories and God encounters that have shaped his life and ministry.
Specifically, his doctoral research focuses on the redemptive development of Gen Z and the revival happening in their generation on college campuses across America.
Rob has served in pastoral roles with churches that range from 25,000 to 100 in attendance, which provides a unique capability to help other churches and leaders grow from where they are.
In this discussion, Rob gives an inside perspective on revival as a campus pastor and his experience with Gen Z, leadership, church health, young adult ministry, faith development, and discipleship.
Be encouraged by this revival story to hope and pray for revival.
In this revival story, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle consider how there is usually a testimony that comes in and through a move of God. Encouraging us to discover our own testimony, this episode walks through some questions to consider that personally identify areas of a life that may be in desperate need of revival.
In this raw and vulnerable conversation, Candace shares her personal story of revival.
"When you testify of something that's been brought back to life,you're reminded that it's living."
- Candace Payne
In this revival story, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle consider how the momentum and movement of a revival begins in the abandon of production and performance to provoke the presence of God.
As Candace + Jenny continue the conversation on revival, the topic of reverence rises to the top.
What is sacred?
How do we ditch irreverence and know the difference between cynicism and discernment when we see a move of God?
In this revival story, dry out the wet blankets and activate hope for the restoration, renewal, and resurrection of dreams, moments, and opportunities to see God move in powerful ways.
Candace Payne and Jenny Randle begin a discussion on a five-part miniseries about revival in this episode.
What is revival, exactly? What does it look like? What should we do when we see and encounter it?
You're gonna want to listen in to this unique series as we watch, observe, and champion true revival for us all.
Join Jenny and Brayden as they tackle the theological concept of freedom and find out why Jenny is begging for Candace’s return as we finish up the Flash Theology miniseries!
Coauthors and today's host, Jenny and Brayden discuss:
- What does it mean to live liberated?
- How does Romans 12:22 lead to freedom?
- What does Pastor Brayden do to counsel friends or congregants that are stuck in unhealthy habits?
Plus, listen to a free chapter from the Flash Theology audiobook chapter 14, God is Our Liberator. The audiobook with bonus material is out now! Thanks to Jenny and Brayden’s publishers over at David C Cook and One Audiobooks for the free chapter featured on today's episode.
Want more theology talk? Be sure to check get:
- Flash Theology in Print https://amzn.to/3XqbUE3
- Flash Theology audiobook with bonus content: https://amzn.to/3mzx7P0
Atheism seems like the world's view, and the best solution is a biblical worldview
Brayden’s 3 theological points surrounding suffering:
- We see the world as it is, not as it should be - in the tension- God didn't create the world with so much suffering, suffering came as a result of sin, we can rule this world without you.
- God entered into our suffering to provide healing\
- There's an unraveling plan meant to eradicate all suffering forever - God is not content with a world marked with suffering and evil - it is delayed not denied. NOW AND NOT YET. It may be hard to trust the story when you're in a hard…
Dive deeper in this discussion, and purchase a copy of Flash Theologyhttps://amzn.to/3XqbUE3 .
Often we’re distracted by circumstances to remember this theological truth - God is dwelling. How does seeing the journey of God’s dwelling from creation to new creation enlighten your understanding of the biblical story? Discover with Brayden Brookshier and Jenny Randle what that means for you!
Join in the Fun with your very own copy of Flash Theology:https://amzn.to/3XqbUE3 .
Would you consider your life a Hallmark or a Lifetime movie?
What is unfolding in the storyline of your life?
Are you invited God into your life, or is He inviting you?
Join Jenny and Brayden as they unravel some theological concepts surrounding the idea that God is the author of life. Understanding how seeing God as the “author” and main character of the story can change how you look at life as a whole and your life personally.
What do you build your study of God around — your story or His?
TO GO DEEPER AND JOIN IN AT YOUR OWN PACE, PURCHASE YOUR OWN COPY OF Flash Theology:https://amzn.to/3XqbUE3 .
Candace asks Jenny and her co-author about their new book Flash Theology… and of course, fun ensues. Join us as we kick off a new miniseries on the subject of theology, the study of God. Learn what it means and why it matters.You're gonna want to add this to your cart before this episode even ends: https://amzn.to/3XqbUE3Joining Candace and Jenny today and our new friend, Brayden Brookshier!Brayden Brookshier holds a MA in New Testament Research (Johnson University) and a BA in Biblical Studies (Horizon University), emphasizing Greek biblical exegesis. His passion is to help people feel the wonder and adventure of knowing God by taking people into an exploration of Scripture, like a time-traveling tour guide. He is the author of A Resurrected Cosmos and the March 2023 release, Flash Theology. Brayden is a professor at Horizon University, teaching biblical Greek and various courses on the New Testament. He is a minister on staff with Newbreak Church (San Diego, CA), where he serves on the teaching team. Brayden is a proud husband to Ariana and father to his son, Kairo. Listen to his podcast, Adventures in Theology.About Flash TheologyThis is an invitation to the curious, those who want to know God and interact with their faith in a new way.Grow in awe of God as you discover his beauty and depth through 31 bite-sized truths of theology. Flash Theology offers you stability in your faith so you can endure whatever life (or wrong thinking) throws at you.Jenny Randle and Brayden Brookshier believe Christians miss out if they leave theology to pastors and scholars. In this highly accessible book, Jenny and Brayden help you: Understand theology through compelling visual aids. See the connection between God’s character and your identity. Internalize truths about God’s heart for you. Find encouragement in life’s purpose through a greater understanding of who God is.God invites every Christian to know and enjoy him forever. Through illustrations, Scripture, and approachable teaching, Flash Theology shares 31 bite-sized truths of Christianity in a way that inspires both gratitude and awe.
Candace Payne and Jenny Randle round out the final discussion on a five-part miniseries about restoration in this episode.
This is a passionate discussion on the benefits of seeing clearly with hope and expectancy towards a future, the importance of vision, and practical ways to have restored vision.
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Until next time, get your hopes up and dream again!
You cannot spell "restoration" without "REST." In the same way, you cannot experience true restoration until you find a personal and sustainable rhythm of rest.
In this episode, Candace Payne and Jenny Randle help highlight the importance and vitality rest offers to a life longing for restoration. Listen along and discover ways to prioritize rest and kick the shoulds to the curb that otherwise preach the insatiable hunger for hustle and flow.
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Until next time, embrace the freedom to take a nap and cultivate a rhythm of rest.
In this episode, we hear from Suzie Eller about how to have restoration through prayer. Suzanne (Suzie) Eller is the author of 12 books. Her most recent is Prayer Starters: Talking with God about Hard Times. Suzie served as a writer and speaker with Proverbs 31 Ministries for 14 years. She’s a co-host, along with Holley Gerth and Jennifer Watson, of More Than Small Talk and host of Prayer Starters, a daily prayer podcast. She’s been featured on Focus on the Family, Aspiring Women, Harvest Show, 100 Huntley Street, KLOVE, DayStar, and others. Suzie is a wife to a guy she still likes a lot, mom to 3 grown children and their spouses, "Gaga" to six littles, and a 2-time breast cancer survivor. If you can describe her in one word, it's this: grateful.
5 KEY ELEMENTS TO RESTORATIVE PRAYER
- Take the pressure off of prayer (A point of entry - honesty, vulnerability, authenticity)
- You do you (unique expression - walk, painting, workout)
- Just show up ( we have uncertainty tangled around our hearts)
- Tell God all the things (“I want you to know God I’m mad at you.” “God, I feel lost.” “I don’t know what to do”) when we release those things that are weighty they no longer have room in our heart, God takes resistance. All the things don’t have room in our hearts…
- Slow it down (go into the word of God for a two-way conversation, pause when you feel the pull).
You can connect with Suzie by checking out the Prayer Starters podcast. It's a daily 2-3 minute podcast with the KLRC podcast network.
https://pod.link/1624531825
Until next week embrace the freedom to kick your should out the door.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, elevate healthy relationships that restore you through community. In a fragile and vulnerable process of doing life with others, Candace and Jenny challenge the thought that a safe community and inner circle require intentionality.
Wanting more? Read a beautiful encounter of restoration that Candace had with an "inner circle" friend the night she tried to take her life in college. Chapter Three in her book, Laugh It Up! Embrace Freedom and Experience Defiant Joy, will show you how the intentionality of a friend restored Candace to life. Get your copy here: https://amzn.to/3CgLVHK.
Until next time, level up your intentionality with the ones in your life longing for your restoration.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, revel in the joy of ongoing personal restoration. As we begin a new 5 part series on restoration, Candace and Jenny define the importance of continually being restored in our souls, dreams, relationships, and hopes.
If you'd like to read more of Candace's personal restoration story, grab a copy of her book, Laugh It Up! Embrace Freedom and Experience Defiant Joy here: https://amzn.to/3CgLVHK.
Until next time, the pressure is off! Restoration is promised and possible for you today.
In this UNIQUE episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, Raj Nair challenges us to leverage our uniqueness to perform within our passions. As we conclude a 5 part series on passions over performance, Candace and Raj give us a glimpse into how God uniquely creates and gifts us to use our passions in our purpose.
Raj Nair is the co-creator and Outreach Coordinator for the Israel Collective. Prior to his time at CUFI (Christians United For Israel), he was an on-camera host for numerous outlets across the country. After seven years of living in Brooklyn, Raj and his family are back on the west coast in San Diego. One of his greatest passions is to give everyone he meets a renewed joy for Scripture.
To discover more about Israel Collective and CUFI, visit here.
Until next time, embrace the unique way God created you to live out your purpose passionately.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, discover a renewed passion and ZEST for life. During this 5 part series on passions over performance, Candace and Jenny inspire us to start the new year renewed in our passions, not counting the successes, but counting the surrenders.
Need more inspiration in making your dream come true and taking practical steps in discovering your passions?
You'll want to grab your copy of Dream Come True, by Jenny Randle today by visitinghttps://amzn.to/3CmoZHa.
Until next time, assess your passions and kick your performance shoulds to the curb.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, emancipate the real you in all you do. Ditch the disingenuous you, and free the genuineness through your passions.
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Until next time, detach the "fake it til you make it" mentality and bear-hug the authentic you in every season.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle,unlock 5 reminders for fearless confidence with our friend Kellie Haddock.
Kellie is a singer, songwriter, wife, and mom. A former widow, Kellie has lived through tragedy and found hope and joy on the other side. Now she's living on a mission as a hope-giver. Her powerful pop anthems are pumping with hope to fuel your soul with an honesty that acknowledges the struggle and a perspective that points to redemption and beauty. The Thank You Project, a short film featuring Kellie's story of gratitude after tragedy, has attracted more than 150 million views and has been featured on The TODAY Show, The Huffington Post, and Cosmopolitan, among other national and international media outlets. In addition, Kellie has performed in Iraq, Israel, China, and across the U.S., offering music that engages the soul in all of its beauty and vulnerability.
As we continue to discover our passions over our performances, Candace and Jenny are challenged with us by Kellie to unleash a fearless confidence.
Connect with and discover the music of Kellie Haddock online; visit https://kelliehaddock.hearnow.com/orchids-from-fire.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, pull forth your passions so that you're not just performing, but living out your purpose. As we begin a new 5 part series on passions over performance, Candace and Jenny give us questions to evaluate whether we are operating from our passions or just going through the motions.
Need more inspiration in making your dream come true and taking practical steps in discovering your passions?
You'll want to grab your copy of Dream Come True (jump to chapter 17), by Jenny Randle today by visitinghttps://amzn.to/3CmoZHa.
Until next time, assess your passions and kick your performance shoulds to the curb.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, challenge yourself to acknowledge strengths in others and elevate the gifts of those you inspire and lead. As we continue to find freedom in how we lead and influence, Candace and Jenny offer a different point of view...for you.
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In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, challenge yourself to be vulnerable and faithful as a leader, whether in private or public opportunities. As we continue to find freedom in how we lead and influence, Candace and Jenny open the dialogue about what is sacred and what is share-worthy.
What better way to cultivate a heart of gratitude than a daily devotional reading to celebrate the advent of Jesus during the upcoming Christmas season?
You'll want to grab your copy of Encounter Advent, by Candace Payne today by visiting https://amzn.to/3flJniF.
Until next time, embrace the freedom to lead with integrity and purpose!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, find the inspiration to lead from gratitude, not for gratitude. As we continue to find freedom in how we lead and influence, Candace and Jenny challenge us to eat all the yummy Thanksgiving goodies and lead from a heart that is full of gratefulness.
**What better way to cultivate a heart of gratitude than a daily devotional reading to celebrate the advent of Jesus during the upcoming Christmas season?
You'll want to grab your copy of Encounter Advent, by Candace Payne today by visiting** https://amzn.to/3flJniF.
Until next time, have a Happy Thanksgiving and embrace the freedom to lead with gratitude!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, find 5 ways you can be smarter today. As we continue to find freedom in how we lead and influence, Candace and Jenny challenge us to use our brains and resources to be better in how we lead.
**Need more inspiration in making your dream come true and taking practical steps in leading yourself as well as others?
You'll want to grab your copy of Dream Come True, by Jenny Randle today by visiting** https://amzn.to/3CmoZHa.
Until next time, embrace the freedom to make the most of your mind and resources today!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, distinguish the difference between being a leader and an influencer. As we begin a new 5 part series on leadership and influence, Candace and Jenny challenge us to take a deep look at our strengths and how they can influence the world around us.
**Want Candace + Jenny to speak at your upcoming event?
Visit www.reachyourcity.com**.
Until next time, embrace the freedom to lead and influence in your part of this planet!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, find ways to manage your time by managing your boundaries and embracing your boredom. As we continue to find freedom in how we utilize the most of our schedules, Candace and Jenny challenge us to utilize our boredom to create positive change.
**Need more creativity and the courage to take a new or another step into something you're inspired to create?
You'll want to grab your copy of Courageous Creative, by Jenny Randle today by visiting** https://amzn.to/3SKeB1f.
For the article referenced in today's show, visit https://www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/2022/09/22/brain-boredom-happiness/.
Until next time embrace the freedom to create something wonderful and utilize your boredom in a positive way!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, get your pen and paper ready to take notes on 10 tips and tricks to boost your productivity. As we continue to find freedom in how we utilize the most of our schedules, Candace and Jenny challenge us to make the most of our days in 10 practical ways.
**Want Candace + Jenny to speak at your upcoming event?
Visit www.reachyourcity.com**.
Until next time, embrace the freedom to apply your skills and make the most of each day!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, deep dive into the difference between making free time and making fun time. As we continue to find freedom in how we utilize the most of our schedules, Candace and Jenny challenge us to enjoy the moments of leisure with pleasure.
Want more resources about this topic?Check out Candace’s book Simple Joys https://amzn.to/3SJXpZX Until next time, embrace the freedom to balance the fun within each day!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, we challenge you to find peace, hope, joy and rest in the middle of long-suffering. While words like "endure," "vulnerability," and "patience" are often viewed less than, Candace and Jenny inspire their listeners to embrace them with intentionality.
Join us and share this episode with your people!
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Until next time, embrace the freedom to take your time!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, we walk through six ways you can make the most of the marked moments that shape and change your life. Not every moment is a moment worth marking; but when it is, Candace and Jenny want to equip you to seize it!
Join us and share this episode with your people!
Want more resources about this topic? A chapter of Jenny's interactive book Dream Come True highlights the importance of marking the moments as you pursue all God has for you. Check it out here: https://amzn.to/3CmoZHa
Until next time, embrace the freedom to mark your moment!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we are talking about starting over and the future of our show. Join us and share this episode with your people!
Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK at your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/
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Until next time shut the should up everybody!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we are shutting up discouragement and discussing WHY the gift of encouragement is needed. This is an episode that should put some pep in your step. Join us and share this episode with your people!
Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK at your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/
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Until next time go encourage someone!
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we’re talking to Bible teacher and best-selling author Lisa Whittle. She wrote in her most recent book The Hard Good, “We can acknowledge that a leader is flawed and also acknowledge that God has used them - and be grateful opening your heart again when it’s been hurt for that. One does not nullify the other. Being wise in holding this tension can be difficult, but pretending one or the other isn’t true is devastating.” So today, we’re holding that tension together and having a hard conversation about spiritual abuse. You’re invited to join the conversation.
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Until next time we love you lots and shut the should up.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we are taking a deep dive into all the feels. Are feelings either good or bad or just amoral? Do some feelings deserve to be quarantined or dismissed? What are feelings and how do we navigate them? This is an episode that you’re going to want to share and revisit.
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Until next time we love you lots and shut the should up.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we brought in comedian Jaron Myers to help us all lighten up.
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In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we’re discussing the pain of isolation and the gift of community. Join us and share this episode with your people!
- Article and stats mentioned from here: https://mcc.gse.harvard.edu/reports/loneliness-in-america (Feb 2021)
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Until next time we love you lots and shut the should up.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we’re going unscripted and taking a deep dive into the trauma triggers we may face. This episode may include a discussion around difficult conversations dealing with emotional and mental abuse. We also encourage you to care for your safety and well-being through counseling and support. Another disclaimer, WE ARE NOT PROFESSIONAL COUNSELORS, we’re just two friends discussing a piece of our current journeys and our opinions may shift and change as we continue to grow through healing.
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In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we’re discussing how sometimes we should just block and bless. Join us and share this episode with a friend!
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This episode touched on a variety of topics, one thing that was briefly mentioned was abuse. If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, seek out a safe place and call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit them online at thehotline.org. You have value, and your safety is one of the most important things. The National Domestic Violence Hotline can help you get the help you need.
Until next time we love you lots and shut the should up.
In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne and Jenny Randle, we’re giving you some insight on why our show went silent for a year and discussing the beauty of a pause. Don’t forget to subscribe so you don't miss an episode of Shut the Should Up.
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Until next time, shut the should up everybody.
Join Candace Payne + Jenny Randle at the season 3 afterparty. They hear from listeners, highlight past guests, and celebrate the should out of the season. Visit www.shuttheshouldup.com for merch, past episodes, and to stay up to date. Until next season, Shut the Should Up everybody!
Sandeep Maity joins us to share how his childhood in Kolkata, India was marked with great sorrow, hopelessness, and despair. In today’s episode of Shut the Should Up, you’ll get a personal glimpse into the life of a man who grew up in deep poverty fighting for food, and how his life radically changed through the local church and Compassion’s Child Sponsorship Program.
Listen and find out:
- What is Sandeep doing now?
- How many times does Jenny cry in this episode?
- Was Lauren Daigle really on American idol?
- Does Candace preach some firey truth for you?
- As an adult, what crazy thing happened when Sandeep visited his sponsors? To find out the answer to this one watch our bonus content at https://www.compassion.com/STSU
If you’ve been hanging with us (Candace + Jenny) for a while, you’ve heard us talk about how much we appreciate and love the work of Compassion. That’s why we have partnered with them and have a BIG goal to get children sponsored, so we’ve made it really simple for you! For just $38 a month you can help make a difference for one child.
There are two easy ways to get involved:
- Grab your phone and text 83393 and send the letters STSU. You’ll get a link directly sent to your phone so you can start sponsoring.
- Or if you want to see bonus content from this episode, go to compassion.com/STSU and you can see extra video content and choose a boy or girl to sponsor from 25 different countries.
Listen in and raise a hallelujah and a hope as we Shut the Should Up!
Arden Bevere empowers us to confront the negative labels that hold us back in today's buzz-worthy episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle. Arden is the youngest son of John and Lisa Bevere and the cofounder of Sons & Daughters, a movement committed to raising up a generation of uncompromising followers of Christ who will transform our world. Arden has traveled the world doing ministry and speaking at conferences. He has a passion to see his generation go further than any that came before it, fully alive in this God adventure.
Listen in and find out how the power of the Word can shape your identity as you become Redefined!
Quotes from Arden Bevere:
"My generation is seeing themselves as so much less than what God has called them to be.” Arden Bevere
“The problem in the world right now is not that there’s a lack of sons and daughters of God, but a lack of sons and daughters who have stepped into the fullness of what that actually means.” Arden Bevere
“Right now as people in my generation are feeling attacked, broken, lost or lonely, I want us to stand firm on what the Word of God says.” Arden Bevere
What are we shutting up? Limiting Labels
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS: * Arden Bevere Website and Quiz: https://ardenbevere.com/ * Instagram: http://instagram.com/beverearden * Get Redefined: https://amzn.to/3sgEHvF
Until next time, SHUT THE SHOULD UP EVERYBODY!
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In this SUPER episode of Shut the Should Up Jenny Randle has no idea what’s happening. Join the convo as Candace Payne leads a chat on:
- the 2021 Super Bowl halftime show and the thoughts that followed
- the naked truth and a headline that was rather exposing
- the story that has us all wondering if we're living to be famous or faithful
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New York Times bestselling author Karen Ehman shares practical and powerful ways to love others well. In today's episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle, Karen shares from her newest book “Make Their Day”. We are giving one of our followers a copy of her book, to enter just follow Shut the Should Up on Instagram and Facebook. The giveaway ends February 12, 2021.
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- “Make Their Day” book: https://amzn.to/3p1bhzF
- Karen Ehman’s Website: www.karenehman.com/
- Shut the Should Up Facebook https://www.facebook.com/ShutTheShouldUp/
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Get Your Should Together. In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye and Jenny Randle, we play a special game, discuss our motivation within our faith and what the Bible has to say about it. How do we recognize when our faith is motivated in self, instead of Christ? How do we battle narcissistic behaviors as a Christian? Join us and share this episode with a friend!
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Author Jenny Simmons shares the power discovered in a two-lettered word we often overlook, under-utilize, or withhold when most needed: “NO.” In today's episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle we discuss why this is imperative for our kids to understand, how this impacts our hearts, and what the Bible has to say about it. Listen in and learn to say “no”!
What are we shutting up? Saying “yes” when we don’t really want to
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- “I Can Say No book”: http://icansayno.com/
- Jenny Simmons’ Website: https://www.jennysimmons.com/
Until next time, SHUT THE SHOULD UP EVERYBODY!
What in the COVID is going on? In this episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Panye + Jenny Randle, we’re attempting to find freedom as we ease in and talk about this current pandemic and political season. We also discuss headlines, play a special game, and find truth in a firey Bible story. Join us and share this episode with a friend!
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Baseball legend Darryl Strawberry empowers us to find freedom to turn our season around in today's episode of Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle. Though Darryl was extremely successful in his career with four World Series titles and eight All-Star Game appearances, his personal life was plagued with addictions, abuse, divorces, cancer, jail time, and other issues. Find out how his faith in Jesus has impacted his life and how God can also transform your life too. Darryl is the author of numerous books, including his latest book“Turn Your Season Around”.
What are we shutting up?
Being stuck in the coulda-shouda-woulda from the past.
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- Darryl Strawberry's website:https://findingyourway.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darrylstrawberry18/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheRealDarrylStrawberry/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/StrawMinistries
Turn Your Season Around:https://amzn.to/3ny01dq
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Until next time, SHUT THE SHOULD UP EVERYBODY!*
Candace Payne, podcast co-host and author, shares why she wrote her newest book Encounter Advent. We also play a special game, answer your questions, and pray for your holiday season. Find freedom to celebrate the Christmas arrival of Jesus in this episode of Shut The Should Up.
What are we shutting up?The holiday humbugs
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- Encounter Advent:https://amzn.to/2Uu71Ma
- Official Shut the Should Up Christmas Merch:https://shut-the-should-up-merch.myteespring.co/
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- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShutTheShouldUp/
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Rashawn Copeland, ministry leader, and author, shares his story of how God met him in his brokenness and loved him through it all no matter the mess. Find freedom to move forward in your faith (no matter where you start) in this episode of Shut The Should Up. "Start Where You Are" is Rashawn's new book that will help you stop drifting spiritually and start walking with God.
What are we shutting up?The desire to be culturally relevant over the conviction of God.
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- Rashawn Copeland Links: https://www.copelandministries.org/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hypesir/
- https://www.instagram.com/jesusfeed/
- Official Shut the Should Up Christmas Merch: https://shut-the-should-up-merch.myteespring.co/
This is our (LIVE) recording of Season 3 Episode 05: Start Where You Are with Rashawn Copeland. You can listen to any past episodes of Shut the Should Up anywhere podcasts are played.
Join Candace Payne + Jenny Randle and create space for stillness through guided prayer and meditation. Resist the urge to rush, and sit in your shoulds, as uncomfortable as it may be.
Scripture for reflection:
- Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. - Psalm 51:10
- Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God. - Matthew 5:8
- Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. - Proverbs 4:23
- Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. - James 4:8
God, may we surrender our agenda and see you as King over our lives. In Jesus's name we pray, Amen.
For the full episode, listen to S3E04 You Should Check Your Heart.
Shut up the loudness of life and check your hearts physically and spiritually in this episode of Shut the Should Up. Coach Chris Prior walks us through some ways lazy ladies (and lads) can live healthier lives. Together we also sit in our shoulds and learn to be comfortable in the stillness of meeting God through practical prayer and meditation.
What are we shutting up?The loudness of life to check our hearts.
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS: * Shut the Should Merch: www.shuttheshouldup.com/store * Chris Prior website:www.8tostraight.com * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_optimized_life/
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As a magician and illusionist who has traveled the world performing for the past 20 years, Harris III shares the power of reawakening wonder to become happier and healthier. We are all born with an innate sense of wonder, but somewhere along the way, the wonder of our childhood is crushed. In his new book, The Wonder Switch:The Difference Between Limiting Your Life and Living Your Dream, Harris is helping readers turn their switch back on. Experience some magic in today's episode!
What are we shutting up? Complacency and apathy
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- The Wonder Switch: https://amzn.to/3dWgaGm (aff. link)
- Harris III website: https://harrisiii.com/
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Until next time, shut the should up everybody.
Jamie Ivey is on today's episode of Shut the Should Up. She's a bestselling author and host of the popular “The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey” podcast. Join us for a fun game, listeners questions, and powerful discussion centered around her new book, You Be You: Why Satisfaction and Success Are Closer Than You Think. Jamie shares that making your mark on the world doesn’t happen by mimicking someone else’s life or calling. An abundant life is closer than you think; you just need to know how to take hold of it.
What are we shutting up? Comparison and striving
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- Want to connect and learn more about Jamie’s book? Text YOUBEYOU to 33777
- Jamie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieivey/
- Listen to Candace on The Happy Hour # 179: https://jamieivey.com/the-happy-hour-179-candace-payne/
- Listen to Jenny on The Happy Hour #135: https://jamieivey.com/the-happy-hour-135-jenny-randle/
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In this episode, Jenny is the “special guest” as she tells Candace and us all about her new book, Getting to Know God’s Voice: Discover the Holy Spirit in Your Everyday Life. Perhaps you’ve experienced moments where you’ve felt people have used the Holy Spirit as a form of manipulation, or He's been misunderstood or misrepresented all together. Let’s learn how to push past distractions and any doubt towards a place of recognizing and responding to God. It's time to elevate the One voice that matters most.
What are we shutting up? Distractions and doubt so you can hear from God. MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS: * Go on the 31-Day interactive journey and buy Getting to Know God’s Voice:http://www.gettingtoknowgodsvoice.com/ * Take the 5-Day Quiet the Chaos email challenge.https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5f43daa199f8080026e00958
Listen in and find out how YOU can join us at a LIVE video recording every Monday at 11 AM EST at our Facebook account here: https://www.facebook.com/ShutTheShouldUp
Ready to find freedom in your shouldy little summer? Click here > http://compassion.com/SummerCampShutTheShouldUp
You're invited to join Candace Payne + Jenny Randle at Camp ShouldaWouldaCoulda on August 13 at 7 PM Central, hosted by Compassion Live. It will be a fun-filled hour of camp stories, songs, Q&A and fun! No need for sunblock or swimsuits. Just log on and bring that camp spirit. From s'mores, to bugle calls, and even camp time capsule unearthings, you should make space to join us for this fun-filled live summer camp experience.
AUGUST 13 DOESN’T WORK FOR YOU? NO PROBLEM! THE LIVESTREAM WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR 24 HOURS AFTER EVENT FOR PLAYBACK.
Admission to camp is simply sponsoring a child through Compassion International! Help children get full medical care, education, meals every day, protection from crime, access to the gospel, and a connection with YOU! We're so excited to host some Shut the Should Up "Campers" and help some families in the process. After you sponsor a child through Compassion you'll unlock exclusive access to our Camp live stream!
See you at Camp! Invite your friends and gain admission here: > http://compassion.com/SummerCampShutTheShouldUp
To watch the full Facebook Live video announcement, go here: https://www.facebook.com/ShutTheShouldUp/videos/693351678181261
In this episode, Candace is the “special guest” as she tells Jenny + us all about her new Bible Study: You Belong, Because God is Who He Says He Is. She helps us push past self-doubt, helplessness, and a lack of clarity to a place of belonging!
What are we shutting up? That you don’t belong.
If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode.
Call (315) 308-0163 or leave us a review on Apple Podcast to become a part of the show!
Show Summary
- In a Special Game!, Candace + Jenny play “I’m kinda in love with your ____________ today,” about their husbands. It’s like adult Mad Libs that are still acceptable for our single ready to mingle friends!
- In “We Said What!,” Jenny says she stalked Candace’s new Bible curriculum online and that we want to hear all about it!
- Candace shares that she wanted to help women who feel spiritually insecure so they can belong authentically whether they come to Bible Study groups for the snacks or to memorize passages of scripture.
- In Stories from the Village, Kaytie Fiedler, Executive Director of Open Arms International US, tells us she knew she belonged because she found her people. She shares that the kids at Open Arms Village have a sense of belonging because they are seen and known inside a family instead of an institution. Pray and partner with Open Arms through the links below!
- In “You Said What?!,” A listener calls in and says she should just be herself. Candace says that’s just why she wrote this curriculum, so keep listening!
- In “He Said What?!,” Candace teaches us through 2 Corinthians 3:18 how we move from glory to glory as we look more and more like Jesus.
- In “Hey Let’s Pray!,” Candace prays we settle in where we are in our transformation process to a place of belonging. You should pick up the “You Belong” video Bible study in the links below! Shut the Should Up, everybody, we’ll talk to you next season!
LINKS to YOU BELONG:
- Take the Quiz: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/5d955ed8286e3b0014f6ef4e
- Buy the YOU BELONG Bible study video and study guide: https://candacepayne.me/youbelong/
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: Season Two of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family. Check out their links and give a gift today!
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
For full show notes and to learn more about Candace and Jenny visit https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/
Until next season, Shut the Should Up everybody!
In this episode, Preston Ulmer, founder of “The Doubters Club”, joins Candace + Jenny to share how Christians and non-Christians can be friends and pursue truth together. He shuts up the belief that doubt is bad because honesty is better.
What are we shutting up? That doubt and questions are bad. Newsflash: you can have friendships with people who don’t think like you.
If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode. Call (315) 308-0163 or leave us a review on Apple Podcast to become a part of the show!
Show Summary:
- Preston shares how “The Doubters Club” models friendship and pursues truth with people who don’t think like them.
- Candace wants to start a Doubters Club in Ikea! This becomes a challenge that could land you free books from Candace + Jenny and free Doubters Club training!
- In Bible College, Preston had his own bout with doubt. Candace + Jenny are mind blown when he tells them how good meaning people told him to do crazy things like sleep on the Bible to cure his confusion.
- Ultimately, a friend who just asked Preston to be honest and voice every uncertainty led him back to faith.
- Preston tells the process of Impression to Imitation of Jesus that helps Doubters Club Pioneers make authentic friendships with people who think differently than them.
- Preston shares how unbelief is different from doubting and having questions and explains how certainty is a killer, but doubt: a beautiful sister.
- Candace breaks out in “Way Maker” and says the song portrays Preston’s message: God is more than we can see is certain.
- Candace + Jenny agree you should consider starting a Doubters Club (see links below).
- Preston prays we’ll have the passion of Jesus to equalize and love others with realness regardless of doubts.
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- “The Doubters Club” Website > https://www.thedoubtersclub.com/startyourowndc
- Follow Preston Ulmer on Instagram > https://instagram.com/ptulmer
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: Season Two of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family. Check out their links and give a gift today!
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
You SHOULD get social:
- For full show notes visit > https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/
- Join the conversation in our Facebook Group > https://www.facebook.com/groups/ShutTheShouldUpPodcast/
Shut the should up, everybody!
In this episode, Candace + Jenny continue the conversation, “Befriending Like Jesus” from last week. They give more practicals on how to make and maintain friendships to free us from isolation and cultivate the connections we’re designed for!
What are we shutting up? Poor Friendship
If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode. Call (315) 308-0163 or leave us a review on Apple Podcast to become a part of the show!
SHOW SUMMARY:
- Candace gives more practicals to help us check in on friends and make it a habit.
- Jenny says she’s not going to a scary movie with Candace.
- This leads into a hysterical laugh attack over the pronunciation of M. Night Shyamalan’s name.
- Jenny tells all about a memory made in Kenya at Open Arms Village when Candace saved her from a poisonous frog - with a plunger- in the middle of the night -during a blackout!
- Candace gives us tips to be a better listener! They rate themselves 1-10 on their skills.
- In Stories from the Village! Parents Solomon and Sarah share that to keep their teenagers on track, they ask them how they are approaching their opportunities. They share that one on one time helps win their hearts, and inspire us all to be better listeners and love our kids well!
- In He Said What?!, Candace + Jenny talk about how Jesus made friends until the end- even on the cross.
- Candace + Jenny are in awe of how Jesus has made us inner circle, intimate friends.
- In Hey, Let’s Pray!, they pray Jesus will show us how to be the friends we SHOULD be.
**MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: Season Two of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International**. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family. Check out their links and give a gift today!
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
You SHOULD get social:
- For full show notes visit: https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/
- Join the conversation in our Facebook Group > https://www.facebook.com/groups/ShutTheShouldUpPodcast/
Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/
Interested in learning more about Jenny Randle, her books or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://jennyrandle.com
In this episode, Candace + Jenny start the conversation: Befriending Like Jesus. In an online world, we can still feel isolated, because we should have friends! It’s not easy to make and keep good friends, so let’s get all the practicals on being proactive pals today.
What are we shutting up? Poor friendship.
If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode. Call (315) 308-0163 or leave us a review on Apple Podcast to become a part of the show!
SHOW SUMMARY:
- In We Said What?!, Jenny tells all about her quest for new friends in Florida.
- Candace + Jenny make a distinction between internet web vs in-real-life friends.
- In You Said What?!, a caller shares friendship “should have syndrome.”
- Candace walks us through how she’s proactive in friendships to shut that should up!
- Candace + Jenny discuss levels of closeness: inner, mid, outer circle friends.
- Candace frees us all from thinking everyone gets inner circle space in our lives!
- Candace gives us her super practical friendship check-in chart to help us be the friends we SHOULD be.
- Candace + Jenny discuss praying for friends and why it’s important. Candace shares how she writes out- even color codes prayers for her people - so she can tell them specifics when she sees them.
- Candace inspires us to dream for our friends.
- Jenny shares how one “ledge pusher” friend pushed her to her first professional development conference.
- Candace + Jenny role-play real accountability in friendship over a box of waffles. Just go with it guys!
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: Season Two of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family. Check out their links and give a gift today!
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe on apple podcasts. For full show notes visit https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/ Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/
Interested in learning more about Jenny Randle, her books or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://jennyrandle.com
We’re not done shutting this should up yet... tune in next week for more friend talk!
In this episode, Candace + Jenny host Rachel Gallagher. In 2002, Rachel took a leap of faith and started Open Arms International, an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the gospel and the love of a family. Candace + Jenny visited Open Arms Village earlier this year and are so excited to partner with them this season! Rachel shares how the organization was birthed from a realization that life in Christ is all about considering others. That’s why you’re invited to go on mission with us in this life-changing episode.
GIVE A GIFT TO OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL TODAY >>> http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
SHOW SUMMARY:
- In Confetti Like Praise!, Candace and Rachel rapid-fire things they’re thankful for in the Village. Spolier alert: the super cute kids are their favorite.
- In We Said What?!, Rachel shares the realization moment that made her a missionary. Once the words leave Rachel’s mouth, Candace + Jenny can’t believe how God set this episode up.
- Rachel shares that the biggest resource they equip kids in the Village with, is a solid foundation of Jesus, which helps them weather any storm in life.
- In “High-Five, It’s Story Time!,” we hear about Jane, a sweet two-year-old, whose conception and entrance into the world was condemned by the culture, but embraced by Open Arms.
- In “You Said What?!,” Callers who give to Open Arms Village tell how it impacts them to know they're making a difference! Jenny encourages listeners to join them in giving and then call into the show to let us know!
- In “He Said What?!, Candace reads Philippians 2:3-5, telling us to follow Jesus’ example to consider others above ourselves.
- Rachel shares the memory verse the kids at the Village know and live out - Jeremiah 29:11. All the kids have a future and a hope far better than how their lives began because of what God is doing through Open Arms.
- Candace says you should become a Champion of Hope in this moment! She tells listeners about handmade giving incentives (see below), encourages that your little can become a lot, and no gift is too small.
- In “Hey, Let’s Pray!,” Rachel, Candace, and Jenny all pray and end the show excited about what God will do for the kids at the Village through you!
Help Candace + Jenny reach their goal of 100 CHAMPIONS OF HOPE! check out some incentives below)
- The first 20 donors to give at least $55/monthly receive a hand-crafted Nativity Set!
- First 20 to give a gift of at least $25 receive Banana Leaf Wall Art!
GIVE A GIFT OF HOPE TODAY >>> http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagramFacebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
Thanks for going on mission with us and supporting an organization that considers others. If you found encouragement through listening to this episode or gave a gift to Open Arms, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode. Call (315) 308-0163 today.
In this episode, Candace + Jenny shut up the stuff that keeps us from surrendering like Jesus. They share stories about physical ways they’ve tried to act out their surrendering state while trying not to use Christianize. With lots of buzzes and laughs, they help us sort through what surrendering our daily life to God really looks like.
What are we shutting up? Stuff that keeps us from surrendering like Jesus.
SHOW NOTES:
- In this Buzzword Episode!, Candace + Jenny buzz each other for using Christianize words and make each other talk normal! Jenny asks if Candace is making a sandwich with her devotional jam (see link below). Candace gets buzz happy with her “fat thumbs” on Jenny over her heart posture!
- In “You Should Buy It!,” Candace gets real excited about her beloved make-up case that’s the next best thing to a caboodle! (See link below)
- Jenny leads us in morning slip and slide surrender: Candace buzzes her and rolls into a laugh attack picturing Jenny ungracefully opening her eyes, getting tangled in the sheets, and falling to the floor.
- In “He Said What?!,” Jenny shares Mark 14:35, when Jesus fully felt the human weight of his pending death, and yet still surrendered His will to the Father.
- Candace shares the “even if you don’t” prayer she struggles through to give it all to God no matter what.
- Jenny walks through a live-action surrender moment of giving God her schedule. She realizes perfectionism is “the actual thing” she needs to give up.Candace points out that God revealed the “root” of what she was wrestling with, and encourages that He'll do that for all of us!
- In “Hey Let’s Pray!,” Jenny prays for wisdom in knowing how to surrender in specific situations. Candace prays listeners will release it all to Him, fists open and all.
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers > https://amzn.to/2UFipVl
- Candace's Makeup Case > https://amzn.to/2QINeax
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL (OUR PODCAST PARTNER): Season Two of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family. Check out their website and give a gift today!
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
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Shut the should up everybody!
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In this episode, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle shut up the shoulds surrounding who we’re following. In a social media world, it’s easy to get caught up following people who won’t lead us into freedom. So in this show, we sort through some tough questions to help us follow more like Jesus.
What are we shutting up? Following the wrong examples.
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- In Confetti Like Praise!, Candace + Jenny rapid-fire their favorite media to follow and we find out they both have some Bieber fever!
- In Won’t He Do It?!, a listener called in and sends air hugs, Candace admits those are her favorite kind, even before social distancing.
- In We Said What?, Jenny shares a sweet story about her son following her husband’s mannerisms. Candace tells a tale from childhood when she thought she was following her dad’s Member’s Only Jacket in the 80’s, but ended up sharing popcorn with a strange man instead.
- In You Said What?!, listeners followed directions perfectly and sang Christmas Carols. Well, mostly. One only “dings” the song, sending Candace into a laugh attack.
- In He Said What?!, Jenny shows how simple following God can be when we follow God’s example as a dearly loved child, from Ephesians 5:1.
- Jenny and Candace drop some truth bombs you're going to want to listen for.
- In Hey Let’s Pray!, Candace + Jenny pray God realigns all of us to follow the Father like Jesus did, Candace sings “amen” and they shut this should up!
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: Season Two of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family. Check out their links and give a gift today!
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
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Shut the should up everybody!
In this episode, Pastor Mark Schilling joins Candace Payne + Jenny Randle to shut up controlling emotions. Pastor Mark is one of Jenny’s local church pastors from NY. He is passionate about giving people practical tools so they can process emotions well.
What are we shutting up? Emotions that control us.
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Show Summary:
- In A Special Game!, Candace and Pastor Mark can only use one word to express the emotion they feel from all sorts of sounds.
- In We Said What?!, Pastor Mark shares that there are certain emotions to be processed and certain emotions to be possessed.
- He says that even fear is a good emotion God gave us to keep us safe- just think of a time a scary dog has chased you, and fear made you run!
- Candace + Jenny discuss how emotions can be signals from the Holy Spirit, but they can also trip us up. Pastor Mark poses a question to help us sort through it all.
- Pastor Mark points out how Jesus wept, and gives us permission to feel deeply. He shares that grief experienced with Jesus is healthy and healing.
- In You Said What?!, Pastor Mark prescribes identifying and voicing to the Lord how you are feeling every morning and tells us to turn self talk into prayer!
- In Stories From the Village!, Candace + Jenny interview Ian, 17-year-old at Open Arms Village. They play Confetti Like Praise, and Ian gives advice far beyond his years that you’ll want to hear!
- In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Pastor Mark prays Jesus’ peace that passes understanding over listeners as they process emotions.
MENTIONED RESOURCES + LINKS:
- National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- The Episode with Candace’s Pastor Scott Wilson: https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/shownotes/s1e08-you-should-listen-scott-wilson
- Redeemer Church https://www.myredeemerchurch.com/
- Follow Mark Schilling on Instagram > https://www.instagram.com/mark.d.schilling/
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: Season Two of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family. Check out their links and give a gift today!
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
You SHOULD get social:
- For full show notes visit https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/
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In this episode, Candace + Jenny flush the format and dump all their insecurities on the table for their fellow “should-ers!” They get real transparent in their own process of sorting through this bag of should in hopes that all their listeners will walk confidently in their callings.
What are we shutting up? Insecurity.
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Show Summary:
- Candace + Jenny share how the show came about and rate how scared they were to meet one another in person for the first time based on a hilarious hairy scale.
- They tell us about the phone call when they voiced their insecurities surrounding the show and the freedom in their friendship afterwards.
- Jenny shares that insecurity breeds confusion, shame, and shrinking back. That’s why we have to shut it up!
- Candace gives us some questions to ask ourselves to walk with security and confidence like Jesus, and she shares her deepest insecurity we’d be surprised to hear.
- Candace + Jenny share how Open Arms International provides security for the kids in their village in Kenya, and invite you to watch their shenanigans when they tried to do the security team’s job! (link to here > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should).
- Jenny points out that sometimes insecurity shows us sin we need to repent of, but sometimes it’s a lie keeping us from being all God created us to be.
- Candace talks about how although Jesus had every reason to be insecure, he took his sorrows to the Father and stayed steadfast in his purpose.
- They end the show praying insecurity off of listeners and proclaiming they’ve shut this should up!
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: Season Two of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family.
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
You SHOULD get social:
- Use the Hashtag #ShutTheShouldUp + share your shoulds!
- Visit www.shuttheshouldup.com for full show notes.
Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe onapple podcasts. Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/
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Esther Fleece Allen joins Candace + Jenny in this episode to peel off the labels that limit listeners and put on the names they should be wearing. Esther’s book, Your New Name, helps readers take these labels off. In the show we sort through this bag of should to help us all hear our new God given name in Christ. More than a quarter of a million people viewed Esther Fleece Allen’s story on IAmSecond.com. (Link Below). Through her speaking platform, she has given hope to tens of thousands of people struggling with life’s difficulties, setbacks, and failures. This is a buzzword episode + extra fun because Esther is a Bible scholar who could use so much Christianese if she wanted, but somehow, Candace gets buzzed the most.
What are we shutting up? The labels that limit us.
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Show Summary:
- In Confetti Like Praise, Esther + Jenny rapid fire their favorite desserts.
- In We Said What?!, Esther helps us peel off the labels we stick on ourselves by telling us stories of God giving people new names in the Bible.
- In You Said What?! Jenny reads listeners’ limiting labels that they have put on themselves. Esther reads labels she compiled while writing her book and tells us the first step to hearing our new name is identifying those labels.
- Candace really wants to hug listeners… later she breaks out in “Glory to Glory” praise song before Jenny buzzes her for Christianese.
- Esther shoulds herself for not talking more about Jesus’ name in her book, Candace calls her out on it + Jenny buzzes her for using the word “gentile.”
- In Hey Let’s Pray!, Esther prays Abba will show listeners the labels others have put on them and that He will speak their new name over them.
- Candace + Jenny end the show sharing that the kids at Open Arms Village in Kenya are given two names: one by their tribe at birth and one to call them up to who they will become. Visit their website (link below) to learn more.
ABOUT ESTHER FLEECE ALLEN:
- Esther Fleece Allen IamSecond Video:https://www.iamsecond.com/seconds/esther-fleece/
- Esther’s website: www.estherfleeceallen.com
- Your New Name Book: https://amzn.to/3c9MrZc
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: This season of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family.
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
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In this episode, Candace + Jenny discuss the phrase “You should know better,” especially as it pertains to physical health. How can you know better when you really don’t know? They encourage us to recognize signs and take action… or just take a nap!
What are we shutting up? That we should have known better.
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Show Summary:
- In Should I Buy It? Candace discloses a secret tool for looking fabulous on the go.
- In “Stories from the Village,” Linda asks listeners to pray for Open arms International (link below) so they can give the kids all they need.
- In We Said What?!, Candace shares how she wishes “she’d have known better” in a recent health scare.
- In You Said What?!, A caller says she’s been shoulding herself that “she should have known better.” This sparked Candace to share signs of a heart attack in women.
- From relationship red flags, gas lights + everything in between, Candace + Jenny rapid-fire things they should know better.
- In He Said What?! Jenny shares that Jesus knew when he needed a nap and we should too!
- Candace leads us in a practical way to pray the Psalms.
- In Hey Let’s Pray!, Jenny prays grace over what we wish we would have known better about. Candace prays wisdom + discernment over the unknowns in our lives.
RESOURCES + LINKS:
- Makeup Mirror > https://amzn.to/2SOku1o
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: This season of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family.
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-international
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
You SHOULD get social:
- Follow Shut the Should Up on Instagram > https://www.instagram.com/shuttheshouldup/
- For full show notes visit https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/
Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe onapple podcasts. Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/
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In this episode, Candace Payne + Jenny Randle sort out how to lead like Jesus. From Jesus calling his first followers, to our followers on social media, to the followers at our feet - we are all leading someone.
What are we shutting up? Poor leadership.
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SHOW SUMMARY:
- In A Special Game!, Candace tries to tell us how to not make tacos… and who was actually the first man on the moon.
- In We Said What?!, Candace shares how she learned in Israel that the phrase “follow me” means so much more than we’ve made it in our social media minds.
- Jenny + Candace break out in an 80’s song about the leaders who gave them the wind beneath their wings.
- Candace + Jenny tell about a teacher in Kenya who leads by inspiring + invite you to laugh at them trying to learn the language in a video on the Open Arms International Website (see link below).
- In You Said What?!, Candace + Jenny share your poll results about the best + worst qualities in leaders. They debate which category “starts shenanigans” should go in.
- Jenny shares from Matthew 20:26-28 that Jesus always led by serving.
- In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Candace + Jenny ask Jesus to help us lead more like Him.
OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: This season of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family.
- Watch our exclusive video with us getting schooled > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
You SHOULD get social:
- Follow Shut the Should Up on Instagram > https://www.instagram.com/shuttheshouldup/
- Use the Hashtag #ShutTheShouldUp + share your shoulds!
- Join the conversation in our Facebook Group > https://www.facebook.com/groups/ShutTheShouldUpPodcast/
Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe onapple podcasts. Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://candacepayne.me/
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Rebecca Bender escaped human trafficking and has become a force to be reckoned with. She’s an award-winning social entrepreneur, CEO + Founder of the Rebecca Bender Initiative, a non-profit that works with law enforcement, FBI, Homeland Security and aftercare programs to provide expert testimony, trainings + consultation across the globe. Her memoir, IN PURSUIT OF LOVE recently released and she joins Candace + Jenny today to tell her story and help us shut up the shoulds that keep us from loving more like Jesus.
What are we shutting up? How and who we should love.
If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode. Call (315) 308-0163 or leave a review on Apple Podcast to become a part of the show!
SHOW SUMMARY:
- In We Said What? Rebecca shares how her story helps people breakthrough from imprisonment to empowerment.
- Candace gives us the “here’s the deal” on how we miss out on freedom when we choose not to dive into deep places.
- Rebecca starts the conversation: How should we handle hyper sexuality in our culture?
- Rebecca shares how God used another prostitute as his mouthpiece to rescue her.
- Jenny + Candace are overwhelmed by God’s pursuit of Rebecca + His love for us all.
- In You Said What? Rebecca answers listener’s questions and encourages parents to get smart about internet safety + tells us The Human Trafficking Hotline (see number below) you can call to help victims. A neighbor’s call to the cops sparked a raid that led to her freedom. She also shares how you should take her Find Your Lane Quiz (linked below) to identify your place in the anti-trafficking movement.
- In He Said What? Rebecca shares through 1 Corinthians 13 that when she thought she needed more kindness and patience, God taught her she just needed more love. She encourages us that to keep growing in love, our hearts need constant maintenance.
- In Hey, Let’s Pray! Rebecca prays a powerful prayer over listeners.
MENTIONED LINKS OR RESOURCES:
- Human trafficking hotline > 1-888-373-7888
- How to find your lane quiz > https://rebeccabender.org/quiz
ABOUT REBECCA BENDER:
- In Pursuit of Love > https://amzn.to/384NPd4
- Web > https://rebeccabender.org/
- Instagram > http://instagram.com/imrebeccabender
LEARN MORE ABOUT OPEN ARMS INTERNATIONAL: This season of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International. Open Arms is an organization in Eldoret, Kenya that provides vulnerable children with the hope of the Gospel and the love of a family.
- Web > http://bit.ly/open-arms-international
- Instagram > http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- Facebook > http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
FOR FULL SHOWNOTES VISIT: WWW.SHUTTHESHOULDUP.COM. Use the Hashtag #ShutTheShouldUp + share your shoulds!
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Candace Payne + Jenny Randle are back stomping out the shoulds of prayer to help us get unstuck and find freedom talking to God. Every show this season, they’ll be shutting up shoulds to help us be more like Jesus.
What are we shutting up? The shoulds of prayer. If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode. Call (315) 308-0163 to become a part of the show!
SHOW SUMMARY: * In Confetti Like Praise!, Candace + Jenny rapid fire what they’re thankful for on their 24 hour flights to and from Kenya. * In Won’t He Do It?!, Jenny shares a story of when she was feeling the weight of a huge life decision of moving. * In We Said What? Candace + Jenny rabbit trail on some prayer myths they’ve picked up along the way. Jenny shares her “Father God” fiasco. Candace tells how silence in prayer can lead her to tacos. * In a new segment, Stories From The Village, Candace + Jenny introduce Open Arms International as the show’s new partner in their position to go on mission!! Jenny shares Stacey’s story of being brought to Open Arms Village and her dreams to be an author or musician. * DuringHe Said What?!, Jenny shares from Matthew 6:5-14 that prayer is not a performance. We can pray like Jesus simply andauthentically. She challenges us to shut the door on super fancy prayer!! Candace tells us about “mama bear prayer” that’s a little bit loud and the freedom we find through just starting the conversation with God without a certain tone. * In Hey, Let’s Pray! + You Said What?! Some listeners call in and pray the should off of us all.
SHOW LINKS:
Follow our Season Two partner Open Arms International and discover BONUS footage of the adventure Candace + Jenny went on while visiting the Villag:
- Website > http://bit.ly/open-arms-should
- on Instagram >> http://bit.ly/open-arms-instagram
- and Facebook >> http://bit.ly/open-arms-facebook
Don't forget to give us all the stars + subscribe on apple podcasts. Interested in learning more about Candace Payne, her books and curriculum or have her SPEAK for your church or event?Visit https://candacepayne.me/
Interested in learning more about Jenny Randle, her books or have her SPEAK for your church or event?Visit https://jennyrandle.com
For full show notes visit www.shuttheshouldup.com
This episode of Shut the Should Up is sponsored by Open Arms International.
Lots of singing, celebrating and crying in the last episode of Shut the Should Up season one. Candace + Jenny discusses the importance of making celebration a discipline and how it makes a difference in our day to day lives.
What are we shutting up? Complaining and inaction If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured in season two. Call (315) 308-0163 to become a part of the show!
Show Summary * In Won’t He Do It?!, we celebrate Dad Zookeeper, who Candace wants to side hug and makes things awkward. * You Should Buy It!, features our official Shut the Should Up merch and Party Pants. Party Pants were brainstormed in THIS episode and later hand drawn by Candace. It’s the perfect way to celebrate! Party Pants are basically the greatest invention ever created. * In You Said What?! We feature our listeners. From blowing up gingerbread houses to Herrkey the Turkey, they share the special ways they celebrate the holidays. * In a new segment, Christmas For Days!, we rapid-fire our Christmas list and ends with Candace bringing some holiday cheer. * In We Said What?!, Candace shares how her family celebrates. Jenny shares a sweet birthday celebration with her son that left him feeling loved, and Candace ends up crying her face off as she processes through some holiday memories. * During He Said What?!, Jenny shares from 1 Thessalonians 5:14-24 and teaches us that rejoicing is not only an expression of joy, it’s an action we get to choose. Candace shares about the Feast of Tabernacles and how it’s meaningful for us today. * In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Candace prays we look to Jesus from the small to the big and honor all the moments worth celebrating. Jenny leaves us with a special word for a listener whose life is being transformed.
Links Mentioned in the Show: * Shut the Should Up T-Shirt http://bit.ly/shuttheshouldup-tshirt * Shut the Should Up Hoodie http://bit.ly/shuttheshouldup-hoodie * Shut the Should Up Party Pants http://bit.ly/shuttheshouldup-partypants
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Until next season, shut the should up everybody!!
Candace + Jenny challenge us to be grateful in order to live healthier, less stressed, longer lives with deep and meaningful relationships. It’s all about GRATITUDE today and shutting up the entitlement attitude.
What are we shutting up? Our bad attitudes. If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode.
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Show Summary * Today is a BUZZWORD Episode...Get your happy pants on! * In We Said What?!, Candace gives us several quotes about being grateful and has us all thinking deeper about what it means. * FREEBIE ALERT Jenny gifts a free gratitude journal page that will help you live with intentionality. Plus you’ll get a 5x7 scripture printable to remind you daily. Download here > https://www.jennyrandle.com/gratitude * In Won’t He Do It?!, we get all the puns from a listener and feel amazing about it. * This time, in You Said What?!, a listener fact checks Candace + Jenny and opens up a conversation that leads us to dialogue about what we should do when others aren’t as grateful as we would like them to be. * In You Should Buy It!, we detour from a suggestion from Candace and let a listener lead us in a fun suggestion of what we should be buying. * In He Said What?!, Candace + Jenny lean into this verse: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV)to uncover how prayer can release peace from a heart of gratitude. * In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Candace models for us a way to pray with gratitude even when there seems to be little to be grateful for while, correspondingly, Jenny offers a way to reframe gratitude in our prayers.
Links Mentioned in the Show:
- Free Gratitude Printables > https://www.jennyrandle.com/gratitude
- Simple Joys by Candace Payne > https://amzn.to/2QNkLko
- Courageous Creative by Jenny Randle > https://amzn.to/33dqhPR
- For full shownotes visit > https://www.shuttheshouldup.com/
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Kasey Van Norman helps us shut up areas of emotional numbness.
Candace + Jenny welcome author of NOTHING WASTED, Kasey Van Norman, to discuss why we should feel all the feels. Kasey is a momma, wife, author, speaker, teacher, lover of all things Texas and football. She is relatable, fun, an enneagram 3, and full of Texas sass and spunk. Counselor by trade and a pro at listening to feelings of others, she teaches us how to find the glory in the grit and leave nothing wasted.
If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode. Call (315) 308-0163 to become a part of the show!
Show Summary
- In Confetti Like Praise, Jenny + Kasey go head to head while Kasey unveils the mother of all things to be grateful for.
- Won’t He Do It?! has Candace loving a new commonality noticed by the reviews.
- In You Said What?!, a listener shares a moment she lived in emotional numbness after a moment of disconnect in her marriage from both her husband and children.
- Kasey drops truth bombs on the “why” and the “what” we are needing to pray when we cannot feel.
- In We Said What?!, Kasey will want to make all of us grab a pen and paper to take notes on how to uncover the “fullness of life”. No joke. Like seriously. You’re gonna wanna do some major note-taking.
- In He Said What?!, Kasey walks us through the difference between knowledge and understanding and discusses how to see the whole of what our stories truly are.
- We all are challenged to see how God allows us to feel all the things in order to grow in our wisdom and understanding.
- In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Jenny leads the time with a heartfelt plea for the listeners to know the truth over lies and begin to feel where they have been otherwise numb.
Links Mentioned in the Show:
- To connect with Kasey, order her book, Nothing Wasted, or its’ companion curriculum, visit kaseyvannorman.com
- Buy Nothing Wasted on Amazon > https://amzn.to/2XofrFr
- Find Kasey on Instagram + Facebook > @KaseyVanNorman
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The enneagram, personality tests, spiritual gift assessments, and what the Bible has to say about it all is just a typical hang on your fav. should- show. In this episode of Shut The Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle, they discuss why you SHOULD be self-aware.
What are we shutting up?Inauthenticity.
IN TODAY'S EPISODE:
- Candace + Jenny play Confetti Like Praise in the most self-aware way possible.
- Candace gives us all homework that is super funwork.
- We Said What?! has Candace + Jenny revealing their test results and their favorite self-assessment tests in a sea of multiple options.
- Jenny discusses how a moment of encouragement helped her overcome fears while Candace discusses how a discouraging comment paralyzed her from walking in authenticity.
- Jenny + Candace challenge us to know how to identify triggers and how that affects the ways we cope.
- Candace discusses how to be self-aware in order to mature interpersonally and relationally.
- Jenny encourages listeners to google their way through tests that offer self-awareness. Some that Candace + Jenny mention on the show are the DISC test and the ENNEAGRAM.
- In You Said What?!, Candace + Jenny get their first prank call.
- In He Said What?!, Candace looks at what it means to go from glory to glory as found in 2 Corinthians 3:18.
- Jenny “Randle Rants” about taking self-aware concepts to the pulpit in churches under the guise of consumerism.
- Jenny + Candace address the reason God would want us self aware and how it benefits us, others, and His ultimate purposes.
- Candace speaks to a listener that is fearful of being self-aware.
- Jenny celebrates the should out of you.
- In Hey, Let’s Pray!, Jenny prays for the listeners that they would walk with boldness in understanding who they are and whose they are.
LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:
- The Enneagram Made Easy: Discover the 9 Types of People >> https://amzn.to/2PXy81g
- DISC Assessment https://www.discprofile.com/what-is-disc/overview/
- Spiritual Gifts Assessment https://giftstest.com/
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You Should Talk to Lisa Bevere... WHY?
Lisa Bevere has spent nearly three decades empowering women of all ages to find their identity and purpose. She is a New York Times bestselling author and internationally known speaker. Her books, which include Adamant, Lioness Arising, Girls with Swords, and Without Rival, are in the hands of millions worldwide. Lisa and her husband, John, are the founders of Messenger International, an organization committed to developing uncompromising followers of Christ who transform their world. Messenger International has given away nearly 20 million resources in 106 Languages.
What are we shutting up?Unhealthy responses to anger
Show Summary * In Won’t He Do It, Candace + Jenny nail down the proper name for the two hands raised emoji. * In You Said What, a listener challenges us to think about how to prioritize guarding our hearts when faced with disappointment, regret, and a personal offense against us. Candace also does the charismatic hustle. * In We Said What, Lisa shares with us how to navigate our anger in a healthy way from her personal experiences that were not navigated in a healthy way. * In He Said What, Lisa teaches from Ephesians 4:26-27 (ESV), “In your anger, do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry and do not give the devil a foothold.” * Lisa defines anger as momentary displeasure + encourages us to separate the person from the problem. * Lisa defines 3 distinct stages of anger: anger, rage, wrath. * Galatians 5:16-17 (ESV) “...Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to each other so that you are not to do whatever you want.” * James 1:19 (ESV) “...let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger…” * In Hey Let’s Pray, Lisa prays for us to submit, release blame, and be led into a place of hope, truth, and forgiveness.
Links Mentioned in the Show:
- For all of Lisa Bevere’s resources visit:http://bit.ly/MessengerInternationalStore
- Be Angry But Don't Blow It: https://store.messengerinternational.org/collections/books-by-lisa/products/be-angry-book
Follow Lisa Bevere on her social media platforms.Send her a message letting her know the impact her words made on you from this episode.
- Instagram: @lisabevere
- Twitter: @LisaBevere
- Facebook: @lisabevere
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Pastor Scott Wilson joins us as a special guest on Shut the Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle. Scott Wilson has been in full-time pastoral ministry for more than 25 years. He is the Senior Pastor of Oaks Church located in Red Oak, Texas—now ministering to 4000 people each week. He is a frequent conference speaker, and provides mentorship for hundreds of pastors and church leaders. Scott and his wife, Jenni, have three sons: Dillon, Hunter, and Dakota. The Wilsons live in the Dallas area.
In this episode of Shut The Should Up, Candace, Jenny and Pastor Scott discuss three areas of life that we should be listening and leaning in with intentionality.
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What are we shutting up?Ourselves. Show Summary
- We spitball some fun listening facts.
- Pastor Scott tells us to shut the should up and we love it.
- We learn how to deliver difficult news
- A Special Game is a new segment where we play.... a special game. Full disclosure: Jenny felt it wasn’t very special, Pastor Scott saves the day and brings home a sweet victory.
- We learn how to pay attention to how we speak.
- In You Said What, we feature a caller who asks for advice on making the most of every moment. We learn practical advice to help us be attentive in the moment.
- High-five it’s Storytime discusses how important reflective listening is within our relationships and how we can listen to others better.
- In He Said What?! Pastor Scott teaches us the five different ways we can hear from God and how to actively listen.
- Pastor Scott gifts all our listeners his newest book P3. Transform your ability to hear from God! Dive into this and apply it to your own life today.
Links Mentioned in the Show:
- Get the P3 book today: https://www.p3book.org
- More info about Pastor Scott and Oaks Church http://oaks.church/scott-wilson-resources/
- Scott Wilson's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottwilson7/
- Scott Wilson's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/scottwilsonleadership
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In this episode of Shut The Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle, they discuss the things that kill our creative nature and how to walk in greater freedom within our God-given creativity. From silly singing to holy moments, it’s just a typical hang on your fav. should-show.
WHAT ARE WE SHUTTING UP? The “I’m NOT creative” lie.
In today’s episode....
- You’ll hear a ton of BUZZERS in this special BUZZWORD episode!
- In WE SAID WHAT, Jenny shares wisdom beyond the pages of her 31-day devotional that she authored (Courageous Creative) … a super RARE TREAT, y’all!
- Candace snacks + raps (also a super rare treat).
- In YOU SAID WHAT, caller, SEPTEMBER, reminds us that child-like wonder leads to creativity.
- Jenny + Candace remind us to look through the creative lens of how God sees our struggles and obstacles.
- In HE SAID WHAT, we discover that creativity is at the BEGINNING of all things and that the first mention of God is that He is creative.
- In HIGH FIVE IT’S STORYTIME, Candace shares THE MOST EPIC and creative IDEA during a staff meeting.
- Jenny + Candace encourages you to utilize creativity even when boundaries are present.
- Candace misuses the buzzer multiple times and ensues Candace + Jenny’s first podcast feud.
- In HEY, LET’S PRAY, Candace + Jenny pray for listeners to have a breakthrough with God-given creative expressions and solutions.
LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:
- Courageous Creative by Jenny Randle >> https://amzn.to/2VVG4AN
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In this episode of Shut The Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle, they discuss the seasons that force you into letting go of something and the ones where you’re left holding on for dear life. From silly singing to crying outbursts, it’s just a typical hang on your fav. should-show.
WHAT ARE WE SHUTTING UP?The "Should I..." and "How do I let it go?” questions. If you found encouragement through listening to this episode and want to share, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode. Call (315) 308-0163 to become a part of the show!
Show Notes
- Candace sings and Jenny pays a million dollars in royalties (jk).
- In Won’t He Do It!? they LOL.
- You Should Buy It features a virtual unboxing. What can it be?!
- In We Said What, Candace shares how her family is in a season shift by force so they are having to learn new routines, and new normals.
- Jenny and Candace attempt to figure out how to say "Hurricane Durian". Jenny shares what her family went through with their first hurricane evacuation after a new move to Florida.
- In You Said What?! a caller kicks off a discussion where Candace and Jenny talk about the little things they want to let go of. Candace reveals she doesn’t like close talkers… and then she got meat sweats.
- In He Said What? Jenny shares Biblical truth from 1 Peter 5:7-10 for some encouragement. What does it look like to give worry or pain over to Jesus without picking it back up?
- Candace teaches Jenny how to trap a monkey and shares from Matthew 6:14. There is power in forgiveness as you learn to let it go.
- In Hey Let’s Pray! Candace and Jenny lead a prayer for those struggling, and those who are forced into a season of change.
- Jenny gives an end of the show update
Links Mentioned in the Show:
- Sleepy Ride Hammock >> https://amzn.to/328KDu9
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Carlos Wittaker is joining Candace + Jenny in part two of this health series.
NOTE: If you feel you need to reach out to a therapist, licensed counselor or should talk to a doctor about medications for your mental health, please do. This episode should never be taken as a substitution for those action steps.
In this special guest episode of Shut The Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle, they discuss a topic that often gets brushed under the rug or ignored --- mental health. Joining us is Carlos Wittaker. He's an Author, Speaker, Moment Maker, Spider Killer, and Hope Dealer.
What are we shutting up? The "I should not talk about my mental health” concerns. This thought is a lie that can leave us feeling alone, hurting and harmed. Show Summary
- Candace and Carlos play Confetti Like Praise.
- In We Said What?! Carlos shares his personal struggle with anxiety, panic attacks, and depression. There was also a radical mindset shift that brought supernatural healing into his life and produced greater freedom than ever before.
- Jenny and Candace both yell “WOW!” when Carlos shares what happened to the debilitating anxiety and depression.
- For You Said What?! a caller shares her struggle through OCD, ADHD and poor self-image. Her bravery to call in, opened up some powerful conversation.
- In the He Said What?! segment Carlos shares how he speaks specific truths over his life from Scripture.
- His book Kill the Spider features a powerful prayer that will impact the spiritual climate of your life.
- Hey, Let’s Pray, and catch a glimpse of hope if you’ve been struggling through a mental health battle. Carlos prays for listeners who are in the process of mental health healing. He also prays for clarity and 100% healing over those that struggle through anxiety and depression.
Links Mentioned in the Show:
- Kill the Spider by Carlos Whittaker >> https://amzn.to/2AFdeLh
- Serotonin Spark - 7 Days of Video Encouragement >> http://bit.ly/SerotoninSpark
- God’s Creative Power Will Work For You by Charles Capps > https://amzn.to/2Vg50mj
- If you feel as though you are struggling with a mental illness and are contemplating suicide, please visit the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or call 1-800-273-8255 and speak to someone immediately.
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- Interested in learning more about Carlos Whittaker, his books or have him SPEAK for your church or event? Visit https://carloswhittaker.com/
- Carlos Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loswhit/
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NOTE: You may be shocked by the fact that we are not health professionals, please consult your doctor before changing your exercise or eating habits.
In this special two-part episode of Shut The Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle, they discuss the complexities within our internal mindset that affect the external process of living a healthier life. In this first episode, Candace + Jenny + listeners discuss their shoulds that prevent them from living a physically healthy life.
If you found inspiration for turning the page and living a physically healthy lifestyle by listening to this episode and want to share with Candace and Jenny, give us a call and you may be featured on an upcoming episode.
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What are we shutting up? The "I should start a new diet” mentality that leaves us paralyzed towards making long term, sustainable health goals that holistic to our physical health.
Show Summary
- Candace and Jenny play Confetti Like Praise and fail it more than nailing it as usual.
- You Said What?! finds Jenny + Candace listening to both call-in listeners and Facebook group participants describing what food means to them and the shoulds we place upon ourselves concerning food and body issues.
- In We Said What?!, Candace opens up the conversation with her own health journey, what sparked her journey, and what continues to fuel her journey as a wife and mother.
- In He Said What?!, Jenny reminds us of Romans 12:1 AND 1 Corinthians 6:19-20.
- Candace highlights 1 Timothy 4:8.
- Jenny challenges us with a simple question: What are we letting govern our lives?
- In Won’t He Do It?!, Candace + Jenny read a review that makes Candace highly uncomfortable and blush at the same time.
- During High Five, It’s Story Time, Jenny shares the simplicity of a child’s perspective on physical training. It’s precious, y’all.
- In Hey, Let’s Pray, Candace + Jenny pray for listeners who are wanting to find freedom in their own journey to be physically healthy.
Links Mentioned in the Show:
If you feel as though you or someone you know is struggling with an eating disorder, please visit https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/help-support/contact-helpline and speak to someone immediately.
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In this special extended episode of Shut The Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle, they discuss the importance of embracing a joy-filled life. They talk about what it means to find joy and happiness in the everyday moments alongside the extraordinary ones as well. They intentionally look at the difference between joy and happiness and take on misnomers about both of them.
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What are we shutting up? The "I should be happier than I am now" mentality that often finds us missing opportunities for simple joys.
Show Summary
- Candace and Jenny play Confetti Like Praise and find themselves backpedaling from the most awefulsome and awkward unintentional conversation.
- Won’t He Do It! finds Jenny and Candace celebrating a review and listener that inspires us all to laugh our butts off!
- Candace walks us through the differences between joy and happiness.
- Matthew 5:2-12 (The Passion Translation) shows us a glimpse into Jesus’ greatest joy sermon from the famous sermon on the mount.
- Candace describes the differences between gratification and satisfaction and how that affects our daily happiness and joy.
- Candace mentions three different scriptures to find hope and transform our thinking and consideration of the circumstances we face that attempt to destroy our joy: Philippians 4:8-9, James 1:2, and 2 Corinthians 10:5.
- Jenny speaks encouragement to a listener (maybe it could be you?) that is feeling anger more prevalent than joy.
- In the segment, You Said What?!, Jenny introduces us to a listener from Texas that struggles with feelings of needing to control the happiness of not only herself, but her family as well. Candace and Jenny give some encouragement on how to manage those thoughts, expectations, and shut that should up.
- In He Said What?!, Candace discusses the “grin and bear it theology” verses real joy and how to develop consideration in seasons of conflict and opposition.
- Candace challenges us to see opposition as an opportunity for not only joy, but to be made perfect.
Links Mentioned in the Show:
Defiant Joy Study Guide: What Happens When You're Full of It By Candace Payne >> https://amzn.to/32ZXWgx
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In this episode of Shut The Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle, they discuss why you should rest. They talk about what it means to develop a rhythm of rest in a world that so often celebrates hustle and hurry. They intentionally look at what rest not only looks like, but the value that it adds to your daily and eternal life.
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What are we shutting up? The "I should hustle mentality" that's produced from a desire to keep up with the pace of the world around us.
Show Summary
- Jenny reveals a life long struggle: she is not a master rester. She also reveals health struggles that stemmed from weariness and led to a physical move as a family from New York to Florida.
- Jenny shares how a simple prayer would point to a change from hustling to developing a rhythm of rest.
- Candace and Jenny walk through what the Bible says about practical and physical rest vs. spiritual rest.
- Matthew 11:28 says, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
- Candace challenges us to think about what it means for our souls to be settled.
- Jenny and Candace say the word “sabbath” about a million times. So, ya know. That’s fun to listen to.
- Hebrews 4:9-10 says, “There still remains a place of rest, a true Sabbath, for the people of God because those who enter into salvation’s rest lay down their labors in the same way that God entered into a Sabbath rest from His.” Candace and Jenny speak to following the example God gives by keeping a day of rest...and how that sustains and refuels us for the days we must hustle harder than others.
- Jenny shares this quote from Timothy Keller that nearly set Candace dancing around the room with a church hankie: “The Sabbath gives us both theological and practical help in managing one of our primary resources: our time.”
- Candace challenges us to stop and pray to develop a rhythm of rest.
- Listener, Jackie, calls in a shares her struggle to find time alone with God. Candace and Jenny weigh in on what they do personally to make those moments a priority to find rest.
Candace is an expert at buying stuff! Listen to the show to hear what she thinks about this:
Deep Tissue Cordless Massage Gun > https://amzn.to/2LulYKw
SHARE YOUR SHOULD
Don't just listen, take action! Candace + Jenny challenge you to share your own personal journey of rest.
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In this episode of Shut The Should Up with Candace Payne + Jenny Randle, they discuss why you should have said something. They talk about their polar opposite experiences on when you should and shouldn't speak up. Though their experiences are different, they both agree that your voice is valuable and shouldn't be diminished because of fear, weariness, shame or pain. So, prayerfully filter what you have to say through Scripture, and watch as God empowers you to speak life to others.
Plus stay tuned for a sneak peek of next week’s episode and a cool little gadget you should think about buying!
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What are we shutting up?
The "I should stay quiet" that's produced from insecurity or shame and the unhealthy excuses we use to justify our silence.
Show Summary
- Jenny shares about a relationship that diminished her voice in her 20s. She didn’t make connections at her dream job because she didn’t find value in her voice. But God did a work in her. And now she helps other women find their voice too.
- You should filter what you say through love (Ephesians 4:2). Candace shares a moment with a loved one and felt conviction about the things she could have said.
- Brynn from Tennessee calls and reminds us that we have a voice.
- Sometimes our voices are hiding behind shame. Shame doesn’t define who we are. It's the opposite of conviction. The Holy Spirit convictions, corrects and leads us into all truth. Conviction is never meant to harm us but to work things out for our good.
- Whether it’s in navigating conflict or encouragement with relationships, there is freedom in knowing that we have a voice and should speak up.
- The more you understand the message of the Gospel, the stronger your voice can grow. When Jesus becomes the center of your life, you’ll grow in intimacy with Him and find out who you are.
- Scripture reminds us that what we say matters. Your words kill, give life and filters into our actions.
Candace is an expert at buying stuff! Listen to the show to hear what she thinks about these mentioned links:
- Apple AirPods with Charging Case > https://amzn.to/2zCTIyp
- Raycon E100 Waterproof Wireless Earbuds > https://amzn.to/2ZCVAC5
Don't just listen, but take action! Candace and Jenny challenge you to share your voice and lean into to what God is prompting you to say to those around you. It's important and matters!
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In this intro episode on why You Should Listen to This Show, you'll catch a sneak into what the podcast show will actually be about, and get to know co-hosts Candace + Jenny and their (pretend) rivalry. Plus you'll hear from a guest caller who "SHOULD HERSELF REAL BAD".
Tell us about the “should” in your life and get involved.
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Show Summary
- Together Candace + Jenny are on a mission to uncover different things that we tell ourselves we should and shouldn’t do
- Our series will focus on finding freedom from those things and empower you to pursue next steps within your faith journey
- Hear from caller, Jennifer, as she talks about the “should” she ain’t got time for
- Stay tuned for the first episode on 9/9/19!
Meet Candace Payne - author, speaker and viral sensation.
This “Chewbacca” mom and wife shares messages of joy and laughter through her books:
- Simple Joys
- Defiant Joy Study Guide
- Laugh It Up!
- Also mentioned, watch the video (here) that has brought over 76 million viewers to tears of joy
Follow Candace on Facebook, Instagram, and through her website:
- Candace's Website
Meet Jenny Randle - creative ninja, author, and speaker.
Check out her resources:
- Freedom Devotionals (freebie)
- Courageous Creative (book)
Follow Jenny on Facebook, Instagram, and through her website:
- Jenny's Website
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In the meantime, stop shoulding yourself, there's so much more in you!
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