The Voice Of Tamar: Recent Episodes

The Voice of Tamar

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges, allowing them to achieve the abundant life that awaits them.

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During a conversation with her therapist, Vanessa realized she was betraying herself in her healing. In this episode, she and Brendan discuss how they worked together to end self-betrayal.

In this episode of the Voice of Tamar podcast, Vanessa is joined by Brendan. They discuss the (false) prophecy of trauma they had to confront after saying, "I do."

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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In this episode of the Voice of Tamar podcast, Vanessa is joined by Brendan. They discuss the (false) prophecy of trauma they had to confront after saying, "I do."

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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A testimony shines a light on who God is and what He does and empowers the listener's faith and hope. So, be empowered today as Vanessa shares a testimony in this episode.

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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Healing comes in layers and should be pursued purposefully; it won't just happen. There isn't a magic pill or an overnight strategy, and in this episode, Vanessa provides some needed perspective and resources.

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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Your memories, like your body, need healing, and in this episode, Vaness discusses how we can experience healing memories.

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For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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Fear is a liar, and in this episode, Vaness discusses how it weaves itself after trauma.

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For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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Join us as we explore the idea that while providence may play a role in our lives, true healing requires intentional and deliberate actions.

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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In this insightful episode, we explore the liberating art of "Walking Away" – a profound recognition of when to step back from relationships and situations that threaten to rekindle past traumas.

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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In this impactful episode, we rally together to embrace the mantra "Do the Work" as a powerful catalyst for ongoing healing.

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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Building on the insights from "Teach Me How to Rest," join Vanessa Hobbs and embark on this empowering path to restoration and resilience.

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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Trauma can weigh you down to the point of robbing you of enjoying rest. Rest is so important that the LORD established it as a command, yet we must pray: "teach me how to rest."

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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Friendships are essential in our trauma-healing path, providing tremendous support and solace. Genuine connections offer possibilities for laughter, joy, and pleasant experiences, offsetting the anguish and grief associated with trauma. In the end, friendships function as healing links, allowing us to reestablish trust, regain hope, and rediscover our resilience and inner strength.

In this final episode of season 6, Vanessa discusses the healing power behind having true genuine friendships.

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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In this #ThrowbackSunday, Vanessa talks about the need to not hold back on our healing, message and the potential for impact.

Have a question? Please send it to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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In this #ThrowbackSunday, Vanessa talks about the work she realized needed to be done beyond the altar after she became a Christian.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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Clip from Shameless Talk with Shawny Cox-Ashford

Show link: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vanessa-santiago-the-voice-of-tamar/id1492913175?i=1000531953610

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The Voice Of Tamar | S06E08: What Is Trauma Bonding? | Vanessa Hobbs | Miguel Lebron

  • Definition of trauma bonding: The term trauma bonding was introduced by Patrick Carnes, Ph.D., author of The Betrayal Bond; Breaking Free of Exploitative Relationships and founder of the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP). While the Foundation for Post-Traumatic Healing and Complex Trauma Research notes that Dr. Carnes first defined the concept as “the misuse of fear, excitement, sexual feelings, and sexual physiology to entangle another person.” Katie Moore, Psy.D., a licensed clinical psychologist based in Irvine, California, who specializes in trauma treatment, says, "Trauma bonding happens when an attachment has formed between an abuser and the person who is being abused."

Source: https://www.forbes.com/health/mind/what-is-trauma-bonding/

  • Types of trauma bonding:
  • Intimate partner trauma bonding: This refers to the bonding that can occur between an individual and their abusive intimate partner.
  • Familial trauma bonding occurs within family relationships, where a victim may form a bond with an abusive or neglectful family member. It can involve feelings of loyalty, obligation, or a desire for approval.

Registered psychotherapist Natacha Duke, MA, RP, also explained in this article The difference between trauma bonding and relationship conflict. She states, "Conflict in relationships is normal and can actually be healthy if both partners are treated as equals and able to communicate and resolve the conflict in a respectful way; but in abusive relationships, the conflict often follows a pattern of gaslighting, manipulation and blaming — along with a power imbalance."

Source: https://health.clevelandclinic.org/trauma-bonding/

  • Strategies to overcome and recover from trauma bonding.
  • Keep a written record
  • Surround Yourself With Loved Ones
  • Join a Support Group
  • Practice Self-Care: Cut off contact

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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In this episode, we talk about ways to recover from trauma. Although trauma is a painful and confusing experience, we can heal and grow.

We will define trauma and look into how it might affect people. We'll also discuss how to keep hope alive when dealing with trauma. And methods that people can use to get through their trauma.

If you or someone you know is dealing with trauma, this episode will provide you with insights and practical suggestions on how to manage and move on. So please tune in, and let's talk about trauma, its impacts, coping strategies, and healing.

Please subscribe to our podcast and leave us a review on your preferred podcast platform. We value your input and encouragement.

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer:

The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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In today's episode, we discuss trauma and how it affects a person's personal development. Trauma may profoundly affect how people perceive themselves, others, and the world around them.

We also look at successful coping skills that might assist people in dealing with trauma and talking to a therapist, physical activity, and journaling, among others. There is no one-size-fits-all answer; therefore, developing coping mechanisms that work best for each individual is critical.

If you or someone you know is dealing with trauma, this episode will provide you with insights and practical suggestions on how to manage and move on. So please tune in, and let's talk about trauma, its impacts, coping strategies, and healing.

Please subscribe to our podcast and leave us a review on your preferred podcast platform. We value your input and encouragement.

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

Disclaimer: The information Vanessa Hobbs shares is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Hobbs is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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In this episode, Vanessa discusses the discomfort of sharing the truth about what happened to you. Sometimes it’s hard to face the responses of those you decide to share your story with. Vanessa shares some of her discomforts and encourages others to push past them so that they can heal. For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.comPodcast Host: Vanessa HobbsPodcast Producer: Miguel LebrónIntro Voice: Mairy LebrónMusical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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You may feel stuck or disappointed that you are still putting together what trauma broke, but in this episode, Vanessa shares that even she, at times finds herself cleaning up the pieces of trauma left behind.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In this episode, Vanessa discusses making her wrongs right and learning the art of letting go. She talks about a life-changing book she read called Safe People. She learned what safe people look like and learned that she had some unsafe behaviors she has exhibited.

Book:

Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself

by Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD

Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't

by Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend, et al.

Relational Intelligence: The People Skills You Need for the Life of Purpose You Want

by Dharius Daniels, Barry Scott, et al.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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After a small break, Vanessa shares what has happened in her world. There have been so many changes and, of course, beautiful opportunities for self-improvement and growth.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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It's 2023, and a new chapter has begun! Join us for the sixth season of The Voice Of Tamar Podcast and see your life after trauma; healing looks good on you.

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Hobbs

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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"God speaks even when you look torn up and feel a little wonky."

After visiting her father, Vanessa learned the importance of when God answers with a no. As she prayed on the way to his house, she had no idea the perspective needed would arrive in a conversation with her father.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In this bit-size episode, Vanessa asks Briana Seda-Stringer three questions to help you gain perspective and knowledge on tools that could help you in your healing journey.

Briana Seda-Stringer was a guest on Season 05, Episode 08: Life After Trauma.

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In this episode, Vanessa sits with Briana Seda-Stringer to discuss life after trauma. So often, trauma lingers and does not resurface until least expected, thus was the case for Briana Seda-Stringer as she was preparing for marriage, and the effects of trauma appeared. 

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In this episode, Vanessa shares resources to help you in your healing journey. If you have a question you'd like Vanessa to answer or a topic you'd like her to address, please send them to thevoiceoftamar@gmail.com, and she will personally answer your message.

Resources mentioned:

  • Healing the Wounded Heart: The Heartache of Sexual Abuse and the Hope of Transformation, by Dan B. Allender
  • The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse, by Wendy Maltz

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

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Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

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The effects of sexual assault can be felt long after the exeprance, and for Vanessa and Brenden, this was undeniable as their wedding date quickly approached, and with it, intimacy. 

Resources recommended:

  • Sacred Marriage, by Gary Thomas
  • Getting the Love You Want Workbook: The New Couples' Study Guide, by Harville Hendrix Ph.D., and Helen LaKelly Hunt Ph.D.

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

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Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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It's been three months since Vanessa and Brenden got married. In this recent episode, they discuss how patience and vulnerability have been critical ingredients as they enter this new journey. 

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

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With a wedding on the horizon, Vanessa reflects on the truth of intimacy and how her traumatic background has kept her from allowing anyone to get too close to her.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

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In this bit-size episode, Vanessa asks Ashley McCullough three questions to help you gain perspective and knowledge on tools that could help you in your healing journey.

Ashley McCullough was a guest on Season 05 Episode 02: Finding Freedom And Purpose.

For more content, visit www.vanessa-santiiago.com.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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Ashley McCullough is a mother, wife, and leader. And as a young girl, going to church with her family was the norm, but one Sunday service, she began to weep as her father played the organ and her mother looked on, wondering what was hurting her daughter.  In this episode, Ashley sits with Vanessa to discuss the events that made her weep, changed her life, and made her consider leaving the very faith that had kept her intact despite the brokenness she felt. For more content, visit www.vanessa-Santiago.com. Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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The only way to rid yourself of all the dysfunction produced by trauma is to recognize it exists and detox from it. If you fail to acknowledge the poison created by trauma, you may find yourself in a cycle that tracks the same poison, even if it comes in a different form. 

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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So much has changed since the conclusion of season four, one of which is Vanessa's last name!

In this new season, Vanessa has invited several individuals to share their stories of overcoming and surviving trauma. And she dives deep into the new location of healing she is in, her marriage, and so much more!

The new season starts in September 2022. Be sure to share, subscribe and leave a review on Apple podcasts.

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Embracing grace isn't a guarantee that every pain will go away, but rather that we will have peace during painful moments and lives transitions. When we pray "consume from the inside out," we are surrendering all the parts we can't control, such as emotions we may not be able to explain. 

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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We often walk away from a loss as though we aren't affected, when indeed we are. Properly grieving the things you've lost, relationships you've, family members lost, and even part of yourself.

In this episode, Vanessa speaks on the necessity of healthy grieving and the process that we should go through.

This episode has been published and can be heard everywhere you listen to audio content, including YouTube.

Recommended Resources:

Moving From Grief to Grace | Valery Sykes | April 11, 2020

https://fb.watch/97Eke2m87j/

The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse, 20th Anniversary Edition

https://amzn.to/3c4I4jr

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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We frequently hesitate to allow healing to take full impact in areas of our heart because it necessitates complete surrender; one of those places is trust.

In this episode, Vanessa Santiago discusses the portions of her heart that required complete surrender to feel comfortable among others who have journeyed with her.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In this episode, Vanessa discusses the need of defining the triggers of past traumas and methods to overcome those.

What does it mean to be "triggered?" This term has been casually used to refer to the experience of having an emotional reaction to some type of disturbing content (such as violence or the mention of suicide) in the media or in another social setting.

This episode has been published and can be heard everywhere you listen to audio content, including YouTube.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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With a new season on the horizon, Vanessa Santiago speaks about what she has been doing and what this new season of The Voice of Tamar podcast will look like.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

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Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

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It has been 1 year, 2 months, and 1 day since the question "who is the voice of Tamar?" was asked. Since then, Vanessa Santiago has shared her story and journey through healing with all of you. Along the way, you have heard her cry, mourn the passing of her brother, pull back the layers of trauma, and so much more. We have even had some amazing guests who have also shared their stories transparently, all of which we hope has been enlightening to you in your journey. 

In this final episode, Vanessa Santigo shares what she has discovered by doing the podcast, expresses her gratitude towards everyone involved with this podcast and speaks on what's next.

This episode has been published and can be heard everywhere you listen to audio content, including YouTube.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago shares the struggles of malnutrition relationships, such as parental relationships.

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago sits down with Apostle Kevin D. Duhart, Sr.

Apostle Kevin D. Duhart Sr. is the Lead Pastor of All Nations Worship Assembly San Antonio. And through his personal experience has shown to be an overcomer and, despite a tumultuous journey, has accepted the calling to conquer.

This episode has been made available everywhere you listen to audio content and YouTube.

  • Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago
  • Special Guest: Apostle Kevin D. Duhart Sr.
  • Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón
  • Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón
  • Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago sits down with the author of After They Touched Me, Sharona Drake.

Sharona Drake is an author, creative, and urban missionary who provides innovative solutions to problems around the world. In this episode, she speaks broadly on her experience, her book, and the journey of discovering the triggers to grow.

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This is part 2 of a sit-down Vanessa Santiago had with Aralis Ivone. 

Aralis Ivone is a self-described domestic violence survivor, and in this sit-down conversation, she speaks candidly about her trauma, faith, and how she survived.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago sits down with Aralis Ivone.

Aralis Ivone is a self-described domestic violence survivor and in this sit-down conversation, she speaks candidly about her trauma, her faith, and how she survived.

This episode has been published and can be heard everywhere you hear audio content and YouTube.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago sits with Jeremias Soto, who shares how he was able to forgive those who sexually violated him.

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Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago sits down with Davné McCleary, who shares her college experience.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

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Season 3 of The Voice Of Tamar Podcast is set to premiere on June 13th! This season Vanessa Santiago will be sitting down with several guests who will share about their journey of overcoming traumatic events.

You'll be able to access TVOT podcast everywhere you hear podcast and audio content, including on our YouTube Channel.

  • Website https://www.vanessa-santiago.com/
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  • Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón
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In this episode, Vanessa reflects on her journey through season 2 of The Voice of Tamar podcast.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In this episode, Vanessa holds no punches and shares a candid timeline of what seemed to be a life of no hope, until she found Jesus.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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Often, our mind wages war against us, telling us the lie that we welcomed the abuse experienced. In this episode, Vanessa speaks against those lies and provides a practical tactic to counterattack them.

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Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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Feeling dead inside after all of the trauma and experiences she had, Vanessa found resurrection and healing through her faith. In this episode, Vanessa acknowledges some of the mistakes that could have costed her life, not just her healing.

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Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In this episode, Vanessa speaks on her accomplishments in therapy and her recent growth in this season.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In 2018, Vanessa Santiago released her documentary titled: The Voice Of Tamar. The documentary has been viewed over 600 times! It was a big step forward in her healing journey. Prior to the release of her documentary, she sat down to speak with Miguel Lebrón about her journey, her support team, and the changes that were taking place in her life; this is that conversation.

Visit vanessa-santiago.com to watch the documentary.

Podcast Host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

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In this candid episode, Vanessa shares how she experienced, confronted and continues to heal from incest.

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Podcast host: Vanessa Santiago

Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

Intro Voice: Mairy Lebrón

Musical Contribution:

Joshua McCleary

Nolan Williams

Special thanks to Jazmyne Dodd

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In this episode, Vanessa speaks about how trauma chips away at your innocence and makes you feel as though you aren't worthy of healing.

Visit https://www.vanessa-santiago.com/resources for resources to consider in your journey. All items are affiliate links and do not change the price you will pay, but rather a small percent of your purchase price will head our way as we continue to work in spreading the message of healing.

Podcast Credits.:

  • Host: Vanessa Santiago

  • Podcast Producer: Miguel Lebrón

  • Musical Contribution: Joshua McCleary

  • Intro Voice: Mairy J. Lebrón

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago sits down with Miguel Lebrón to talk about the success of the podcast and answer some questions many may have.

Miguel Lebrón has worked with Vanessa in the developing and strategizing process of the podcast, blog, and website.

If you'd like to submit your questions for a future episode, please send them to info@vanessa-santiago.com

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News of church leaders overstepping boundaries and miss using their power seems to be from page these days. However, many stories go unheard or not believed. There seems to be blood on the altar; blood on the hands who are called to lead, blood that screams out for justice.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

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Chameleons or chamaeleons can change color rapidly, this is often done as a defense mechanism. 

After facing a traumatic event, we often become social chameleons. Trying to hide from a possible attack in plain sight, we missout on the possibilities of happiness.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

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We often don't realize the defense mechanism we create after a traumatic event. In the episode, Vanessa talks about how she would often avoid relationships by numbing out to what she was experiencing. 

Join Vanessa in this candid episode as she speaks about her marriage, divorce, relationships, and realization of built walls from trauma.

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago speaks about toxic relationships. Sometimes, toxic relationships are a result of even the best-intended friend or a relative. Ending those toxiships, could be the difference between gaining healing or resorting back to old patterns.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

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The following episode was recorded during the holiday season of December 2020. While Vanessa Santiago was preparing for the Christmas season, emotions of her brother's untimely death surfaced. 

In this emotional episode, she speaks candidly about her trauma, his murder, and the perfect crime its lingering effects.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

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In this episode of The Voice Of Tamar, Vanessa Santiago identifies three things that prevent healing.

  1. A refusal to reflect.

  2. A refusal to face pain.

  3. A refusal to admit that your trauma affects you.

Resources mentioned in this episode.

  • Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: Unleash a Revolution in Your Life in Christ

  • The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

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In this new season of The Voice Of Tamar, Vanessa Santiago comes out swinging!

Life brings many changes, obstacles, and transitions, but the objective of healing remains the same. In this new season, Vanessa invites you behind the scene of all of the latest changes, obstacles, and discoveries she has made. 

This episode sets the table for what's sure to be an awesome year of growth, healing, and discovery.

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The official intro and jingle for The Voice Of Tamar with Vanessa Santiago.

Credit.

Guitar: Joshua McCleary

Voice #1 (Intro Voice): Mairy Lebrón

Voice #2: Vanessa Santiago

Produced and mastered: Miguel Lebrón

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At the end of the 3rd quarter of 2020, Vanessa Santiago wrapped up season one of TheVoice Of Tamar. As the new year approaches, so does the beginning of season two!

New Year. New Season. New Topics. 01/10/2021

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago makes an announcement concerning season one, talks about the changing of seasons she is experiencing, and the necessity to go in deeper.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago talks about the importance of having an accountability partner to avoid falling to lust. While this is a topic not often discussed by women, Vanessa addresses some triggers and strategies to overcome lust.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago speaks upon three signs that indicate we are not totally healed yet: 1) Fearfulness, 2) Extreme Anxiety, 3) Belief that your attire is welcoming new traumatic events to occur. 

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago talks about the importance of understanding you are not a mistake, but rather, fearfully and wonderfully made.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand: there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago talks about the importance of sharing the secrets that have bound you, making hard for you to grow.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago talks about doubt, denial, and the effect it can have on our growth.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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Recently, Vanessa Santiago sat down with Imani Hunter from Purposely Transforming. This episode is a clip from that conversation, where Vanessa Santiago answered the question of dealing with criticism from sharing her story.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago talks about how letting your light shine, will expose others in their darkness, which can lead to some unwarranted jealousy.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago talks about an event she was ashamed of and how she overcame that shame. Some of our actions are directly tied to our trauma. We must be able to acknowledge this and allow room for grace, healing, and growth.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago talks about who were the different gatekeepers in her life and how they reacted when realizing they did not watch over her as they should have. She also speaks about how she is being a gatekeeper for her children and provides some tools so that others can be the gatekeepers they possibly never had.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago talks about the importance of taking a deeps breath and understanding that healing comes in layers, that can sometimes be fast and in other moments be slow. 

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve the full life that awaits them. 

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same or similar experience.

The Voice Of Tamar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevoiceoftamar

The Voice Of Tamar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevoiceoftamar/

The Voice Of Tamar Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago addresses how trauma and traumatic events such as rape, can produce a fear of intimacy. She also speaks about how she has been able to confront the fear of intimacy and overcome it.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hoped to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve that life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same experience.

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago answers the question of blame. When we go through a traumatic event, we are oftentimes looking to who the blame belongs, however, in this episode Vanessa reveals how she saw God's protection despite her traumatic experiences and how she's learned that forgiveness is possible and it comes in layers.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hoped to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges allowing them to achieve that life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same experience

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago speaks about how memory recall can sometimes be a villain to our mental growth and the difference between the sting and the stain.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges, allowing them to achieve the abundant life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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In this episode, Vanessa Santiago speaks about the days following the release of her documentary.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges, allowing them to achieve the abundant life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist.

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Why Now? That's a fair question and it's one that Vanessa Santiago intends on answering as we gear up for Episode 01.

Life can be full of various difficulties, having to face the stigma that comes along with rape, molestation, and child pornography can make it that much more difficult. Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape.

This is S01 E00 of The Voice Of Tamar. Our season will begin on June 14th, until then, please consider subscribing and sharing this with a friend, family member, or someone you know who needs to hear this.

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There is a story of a young lady named Tamar. Her father was a mighty king. While he is praised for his ability to rule and his many victories, one thing he is certainly not praised for his ability to father his children. It is said that Tamar’s half-brother Amnon became obsessed with her. His obsession for her became violent, and in the story, he ultimately raped and disgraced her. In the story, we never hear of Tamar’s recovery, and readers are left to presume that Tamar was not able to recover from this pain.

There are many parallels from Tamar’s story to that of many women today. Like Tamar, most women who have been sexually violated are consumed by shame or feel as though they are voiceless. Vanessa Santiago has decided to share the parallels that exist between her own personal story and the story of Tamar, and to be The Voice of Tamar; a voice for the voiceless.

Our healing mission begins with encouraging others to understand there is life after a traumatic event such as rape. With the sharing of stories and lessons learned, we hope to empower those individuals struggling with mental, emotional, and spiritual health challenges, allowing them to achieve the abundant life that awaits them.

The information shared by Vanessa Santiago is for educational purposes only and is not meant to evaluate, treat, or diagnose any mental, emotional, or spiritual health condition. Vanessa Santiago is not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. All audio, video, and written content produced by The Voice of Tamar, is solely to share what Vanessa Santiago has learned with others who are going through the same experience.

Read My Blog: https://thevoiceoftamar.wordpress.com/

Watch My Documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1aeSlujwOFo