Bourbon & Boyshorts: Recent Episodes
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LOVE..LIFE & LIBATIONS.This podcast is a take on dating, love, sex, relationships from a single man's perspective by two guys who are also single fathers. LIKE LISTEN & SHARE
Smith shares her time on Fox's tv show Hell's Kitchen and the feeling of being told you have the best dish of the competition by Gordon Ramsey.Catch up with Cat Here:https://www.chef-cat.comhttps://hellskitchen.fandom.com/wiki/Cat_Smith
"Two sisters. One mission. Zero compromise"Lexx & Livv are two sisters on a mission to redefine the mocktail experience, so everyone can toast to the moments that matter. After battling painful health issues, Livv stopped drinking alcohol, but she still craved a delicious drink, so they created one.Stursi is their playful take on the word "sister" — a name that embodies who they are and the deep love they pour into every can. Stursi is more than a mocktail, it's a whole damn mood.https://www.stursi.com
Chicnic Is BACK! Listen as we sit down with the organizers as they look to amplify the beauty of Baltimore City with the most anticipated and talked about experiences of the Summer. The annual, outdoor picnic style, social gathering is a stylish, nostalgic and signature staple, crafted for our city, promoting small businesses within the city, and showcasing our cultural evolution as a city. It’s a whole vibe. Together we are branding the charm back into our favorite urban spaces.When: Sunday, August 31, 2025Time: 2pm-8pmLocation: Canton Waterfront Park3001 Boston Street, Baltimore, MD 21224
Are you a Trouble Maker? Do you get into "Good Trouble?" In this episode we sit down with Dee Robinson founder of Good Trouble Bourbon and learn her philosophies about life, business, and why you should always wear a rubber band.https://goodtroublebourbon.com
Have you heard the complex and gravelly vocal tone of today’s guess? If you haven’t you may not have heard great music. Joi Carter is a multi-talented singer who has sung with Carl Thomas and has toured internationally from Dubai, China to Mexico. You will also find Joi, the reality on season 5 of “Ready 2 Love” and “Love & Marriage: DC” on the OWN Network.
In French, "rêveur" (and its feminine form "rêveuse") means "dreamer", someone who is often occupied with their thoughts and imaginations, or a daydreamer. Sauvage is a French term meaning “wild” or “natural.” On this episode we have the Wild Dreamer, Owner and Founder of Reveur Sauvage Yacht Club, Captain Chim.
We continue celebrating Women's History Month with the new owner of a Baltimore staple that happens to be named after her. Listen as we sit down with the corporate marketing strategist, Club Owner, and mother Melba.
Tonight we’re on all things Responsible & Rachet with our guest Ms. Boonie, host of The Boonie Breakdown Podcast. Boonie sat down with us ahead of her 14th Season of The Boonie Breakdown Podcast.
Listen as we sit down with our sister in the walk of Faith, Ms. Riki Blaze!!!! We discuss her journey to becoming the woman she is today and how that led to her writing a future New York Times Best Seller "Off the Sidelines: From Bench Warmer to MVP". Riki is spearheading "The Intentional Dating Movement"You need to hear this!
As we continue to celebrate Women’s History Month, let us share with you one of the greatest photographers in the country, Ms. Kellie Finch. You can catch Kellie at all of the start studded events. Some of the topics coverd include * Mentors Advisors Styles, approaches and techniques Romantic Heartbreaks What does Parenthood look like for you * What role does Faith play in your life Please take a moment to listen, like, and Share
In this episode WE have a deep and open conversation about missing each other and being vulnerable about recognizing our isolation patterns and how we need to call each other out on it and check in. Also knowing when enough is enough and knowing "you cant be Everything to Everybody" when we allow ourselves to accumulate so much in our lives and take on so many responsibilities we forget to take care of ourselves.WE also speak on doing things to make ourselves happy without feeling guilty or worry about letting others down.Later we discuss how we lean on and walk in community with our friends from UNION CHURCH and being more spiritually led in life, dating, and friendshipAll this and more..LOVE LIFE LIBATIONS
We kick off this episode with a high spiritual moment in realizing how good GOD is in our lives, Jeremy is speaking life and truth into the ears of the believers and non-believers for all miracles to come true and praying for our dear friend Chantay who is a Ovarian Cancer Survivor and Amanda going through her Battle with Breast Cancer. As we come down off our spiritual high we get into an in depth conversation about Affirming ourselves to greatness and seeing ourselves the GOD sees us and speaking life and truth into ourselves. Also realizing our gifts and perfecting them and using them the GOD intended us to use them.
As we close out the year 2023 we reflect back on how we started, where we went, how we felt, and what we learned. We collectively give each other flowers and show appreciation to the growth that everybody has gone through.We also anticipate Dr. T's re-release of her book "HEALING DISCOVERY" which is now available on Amazon.com or TikTok shop. We also exam and dissect into our old dating habits and how we kicked them and also how we dealt with not sending mixed signals while also setting boundariesAll That And more From the Lovely Dr. T
We Sit down with our friend Jamal as we reminisce on how we formed our friendship and also gave the true meaning of "help us help us" also his start in bartending to now owning his on spirit brand. Also later we dig into Jamal's love life and how he handled his emotion while trying balance his career and ambitionsAlso dig more into what makes his brand so authentic and separate from others, What its like being a black owned spirit brand and his experience within the culture and branching out outside of the culture to make his brand well known to all and tasty for all
On this episode we rewind & recap our time at Black Girls Vote(BGV) Cocktails & ConvHERsation Event where we did red carpet interviews at the event and celebrated all the Beautiful and Brilliant Women that night who are in our community and beyond paving the way for our future young ladies of our nation. Christmas came early for as we go through our gift bags sent from BGV with all the goodies from personal bottle of henny to Kyle first pair of cuff links. Afterwards Kyle and Jeremy also recap their night after the event when trying to get some food and the interesting things they saw while ordering food at their favorite late night spot, from crackheads to intellectual prostitutes lol what time. Then closing out with some proud dad and uncle moments that were experienced throughout the year so far. All we can say A TIME WAS HAD
We sit down without each other and have a very in depth conversation about how we are praying for one another, and making sure that we are using our power of prayer to the best of our abilities. We also reflect on how GOD puts us in places that forces us to use our spiritual light/guidance on others. We get into how we pick and use our "wise counsel" of friends around us and why dont we reach out or use them like we should. While going through life as we change people around us change and we have to relearn people and see if they fit our change. Do women renew their friendship contract more often than men do? And we have a hilarious take on how we built our friendship/cousinship and so much more..tune in kick back and listen
Mother, Daughter, Sister, Friend, and NOW 5 TIME Published Author and Therapist comes to talk with us on her special segment "Therapy Thursdays" Where she gets a prepped for "Cuffin Season" with all the Do's and Don'ts of Dating. NO MORE DINNER DATES an interesting take on how dinner dates aren't good when dating. How our culture needs to stop buying into Toxic Love, and Being loved the way GOD intended you to be love, And many many more GEMs throughout the show Grab your tissues wine/whiskey and note pads this is a great start to a great series
We have the honor and pleasure of sitting down with legendary host of BIG FAT MORNING SHOW Marc Clarke aka Uncle Marc. He gives the behind the scene view point on the radio industry, how he got his start, the sacrifices he made to get where he is now. Also making his transition from radio to tv. Later in the episode we "take flight" into his entrepreneurial lane and his new product that will have you on cloud 9 and feeling fine. all we can say his a time was had getting to know our new found family member from being the voice that get us to school and for some of us to work to being able to laugh and call him UNC is truly an honor
We sit down with our good brother Josh aka greatValue Joe Budden aka mr wheel chair sex lol. He return with a new perspective on life from being a father now a husband and a spiritually guided man he shares how life has changed him and we also reflect on how Josh and Kyle went from Coworkers to damn near brothers And stories of a wild past that shaped his future for the better
Listen as we sit down with WPGC 95.5’s own Nori-Nori! We chronicle Nori’s 20 year radio career while she takes us on a journey from her hometown of Chattanooga, TN to Washington D.C.The episode starts during our pre-podcast session with Nori while Kyle DJs. At the 28:00 minute mark we start the show with prayer and introductions. You’ll learn that Nori is very big on family, intention about her career, and has a story about almost every celebrity…. including Drake. We even asked a question that had her at a loss for words.”
We sat down with Tarah Davidson @tarah_davidson , Clinical Psychotherapist and Certified Clinical Sexologist. Tarah's specialty area of focus is men and sexuality and is sure to drop several gemsWe discussed the difficulties, excitement, fears and challenges of dating in the current climate. What is Masculine and Feminine energy and the implications associated with them.Tarah gets into a deep cadence and stream of conscience as she unpacks some of the barriers between men and women and shares how patriarchy has impacted the black community and why a disciplined man is a beautiful thing.
Imagine walking into work on your birthday and getting fired. What about being homeless and your family doesn't know. "A Barrel of Testimony" isn't the latest aged bourbon, rather a new age Praise & Worship moment from Bourbon & Boyshorts. Kyle and Jeremy share their testimonies of how good God has been to them over the past year. This is their “Bourbon Breakthrough.”
NOW THATS SAXY...In this episode we have the pleasure of sitting down with local Legend Will Spence the underdog of the saxophone. We start off giving each other flowers, then we move on to how Spence got his start with music trying to impress a pretty young lady from his neighborhood, finding his sound around Baltimore with different groups and schools to being on tour with some of the biggest names in the music world. We also tap into his side hustle of making customs grillz. There's a lot of laughs and real moments on this episode and most importantly give our real thoughts on manhood and fatherhood. Take listen enjoy and as always. Love Life Libations
HEY Baltimore!!..On this episode we have the pleasure to chop it up with Baltimore treasured trombone player RUFUS ROUNDTREE. The journey we went on with him was amazing from him having no interest in the trombone and fighting to play saxophone. Going against the grain of hanging with his friends to practice, grinding his way through HS to play in the band which he found himself with the trombone yet AGAIN. Finding his way through Morgan state University with multiple bands getting fired to rehired as thee only horn player in the band and again given the task of playing the trombone ONCE AGAIN. After college Rufus travels the nation soaking up all the music he can find and also getting the opportunity to play with George Clinton & Parliament alongside other notable artist. Finally Rufus Comes home to Baltimore and shares is story through music and his new found love you guest it the TROMBONE..and more stories throughout the episode..i hope you enjoy the trip as much as we did
On this episode we have the pleasure of talking...well listening to the Key master Aaron Hill Baltimore's premier pianist. We kick off the episode with a freestyle from Aaron while Perfect Gentleman gave him the beats to keep flowing. Then we begin our journey with Aaron from his inspirations of music, how he got his start, playing in church, his parents giving him all the tools needed to be successful in life, starting his own band. And later we get a surprise from Aaron we find out he wrote his own children's book G.E.M.S. which so happens to be about his childhood. Best part is the book it's a long and of course You know we had to join in on the fun. We rap up the conversation with all affirmation towards each other and end the episode on positive light and love. Press play, turn them ears on and enjoy the show
OOUU OOUU...We sit down with Charm City's Own Young and rising star Lor Dae, listen as he breaks down how he stays in his own lane, getting Baltimore back to partying and having fun with his music, his humble upbringing, learing how to play music and so much more. Later in the episode we have a very vulnerable moment about how being a man in this day and age and settling the example for our kids to follow behind is so important
This is a BOURBON BREAKTHROUUUUU..On this episode we chat with Eric the Stylist as she gives her experiences on Love and Loyalty and most importantly RESPECT. We start off with how she got her start in styling when she was 8!! to grinding her way through school to opening and owing her own salon. Later we tap into relationship talk and we struck a nerve when we hit on why she allowed DISRESPECT in her relation and people being real & loyal to her and her reciprocating the realness & loyalty back. And after a while we had a BOURBON BREAKTHRUUUUU with Erica when she realizes she is the reason why DISRESPECT was being done in the relationship. This episode is a really good listen for the people who are going through a rocky or trying time in their relationship and wanting to move on
BOONIE is BACK!! We catch up with Beautiful Boonie of the Boonie Breakdown Podcast to find out what she has been up to since we last spoke 2 years ago. We get down and somewhat dirty on several topics from the rules of engagement on how to set up a 3SUM, Jeremy's secret night time nickname, gay night club experience aka ''THE BALL" the Boonie Breakdown Tour and soooo much more this a conversation you dont want to miss
END RAPE CULTURE What is the “Rape Culture?” Rape Culture is an environment in which rape is prevalent and in which sexual violence against women is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture. Rape culture is perpetuated through the use of misogynistic language, the objectification of women’s bodies, and the glamorization of sexual violence, thereby creating a society that disregards women’s rights and safety.
Listen as we sit down with Enchanta, founder of Black Women Whiskey and host of Women & Whiskey Wednesdays; a monthly happy hour series that raises money for local non profits. We learn what it means to be a abolitionist and focus on restorative justice. From there we move into the predatory practices of the bail system how it structured to keep people impoverished.
And of course we couldn't end the this episode without learning who is single and who is in a happy relationship that "works until it doesn't work anymore"
Listen as we sit down w/ Craig C. Chef by Day Painter/Artist by Nite. We follow Craig's journey from his humble beginnings in Baltimore as an up and coming painter and Chef to taking his talents on the road to sharpen his skills having to take those skills and inspire others to get on a superior level while running his own kitchen. We also touch on love and fatherhood and how he found inspiration from his woman and kids to in turn creating new art from new found love. Lastly we round out the convo with not taking life for granted and appreciating the people in our lives and keeping ourselves uplifted by creating a circle of trust and vulnerability for all our brothers out here in the world.
Listen as we sit down with the Ladies of Above the Flame Cigars, African American women owned boutique cigar company offering premium quality hand rolled cigars whose foundation is built on integrity, professionalism, commitment and respect. We find out these ladies who are family decided to start a cigar company during the pandemic. What’s more interesting is their story growing up in Southeast DC.
https://abovetheflamecigars.com
Listen as we sit down with Chef French of French Toast Connection. Chef starts by giving him his props as a DJ and apologizes for underestimating his abilities. Chef French breaks down the ATL (Atlanta) roots of “French Toast Connection” and explains how she perfected her world famous sweet potato hash………
https://www.frenchtoastconnectionatl.com
“Styling is enhancing who you are, not changing who you are” - Lulu B.
Listen as we sit down with Talea Dixon, owner of Lulu B’s Closet. We discuss the importance of fashion and feeling good and how it plays a role in our everyday lives. Talea shares why she resigned from her job to pursues the entrepreneurial life, and touches on why she’ll never change her store into a boutique.
This is our most vulnerable episode to date. Listen as we open up about the things that hurt, the pressures we're under and a passionate breakdown of tears and emotions from Jeremy. Listen and share your thoughts
On this episode we start with a “Prelude” conversation with our guest we Natasha Edmonds of the No Prelude podcast. We start out learning how Natasha and Jeremy first met and when she first learned his name. Tasha candidly shares why her first marriage ended and the lessons she learned. One thing that is very prevalent with Tasha is that she’s a true “daddy’s girl” and it shows. Finally we get her to tell us about her top secret job working for the Mayor
Listen as we sit down with our Accountability Brother Travis and jump right into breaking down the facades we present to the world. With his facade gown Travis shares the moment he felt the emotions of separating from his wife. As men we often dong create a safe space to be vulnerable with each other after as evidenced from our emotional intervention with Kyle. One reason being that everything since childhood is building men to guard themselves from heartbreak.
Final question we ask….. “Where is your love life now? Do you feel like you deserve love?”
Listen as we sit down with Nykidra Robinson, CEO and founder of Black Girls Vote. Nyki has become our new sister as she opened up. For the first time she shared what it was like growing up with a schizophrenic parent and how she handles it now. She was surprised with the honor of being on the Baltimore Magazine were she discusses women being empathetic leaders.
We switch and discuss Nyki’s Romantic interest….. Why are her friends freezing their eggs and is she able to rest in her femininity while letting a man lead
Listen as we sit down with "ya favorite bartender’s favorite bartender'' Dajai aka Bartending Baddie, mixing up her no marriage margaritas, crazy companion cocktails, and spilling the tea on what she requires from a man who really peaks her interest. Time Attention Penis(TAP)and more twists and turns all thru the episode pour up a drink and kick back and enjoy this one
listen as we sit down with Chelsey aka Chelsey Travels as she gives us financial literacy advice how to plan, save, and move your money. Gives us insight on how she travels and some smart money management tips while you travel. Then later she lets us in on how she wanted to be the "perfect woman" or at least create the image of perfection for her husband in a world filled with so many imperfections
“The 3 reasons high performing woman have toxic relationships After a three week hiatus we reconvene to discuss high performing woman and why they are drawn to toxic partners. Oblivious to what toxic looks like If yiu let him be toxic once, he can do it forever 1. high performing women are willing to put in the work 2. Toxic men target powerful women 3. Their sex lives are blinding
https://www.businessinsider.com/why-intelligent-and-high-performing-women-fall-for-toxic-partners-2019-7#1-high-performance-women-are-willing-to-put-in-the-work-1
After we sat down with the world renowned musician Clarence Ward III (Episode 165: “Fish Sandwich & Jazz”), we kept the mics rolling and had a very candid conversation about life, music, and Jazz.
We have a vulnerable moment as we experience the full cycle of life live. “Death is hard… I can shed a tear and still be a G”
Black Awesome [blak •ˈôsəm]: Someone who is who portrays and demonstrates great qualities and abilities that strengthen the Black community in the areas of collective economics, family structure, and increased knowledge.
Listen as we sit down with Baltimore’s Black Awesome Terrence Dickerson, owner of Terra Cafe. The conversation focuses on building community, the transfer of knowledge throughout generations, and how to build healthy families.
Namasté: (nah-mah-stay) Namasté is more than a word used to end a yoga session. With respect and reverence, Namasté is a way to see and honor the reality of others.
On this episode we welcome Knae Johnson founder of the popular yoga company “Namaste with Nae”. Knae discusses wanting find a Mentor in business and discovering that even her would be mentor is still “trying to figure it all out”. Knae practices/ teaches Iyengar Yoga, a yoga style that differs from others in three major ways: precision, sequence and use of props. This is were the idea of “give your body grace” comes from….
Have you sat down with yourself and done the “ugly work”? Have yiu done 200 hours of it? What about changing your out look from being a victim to a victor? We unpack this and hear vulnerable truths.
“Your mat is your mirror” you can’t blame anyone for what you can’t do on your mirror…
Take a listen as we talk about being attracted to toxic behavior and in turn giving out the same toxic behaviors as well. Listen as we both tell our stories of being toxic and allowing toxicity to overcome us and how we dealt with it. We also reminisce on our days of partying in DC and our "what ifs" of us meeting back in our hay day of partying. And Sabotaging relationships that we knw we werent ready for and dealing with the aftermath of that
Listen as we sit down with the world renowned musician Clarence Ward III. This is a long episode chopped full of gems, far more than any description can capture.
Some of this episodes topics include, “How did you know your wife was the one?”, Breaking down our roles as fathers, have a close and closed off Circle, Being vulnerable as a man and how having expectations and being consistent is a keystone, Manhood is consistency. Respect for elders, and why Clarence’s life has been the best since his wife became a stay at home wife……
We start with growing up in Baltimore and the responsibilities of being the oldest child in a single parent household. Inspired by Roy Hargroves “The Tokyo Sessions”, Clarence heard Baltimore trumpeting Antonio Hart and knew that he would master the trumpet. We get into the business of music and learn what it was like performing with Aretha Franklin, Bebe & Cece Winans, Ledisi and more. We touch on the music scene in Baltimore and ask the question, “why are some musicians difficult to book”.
Listen as we sit down with Chef Savory Sweet of Maison intimate style catering. Chef shares how she honed her skills studying in France while relaxing under the Eiffel Tower for hours on end.
Why can no one ever make Beef Wellington correctly? Explained what happened when a Wellington was ruined and how see saved the day. From that she dropped a huge gem, “People eat my mistakes…”
This episode is heavy on taking accountability to create the life you want to live. Today we sit down with Tasha Mack of the television show and podcast “Let’s Talk Love”. We carry over the conversation from our guest appearance on “Let’s Talk Love” and learn why Tasha is dating her Ex-husband. We unpack the reasons she left and what happened in Atlanta that brought them back together.
From there we discuss “The Currently Clapped Woman” and why women feel they need to standout.
Listen as we sit Down with Steph J., Dr. McFadden, and Ava. We discuss what it means to have “percolator knees” while being present in the moment. Dr. McFadden discusses why it was important for her to purchase a new home. She opens up losing a home, losing a relationship, and getting kicked out of school.
Ava embraces “Thoting through the pandemic” and and giving heard immunity through her “vajayjay”
We finally spill the “tea” onKyle sleeping with Steph and Ava…….
We end with the question “What do you need a man for if you have friends…”
Listen as we sit down with the “Tastefully Rachet Podcast”.......
We start the conversion learning about Syd’s long distance Atlanta boo and discuss expanding your dating search to include the entire country (15:28). Next Sam shares what is keeping her from being with her soulmate (20:05). We dig deeper into the traits of Sam’s dream man: Goal oriented Intentional Great communicator Independent ambition Tall dark with locs..... These are the trait she wants, but is she what he would want? (38:25) The question of the evening “Are you open to being happy, without challenge?”
Listen as we sit down with Kolin Robinson the creator of the “Spirit Man”. Kolin shares his experience attending the first Suit & Sneaker party vs. attending Ladies Night.
We learn the origin of Spirit Man necklace and the process to request one (15:40).
Conversation transitions as we get into the evenings true topic: “Are your friends keeping you single?” There are 5 types of friends That keep you single:
- Surrogate partner friend
- Judgmental Friends
- Sabotaging Friends
- Bitter Friends
- Competitive Friends The pretty friend The never do better than me friend
We take a more serious time as we discuss why men feel they need to be masculine around their friends and the importance of therapy.
Listen as we sit down with Tenne Thrower aka TNT-Diva. Tenne breaks down what it means to be in her inner circle and what it takes to be removed from inside. What happens when there is disloyalty in your business/romantic relationships? Do you leave? Do you keep doing business? Find out what she does in this scenario. We take the heat off of Tenne and apply pressure to married women who party with their single friends. Our debate is if this is appropriate and/or a sign of trouble at home. We finish the conversation debating “Are Black Women Exotic...”
Listen as we sit down with Ifeanyi owner of Montego Bar & Grille, as well our favorite DJ, DJ Pro2col. Pro2Col shares the story of how he begin to spin and why Kyle Is toughest critic. Next we move into Ifeanyi as he talks about leaving Wall St and Corporate banking to following his passion of becoming a restaurateur. Back into business commentary as both Pro2col and Ifeanyi share stories about doing business with friends and how to navigate giving “handouts”. As the episode closes we are left an amazing gem: “Crabs don’t belong in a barrel”
Listen as we sit down with Jonta'e owner and founder of Bubbles Galore and participant in our "Panty Dropper Brunch" (Episode 5). We start the episode off creating the atmosphere to be our true and authentic selves. We eventually move the conversation and ask if she is being courted or going on dates. We end on the topic of issue women have with sexuality in the business industry.
Listen as we sit down Carla of Carla’s Sugar and discuss her journey from Lefrak Queens to the Military and beyond. Carla drops gems such as “Never stop listening to your intuition” and the idea of Combat vs. Tact; A battle of wills or a place of peace.
Have you made love on a beach of jet black sand? Pay close attention to hear if Carla has during her time in Hawaii. Island fever taught her something important “you have to remind yourself you’re in paradise.”
Question of the evening: What will it take for you to recognize your true Godhood?
https://www.carlassugar.com/
This episode goes deep as we touch on Mental health and the dynamic between a son and a mother.... A mother who told her son “I’ll never love you the way you’ll need to be loved”. Listen to see the ramifications of this statement.
In this episode we talk about being “The BRO” to women we are interested in and waiting our turn.. always scheming which earned him the nickname black Zack Morris..And being on boyfriend level while your woman is ready to be a wife
Listen as we sit down with Davonne D'neil and unpack her latest project "Skin Tone Brown". Davonne shares how she wrote her first song and why Delaware State is were the "Culture" lived during her college years. We spend time in the studio as she shows us her techniques for layering her vocals while we learn the science of the studio versus the art form of live performance.
Who are you when you’re sober? Do you like yourself sober? When was the last time you you can honestly say you were sober? Do you like your partner when they’re sober? More importantly can you eat a salad together (27:15)...
Listen as we sit down with Jay7d the "Coochie Cleaner" and break down what it means to “live something twice(21:01).
Did you know: Vaginal steaming releases soul ties Question of the night: “What’s your I am?”
All women who are looking to be married should ask these two simple questions before wasting their time, “Are you considering marrying me? What would it take for you to marry me...” At some point you have to ask yourself If what you’re doing isn’t working, then fwhat are you going to do different in dating?
Listen as we discuss what it means to apologize and when a apology becomes a red flag. Can you love someone when they are not loveable
Watch the energy transferred to you during sex, it may ruin your day.
Women choose who to date and who to sleep with, men choose who they’ll marry.
Trust the feeling in your gut....
Listen as we sit down with Julius and Julian, the tap dancing duo of the Money Takers. We hear their new song “New New” and get a lesson on booking “Bad Mamas”.
More than tapping the Twins are In two upcoming movies, “Time Matters” and “Color Blind”
Did you Know: Their first drama teacher was Shemar Moore Their First instrument was the steel drum Their first tap instructor was Savion glover
Closing Question: “Are you Ready for greatness?”
Getting to the sweet spot of a marriage or relationship... Are you comfortable in the struggles of a relationship and uncomfortable in the peace. Listen as we discuss relationships and ask the tough question, “Can you love me when I’m unloveable?” Should your wife get in the backseat of your car when your mother is around? Is that a metaphor for a deeper issue you may be having.....
“You need to be a man”, what does that mean when a woman says it and why is the relationship at stake when a women is upset?
It’s not my job to make you happy. If I don’t make you happy, you’re not happy. “If you’re not doing for your, why should I?” Do you agree or disagree?
Can you romantically love someone and not like them. We thinks so, do you?
“Dating isn’t a tradition, it’s a culture; more then a necessity...”
Listen as we discuss our quarantine eating bits and what happens when you eat 4 McChickens and a 20 piece.
We reach back to “Entanglements” and ask the question, Are you entangled if you agree to it?
Listen as we sit down with Ernest Third as he describes how his music has grown as he did. Ernest ask an introspective question that makes the room stop and think ....”Is happiness obtainable?”
“What verse changed your life...?
If you could write one verse that a million black woman would here, what would it be? “Know your worth/ Even is it’s empty in your skirts” -Ernest Third
Do you have a certain.... how do you say, "je ne sais quoi". Listen as we discuss the idea that "everyone at the bar is equal" (6:17). How can you break through a person's representative and meet who they really are? What steps do you tale? (21:15). What are appropriate first date questions? What do you do during those awkward moments? Coupons on the first date, yes or no? (26:08).
Vice Versa: what are your vices and what do they say about you? (31:30)
Soooo a young lady shot her shot in our DM's. Is shooting a shot in the DM, but not having pictures posted a problem? When a stranger shoots their shot, what should you do? (35:40).
[Warning]: This episode got us in a lot of trouble.
Listen as we sit down with the family and welcome first time Cousin Bri! We touch on the The levels of women’s friendships and if it’s possible for a woman to reduce the access others have to her without throwing also ruining a friendship.
We touch on what does it mean to “have it all together” and is it fair/possible to date someone who doesn’t have their life figured out.
We talk about the “Cocaine feeling” love can bring and how to navigate that into a true dating experience and see a person for who they fully are and not just through Rose colored glasses.
Listen as we has a in depth dialogue about the sitcoms we watched growing up. We breakdown the role Carl played in his house hold as the Father in "Family Matters" and compare it to Bill Cosby's character Heathcliff. We analyze the dynamic between Will and Carlton in "Fresh Prince" while asking the questioning the emasculation in the depiction of the black father on TV.
Listen as we laugh the night away with the lovely Ms. Ajay. We talk on the role her father played in her life and how that has manifested in her dating life. We learn about being raised by a father and if he has liked any of her boyfriends. Finally we get into "Pretty Girl Problems vs. Pretty Girl Privilege."
Listen as we give roses while we still smell them. Kyle shares why he's naturally introverted and how he manages to be outgoing? Jeremy shares how he as attended church more during the quarantine then prior. We walk into a conversation geared towards holding your friends accountable for their dreams.
Listen as we breakdown the Jordan documentary and what it means for dating. "The Last Dance" knowing the relationship is over. "Bad Front Offices", she having friends that hate. "Trips to Vegas" would you take advantage of the proverbial "Hall Passes".
Listen as we sit down with "The Tax Lady" Sakinah Tillman of Tillman LLC. We discuss the stimulus, what it is and what it means for next year's tax return. Later we transition into the disparities in healthcare and the impact it's having
How everyone is safe out there. Please continue to practice social distancing. This episode we self reflect to determine "what does love feel like?" We both reminisce on the joys of being the side dude. We end the same with our favorite game, "Name that Sample."
Listen as we record our first quarantined episode over Instagram Live. We shout out the teachers during this quarantine period and acknowledge why they are the best to be quarantined with. Have you been checked on during the quarantine... Who's checking your temperature?
Dope Chicks of the Week: Ava (@Avaa81) and Chyna (@_Msffg_)
Listen as we sit down pre-quarantine and discuss what it means to give maximum effort, the greatest or highest degree of energy used in producing a desired result. Are you giving your Maximum Effort in all areas of your life? This lead us directly into determining what we are willing to commit too.
Dope Chick of the Week: Chef Catina (Cat) Smith, found of Just Call Me Chef.
Listen as we share our thoughts, condolences, and prayers for our Friend Graham W. Blake II (Blake)after his untimely passing... We recap the Suits & Sneakers Party, we discuss the "Rachet Chicks & Wings" we had during the after party, and what happens when married women shot their shot with you...
Listen as we sit down and hash out our business partnership issues live on air. 37:50 “Beauty in the struggle” we discuss the struggles to success.
48:40: “Band-aids create more scars” Sometimes 20% of a person can out weight another's 80%.... That's when representative is all a person wants.
53:35: "Amazon Priming your Love" accepting love in small doses. Seeking it how I want to receive it.
Happy Birthday Kyle!!! Listen as we celebrate Kyle's Birthday. We have a very special guest, the original "Perfect Gentleman" himself.... Kyle's father! He breaks down the joys of fathering Kyle, advice, and the 3 Bs: Beauty Brains and Booty
Listen as we sit down with Crystal of She Fit Lifestyle and talk all thing health. Crystal breaks down how to achieve your fitness goals, how to squat your way to a big booty, and why you should put the french fries down. We transition from health to the heart as we talk love Languages, expressing emotions, and how Crystal's husband forgot her birthday.
Leaving all Kiki’s in 2019.... Listen ad we sit down with Kiea, owner of Pink xoxo Lips. Kiea and Kyle get right to it as they share their stories being taken to a secret sex party, and the self esteem shower needed after. We breakdown why threesomes don’t work and the steps to initiate one. We change topics and get into the hypocrisy of dating standards we give young adults and how it contradicts adult expectations in the black community. We finish with what happens when someone breaks the rules of a friends with benefits relations,
Did you make it into 2020.... Listen as we sit down on New Year's Day and recap NYE, New Year's Day, and 2019 as a whole. We touch on The best moments of the Podcast, Best Drinks of 2019, and of course the best Parties of 2019.
Listen as we sit down with the architect of Sneaker Ball Ms. Chantae Sessomes. Hear some behind the scenes information of what it takes to make Sneaker Ball a success, learn how to negotiate a larger salary at work, and we have a Bourbon & Breakthrough with Kyle as he opens up about not being able to fully receive Love.
Listen as we sit down for the last time of 2019. We ask the question what should someone bring to the proverbial dating "table"? What if your friends husband sent you a message on a dating site. What would you do? Find out how to receive your very own "I Survived Givens" t-shirt.
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Listen as we talk to the cadets of Free State Challenge Academy days before their graduation. You'll hear four heartfelt stories of four students who wanted better for themselves and took the necessary steps to achieve more.
Listen as we sit down with Tori Rose, Candidate for Baltimore City Council District 7. We talk about what "drove" her to Door Dash in her BMW. We have a conversation about "what happens when your prayers aren't answered." Tori shares a touching story from her childhood and how she overcame a tumultuous ordeal.
Question of the Night: "How Can I Server You?
"It's Rich James...!" Listen as we sit down with talk show host Richard James of "Living a Rich Life" talk show. Rich shares with us his experience overcoming his gambling addiction and the impact it had on close relationships (20:30). We breakdown being Arrogantly Humble (35:21) and why Consistency is Key (40:55). The topic of Fear comes up as we arrive at the idea when you’re loved right, fear jumps out the window, thus fear is not natural or from the Creator (58:25). Show Title: Beneficial vs Unconditional 70:05
Dope Chicks of the Week: Dr. LaTeri McFadden - www.overthechill.overthechill.com Avaa Chefs of Just Call Me Chefs
Have you ever wondered why teenagers do the things they do? Better yet, do you remember being a teenager thinking you knew everything about everything? Listen as we sit down with cadets from Free State Challenge Academy and her their stories of wanting more out of life and what they are doing to accomplish more.
Listen to this follow up heartfelt conversation as Kyle and Jeremy discuss what it means to be a "Bird" buy not having the ability to fly. Listen for Kyle's peacock analogy to understand the full context. Jeremy open's up a uncertain time in his life and reveals how he ended up in college. We end solve the equation "why women are like math problems"
Listen as we discuss the roles our mothers play in our lives and how their lack of understanding, and sometimes support, effects us. We bring back the conversation about good morning text and touch on what happens as the season change.
Listen as we sit down with Tarah Davidson, a Certified Clinical Sexologist. Tarah's specialty area of focus is men and sexuality and she drops several gems on this episode!!! Intimacy vs Eroticism, do you know the difference? We break down why "Men are taught to perform and not pleasure" which leads into why both men and women are conditioned to think "beating it up" is how intimacy should be... "If you're taught to beat it up, then you're not taught to finesse. Tarah gives us the ultimate get out of jail free card as she enlightens us about Vasopressin "the faithful hormone".
Listen as we sit down with the host of the Boonie Breakdown Podcast, Ms. Boonie herself. Our conversation is pure ratchetness by three responsible people. (15:08) We determine the best pick up line a woman could ever use on a man. We hear a interesting story of how "sleeping" with the producer can actually further your career. We take a poll of the room to very a recent study saying that most women get horny at 2:37pm daily.
Listen as we sit down with the Co-founder of Ram & Parrots Whiskey, Rod Dotson. (32:00) Rod shares a iron story of how he meet his now wife in the hospital and what determined she was the one. (38:25)He shares more insight into dating and unpacks the "checks" required when dating someone new. (48:40) Kyle gives a great relationship metaphor using arcades and extra 25¢. (54:01) We end on Finances, communication, and intimacy. The 3 things many married coupled bump heads on and are the root of issues in marriage. Question of the night: How important is your legacy to you?
Listen as we sit down with cadets from class 53 of Freestate Challenge Academy. You'll hear the cadets Parker, Cadet Nash, Cadet Campos, and Cadet McFadden describe the behaviors that landed them in this 6 month program. They describe what life is like at Freestate, and their plans after graduation. Kyle breaks down the mindsets and maturity levels of 16, 17, 18 year olds. Finally we learn what a Sand Baby is and how Cadet Nash birthed one.
Listen as Jeremy and Kyle sit down and catch up with each others lives. We recap the Back 2 School Suits & Sneakers Party and thank everyone for coming out. We hear what happened when Jeremy brought a date to a family function. We field questions from the live feed and answer the best we can... Can women make you change your mind about dating seriously?, Have you dated a women who is out of your league? We end with the topic "Black women can no longer afford to save the broken black man".
Listen as we sit down with Jess and hear her stories of Dating both Jeremy and Kyle. We learn how Kyle's celibacy came to a end (pun intended), We discuss dating a close friend of seven years and the fallout that ensued, and end with the question "Should black women continue to save broken black men?"
Listen as we sit down with the second half of the Boujetto Podcast Shakaria B. aka Miss Black Maryland. We talk about growing up in the church, how to strengthen discernment, and giving away keys to your heart.
Listen as we sit down with Lady Aimz and discuss dating outside of your race vs. dating outside of your culture. Amy shares her story of dating a Spanish man who does not speak English and how they communicated on their first date. We unpack how paying attention to subtle changes your partner makes can go a long way, and unite over the annoying dating questions friends and family ask.
www.RobinRHaynes.com "I do what most people won't, so I can do what most people can't" Listen as we sit down with Author, Financial Coach, and Business Advisor Robin R. Haynes. Robin shares key financial lessons such as "Do not abort your W-2". We hear her journey post divorce and the struggles of building her career... "I was a Published Author, down at the Department of Social Services Degreed up..." and she shares the theme of her upcoming book.
Listen as we sit down with Jonisha and discuss "Soul Knots." Soul Knot: Deeper than a "Soul Tie", a Soul Knot is a spiritual/emotional connection you have to someone after being intimate with them, usually engaging in sexual intercourse. To the point that when you want to be rid of them from your mind and your life, even when you are far away from them and out of their presence you still feel as if they are apart of you and apart of you is with them, Causing you to feel unwhole, as if you've given up some of yourself intangible that cannot be easily possessed again.
We touch on "How you love yourself, is a indicator of how people will love you in return," Are you always available vs. making yourself available (stolen moments), and Cereal for dinner.
Listen as we sit down with Parker, one half of The Boujetto Podcast. We start the conversation discussing when you should lead a relationship with sex. Parker ask a great question, "Do you pray and discern over your dating life?" Can you recognize the patterns you attract and us it as a mirror reflection into your life? We end the episode with a plot twist in the concept of chivalry.
Listen as we sit down with Ms. Limón and discuss finances, specifically income protection. We breakdown the dynamics of older women and younger men while determining is Ms. HoneyBleu is indeed a cougar. Finally we devise a plan to see if she can past the "family" test.
Listen as we sit down with Krissy and she shares the history of why she never wears underwear. Kyle gives a story of being used for a dinner date and we examine if you should talk to someone on the phone before going out on the first date?
We hear examples of a "baby melt down"? Apparently it's passive aggressive behavior. Question of the night: "Black Men, why have you forsaken Black Women..." Answer: "It's easier to fall into a Trend and not a Tradition"
*** Today's life lesson: "The less conversation you have, the more of a past you think you had"
Listen to this after cookout group conversation where we hear women's views on "The Glass Ceiling" and corporate America. We debate if Tupac would still be relevant today, and what it means to be "Halfway Single".
On this episode of Bourbon & Boyshorts we sit down with Stephanie and Avaa. We explain why Stephanie flirts for sport and puts guys in her "Friend-bin." We debate the current state of African American groups and their fight to recruit white collar vs. blue collar professionals. And we also discuss "350" the last guy Avaa dated...
Listen as we sit down and discuss double dates and what happens when someone gets stood up on a double date. We realize "Pretty Girl Privilege" is in full effect and debate who is prettier Beyoncé, Chaka Khan, or Angela Bassett.
We wrap up the episode discussing the Roots Picnic.... what type of human being tries to start a fight while H.E.R. is performing?
Listen as we sit down with graduates from class 52 of Freestate Challenge Academy. You'll hear the cadets describe the behaviors that landed them in this 6 month program, they describe what life is like at Freestate, and their plans after graduation. Imagine this..... A hamburger with one packet of ketchup is the highlight of your meals for the week.
www.sarahmcurnoles.com Listen as we sit down with Sarah Curnoles, a professional dating coah. Today we breakdown why we shouldn't hold our cards close on first dates, how to connect with someone, and why Horror Movies are the perfect first date!!!
Audio gets better at 27:10 Listen as we sit down with the sultry voiced Tiarra listen to her talk about everything from Teach for America, to dating men without cars. We get into a interesting discussion about how Friday nights after 30 are calmer, teaching students who don't speak English, and matching wealth with family when dating.
Listen as we sit down with Wayne Watts and learn about his Dream. Create. Inspire tour (https://www.dreamcreateinspiretour.com/). Discover how Wayne works with schools to facilitate song writing workshops for kids. We breakdown how there are no more gate keepers but rather butlers at the door. Finally we breakdown his lyrics and determine how Denver changed the sound of his music.
Mama we made it! Episode 100!!!! Thank you to everyone for your support throughout this journey. We couldn't have done it without you. We truly appreciate you. Listen as we celebrate our 100th episode with our cousins. We tell the story of how Kyle met this side of the family and realized his father wasn't his biological. You get to hear how we became best friends at the Bad Boy Reunion Concert, and more secrets we'll never share again. (54:50) Jeremy shuts down the entire podcast over pizza. smh.......
Listen as we talk about the recent gala we attended and how we got kicked out for wearing kicks instead of dress shoes. We breakdown the idea of 30 day dating and all of the possible ramifications. We ask the question "Are good night text the new 'Good morning' text,? We end with "Are you in love with yourself, and do you accept your own flaws?"
Listen as we sit down with Keyona the founder of Femininity and Womanhood, and Masculinity and Manhood. We have have a great conversation of submission, the job of the black woman, and how holding on to someone who is gone will hinder your life. "What is a Man's role in a Woman's life...?
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Suits & Sneaker Party Saturday May 18th (https://www.eventbrite.com/e/suits-sneakers-tickets-60836888772?aff=ebdssbdestsearch) Listen as we sit down with appealing Tasha of Noir Restaurant and Lounge. We start with Tasha's origins as a military brat and the time she spent overseas. We hear the story of her father meeting her mother while station in Italy and dating her even though she didn't speak English. We move on to her 6 year relationship and how that drove her to becoming celibate. Finally laugh at her first experience post celibacy
Fund Friday, April 19th 7-11pm. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/fund-friday-tickets-59442550268?aff=eprofsaved Listen as we sit down with the wonderful Raye of Noir Restaurant & Lounge. (5:39) We talk about dating like Caucasians and why datinig is the new networking. (40:25) Why don’t women apologize when they are wrong? Finally we end with (91:10) "Love More, Fear Less"
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Listen as we sit down with the lovely ladies of the Bougie by Association Podcast. Listen as we discuss feminism and where black women fit within the movement. We ask the question, "Do women reinforce toxic masculinity?". Finally the ladies describe what "care" looks like.
Listen as we sit down (3:25) and discuss why having multiple women is difficult sexually. (7:50) Jeremy tells the story of getting kicked out of a young lady's house for not having sex with her, and Kyle (9:00) shares his experience being celibate for 8 months. We finish with Chef Rose (57:10) breaking down why she separates her sexuality from her profession, "Chefs have been freaks since the Greeks"
Dope azz chicks: Caitlyn Davis: https://empowergirlsincorporated.org/team/caitlyn-davis/ Chef Catina "Cat" Smith: https://www.justcallmechef.co/ Kim "KSAL" Salley
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Listen as we sit down with "Pam" to discuss her recent break-up after knowing him from 10 years. (29:25) Kyle explains how a woman fresh off a breakup is dangerous... (35:59) Jeremy states why a man wants to know if a woman can live without him,... (64:63) Pam explains why you should address someone only at the level you see them romantically.
Listen as we discuss the surprise dinner that turned into a Kid & Play house party at Noir lounge(4:49). (8:35) Crust and Cocktails Shout out (11:00) Do men and women have the same flexibility in their dating range? (20:30) Why haven't you proposed again? (28:31) After 30 men typically don't settle down. True or False? (51:47) "Treat me like I'm Instagram"
Listen as we sit down with local artist Ernest Third and discuss his journey chasing football to discovering his true passion for music. We breakdown the lyrics to several of his songs and he shares his inspiration for each.
Itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/ernest-third/1192853568
https://www.treasontoting.com/ Social Treason - /ˈsōSHəl/ /ˈtrēzən/ (so·cial trea·son): The act of betraying ones social circle, network, or cultural upbringing for the purposes of self growth and exploration. Social Treason is often the result of being placed outside of your comfort zone for extended periods of time (months, weeks, years, etc.) and enjoying it.
Listen as we sit down with Aaron Jones, CEO of Treason Toting Co and Master Tailor at Busheler's of Baltimore. Listen (18:00) as we discuss what committing treason means and how the name came about. (44:10) He explains why his girlfriend is his biggest fan and (62:30) and how “she thinks about me when I’m not thinking about my self”. We end the conversations with (84:35) explaining why “the best feeling you have in a crowd of people is at a concert” and (86:16) “I lead with my heart, but my brain is my sniper”
https://www.treasontoting.com/ Social Treason - /ˈsōSHəl/ /ˈtrēzən/ (so·cial trea·son): The act of betraying ones social circle, network, or cultural upbringing for the purposes of self growth and exploration. Social Treason is often the result of being placed outside of your comfort zone for extended periods of time (months, weeks, years, etc.) and enjoying it.
Listen as we sit down with Aaron Jones, CEO of Treason Toting Co and Master Tailor at Busheler's of Baltimore. Listen (18:00) as we discuss what committing treason means and how the name came about. (44:10) He explains why his girlfriend is his biggest fan and (62:30) and how “she thinks about me when I’m not thinking about my self”. We end the conversations with (84:35) explaining why “the best feeling you have in a crowd of people is at a concert” and (86:16) “I lead with my heart, but my brain is my sniper”
www.FindYourFly.org Listen as we sit down with the founder of Find Your Fly Demetria and her brand ambassador/ little sister Marche. We discuss how their lifestyle brand got started and Demetria share's with us a love letter she wrote to her Husband. Conversation gets deep as we get into "Urban Education" and the future of college.
Listen as we bring Ksal of "Building a Empire with Ksal" into the would of Bourbon & Boyshorts. We talk about our upcoming speed dating event and how one should "Smell" the love, "Taste" the love, and "Hear" the love.
https://www.healthypeoplejuice.com/ Question of the Night: "How do you heal, How do we heal?" (65:10) Listen as we sit down with Juan (Brother Nance) Healthy People Juice and learn about his from a Baltimore City School Teacher to business owner and why Healthy People Juice sits on the three of pillars High Quality, Affordability, and Accessibility. We discuss "tribing" and why it's important to build a community, why we shouldn't release our children until the age of 25 and the importance of recharging yourself.
Having soul ties and why that's deeper then dating. Sometimes we can't choose who we have connections with. (46:16)Black Men play the game fair with Black Women as they are our greatest asset. (56:30) "The power of the rod." (62:10) Black Men telling other Black Men "I love you"
https://bullshinedistillery.com/ Listen as we sit down with our new Cousins Wayne and Ken, aka White Kyle and White Jeremy. We talk about how they started their distillery and the origins of their "aphrodisiac" whiskey 7 roots. (41:50) Advice for small business.:“Execute on ideas" and start “Pulling the fucking trigger”. (65:30) “black cotton” (72:30) “Our disagreement process".
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Listen as we sit down with Lydia as she shares what it was like know the Mr. Velvet Vibez in college. They detail their friendship even how Lyd flooded his bathroom. We discover the criteria for determining who are your true friends and explain "how to create romance"
https://www.messinabottle.com/ This episode we feature Kalilah Wright founder & CEO of Mess in a Bottle. Kalilah is a graduate of Penn State University and Morgan State University with a Masters in Architecture. She left her career as a architect & designer to pursue her ambitions. Listen as we talk about supporting black businesses all year long, going from children's furniture to baby onesies to mess in a bottle, and how Chance the rapper inspired her. Would you want to marry a stay at home dad?
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https://www.thebeorg.com/ Sneaker Ball - Sat. Feb 9, 2019: https://sneakerball2k19.splashthat.com/
Listen as we sit down with Tonee of The Be Org and her best friend Chanté. The Be. Org is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization primarily serving the youth of the Baltimore-Washington Metropolitan area. Listen as we uncover how they stole our party ideas, Tonee's leap of faith to becoming a fulltime entrepreneur and Chanté invites Bourbob & Boyshorts to Liquor & Leftovers and promises to go shot for shot. Listen all the way through as the conversation starts lights and gets real.
Listen as we talk about what really goes through the minds of men once the lights come on and the club closes. How do you overcome whiskey d!ck? Have you ever experienced the slow thigh rub as a precursor to sex? At the 18:30 we discuss why women actually want us to lie and if it secretly turns them on. At 62:05 we discuss the game we want to instill in our Daughters “The truth, the lie, and what I make you see” At 64:15 why you buy gifts
Listen as we have the greatest music debate ever live! Our criteria: Impact, longevity and lyrics. Who do you vote for? Brandy vs. Monica, TLC vs. En Vogue, Dru Hill vs. Jodeci, R. Kelly vs. Maxwell, Biggie, Jay-z, or Nas?
Listen as we breakdown the holiday gift giving process and the surrounding components of it. We rant on why you should be appreciative of all gifts no matter when or how you receive them. We get into holiday gifting rules, when are you required to buy someone a gift? ..........And after all of this holiday talk, we breakdown our greatest in Music. Best 90's hip-hop group, Best Female R&B group, who is the current King of R&B, and why Tupac and Biggie wouldn't make our Mt. Rushmore of Rap
Today listen as the guys tell you that they are not having a show today. LOL tomorrow night catch us on Facebook and Instagram Live starting at 8pm. Please bring your questions and your comments.
See you there!!!!
https://flynerdapparel.com/ Listen as we sit down with Andrea Tomlin founder of Fly Nerd Apparel. We get into the conversation of Are creative crazy? Andrea shares her philosophy about changing your mentality to "Life is supposed to be easy" and we recite her daily affirmation "I'm Happy, Whole, & Complete". And of course we learn the meaning behind Fly Nerd
Listen as we sit down with Ebony Love of Herbal Self Love and you hear the process as her "Sex Tea" takes affect on us, hear as she makes Suede Soul taste her yoni, and learn why men create lazy women. "We never reach our limit, we set it" -Ebony Love www.herbalselflove.com
Listen as we talk to Eric and Roni about the ups and down of their relationship. Hear their story of two marriages and 5 proposals and why Roni said no 4 times. The men dissect the beauty of catholic school uniforms, and the studio audience discusses what they learned listening to this couples story.... Two life lessons we all learned 1.) "If you saw me and didn't say anything to me, then you didn't see me." 2.) "You good. I'm good. Then we good"
Listen to our radio interview with K-Sal of God's Little Angels fine arts studio. K-Sal ask us the origins of Bourbon & Boyshorts, how we came up with our names, and our most memorable dating stories.
If you would like a shirts paypal BourbonandBoyshorts@gmail.com or send us a message.
Listen as we discuss what it means to miss a person and the phrase "I think about you more than I miss you", being responsible for your own happiness, and leading by example to mentor the next generation. Question of the week: "Who are the 5 people you would ask to help you achieve you goals?" (37:37)...... and this it got real.
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Listen as we sit down with Tyler and Eban to discuss why women are infatuated with stealing hoodies, "Spa Days", and what does it mean to date a older man?
Listen as Kyle & Jeremy talk about the church service they attended and how Pastor Lievers' sermon sparked a conversation dispelling the myths of manhood. The conversation pivots into what are the rules for "overnight guest" and what to do when the aunties give you evil looks.
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Today we sat down with high school sweethearts "The Wrights". Listen as they recall how they met, the effects of an abusive father on a husband, and the reality check that made Ike realize she was the one. (50:01 minute)Kyle and Jeremy discuss if they still want to get married.
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Listen as we continue the conversation from Episode 62 with Pia. During this after hours conversation Pia reveals that she recenly turned down a marriage proposal on a cruise and she shares why she is practicing celibacy. We ask the questions "Does sex make you feel like you're in a relationship?", "Does sex establish relationship?" and "Is sex mental?" Please share your thoughts!
Have we ever taken the time to listen to the heart of a man? Do we overlook their pain? When is the last time you let a man know you appreciate him? It’s the unfiltered script of life and love through the eyes of a man!
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Please excuse the audio. Suede Soul had us using new mics and we started sipping prior to checking the levels
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Listen as we further discuss our lingerie party event, the real meaning behind "I miss you" text, and why "The Perfect Gentleman" is no longer walking on the outside of the curb.
Listen to Episode 55 “Jack in the Fck Boy Box” first* This is our candid behind the scenes conversation with Nate and Monique and we hear Nate’s honest confession of him not knowing how to love Monique and the role his father played in this.
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September is Ovarian Cancer Month. Follow @T._A._Y._S_ Wear Teal all month long! (https://ovarianconnection.org/) Listen as we discuss the joys of being curved, why being stood up is a humbling but necessary feeling, and Kyle's encounter at the strip club and the pornstar StrokeAHontas. We share our theory of where the "guy ain't sh!t" narrative comes from. Kyle and Jeremy Argue over what it means to be offended. Is there is a difference between
Live Podcast at ArtHouse on October 11th
Dope Azz Chicks: Raina from Cedar Cotton - http://www.cedarandcotton.com/ Caitlyn - https://empowergirlsincorporated.org/ Chantay - @T._A._Y._S_ All Black Women: Thank you for your Support & Love My sister Cheryl
Listen to this behind the scenes episode where all of the truths are spilled. If you haven't heard Episode 64, you MUST!!! listen to that first. We continued our conversation with Jessica and Tiana and it gets real as we discover which one has a live in boyfriend and who likes "Double Stuffed Oreos." Ultimately we achieved a Bourbon and Breakthrough and I think progress was made.
Listen as we sit down with Sakinah for the first time, and Livi "Shadow" from Episode 4"Ladies of Legacies." During this episode we dig deep into religion and dating. Sakinah gives us the perfect balance of righteousness and rachet, all while being a career driven woman. Does the religion of the person you're dating matter to you? Going to church vs. having a relation ship with God, which is more important. When is it the right time to invite someone to church? Is that a intimate situation. We discuss taking dates to church. We even get into The Perfect Gentleman and how he was raised with religion and religious influential figures
Sakinah: https://www.tillmantaxlawfirm.com/ @tillmanllc
Livi: @wrighychoicebookkeeping_llc
We are back with special guest "Jessica" & "Bey" (Their aliases of course) to discuss everything from their self proclaimed "thotting at 14" to their recent themed weekend of rachet activities. We head off on a tangent to discuss good place to grab a steak, Golden corral biscuits, and Not wanting guys to approach them. Listen as they dance around the question of Love and (Would you date [Suede Soul]? Imagine having a hoe phase in your 30's! And Jessica says her next hoe phase will come in her 40's.
Listen as we have a Bourbon and Breakthrough with Jeremy and discuss the part he plays in his relationships. Topic of the night, when should you tell someone you have a significant other, has significant other sent someone to check on you and why you should send your location or a check in text. Also, we breakdown the the perfect date at home
Dope azz Chicks : Ms. Tay Tay Good Girls Behaving Badly https://goodgirlsbehavingbadly.com/
Hot take: Is the song "Until You Come Back to Me" stalkerish by today's standards (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bJZwcaWResA)?
Listen as we catch up with Pia and work out the details of having a "Bourbon & Bondage" pleasure party, equipped with pole dancing and models covered in food. Pia talks about her Pure Romance Sex toy business and demos the "Hand Jive". We debate if there is a such thing as a Legal Madam and go into "Daddy issues"
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Listen to more of Chanel and K-Dot. This is the unedited behind the scenes conversations that didn't make it to Episode 60. The conversation expands on the ladies theory of a man should pay for the first and majority of dates as this is a key indicator of how he will treat you later in a relationships. Then it takes a turn to lowering standards, dating someone at the same career level, and coming to the realization that we are all hoes, freaks, and nasty.
Listen as we talk with friend of the show Kendra and her "loud" and "passionate" friend Chanel. If you were at the live show you will remember Chanel from her comment about never paying for date!!!. This convo is a completely different a deeper side of her and her passion to empower people........... Oh, don't fret. The salacious behind the scenes convo is coming soon lol
Listen as we sit down with Uncle Mark and he shares how he moved with his family to New Jersey to follow his dream, His wife leaving him during father's day, and Finding the Love of Life.
Listen as we break down how men love and the levels to it. We talk about how and why we build deep routed connections with a lot of women, and the roles our mother's have played in it. Finally we shout out a random list of "Dope Azz Chicks"
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Listen as we sit down with Dr. McFadden as she explains the effects of being silenced in a relationship. We dig deeper and have a #BourbonandBreakthrough moment as Dr. Kyle lays out how Dr. McFadden's pickiness is leaving her single. Oh and when your friends tell you, "Men aren't the problem, Btch you aint SHT!!!!!!!!"
Listen to our after hours talk as we respond to the emails from the IWantToDateKyle@gmail.com, chat about who's your bougie friend, and is Eskimo p*ssy a bad word? Oh and what did you think of Suede Soul's freestyle?
Today we sit down with Nate and Monique and hear the story of how they met at Applebee's (2 for $20 is real), why Monique use to love lightskin thugs with tattoos and rims, and listen to why their wedding rings only cost $10.
Listen as we discuss the shade Dads get on Father's Day compared to the mountains of Love Mother's get on their day. We sit down with Chef Cat and answer her questions about dating as a parent, and of course we get off topic and compare "adult" sites.
Listen as we recap the Suit & Sneakers Party and all of the events of that evening. We open up about how our father's impacted our dating lives, and we come to the revelation that we got our "game" from our Moms.
Listen as we take the first steps to help Kyle find love in 2018. If you are interested in the "Perfect Gentleman", email him at Iwanttodatekyle@gmail.com. We also breakdown dating, meeting the family, and thank our listeners for support.
We made it! 50 Episodes!!!! Listen as we talk about the next Suits and Sneakers Party May 20th, or as we call it, "The After Brunch, No Panties Party." We give updates into our love lives, and question the role friends play in dating.
Listen as we Celebrate our 1 year anniversary but having a live episode with a live audience and "The Gift Band" bringing us the vibes. The audience questions get real and debate gets heated. Hear the difference in opinions of age groups, do actions really speak louder than words, and "If a man is a project, than a woman is a puzzle."
Listen as we talk with fitness expert Norm Young of Young Fitness for Life. Listen as he discusses why he won't date a woman that weighs more than him, why he's never dates a "athletic" woman, and the insecurities of dating in his industry. Oh yeah so apparently Personal training and Podcasting are high up on the list of thotiest job.
Intro Song: "Step Ya Game UP" by Hi-Tek ,feat. Little Brother & Dion
Listen as we talk about our #TasteandMingle and assess if any love connections were made, hear a story of a first date with a Fire Fighter/ Stripper/ Pastor..... yes all the same person. SMH. Oh, and Suede Soul is now on Christian Mingle lol. Intro by Ivy Sole, "Dream Girl" off of the album Eden
Listen as we talk to Kim and she shares her stories of dating older men, why she wanted to get handcuffed, and how to go from ex to employee. Oh, and she has insight into what it's like as a roommate with the Perfect Gentleman
Listen as we talk to Duane and Nemo the first couple from POF (Plenty of Fish) to get married, hear why Duane was ready to get married, and why Nemo told Duane to date another woman.
Listen as we Discuss the importance of a first date kiss, how to ruin a great date, and packing up belonging after a break up. Oh, and the guys have a public fight.... "We all loose when the family feuds."
Listen as we start our "Why did I get Married: series with special guest Rodney and Tiffany. Listen as we hear why Rodney fainted at the alter, why everyone should go to lingerie parties to find love, and the craziest story of forgiveness ever!!!! Like ever ever!
Listen as we talk to Tasha from @RespectTheYoni410 and we learn about Yoni Eggs, she shocks us with her current dating horror story, and we hear why this girl like bad guys
Listen as we share our best Valentine's day experience's, talk about women having alot of male "friends", and when are you obligated to attend a birthday dinner.
Listen as your guys talk about Superbowl party dating protocol, why not to fake having common interest, and what happens when to don't give a gorgeous woman attention Love Life & Libations
Listen as the guys talk dating in the work place, sexual harassment, and when is it right to discipline someone else's kids.
Listen as the guys talk to MC Trinitee about her experiences dating both men and women, and why she prefers women. We touch on if people are born gay, why women are more savage than guys, and why Trinitee has never had a threesome......only Fivesomes!!!
Listen as we talk how many chances is to many chances in a relationship, Who got "left" in 2017, and what is the statute of limitations for dating your friends ex
Listen as we talk about why having warm wet wipes in the bedroom is a must, what do you call a friendship after sex,..... and a very special guest "Cold Grits." Love Life Libations
Happy Holidays!!! Listen as we determine what gift should be given based on quality of "sex", have you ever had a trophy bae, and what happens when they like you more than you like them.
Listen as we wrap up an afternoon of Brunching and drinking with a laid back conversations about dating. The Topic, "Should you follow the person you are dating on social media?" Hear "Baby J" and Breezy share their thoughts on the topic. Oh, and has anyone seen the Perfect Gentleman?
Listen as we continue to talk to Lynette and hear more of her relationship stories. Learn everyone's best sexual encounter, more about Kyle and Lynette's history, and discuss if friends can just cuddle. For best results, listen to Episode 32 first.
Listen as the guys sit down with Lynette C. Listen as Lynette talks about why she is Celibate but also runs down her list of porn stars, the first person to eat her groceries, and Women and the importance of having a strong tribe. Oh, and did Suede Soul shoot his shot?
Listens as we discuss if you can be friends after being intimate, how we fall of from sending good morning text, and letting the Perfect Gentlemen know he needs a intervention. Does the Suede-Soul have a type? Another falls off and another one steps up.
Listen as we sit down with April Wardlaw co-owner of Popcorn Queens. She shares how she started popping, what the "condom" conversation means, and the drama of dating a co-worker. Oh, and does Jeremy have a girlfriend........?
A flask back to Episode 5 "The Brunch Episode", Listen as brunch ends and dinner begins with a candid conversation between Tominik & Kyle. Hear why she stood him up on Valentine's Day and are you "experienced" enough to date a older woman.
Listen as your favorite guys about the Bourbon & Boyshorts yacht party, our Howard Homecoming experience, and special shout outs.
Listen as Joshua tell us the story of how he swept Ariel off of her feet, and as things were getting good she up and left. Also learn a new term "Clachet" from Cara and hear her experiences of losing her husband. And yes, we discuss wheel chair sex,
Be a fly on the wall as Episode 25 ends but the mics keep rolling... This is the true story of 4 friends picked to record a podcast and have their stories taped. Find out what happens when people stop being polite and start getting real... #Bourbon&Boyshorts
Listen as we share a podcast with the Ladies and Chefs of "Taste Charm City." Learn why women should never put sugar "down there", what groceries every single man should have, and which chef loves Red Lobster.
Listen as we finally see Kyle getting broken up with, the results of the Speed Dating event, and how the guys became "Startenders"
Listen to the first half of our conversation with Chanelle #9 and Shanell #5 as we hear about #5's first date, Why #9 is bias towards Kyle, and how the hunter became the hunted.
Listen as we talk with Abe and Duane from the "Shouldv Pulledout" Podcast. Learn why you need to cut off your single friends once you get married, Why Duane deliberately abstained, and why closet sex is the best sex with your wife!
Listen as Kendra reads about Jeremy from her first diary, Dating outside of your race, Religion & dating, plus why we should commercialize June Teeth.
Listen as we talk about the about the best night of our life, waking up lost, and if women should pay for dates.
Listen to our cookout round table discussion were we hit on subjects of where to find a woman to date, being to picky, and when should you steal tires for your wife. Watch the video live at the link below. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wTjd90yfRqE&t=265s
Hear why K aka "Martin" broke up with Mr. Velvet Vibes, One guest explains why she attempted to assassinate The Perfect Gentleman, and can a woman handle dating a man who is dating 5 other women?
Listen as Greer shares her stories being a "Secret Lover," her boyfriend making it serious on July 4th, and why a guy dated her for 3 years and never got the "Gift Bag"
Listen as we follow up with Kristen Fassler and hear how she put her dude in timeout. Meet Erica aka Moesha and listen how a random concert lead to a DM, which lead to a baby on the way. Oh, and what happens in Vegas, gets shared on the podcast.
The Perfect Gentleman opens up about the death of his children's mother, Megan the "madam" sets us up on a blind date, and When is it to soon to meet the kids?
Behind the scenes of Episode 6. Chrissy talks about being married, forehead kisses, and caring to much to fast.
Does age matter?Listen as we discuss dating women 15 years our senior, friends with benefits, and why being in the friend zone is actually a good thing.
Listen as Kristen goes through her list of requirements a guy must have to date her....and answer the question, "would you pay $50 to get into a club". Learn what to wear during Netflix & Chill, and when is it ok to ask to "play with my friends."
Listen as we sit down with Megan and she talks about dating someone who was incarcerated, online dating, and shares her thoughts on Love, Life, and Libations....... and Sex?
Have you ever had one of those cookout conversations with friends and family where you debate everything from love to relationships? Well come be a fly on the wall and the guys from Bourbon & Boyshorts debate Love, Life, and Libations.
"Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears!!!" Today is the day Women take over the World!!! Listen as Ladies of Legacies take over Bourbon & Boyshorts
Introducing "The Perfect Gentleman" and "J with the Suede Soul". To young professional men and single fathers who discuss their perspectives and stories of new school dating, while having old school values.