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What’s it really like to meet your baby for the first time after an international surrogacy journey while adjusting to parenthood in a foreign country? In this episode, Whitney and Hugh share the raw, beautiful, and unexpectedly humorous realities of welcoming their child in Ukraine and what new parents everywhere can learn from their experience.

Whitney Shefte is an new parent, documentary filmmaker and journalist. She is currently working on a documentary film about her surrogacy journey and the state of the surrogacy industry around the world. See some of her work on her website.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

Warm Welcome and Support: Whitney and Hugh felt fully accepted as parents by the Ukrainian hospital staff during their surrogacy experience and appreciated the guidance they received.
Adjusting to Local Realities: While in Ukraine, they found the environment comfortable and safe, with access to all needed amenities, and noticed daily life felt calm and familiar despite the country’s unique circumstances.
Parenting Challenges Abroad: They navigated sleep deprivation and newborn care in another country, found affordable help like a night nurse, and encouraged others to accept support when needed.
Efficient Documentation Process: Obtaining the birth certificate and passport was fast and smooth, especially with advance preparation and help from local coordinators.
Practical Tips for Future Parents: Don’t overpack (supplies are easily found locally), prepare documents in advance, use translation apps, and accept that it’s normal to experience a wide range of emotions as new parents through surrogacy.

Todays guest, Whitney Shefte, can be found online at:

Blog:https://whitneyshefte.tumblr.com/

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/wshefte/

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

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At the very start of her surrogacy journey, Adesola opens up about a rollercoaster of discoveries, unexpected diagnoses, tough decisions, and the powerful self-worth lessons she learned along the way. With honesty and warmth, Adesola and Maria Feekes dive into the unique challenges of finding hope after heartbreak, navigating international options, and breaking taboos around fertility struggles. If you’ve ever felt alone or overwhelmed on a path to parenthood, this candid conversation offers a rare blend of practical advice, emotional insight, and true inspiration. Don’t miss the first chapter of a story that promises to redefine what it means to build a family.

Adesola joins the show to share why letting go of expectations and embracing every path to parenthood can open doors to hope, healing, and a sense of self-worth that transcends biology.

KEY TOPICS

Adesola’s early fertility struggles and the emotional impact of being diagnosed with premature ovarian failure [02:06]
The process and mindset shift from hoping to carry a pregnancy to choosing surrogacy and accepting the role of egg donation [03:13]
The importance of letting go of societal judgment, embracing self-worth, and finding support during fertility challenges [05:39]
Navigating international fertility logistics including selecting a donor in the US, surrogacy in Mexico, and biotransport of embryos [15:33]
Advice on managing timelines, being patient with the process, and trusting doctors to optimize success in fertility journeys [24:19]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website:www.smartpathfertilityintl.com

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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What does it really take to become a surrogate - and what happens before embryo transfer?

In this episode, Maria Feekes sits down with Megan, a first-time gestational surrogate in the USA, to share a real behind-the-scenes look at the surrogacy process from the surrogate’s perspective, right before embryo transfer day.

If you’re wondering:

how to become a surrogate
what happens before embryo transfer in surrogacy
surrogate screening, medical tests, and matching process
what motivates someone to be a surrogate
what the emotional experience of surrogacy is really like

— this episode offers honest, first-hand insight.

Megan shares:

Her personal journey to becoming a surrogate, inspired by her own adoption story
What the screening and matching process actually involves, including medical testing and background checks
The unexpected challenges and delays that can happen before transfer
The role of support systems, from coordinators to family and friends
The emotional reality of preparing for embryo transfer, including boundaries, expectations, and trust

This is a real, unfiltered look at surrogacy from the surrogate’s side, helping intended parents better understand the dedication, care, and commitment behind the journey.

If you are considering surrogacy in the USA, this episode will give you a deeper appreciation of the process - and the people who make it possible.

About the GuestMegan is a first-time gestational surrogate and mother of two. Inspired by her own experience as an adoptee, she chose to become a surrogate to help other families grow, bringing empathy, dedication, and a strong sense of purpose to the journey.

KEY TOPICS1. Surrogacy journey to embryo transfer: patience, delays, and preparation [00:02:24] 2. Why become a surrogate? Personal motivation and adoption story [00:04:12] 3. Surrogate screening process: medical tests, background checks, and matching [00:08:06] 4. Surrogacy support system: coordinators, family, and community [00:23:56] 5. Emotional realities of surrogacy: boundaries, trust, and creating life for others [00:29:56]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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What rights do surrogates have in the United States - and what should intended parents understand before starting?

In this episode, Maria Feekes sits down with attorney Kristen Armstrong to break down surrogate rights and legal protections in US surrogacy, including contracts, autonomy, and the real decisions that shape the journey.

If you’re researching:

surrogacy laws in the USA and surrogate rights
what is allowed in surrogacy contracts (US)
surrogate autonomy and medical decision-making
gestational carrier rights by state
risks and responsibilities for intended parents

— this episode gives you clear, experience-based insight.

Kristen explains:

How state laws impact surrogate rights and protections, and why choosing a surrogate-friendly state matters
What body autonomy means in surrogacy, including decisions around medical care, abortion, and doctor choice
Common points of conflict in surrogacy contracts - and how to align expectations early
When and how surrogates or intended parents can change their minds before pregnancy
How compensation, benefits, and overlooked financial protections are structured

This is a practical legal discussion of US surrogacy from the surrogate’s perspective, helping intended parents better understand the framework that protects both sides.

If you are considering surrogacy in the United States, this episode will help you approach the process with more clarity, respect, and confidence.

About the GuestKristen Armstrong is an attorney with over 18 years of experience in healthcare law, medical tourism, and surrogacy. She represents surrogates in contracts with intended parents and in establishing parental rights, ensuring protection, clarity, and advocacy throughout the process.

Learn more: https://globalhealthcarelaw.com

KEY TOPICS 1. Surrogate rights in the USA: how state laws shape protections and legal structure [00:03:09] 2. Body autonomy in surrogacy: medical decisions, abortion, and contractual limits [00:05:49] 3. Surrogacy contract risks: common conflicts and why shared values matter [00:08:48] 4. Can you change your mind in surrogacy? Legal considerations before pregnancy [00:11:50] 5. Surrogate compensation and benefits: what is included and often overlooked [00:16:41]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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Why is my surrogacy taking so long - and is this normal?

In this solo episode, Maria Feekes answers one of the most common and stressful questions intended parents ask: why the surrogacy process can feel slow and unpredictable, even when everything seems to be done “right.”

If you’re experiencing:

delays in your surrogacy journey
uncertainty around timelines and next steps
frustration waiting for matching, medical clearance, or embryo transfer
questions like “how long does surrogacy really take?”

— this episode will give you clarity, reassurance, and practical perspective.

Maria walks through:

What a typical surrogacy timeline looks like - and where delays most often happen
Why biological, medical, and logistical factors can slow the process, even with strong planning
How IVF and embryo transfer timing impacts the overall journey
Why delays are often about optimizing outcomes, not because something is wrong
Practical ways to cope with waiting, stress, and lack of control during fertility treatment

This is an honest, experience-based look at surrogacy delays and timelines, designed to help you feel more grounded and informed while navigating the waiting period.

If your surrogacy journey feels slow or uncertain, this episode will remind you that you are not alone - and that progress is still happening, even when it’s not visible.

KEY TOPICS 1. Why surrogacy takes so long: emotional impact of waiting and uncertainty [00:24] 2. Surrogacy timeline vs reality: expectations vs unpredictable delays [01:10] 3. Common causes of delays in surrogacy and IVF: medical, biological, and logistics [04:19] 4. Why delays can improve outcomes in fertility and surrogacy [06:11] 5. Coping with waiting in surrogacy: shifting from frustration to trust and patience [13:26]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website: mariafeekes.com

Facebook: facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram: instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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Curious what really happens behind the scenes of an international surrogacy journey? In this episode, Maria Feekes sits down with Damion, a determined dad navigating the complexities of embryo creation in Mexico City. Packed with surprising lessons on the science, finances, and emotional ups and downs of building a family abroad, this conversation pulls back the curtain on what hopeful parents wish they knew before they started. Whether you’re considering surrogacy or just intrigued by powerful stories of resilience, you won’t want to miss these hard-earned insights and candid moments.

Damion is a corporate chef, real estate investor, and intended father navigating the intricate process of embryo creation and surrogacy. Currently based in Polanco, Mexico City, Damion brings both determination and resourcefulness to his family-building journey. Researching genetic testing, managing costs, and collaborating with medical teams across borders. His story highlights the realities and lessons learned while pursuing surrogacy internationally and the importance of persistence, preparation, and finding the right support system along the way.

KEY TOPICS

The financial planning challenges of fertility journeys in Mexico vs. the US [00:03:12]
Deep-diving into DNA fragmentation, oxidative stress, and advanced sperm testing for embryo creation [00:05:19]
Navigating global insurance coverage for fertility treatments and leveraging US benefits abroad [00:07:10]
Comparing medical protocols and lab technologies between Mexican and US fertility clinics, including the use of Zymot [00:12:18]
The emotional reality of setbacks, support from partners, and the power of staying proactive through uncertainty [00:20:01]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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What happens when you’ve done everything right — but your path to parenthood still feels impossible?

In this episode, Maria Feekes sits down with Irina to share her deeply personal story of infertility, surrogacy across Ukraine and the United States, and building a family through uncertainty.

If you’re navigating:

fertility struggles and loss of control
surrogacy in Ukraine vs USA
uncertainty and emotional challenges during IVF or surrogacy
questions about resilience, timing, and trust in the process

— this conversation offers both perspective and reassurance.

Irina shares:

How she navigated surrogacy across two countries, including Ukraine and the United States
What it was like pursuing multiple paths to parenthood in parallel, especially during COVID and global uncertainty
The emotional reality of infertility, including grief, loss of control, and managing expectations
What life looks like raising three young children and a teenager after surrogacy
How shifting from control to gratitude and acceptance changed her experience
How technology and AI can support fertility journeys, from research to emotional support

This is a powerful and honest fertility and surrogacy story, showing that even when the journey is unpredictable, it can still lead to something meaningful.

If you are in the middle of your fertility or surrogacy journey, this episode will remind you that you are not alone — and that hope can take unexpected forms.

About the GuestIrina is a mother of multiple children, including babies born through surrogacy, whose journey has spanned both Ukraine and the United States. She shares an honest and reflective perspective on infertility, resilience, and building a family across borders.

KEY TOPICS 1. Fertility journey and loss of control: building trust and support systems [00:02:09] 2. Surrogacy in Ukraine vs USA: navigating multiple paths during COVID and global uncertainty [00:06:11] 3. Life after surrogacy: raising three toddlers and a teenager [00:10:04] 4. Letting go of perfectionism: gratitude, resilience, and meaning in fertility struggles [00:14:01] 5. How AI and technology support fertility journeys and decision-making [00:32:02]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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What is it really like to have twins through surrogacy — and should you transfer two embryos?

In this episode, Maria Feekes sits down with Stacie and Iran to share their real-life experience of having twins through surrogacy, including the emotional decision behind double embryo transfer, the risks involved, and what life looks like raising twins.

If you’re researching:

can you have twins through surrogacy
double embryo transfer risks and success rates
IVF twins pregnancy risks for surrogate and babies
single vs double embryo transfer decision
what it’s like raising twins after surrogacy

— this episode gives you both practical insight and real-life perspective.

Stacie and Iran share:

How they approached the decision to pursue double embryo transfer
The emotional and medical considerations behind hoping for twins
Honest discussion of the risks and ethical questions surrounding twin pregnancies
What daily life actually looks like raising twins — from routines to the unique bond between siblings
How they supported their older child and navigated family dynamics
Their advice for intended parents on resilience, partnership, and self-care

This is not just about twins — it’s a real, unfiltered look at surrogacy decisions and family life after IVF, helping intended parents understand both the hope and the responsibility that comes with transferring two embryos.

If you are considering surrogacy and embryo transfer options, this episode will help you think through one of the most important decisions in your journey.

About the GuestsStacie and Iran are parents to three children, including twin girls born through surrogacy after years of fertility treatments and setbacks. They share an honest perspective on the realities of twin pregnancy, family dynamics, and the lessons they learned advocating for their journey.

KEY TOPICS 1. Double embryo transfer decision: emotional and medical considerations for twins [00:38] 2. Risks of twins in surrogacy: medical, ethical, and practical realities [02:08] 3. Raising twins after surrogacy: routines, challenges, and sibling bond [12:22] 4. Family dynamics with twins: supporting older children and transitions [19:13] 5. Advice for intended parents: resilience, self-care, and partnership [22:20]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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What happens when your fertility journey doesn’t follow the plan you’ve worked so hard to create?

In this episode, Maria Feekes sits down with Keena to share a deeply personal story of infertility, loss, and ultimately finding hope through surrogacy.

If you’re experiencing:

fertility struggles and emotional ups and downs
grief after loss or failed treatments
stress around timelines and feeling out of control
comparison to others on their fertility journey

— this conversation will resonate on a very real level.

Keena shares:

What it felt like to move from control and planning into uncertainty during her fertility journey
How she navigated grief, setbacks, and emotional challenges along the way
The shift from focusing on timelines to embracing acceptance and perspective
The importance of support systems, community, and sharing your story
How resilience is built by focusing on what you can control — and letting go of what you can’t

This is a powerful and honest conversation about infertility and surrogacy, offering reassurance, perspective, and emotional support for anyone walking a similar path.

If you are in the middle of your fertility or surrogacy journey, this episode will remind you that you are not alone — and that hope can take unexpected forms.

About the GuestKeena shares her personal fertility and surrogacy journey, offering honest insight into the emotional challenges of loss, the pressure of timelines, and the transformation that comes with letting go of control.

KEY TOPICS 1. Letting go of control during fertility and surrogacy: why timelines create stress [06:00] 2. Emotional challenges in infertility: grief, loss, and finding support [10:19] 3. Gaining perspective during fertility struggles: gratitude and avoiding comparison [12:21] 4. The importance of community in the fertility and surrogacy journey [15:30] 5. Building resilience through acceptance and navigating uncertainty [27:37]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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What is surrogacy in Mexico really like from the surrogate’s perspective?

In this episode of Your Fertility Story, Maria and Anna speak with Genny, a surrogate mother in Mexico who recently carried a baby for intended parents from the United States. Genny shares her honest experience becoming a surrogate, including the fears she faced before starting the surrogacy process, the emotional highs and lows of the journey, and the important role family support played throughout the experience.

This episode explores what it is really like to be a surrogate mother in Mexico, how trust is built between surrogates and intended parents, and why emotional support and communication are essential during the surrogacy journey.

Whether you are considering surrogacy in Mexico, researching international surrogacy, exploring IVF and embryo transfer journeys, or wanting to better understand the surrogate experience, Genny’s story offers a rare and heartfelt look inside the process.

Genny joins Your Fertility Story to discuss:

Why she decided to become a surrogate mother
How she prepared emotionally for surrogacy
The importance of agency and family support
How she explained surrogacy to her son
What intended parents should understand about the surrogate experience

KEY TOPICS

Genny’s motivation to become a surrogate mother and help another family while supporting her own family [02:10]
Overcoming fears about surrogacy and building trust through research, education, and agency support [05:52]
The emotional realities of being a surrogate and the importance of family support during the surrogacy journey [11:38]
How Genny explained surrogacy to her son and involved her children in the experience with honesty and openness [21:10]
What makes intended parents and surrogacy agencies feel trustworthy and supportive from a surrogate’s perspective [32:11]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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What does surrogacy in the USA really look like - legally, financially, and emotionally?

In this episode, Maria Feekes sits down with leading reproductive attorney Melissa Brisman to break down surrogacy in the United States, including legal requirements, contracts, risks, and the realities intended parents should understand before starting.

If you’re researching:

surrogacy in USA laws by state
how surrogacy works in the United States
surrogacy contracts and legal risks USA
cost of surrogacy in USA and financial protections
escrow and insurance in US surrogacy

— this episode gives you practical, experience-based insights.

Melissa shares:

How surrogacy in the USA has evolved, including rapid growth, technology advances, and the expansion of agencies
The legal structure of US surrogacy, including how state laws impact intended parents
What goes into surrogacy contracts, including difficult decisions and emotional considerations
Why escrow management, insurance, and professional guidance are critical to protecting your journey
How to build the right team and manage expectations around timelines, uncertainty, and decision-making

This is a real-world look at surrogacy in the USA, combining legal expertise with practical advice to help intended parents avoid costly mistakes and move forward with confidence.

If you are considering surrogacy in the United States, this episode will help you understand both the opportunities and the risks before you begin.

KEY TOPICS 1. Surrogacy in the USA: growth of the industry and how the process has evolved [00:03:10] 2. US surrogacy laws by state: legal structure and key differences [00:05:10] 3. Surrogacy contracts in the USA: legal and emotional considerations [00:10:24] 4. Escrow, insurance, and financial protection in US surrogacy [00:21:11] 5. Choosing the right surrogacy team and managing expectations [00:27:55]

About the Guest

Melissa B. Brisman is a leading reproductive law attorney with decades of experience guiding intended parents through surrogacy in the United States and internationally. She has helped shape surrogacy law, including contributing to the New Jersey Gestational Carrier Act, and has supported thousands of families through complex legal and emotional decisions in assisted reproduction.

Todays guest, Melissa B. Brisman, can be found online at:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MelissaBBrismanEsq?fref=ts

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissabrismanesq/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaBrisman/videos

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissabrisman/

X: https://twitter.com/melissabrisman

Tik Tok: Melissabrisman

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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Is surrogacy in Ukraine legal — and who qualifies for the program?

In this episode, Maria Feekes speaks with experienced attorney Oksana Lutsenko to explain surrogacy laws in Ukraine, including eligibility requirements, legal parentage, and the process of bringing your baby home after birth.

If you’re researching:

is surrogacy legal in Ukraine for foreigners
who qualifies for surrogacy in Ukraine (legal requirements)
surrogacy laws Ukraine birth certificate parents’ rights
genetic link requirements for Ukraine surrogacy
Ukraine surrogacy exit process and embassy timeline

— this episode provides clear, experience-based answers.

Oksana explains:

How surrogacy laws in Ukraine work and why the legal framework is considered one of the most structured internationally
Who qualifies for surrogacy, including medical criteria and marriage requirements for intended parents
How birth certificates are issued in Ukraine, with intended parents listed and no mention of the surrogate
The role of genetic link requirements in establishing legal parentage
The full exit process, including embassy procedures, documentation, and how long it takes to bring your baby home

This is a practical legal guide to surrogacy in Ukraine, designed to help intended parents understand the process before starting their journey.

If you are considering international surrogacy in Ukraine, this episode will help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

KEY TOPICS1. Surrogacy laws in Ukraine: who qualifies and why legal clarity matters [00:02:01] 2. Surrogacy requirements in Ukraine: medical criteria and marriage rules [00:03:09] 3. Birth certificate in Ukraine surrogacy: parents’ rights and no surrogate listed [00:06:08] 4. Genetic link requirement in Ukraine surrogacy and legal parentage [00:08:05] 5. Ukraine surrogacy exit process: embassy steps and timeline to bring baby home [00:13:00]

About Oksana Lutsenko:

Ukrainian lawyer with more than 10 years of professional experience in the field of assisted reproductive technologies and surrogacy law. Since 2014, she has been providing legal support for international and domestic surrogacy programs, including contract drafting, parental rights documentation, coordination with clinics and agencies, and guidance on Ukrainian family and reproductive legislation.

Our guest, Oksana Lutsenko, can be reached at:

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/oklutsenko/

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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In this episode, Maria Feekes sits down with Mexican attorney Ramiro Alejandro García Flores to break down surrogacy laws in Mexico, including the real legal process, parental rights, and common mistakes that can delay or derail a journey.

If you’re researching:

is surrogacy legal in Mexico for foreigners
surrogacy in Mexico laws by state (Tabasco, Sinaloa, Mexico City)
how parentage is established in Mexico surrogacy
what is amparo in surrogacy Mexico
do intended parents need DNA testing or travel to Mexico

— this episode gives you clear, experience-based answers.

Ramiro explains:

How surrogacy laws in Mexico work, including differences between states and the role of Supreme Court guidance
The amparo process and how intended parents establish legal parentage (pre-birth vs post-birth)
What the new voluntary jurisdiction process means and why contract ratification before embryo transfer is critical
Common misconceptions about DNA testing, power of attorney, and parental presence in Mexico
How procreative intent and human rights principles shape surrogacy outcomes in Mexican courts

This is a practical, legal breakdown of surrogacy in Mexico, designed to help intended parents understand the real process - not just assumptions or outdated information.

If you are considering surrogacy in Mexico, this episode will help you avoid costly mistakes and move forward with clarity and confidence.

KEY TOPICS

Surrogacy laws in Mexico: legal foundations, state differences, and Supreme Court guidance [04:32]
Amparo process explained: how legal parentage is established in Mexico (pre-birth vs post-birth) [08:36]
Voluntary jurisdiction in Mexico surrogacy: why contract ratification before transfer matters [18:12]
Surrogacy myths in Mexico: DNA testing, power of attorney, and travel requirements [35:26]
Procreative intent and human rights in Mexican surrogacy law [49:24]

About the Guest:

Ramiro Alejandro García Flores has been working with surrogacy and assisted reproduction cases in Mexico for over 14 years. He personally manages the Amparo filings and court procedures for the families and oversees the legal process from preparation through the final court steps.

Ramiro Alejandro García Flores, can be found online at:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramiro-alejandro-garcía-flores-2b135593/

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website:mariafeekes.com

Facebook:facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram:instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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How does embryo transport actually work - and is it safe to ship embryos between clinics or across countries?

In this episode, Maria Feekes explains embryo transport step by step, including how embryos are safely moved between fertility clinics in the USA and internationally (Mexico, Ukraine, and beyond).

If you’re researching:

how embryo transport works in IVF
shipping embryos between clinics
embryo transport international safety
can embryos be damaged during transport
IVF embryo shipping USA to Mexico or abroad

— this episode gives you a clear, real-world understanding of the process.

Maria walks through:

How embryos, eggs, and sperm are tracked and stored inside embryology labs before transport
What embryo transport containers actually look like (and why they are not like traditional freezers)
How long embryos stay safely frozen during transport and how delays are handled
The difference between cargo vs hand-carry embryo transport, and why it matters
Whether embryos can be damaged during shipping and how risk is minimized
The full documentation and coordination process between clinics and couriers
Key regulations for embryo transport, including FDA requirements in the USA and international considerations

This is a practical, behind-the-scenes explanation of IVF embryo transport, designed to help intended parents feel informed and confident when moving embryos between clinics or countries.

If you are planning surrogacy or IVF abroad, understanding embryo transport is a critical part of protecting your future family.

KEY TOPICS

Emotional concerns about embryo transport: is it safe to move embryos, sperm, and eggs? [00:10]
How IVF labs track and label embryos and eggs for safe transport between clinics [05:11]
Embryo transport explained: liquid nitrogen tanks, hand-carry vs cargo, and shipping timelines [13:14]
Embryo shipping process: paperwork, verification, and clinic-to-clinic coordination [23:03]
Embryo transport regulations: FDA rules, customs, and international legal requirements [26:07]

Your host, Maria Feekes, can be found online at:

Website: smartpathfertilityintl.com

Website: mariafeekes.com

Facebook: facebook.com/mariafeekes

Instagram: instagram.com/mariafeekes

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-feekes-738576127/

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In this episode, Maria Feekes breaks down surrogacy in the USA, Mexico, and Ukraine, focusing on what intended parents are actively searching for: cost, legal parentage, safety, and timeline.

If you’re researching:

surrogacy in USA cost vs Mexico cost
is surrogacy in Ukraine legal for foreigners
surrogacy in Mexico safety and legal process
whose name goes on the birth certificate in surrogacy
how long surrogacy takes step by step

— this episode gives you clear, real-world answers based on experience.

Maria explains:

How surrogacy laws work in the USA, Mexico, and Ukraine, including parental recognition and birth certificate outcomes
The real breakdown of surrogacy costs in each country, including surrogate compensation and financial protections
What “safety” actually means in surrogacy: from medical care and legal frameworks to current conditions and risk considerations
Surrogacy timeline step by step, including insurance waiting periods, matching, and embryo transfer timing
How to evaluate your options and choose the right country based on legal fit, budget, comfort, and trust

This is a practical, no-fluff comparison of surrogacy in the USA vs Mexico vs Ukraine, designed to help you make a confident, informed decision before starting your journey.

If you are considering surrogacy in the USA or international surrogacy, this episode will give you the clarity you need to move forward.

KEY TOPICS

Legal differences and parental recognition in USA, Mexico, and Ukraine surrogacy [03:03]
Environmental and program safety questions, including military conflict consideration and insurance concerns [12:00]
Comparing cost structures, surrogate compensation, and financial protections across countries [16:13]
Timeline realities, insurance waiting periods, and how long the journey takes in each location [24:48]
Decision-making criteria: legal fit, budget, comfort, and trust when choosing a surrogacy destination [29:10]

Thinking about starting your surrogacy journey?

Feel free to reach out. Maria and her team support intended parents in the USA, Mexico, and Ukraine.

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In this episode, Maria Feekes sits down with Rich and Daniel, a Melbourne-based couple sharing their real experience navigating international surrogacy. From comparing the USA, Canada, Mexico, and Colombia to understanding Australia’s legal limitations, they walk through how they made one of the most important decisions of their lives.

They openly discuss what it actually takes to choose a surrogacy agency, how they approached egg donor selection, and what helped them move forward with confidence—even when the process felt overwhelming.

This conversation also explores the emotional side of the journey: managing expectations, building trust with a surrogate across language and distance, and staying grounded through the unpredictability of embryo development and transfer.

If you’re considering surrogacy in Mexico, or trying to understand how international surrogacy works for same-sex couples, this episode gives you a clear, honest, and practical perspective from intended parents who are living it.

KEY TOPICS

Surrogacy in Mexico vs USA and Canada: How a gay couple from Australia chose their path [01:09]
How to choose a surrogacy agency: What actually matters (trust, transparency, and flexibility) [06:03]
Egg donor selection in surrogacy: How intended parents make this difficult decision [09:21]
Choosing and meeting a surrogate: Managing expectations, trust, and language barriers [15:47]
Embryo creation results explained: Expectations, milestones, and handling uncertainty [18:51]

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What if you could screen your embryos for over 1,200 genetic conditions before pregnancy even begins? In this episode, genetic counselor Maria Katz reveals her company’s groundbreaking technology that is changing the way you think about your family's future.

Maria Katz is a passionate genetic counselor with a background in high-risk obstetrics and a deep commitment to supporting families impacted by genetic conditions. Now part of the team at Orchid Genetics, Maria specializes in reproductive genetics and embryo screening, helping families understand and navigate their genetic testing options. Drawing from her experience in both clinical genetics and the latest advancements in whole genome sequencing, Maria is dedicated to providing comprehensive information that empowers families to make informed choices on their fertility journeys.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

Orchid Genetics’ Whole Genome Screening: Orchid offers a new form of preimplantation genetic testing (PGT) that goes beyond traditional methods by performing whole genome sequencing on embryos. This allows for a much deeper and broader analysis than standard PGT approaches.
Limitations of Standard PGT: Traditional tests like PGT-A and PGT-M have significant limitations. PGT-A only counts chromosomes (like counting books in a library), while PGT-M tests for just one specific condition (one chapter in a book), often missing many other possible genetic risks.
Scope of Orchid’s Testing: Orchid screens for approximately 1,200 genetic conditions, including many serious neurodevelopmental disorders, birth defects, and hereditary cancer risks—far surpassing the reach of current standard methods.
Process and Accessibility: The biopsy process for Orchid’s testing is identical to standard PGT, requiring no extra steps or changes from IVF clinics or embryologists. Consultation with an Orchid genetic counselor is free, and families can connect at any stage for advice and information.
Cost and Value: While the cost per embryo is higher, the comprehensive insights and potential peace of mind offered by Orchid’s technology can be invaluable—especially for families at risk or those who want the fullest understanding of their embryos’ genetic health.

Todays guest, Maria Katz, can be found online at:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-katz-72880bb5/

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Join us for an eye-opening episode of Your Fertility Story, where Whitney shares her resilient journey through the world of surrogacy in Ukraine. Against the backdrop of the war, she dives into the ethical nuances and unexpected hurdles faced when choosing surrogacy abroad. With candid insights into her personal trials and triumphs, Whitney reveals how her determination, filmmaker's vision, and the unwavering spirit of Ukrainian surrogates shape her fertility journey. Get ready for a story that explores the heart of what it means to create a family against all odds.

Whitney Shefte is an intended parent, documentary filmmaker and journalist. She is currently working on a documentary film about her surrogacy journey and the state of the surrogacy industry around the world. See some of her work on her website.

Here are the key takeaways from this episode:

Ethics in Surrogacy: Whitney emphasized choosing surrogacy destinations like Ukraine that provide ethical treatment and compensation for surrogates, along with legal security for intended parents.
Fertility Struggles: Her story of overcoming multiple failed IVF attempts and working with several surrogates underlines perseverance in the face of challenges.
Ukrainian Resilience: Whitney noted the resilience and determination of Ukrainians, especially surrogates, to continue their roles amidst the war.
Support Systems: The importance of having a support network was highlighted as essential for navigating the emotional and logistical challenges of the fertility journey.
Insightful Documentary: Whitney is creating a documentary to shed light on surrogacy in Ukraine, addressing ethical concerns and educating others about the journey's complexities.

Todays guest, Whitney Shefte, can be found online at:

Website: https://www.whitneyshefte.com/

Blog: https://whitneyshefte.tumblr.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wshefte/

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Join Maria Feekes in this episode of "Your Fertility Story" as she explores postpartum nutrition with expert Kameryn. Discover the importance of preparing for postpartum well-being, learn impactful nutrition strategies, and gather practical tips for a smooth recovery. Whether you're on a fertility journey or a new mom, gain valuable insights that can enhance your postpartum experience and help you prioritize self-care.

Kameryn is a devoted mother of three who champions the importance of postpartum nutrition. With children aged four, two, and six months, she expertly balances family life and self-care. Her interest in postpartum wellness, inspired by her positive experiences and her sisters' journeys, led her to establish the blog Empowered Mothers. Kameryn shares her insights and empowers new moms with valuable guidance. She further honed her expertise with a certification in postpartum nutrition from Postpartum University. Her mission is to assist mothers in creating personalized postpartum plans for optimal recovery and well-being.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

Importance of Early Planning for Postpartum: Begin thinking about your postpartum care plan by mid-pregnancy, focusing on what support you might need in terms of meals and rest.
Focus on Nutrition: Post-birth nutrition is crucial. Prioritize warm foods and calorie-dense meals, like bone broths and iron-rich foods, to aid in recovery. Avoid cold foods as they can delay healing.
The 5-5-5 Rest Rule: Follow the guideline of five days in bed, five days on the bed, and five days around the bed to ensure proper rest and recovery after childbirth.
Saying Yes to Help: Be open to accepting help and support from family, friends, and community. Don't hesitate to ask for assistance and involve others in your postpartum plan.
Value of Rest and Self-Care: Prioritizing rest and self-care is beneficial not only for your own well-being but also for your family's. It can help reduce postpartum anxiety and depression, allowing you to be more present and capable for your loved ones.

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Discover the profound resilience and unwavering determination that characterized the continuation of surrogacy programs in Ukraine amidst the unexpected invasion on February 24, 2022. In this episode, Ivanna and Maria offer a poignant reflection on navigating harrowing challenges, underscoring the steadfast commitment to safeguarding pregnancies and supporting families during a time of crisis. Gain insight into the extraordinary measures taken to overcome logistical and emotional hurdles in a story that speaks to the heart of perseverance and hope.

Ivanna is the remarkable head of the coordination team for our Ukrainian surrogacy programs, including surrogacy, IVF, and donor programs. With profound resilience and dedication, Ivanna played a pivotal role in maintaining uninterrupted operations of surrogacy programs in Ukraine during the Russian invasion. Her extraordinary leadership and unwavering commitment ensured the safety and success of numerous surrogacy journeys, even amidst extraordinary challenges. Ivanna's support and coordination skills continue to inspire and facilitate families in their fertility journeys.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

The Ukrainian surrogacy programs faced significant challenges during the invasion on February 24, 2022, but demonstrated resilience in safeguarding surrogates and pregnancies.
Ivanna and the team successfully navigated logistical challenges and evacuation processes to continue providing care amidst the crisis.
Trust and strong support within the team and from families were vital, ensuring the safety and success of the pregnancies during this turbulent time.
Flexibility and proactive problem-solving were essential strategies, allowing the team to adapt and implement effective contingency plans.
The team's dedication and genuine care exceeded contractual obligations, fostering trust and stronger relationships with the families involved.

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Join us for an inspiring update on Kelly's fertility journey as she shares her experiences of welcoming a second child and embarking on the path to a third, discussing the joys and challenges of building a big family through surrogacy. Discover her heartfelt insights and practical tips for navigating international travel with a growing family.

Kelly, a passionate advocate for building a big family, returns to the Your Fertility Story podcast to share updates on her fertility journey. A mother of two, with a third child on the way through surrogacy, Kelly is living her dream of expanding her family. Her recent experiences include a smooth transition home with her new son and handling the nuances of international travel while welcoming her second child born via surrogacy in Ukraine. Embracing every moment of her growing family, Kelly offers insights and heartfelt stories that inspire and encourage others on similar paths.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

Kelly and her family recently welcomed their second child, a son, and are successfully transitioning to life with a bigger family, despite the challenges like lack of sleep.
Kelly confirmed their commitment to growing their family further, revealing they are already on their third journey with a little girl on the way.
The experience with traveling, especially concerning logistics like airlines and passport issues, provided important lessons, suggesting the need for careful planning when booking flights.
Practical advice shared by Kelly includes traveling light and taking essential items only, which eased their international travel experience with infants.
Kelly emphasized the importance of teamwork and understanding between partners during the challenging phases of travel and transition, as well as maintaining a positive and cohesive family environment.

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Join us on an eye-opening journey with Petra as she shares her expert tips and personal experiences on navigating the challenges of traveling internationally with newborns. From choosing the right stroller to the intricacies of planning a spontaneous flight, this episode is packed with invaluable advice for new parents on the move.

Petra is a well-traveled, research-driven guest who has embarked on two successful fertility journeys with Maria’s team, becoming a mother to a four-month-old girl and a two-month-old boy. With her background as a financial mathematician, she brings a detailed, analytical approach to parenting and travel, making her a valuable source of practical advice for navigating the complexities of traveling with newborns. Drawing from her personal experience and thorough research, Petra shares invaluable insights and best practices on managing international travel logistics, ensuring a smooth and efficient journey for families with young children.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

Thorough Travel Preparation: Petra highlights the importance of planning for travel with newborns, including creating detailed checklists and understanding travel logistics and airline regulations.
Optimal Travel Equipment: Petra discusses her choice of the UppaBaby Vista stroller and considers whether to travel with a car seat or rent one, especially for premature infants.
Feeding During Travel: Petra explains her strategies for managing feedings, such as using prepared formula and accommodating room temperature needs with allowances for potential travel delays.
Security and Booking Tips: Tips are provided on using credit card miles for flexible bookings and applying for TSA PreCheck for quicker security processes when traveling with infants.
Significance of Reliable Planning: Through her experiences, Petra underscores the importance of selecting a trustworthy agency and being well-prepared with necessary documentation for smoother international travel.

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In this poignant Christmas Day episode of "Your Fertility Story," host Maria Feekes delves deep into the emotional highs and lows of the fertility journey. She shares powerful stories of families receiving the gift of new life and others coping with heartbreaking news. Through her reflections on hope, prayer, and perseverance, Maria underscores the unwavering courage it takes to pursue the dream of parenthood. Tune in to be inspired and reminded of the miracles that can happen when you hold onto faith and give your dreams a chance.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

Miracles and Belief: Maria emphasizes the importance of believing in miracles during the holiday season, regardless of one’s religious affiliation, and how this belief can provide hope in the fertility journey.
Emotional Highs and Lows: The episode highlights the contrasting emotions experienced in fertility journeys, illustrated by stories of one family receiving the joy of a miracle birth on Christmas Eve and another family facing the heartbreak of a non-viable pregnancy.
Commitment to Families: Maria stresses her and her team's unwavering commitment to support families through every step of the fertility process, including the emotional investment they make in their clients’ successes and failures.
Giving a Chance: A profound message shared is about the importance of giving embryos a chance, regardless of the potential outcomes, to avoid future regrets about not trying.
Prayer and Support: Maria consistently underlines the power of prayer and communal support, encouraging families to have faith and seek strength from their support systems throughout their fertility journeys.

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In this heartwarming episode, Kelly shares her unique journey of expanding her already big family through surrogacy, the unexpected twists, and the sheer determination that made her dream a reality. Discover how Kelly and her husband navigated financial challenges, international decision-making, and the arrival of not one but two new bundles of joy. Tune in for a story of resilience, love, and the lengths one will go to make a dream come true.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

The journey to their baby girl was swift and filled with determination. Even after an initial attempt with their own eggs and embryos failed, they did not give up and moved forward with the egg donor quickly.
Despite the ongoing war in Ukraine, Kelly and her husband chose a Ukrainian clinic due to financial considerations and found their experience to be positive and well-supported by the clinic's staff.
Kelly and her husband are expecting another baby boy in January through surrogacy, which means their two youngest children will be 5 months apart. This decision stems from their deep desire to have a large family.
Kelly advises families to be proactive and resourceful, sharing that finding a job with surrogacy benefits helped them financially. Her key message to other parents is not to give up on their dreams and to actively search for solutions to make their dreams of parenthood a reality.

Achieving Dreams with Determination: "Just do not give up because if it's meant to be, it's gonna happen and you just have to look for it. It's not just gonna come to you.” - Kelly

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In this heartfelt episode, Lori and Scott share their inspiring journey of embracing parenthood at age 50, navigating societal judgments, and finding extraordinary joy through surrogacy. Lori reveals how her late mother's handwritten notes influenced her dream of passing down family traditions, while the couple discusses the immense support they've received from friends and loved ones. Tune in to hear how they challenge perceptions of age and parenthood, and why they're more excited than ever for their upcoming baby girl.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

Celebrating Late Parenthood: Lori and Scott highlight the positive aspects of having a baby later in life, emphasizing financial stability, fulfillment, and immense happiness brought by their decision to become parents at age 50.
Support and Encouragement: Both Scott and Lori discuss the overwhelming support from friends, family, and loved ones, including their church community, which has been crucial in their journey to parenthood.
Challenging Societal Norms: The guests address societal perceptions and judgments around age and parenting, emphasizing that age should not prevent anyone from being a good parent or pursuing their dreams.
Faith and Legacy: The episode stresses the importance of faith and legacy, with Lori influenced by her late mother's desire to pass down family traditions, highlighting how personal dreams and family heritage can drive life decisions.
Empowerment and Overcoming Beliefs: Scott and Lori encourage listeners to overcome limiting beliefs and societal expectations, advocating for making the most out of the present and pursuing individual dreams regardless of age.

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In this heartfelt episode, Kristi Campbell shares her journey as a mother to a child with special needs, exploring the ethics of prenatal testing and the beauty of embracing differences. Tune in to hear her inspiring insights and the powerful impact of early intervention and community support.

Kristi Campbell is a devoted mother and advocate who has embraced and celebrated the unique journey of parenting a child with special needs. When her son was diagnosed with speech and language processing issues and sensory processing challenges, Kristi embarked on a path of understanding and support that has positively impacted many. She collaborates with Adonis Fertility International, driven by her passion for the topic, and shares her experiences through a widely-read blog. Kristi is committed to highlighting the importance of early intervention and cherishing the beauty of differences, offering invaluable support and insights to other parents navigating similar paths.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

Embracing Differences: Kristi Campbell emphasizes the beauty of life with different abilities, sharing how her son's unique journey with speech, language, and sensory processing issues has led to his growth and success.
Importance of Early Intervention: Kristi stresses the critical role of early intervention services, advocating for parents to trust their intuition and seek help for their children when they notice developmental differences.
Navigating Ethical Decisions: The episode delves into the complexities of prenatal and genetic testing, discussing the ethical and emotional implications of selecting traits and the challenges of defining "typical."
Support and Community: Kristi shares her experience of overcoming initial loneliness by starting a blog and connecting with other parents of children with special needs, highlighting the value of community support and shared experiences.
Personal Journey and Acceptance: Kristi reflects on her emotional journey of accepting and appreciating her son's uniqueness, illustrating the importance of respecting individual differences and the collective human experience to become better people.

Todays guest, Kristi, can be found online at:

Finding Ninee Blog: https://findingninee.com/

Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/FindingNinee/

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Discover the heartfelt journey of Michelle, a surrogate mother who turned her love for pregnancy into a lifeline for a hopeful couple. From the intricacies of matching and medical screenings to the emotional highs and lows of embryo transfer day, Michelle shares her transparent and inspiring story.

Michelle had always cherished the experience of pregnancy, finding it to be a remarkable and special journey. After having two children, with her youngest being around two years old at the time, the desire for another child started to grow within her. However, her husband felt their family was complete, and Michelle had to come to terms with this decision.

Despite accepting they wouldn’t have more children of their own, Michelle’s love for being pregnant didn't fade. She realized that surrogacy could be the perfect way to fill the void she felt, allowing her to once again experience pregnancy. Surrogacy felt like a natural fit, as it would not only let her enjoy the incredible journey of carrying a child but also help other families fulfill their dreams of parenthood.

Michelle’s story highlights her deep appreciation for the unique and amazing experience of pregnancy, and her thoughtful consideration of how to continue enjoying this phase of life while positively impacting others.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

The Surrogate's Journey: Michelle shared her experience of becoming a surrogate, from initial communications to the embryo transfer and subsequent pregnancy, emphasizing the emotional fulfillment and lack of physical discomfort during the transfer process.
Choosing Intended Parents: Michelle highlighted her criteria for selecting intended parents based on personality, lifestyle, and their humble, appreciative nature, which helped form a strong, supportive relationship.
Communication and Openness: Emphasizing the importance of transparency, Michelle maintained limited public information about her surrogacy but was open with close family and children, involving them in milestones like transfer day and the positive pregnancy test.
Delivery and Emotional Experience: Michelle described her experience of delivering the baby for the intended parents, preparing for the hospital delivery, and the heartfelt, positive emotions associated with not holding the baby immediately, showcasing the mutual gratitude and bond formed.
Support and Legal Aspects: Discussing the necessary legal procedures, Michelle detailed the importance of negotiating contracts, the pre-qualification and matching processes, and the psychological support crucial for both surrogates and intended parents throughout the journey.

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Discover the inspiring journey of Chris and her husband as they navigate the complexities of surrogacy, sharing profound insights about trust, resilience, and the miraculous love that brought their family dreams to life. Don't miss this heartfelt episode full of compelling moments and valuable advice.

Chris, a devoted mother, alongside her husband has been on a transformative fertility journey that led them to the Adonis Medical Group in Ukraine. Through surrogacy, they welcomed two beautiful children and are currently expecting another. Chris shares her heartfelt experiences, emphasizing the significance of love beyond genetic ties and expressing immense trust and gratitude towards Ivanna and the Adonis team. She aims to inspire other couples to pursue their dreams of parenthood despite the challenges, believing that perseverance can lead to miraculous outcomes.

Below are the key takeaways from this episode:

Perseverance and Trust: Chris and her husband emphasized the importance of not giving up during the fertility journey, sharing their deep trust in the team at Adonis Medical Group in Ukraine.
Streamlined Exit Procedures: Ivanna detailed changes in the bureaucracy surrounding newborns' exit processes, citizenship, and registration in Ukraine, highlighting faster and more efficient procedures now.
Positive Surrogacy Experience: Chris shared her gratitude for the support received from Adonis, noting the team's professionalism, affordability, and comfort during their surrogacy journeys, resulting in a lasting relationship with them.
Resilience of Newborns: Chris underscored the remarkable resilience and ease of traveling with newborns, conveying her positive experiences flying with her two two-year-old children.
Heartfelt Connection and Encouragement: Chris and her husband expressed their desire to connect with and support others pursuing surrogacy, assuring a safe and happy experience and encouraging others to trust in Adonis' ability to fulfill their dream of parenthood.

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In this episode of YOUR FERTILITY STORY, my guests and I are discussing relationships and how fertility affects those relationships. We’re going to talk about the issues that arise and why fertility places so much strain on partner connections. In this episode, you’ll hear:

How they knew they might face fertility issues and what they were willing to do in order to create a family.
This family’s tips for getting through the fertility process intact as a couple and sharing the hardships and celebrations with one another.
What they did to support each other in this journey and why they didn’t allow outside stressors to deter them from their goal of children.
How they sustained the romance and intimacy in their relationship in the midst of their fertility process.
Their suggestions for dealing with their individual grieving processes and why supporting one another through them was absolutely crucial.
Why avoiding assumptions about one another’s feelings allowed them to solve problems together.
This family’s advice for facing infertility and the reason you should never give up.

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In this episode, my guest is Peter Hura. He’s a biotransport expert with ArkCryo and believes that biotransport is not just moving samples but caring for them as well. ArkCryo’s specialty is moving biological material from one point to another. In this episode, you’ll hear:

What biotransport is and how it is used in the fertility world.
Why timing and safety are crucial to the fertility process.
The most important thing to remember when it comes to transporting samples and embryos.
How biomaterial is transported and why hand-carrying it is preferential to cargo shipment, specifically when transporting internationally.
The step-by-step process of transporting the biomaterial.
Peter’s background with biotransport and how he landed in the industry when it was just beginning.
The reason it’s so important for biomaterial to be handled with care and the numerous mistakes he’s seen over the years.
The story of how his company began and why there was such a need for its services.
Peter’s list of questions you need to ask at the start of the process to avoid tragic mistakes.
Why you should undergo infectious disease testing before embryo creation.
The questions Peter recommends asking when speaking with a biotransport provider.
The reason you want the expertise of a reputable biotransport company and why the expense is worth the cost.

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In this episode of YOUR FERTILITY STORY, I’m speaking with Maureen Rule. She’s an expert in the fertility world and also has some personal experience with infertility, which gives her a unique perspective on this journey. She is a licensed clinical mental health counselor in New Mexico, USA and she’s spent the majority of her years as a counselor working with people who are experiencing crisis situations such as loss of a child, addictions, homelessness.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

How Maureen Rule initially became involved in the fertility world and her own experience with infertility and pregnancy loss.
Why she believes grief and loss is cumulative and how she was affected by postpartum depression following the birth of her miracle baby.
What you can do to deal with your feelings of anger and betrayal while experiencing fertility issues.
Her advice for helping someone you know grieve and what not to say after a pregnancy or child loss.
How joining a support group can help you heal more quickly after a loss.
The reactions people have to grief and loss and why men and women grieve so differently.
The real reason couples often split up after suffering the loss of a child.
Maureen Rule’s advice for realizing there is hope beyond the grief.

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In this episode of YOUR FERTILITY STORY, my guest is Lisa. Lisa and I are talking about how you see yourself as you experience infertility. Lisa and her husband are both attorneys and built a successful law firm. When they decided to start their family, Lisa was diagnosed with several health issues, which they had never considered before. After several rounds of IVF, the only option left for them was surrogacy. Their baby didn’t survive, and it left their lives reeling.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

Why not succeeding never seemed like an option until Lisa and her husband lost their child.
How Lisa found Maria and Adonis Fertility and found hope again.
Why Adonis allowed Lisa to have faith in the process as each of her questions had an answer.
The effect Lisa’s fertility struggles had on her self-esteem and belief in herself.
Why belief and trust are absolutely vital to getting to the other side of the journey.
What life is like for Lisa and her husband now that their daughter is here.
Lisa’s advice for getting through the worry and anxiety of infertility and having faith that you’ll have a happy ending.

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Surrounding yourself with people who believe in you and care from the bottom of their hearts -- who treat your fertility journey not as a transaction, but as a mission of their life -- is something that can make a huge difference. Ivanna is experienced on the support side of the fertility and has been in this world for nine years. She works with families who are going through fertility issues and has a unique perspective on this journey. As you listen to Ivanna, you may recognize some patterns to look for when you are selecting your providers, your support team, your champions of your journey.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

How Ivanna got started in the fertility world and why she’s still working with families who want to bring their own children into the world.
Ivanna’s role as head of the coordination team and what that role entails.
What her typical day looks like and why being proactive in this process means being always on call.
The most rewarding part of Ivanna’s job and the reason she stays in the fertility world.
The hardest part of her job and why it’s so difficult to move past it.
Ivanna’s wish for those who are just beginning their fertility journeys.

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In this episode of YOUR FERTILITY STORY, Maria welcomes her guest, Amanda. Amanda is a surrogate who is passionate about helping people complete their families. She shares her story with Maria and why she was so drawn to becoming a gestational carrier.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

How Amanda became a surrogate and why she is so passionate about helping families achieve their baby dreams.
The myths surrounding surrogacy and why they aren’t true.
The process for becoming a surrogate, what physical exams are required, and why it is so important to have emotional support along the way.
Why patience during this process is critical to success.
How the waiting game can bring families and surrogates closer together and the reason communication is critical during the surrogacy process.
The tragedy Amanda experienced as a gestational carrier and how it affected both her and the family she was assisting.
How she handled the blame after the tragedy and the mental toll it can take.
Why most surrogates enjoy the communication they get from their families and how it can create a trusting relationship.
What giving the baby to the parents feels like and why it’s so different to be a surrogate versus bringing home a baby that’s yours.
Amanda’s advice for making the surrogacy journey easier for both parties.

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In this episode of YOUR FERTILITY STORY, Maria is sharing some of the myths surrounding the fertility world and debunking them one by one. These myths are the basis for other myths, which abound in the fertility world. By dispelling these untruths, Maria wants to empower and inspire you to take control of your fertility journey and become the author of your own story.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

Why guiding your journey by what the majority of people do doesn’t work because there are so many variables.
Why you need to trust your intuition and communicate all of your questions, concerns, and ideas during this process.
What you can do to shut out others’ opinions and move forward with your own journey.
Terminology evolves, but the procedures are the same, which doesn’t affect your success.
You’re not the only person going through this, and you are not alone.
Nothing is wrong with you, and this is not your fault.
Fertility involves more than just medical issues.
You will feel whole again, and the sun will rise.
You’re not too old to have a baby.
You will still be you after you have your baby.

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In this episode of YOUR FERTILITY STORY, Maria focuses on your clinic selection. Her guest on this episode is Eva Schenkman, an embryologist of nearly 30 years. She completed her undergraduate at Cornell University and went on to complete her master’s degree and Ph.D. at Eastern Virginia Medical School. In recent years, she’s become a consultant and runs the New York Metropolitan Embryology Society. She is also a clinical instructor at the EVMS Master’s Program in Embryology and sits on several committees for the Society of Reproductive Biologists and Technologists as well as the College of Reproductive Biology.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

Eva Schenkman’s tips for researching fertility clinics for your particular needs and what you should look for.
Why a clinic might not have its own embryologists on staff and may outsource for that service.
The categories and data you should be evaluating as you review your clinical options.
What you need to look out for if you’re considering a clinic with a narrow specialization or innovative treatments.
Her advice for selecting the right clinic for you and what you should look for in the clinic’s communication with you.

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In this inaugural episode of YOUR FERTILITY STORY, Maria shares her vision for the podcast, which will include some solo episodes with Maria and some episodes with expert guests and families who have navigated the fertility journey. She will also welcome parents who are on the other side of this journey, who can offer their experiences and what they learned along the way. Expect some deep dives into some topics in addition to some shorter episodes that may consist of Q&As or a particular subject.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

What you can learn from families who weren’t sure what questions to ask and what their experiences can teach us.
Why being able to make decisions and have freedom of choice is so important to have independent from anything else that is happening.
How things can go wrong during this process, what the alternatives are, and why being vulnerable can lead to erroneous and costly decisions.
Maria’s goal to remove, “I wish,” from the fertility conversation.
How listening to this podcast can begin to put you back in control of your own fertility journey.
The story behind the founding of Adonis Fertility.

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Welcome to the Your Fertility Story podcast with Maria Feekes, founder of Adonis Fertility International. This show is dedicated to helping individuals and families make their dreams of having a child a reality. Maria believes every fertility journey is unique, and you are ultimately your own best advocate.

Your Fertility Story is designed to provide unbiased information, help you learn how to navigate challenges, and find support during your fertility journey.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

Why Maria believes you have the right to ask tough questions during your journey.
The reason Maria started this podcast and why she believes expert advice and unbiased information is so important during this journey.
Encouragement and inspiration along with answers to the questions you really want to know in order to become your own best advocate.

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