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Dani and Drea are just 2 friends exploring what this "adult" thing is about. Life is fun but it's also hard, so hopefully we can do it together. You in or NAH?
It’s the most wonderful time of the year and we’re for HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS. Literally. (Hits different in 2020, doesn’t it?) Welcome to Spin the Bottle’s 4th annual Christmas special! We’ve traded our wheel of topics for a 2020 Naughty or Nice debate list and our favorite seasonal cheerleaders Dennis St. Clark and Alex Queen-of-the-Elves-Sneed are back to rally up the Christmas spirit! Enjoy some of Alex’s favorite Christmas musical selections of 2020 and navigate your COVID Christmas problems with some sage-y advice from our very own Christmas life coach. We know that it’s not a perfect time, but we hope this episode inspires you to pour some egg-nog and appreciate the little things...like our health, life, love, friendships and laughter. Merry Christmas, friends.
You know what it is. And now, we wonder what in the HECK happens next?! We may never have to call Donald Trump "Mr. President" again (personal commitment), but it's unlikely that we will be rid of him completely. And what about our student loans, Joe? We have questions. Of course, it's way too soon for real answers. For now, we muse. How do we want to show up for the culture/country over the next four years? How will you? Let's discuss. Because no matter who is in the White House, we're gonna need to be our own heroes.
In keeping with our overall aim to maintain a “Keep Calm and Carry On” vibe, join us this week as we talk about the mind body connection. Although it’s not the sexiest subject, it’s definitely got some jew-ells to help us tap a little deeper into ourselves. After all, wine and facials will only get you so far. And since it’s 2020... your esthetician may be on hiatus.
Hear more about Dani’s "Eyes Wide Shut" moment, a judgy moment concerning couples twinning, and how Moana is lifting our spirits and providing some quality motivation.
We could also call this the “Audacity of Joy”…because it sounds brave and right and Obama-esque. But is joy realistic in a year like 2020?? We say yes...with a few caveats. You can’t talk about JOY without acknowledging the pain and uncertainty swirling around us, but we MUST.
Joy might be a struggle, but it’s worth the fight. We are all survivors.
This show is chock full of feelings, so if you’re into that... join us for some good old-fashioned external processing. Also, Dréa goes on a lot of random tangents and apologizes a lot in this episode...so she’s sorry about that…on with the show!
VOTE! You’ve been hearing it a lot lately, we know. But we were getting FOMO...not to mention...IT MATTERS! So here’s our take on why the polls matter, plus a little historical fodder for you to chew on. Enjoy!
Rest. Resistance. Reparations. Restoration. Alliteration on fleek. (Are the kids still saying “on fleek?”) Today’s episode brings us all up to speed on exactly what this phrase means and how we might consider implementing it in our lives. Dani and Dréa talk about The Nap Ministry organization and its founder, x. The gals also get into some brand new spins, so don’t miss this one! No cap! ( The kids are def saying that one…)
Hey guys hey! 2020...just wow. Well, the world is still turning so we figured we'd get back in the studio. When we last spoke, we were deep into our conversation about evolution and what it looks like to evolve into the next best version of yourself. Then 2020 took a turn for the worse, and time seemed to be standing still, so we asked ourselves, "Can you still evolve while waiting?" The answer is absolutely, but it might take you some time to figure out how; as it did with us. Listen to hear about what we've been up to over the past 5 months, how we've coped with the unjust deaths of black people in America, and how we're approaching life in these apocalyptic times. We're learning a lot and we hope you are too. Let's get back to it. After all, we are our ancestor's wildest dreams.
We’re so excited to bring you a special COVID-19/New York Edition spin with Dream Team Correspondent, Erin Haywood! Erin is a career consultant and Diversity and Inclusion Recruiter who’s resume includes amazing companies like City Year, UCLA, and Jobwell. If you already finished Netflix or just need a break from Tiger King, try out her “5 Career Moves You Can Make From Your Couch.” They’re simple, rewarding, and you can still have snacks while doing them!
Fear is inevitable, but there are ways to manage it and keep it from overwhelming your life. This episode is all about shifting your perspective from one negative postulate (Why yes, that IS the word of the day, smarty pants!) to another more beneficial one. The goal? To be better than we were before, of course!
We brought in Dream Team Correspondent and mental health professional, Soco Reynoso to give us some practical tools for identifying and managing fear. And in times as uncertain and uneasy as now, she is right on time!
Whether clowns, life-sized spiders, failure, or success, we all have a relationship with fear. Join us for a conversation about what it is, how it operates, and the way it stunts personal growth and evolution.
Every year, we highlight black excellence in a very special episode we like to call the “Black List Awards”. This year, we’re excited to share our illustrious ceremonial episode...”The Black List Awards: Love Edition.” Whether you’re boo’ed up or single AF celebrate Valentine’s Day with us!
It’s your year! It’s our time! It might sound cliché but don’t you think it’s time to embrace the desire for more than what you’ve grown used to? (Unless you’re used to waking up next to Rihanna every morning, then hunny you’re just ungrateful.) For the rest of us, it’s definitely time to reinvent ourselves and EVOLVE. Join us for a quickie ( 😈heheehee...so immature) on what it means to EVOLVE and learn how we’ll be exploring reinvention in 2020!
Why we’re grieving Kobe’s death and why it’s okay for you to grieve those you never “knew”.
Featuring audio from Chispa Motivatjion found in link below...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gi9y3sTrXE&t=78s
A day late, but worth the wait as we pulled out all the bells and whistles for this Christmas episode!!! Join us as we celebrate with our Christmas Correspondents , Alex & Dennis. Find out which "Word of the Day" set a Spin the Bottle record, why Frosty needs a new tribe, and who got a Christmas breakthrough. Also, we have gifts! STB is your one stop shop for holiday cheer. Seriously. We literally had bells on.
Issa tradition! You know...like how your granny makes everyone go around and say what they are thankful for? Only this time, with a lot more Dani’s Random Factoids mixed in. We love talking about gratitude because for us it goes beyond just saying thanks. When we’re grateful, we stress less, we enjoy more, and we live for what’s happening now, not the regrets of that one time we lost our temper... Honestly, it’s the most adult kind of self-care. #truestory
Gratitude covers a multitude of sins...and a lot of them are connected to our physical body. This might be our nerdiest episode yet, BUT we do sprinkle in some Jesus and a bit of Kanye...so don’t give up on us now. Listen, we don’t know how much longer we’re gonna be here, so we say our prayers every night...one for our mothers, one for our fathers...You get it. If not, let Dréa sing it for you...Take a listen.
We get it. There’s always room for improvement. And, truth be told, there always will be. But, in all our striving to be better, it’s also imperative to tap into the unique magic that each and every one of us possess on TODAY. That said, join Dani and Dréa as they discuss how to cultivate and maintain their personal power. Also, discover which optical illusion has Dréa’s mind blown and how peanut butter preferences brought Dani to a #newlevel in friendship.
With Labor Day behind us, we’re inching toward the end of summer (global warming notwithstanding). We’ve had a great one, but maybe not by our usual “swimsuit and travel”
standards. For us at STB, this season was all about re-centering and refocusing on what matters - our family...our dreams....our breakup with Postmates...okay, maybe we’re just redefining our relationship a little...Anyway, this episode features the magic of our Dream Team correspondents Erin Haywood, Soco Reynoso, Brandee Harris, Jody Jacobs, and Ryan Kelley. If you missed any of their episodes this summer, our Summer Recap will show you why you should be kind and rewind. You’ll be happy you did.
Meet Mr. Ryan Kelley, our favorite personal trainer and now a Dream Team Correspondent! It took some time, but fitness is becoming more and more important to us. Dani shares her secret to losing 37 pounds (Spoiler Alert: It was not cheeseburgers.) Dréa muses over the physical challenges of being older and Ryan reminds us that the word mediocrity is a painful word to hear. Listen, we're all works in progress and forward is the pace. Let's. Do. This....and by ‘this', we mean happy hour...because it's still FRIDAY! But training starts tomorrow!
Phew! Jody my Jody came through with some deep thoughts. And that’s why we’ve asked him to be the 4th member of our illustrious dream team. We just know he’s going to bless ya’ll immensely with some life coach realness. Summer is a really great time for a refresh, so in between the unofficial (maybe even unsolicited) #hotgirlsummer that is currently upon us, we’re taking the time to ask the tough questions... in between sips of our Frose, of course...Who are you at your core? What do you (not your Mom) want out of life? What are the signs that you are headed in the wrong/right direction? Per usual, we have some ideas...tap the #linkinbio and listen up!
In the third installment of the "Meet Our Dream Team Tour”, we will introduce you to our resident “It Girl”, Brandee Harris. She’s a ‘Jacquelyn' of all trades who stays helping us get our life together. Join us as we discuss millennial motherhood direct from Brandee, a mother of two. In this episode you’ll hear what she has to say about a multitude of topics ranging from starfish to self-image. Trust us, there’s something in this episode for everyone. Oh, and one last thing… “Drogon, wherever you are, we hope you’re happy."
On this episode we introduce our second dream team correspondent - Soco Reynoso. She is our resident “Dr. Glow Up” AKA mental health expert! Join us as she navigates us through a discussion on Depression. There are plenty of jew-ells and takeaways like how to identify, accept, and combat the effect of Depression. Life is hard and that’s okay. We are in this together, y’all.
This episode is designed to call out the impostors out there. And unless you’ve got life fully figured out (If that is you, congratulations. We want you on the show) we’re talking to you. Tune in as we dig into identifying and combating Impostor Syndrome. You’ll also find out who’s had to learn the hard way that pettiness never wins and why we take umbrage with that GOT finale.
How can we handle that voice that mocks our ability to take risks or do something outside of our comfort zone? With our own voices screaming just as loud, we try to figure out the secret of boxing out your inner critic. “Judgey Moments with Dréa” makes a comeback and Dani drops some amazing advice for those who just can’t seem to mind their business: H20 works wonders. Hopefully the lessons we’ve gained from our inner battles inspire you to conquer your own...
What’s your secret to keeping your inner critic quiet?
We couldn’t let too much time go by before taking a moment to honor the life of Nipsey Hussle. Tune in as we discuss the lessons we learned from his life as well as how to move forward in a way that continues to perpetuate the legacy he left behind. #themarathoncontinues 🏁
With March being “International Women’s Month”, we had to show out for the ladies. Join us as we discuss our journey into womanhood, sexual health, and female intuition. You’ll also find out why we are trying to make “T-shirt & NO Panties On” a movement. This episode is brought to you by the power of femininity and Rosé. You’re welcome.
Tune in for this week’s SpinOff, "For Your Consideration." This topic allows us to share the content that is helping us live our best life. Find out what book inspired Dréa to visit Ghana and what’s got Dani singing “Oh happy day”! Hint: Winter is Coming!
If you’ve been following the news as of late, no doubt you’ve heard two names ad nauseam - R. Kelly & Jussie Smollett. This SpinOff is a conversation about the feelings and opinions we’ve had watching Black celebrities we admire involved in scandal. Tune in as we discuss where our stance as fans and consumers fall...
Let’s face it. Between Jussie Smollett and R. Kelly, it’s been a rough Black History Month. That said, Black excellence still aboundeth. Welcome to the 2nd Annual STB Black List Awards!! We got together with some of our friends to discuss all the amazing contributions to the culture in 2018. Join us as we shout out icons of our culture who make us Black and Proud.
So you started 2019 with a BANG, huh? You tryna make sure it’s YOUR YEAR, huh? Well, we believe you will, IF you do the mental work (care) necessary to “Keep that Same Energy.” Soco Reynoso - @myfavoritetherapist - joined us for a deeply insightful and entertaining conversation on how to make this year (and every year) one of our best...like for real for real. FAIR WARNING: You just might breathe easier after listening...We’d also love to introduce our first unofficial installation of Random Revelations...because we were all over the place, hunty!!! Thanks for lending us your ears!
Join us as we dive into the 1-9 (Yes...Dani is still trying to bring that back) discussing what it means to measure a year. No more trying, striving, and being depressed when we don’t meet ALL of our goals by December 31st of every year. We’ve decided there has got to be a better way. So, tune in to find out how we arrived at the top of our 2019 season with a fresh new perspective for defining our year. We’ll tell you why the "Kids Baking Championship" is giving us all the feels and true to form, Dréa is on a mission to put the 'H' back in Humble. Because, vocabulary. We are Blerds. You cant ever say we didn’t warn you!
Spin The Bottle takin’ over for the 1-9 into the…wait. Let’s try that again…HAPPY NEW YEAR! We're ready to kick 2019 into full swing, but not without catching you up on some of the highs and lows of how last year concluded. This SpinOff is merely an interlude of all the exciting things in store for you, our beloved listener, and a sneak peak into our next full episode where we discuss how you measure a year. cue “The Rent” classic Thanks for starting your year off right by rockin’ with us!
The Friend Zone is all about your inner circle. The kind you carefully select because you want no kinda hateration in this dancerie (or soiree…whatever your truth is...) In this episode, we talk about the folks you absolutely need in your life. (P.S. You can trust them around your boo.) Plus we give you a few tips on recognizing the toxic people in your life and compare our “friendship/relationship goals.” You’ll never guess who made the list! Okay…you probably will…but try anyway!
That’s all, folks - for now at least. We’re wrapping up the Getting Unstuck series with one of the most challenging concepts to grapple with: time. S.M.A.R.T. goals, objectives, vision boards. Yeah, we’ve all been there. But how do you break out of a rut if nothing is going your way? Wellst...we have a few ideas that might make you see your “Late Bloomer” status in a more positive light. We promise that you’re in good company! Dani’s jewells are shining brightly in this episode and Dréa’s revelation FINALLY has a little sunshine in it. It’s a good time, y’all.
Just like friends who clap on one and three...emotions make you cry sometimes. They might even hold you back from achieving your biggest dreams. Whether it’s deeper relationship with a friend, asking for a raise, or finally letting go of an ex...emotions can really get in the way of you taking the next leap. Think of them as overprotective parents, tryna keep you safe from this cold, cruel world. Spoiler Alert: You don’t have to let them run your life. Plot twist: You can’t just ignore them, either. (Ella Mai was really on to something...) Join us as we explore how to level up without getting caught up in your feelings. Spoiler Alert #2: It ain’t easy.
Join us for the 3rd installment of our “Getting Unstuck” series: Haters. During Bottle Talk, we define “hateration” and discuss how the way we address said “hating" may be keeping us mentally stuck. Also, find out what Hulu TV show has got Dani out here considering a move to Canada, why Soullection is giving Drea life, and why you need to go on ahead and splurge on Q-Tips instead of cotton swabs.
Join us as we dive into the 2nd of installment of our "Getting Unstuck" series entitled "Self Talk". Find out what’s going on in our brain, which brands of natural deodorant Dani is not a fan of, and why Dréa is all about rice these days.
This week we’re bringing you one of our favorite SpinOffs: Lyrically Tho! Find out just how misled Dani was behind the premise of an 80’s classic hit, and how the Spotify algorithm has Dréa ALL messed up! After taking a closer listen, the ladies have some fun revelations to share! Join us for some fun with words and test yourself to see if you know the real lyrics!
Join us for yet another SpinOff where we go through a myriad of current (and questionable) crushes. The ladies run the gamut of topics pulling their heart strings this week; from Tracee Ellis Ross and Netflix’s “13 Reasons Why” to “The Handmaid’s Tale” and the royal nuptials of Harry and Meghan! Beware as there is one topic in particular the ladies couldn’t get a consensus on. Check out their last hot take and let us know where YOU stand! (Hint: He’s the pied-piper who’s led us ALL astray) :-/
Just when you think you know someone...they go and do something DISRESPECTFUL. Although Kanye didn't spur the birth of this Spin, he made the top of our list for "How You Gonna Act Like That." While on one hand we're a little concerned with his mental health, you can't deny that Kanye has always been Kanye...and now he's coming back to haunt us. Mariah Carey made the list...but I'm (Drea) calling "wolf" on her newest claim. Then again...what does MC have to gain? This spin is all about shining light on the ones we love (or used to) and their bizarre antics. Hopefully, they'll come back to us one day.
Join us for another SpinOff as we discuss the things that are currently giving us all the feels. Find out who is inspiring Dani to live her best life and what has Dréa out here seeing stars… 😉
So… we needed to get a little bit of perspective on this whole work life balance thing. Call us crazy, but “adulting”...well it's hard and we haven’t totally been nailing it. Join us as we discuss what it means to pause for the cause and get unstuck. Find out what store Dani can’t go into unsupervised and what Roadrunner has to do with being grown. We’ve got jew-ells, ALL the clichés, AND revelations rolled into one show. What can we say…it ain’t easy!
We waited as long as we possibly could. If you haven’t seen Black Panther yet, we don’t know what to tell you other than be prepared for spoilers! How much do we love Wakanda? Let us count the ways…
Tune in as we celebrate Black Cinema at its very finest! WAKANDA FOREVER!!! 🙅🏾♂️🙅🏾♀️
We’re back, ya’ll!!! We couldn’t think of a better way to kick off our first show of 2018 than to honor all of the melanin magic that abounds. We’ve got Black excellence everywhere, it’s Black History Month, AND Black Panther premiers! Truly, it’s a magical month. Join us as we present our Inaugural STB Black List Awards. Yes that’s right. We made up our own awards to honor the MVP’s that did the damn thing in 2017. There’s so much amazingness to celebrate! #doitfortheculture
For our last #SpinOff of the year, we reflect on some of our favorite podcasting moments of 2017. From our first Spin the Bottle: LIVE show to a romantic social experiment, it’s been a fun and crazy ride with all of you. Thank you for listening and we’ll catch you in the new year!
Join us for our 2nd annual Christmas episode!!! It wouldn’t be right if we didn’t bring Alex Queen-Sneed back in the studio to do what she does best - bring us all some holiday cheer. To make sure the job was properly done, she even brought a special 4-year-old elf along; her daughter, Aliyah Sneed (AKA Dréa’s Goddaughter) to drop some jew-ells on us for a new segment, Aliyah’s Advice Corner. Find out why Dani feels a way about St. Nicholas being her Patron saint and what toothbrushes and Nintendo 64 have in common. We’ve also included our favorite Christmas songs and humbly suggest you check out Dru Hill’s new album “Christmas in Baltimore”. #doitfortheculture And last but not least, find out who takes serious umbrage with the “Pa Rum Pum Pum Pum” song. Hey, everything isn’t for everybody. From the STB family to yours, Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays.
On this week’s SpinOff we bring our resident engineer, Jarrett Johnson, to the mic representing Team Testosterone as we take a spin “Mars vs. Venus” style. Join us as we hash out a few hot topics like: “When is it okay to bring your boo home for the holidays” and “What to do when Uncle Junebug always has a new ‘friend’ on his arm at every family function”. Jarrett and Dani also go at it over prevailing stereotypes like the “Cat Lady” and “Distinguished Gentleman” while Dréa considers if she is actually Team Mars. Lastly, for kicks and giggles, find out why “You opened your mouth!” is our favorite quote of the show!
Let’s face it. Adulting is hard. From time to time we all need a little help from our family and friends to get by. Join us this week as we discuss a few of the things we think all adults should have in their “grown folk” arsenal. For a little extra fun, find out what threatening a butterfly and the “Fresh Prince of Bel Air” theme song have to do with it all.
Join us for a SpinOff where we cover a range of questions and odd scenarios. That’s right! We are taking a walk in another's shoes with WWDDD (What Would Dani & Drea Do). Find out what scene in the movie “Bridesmaids" presents a very serious dilemma for Dani, how Dréa feels about marrying a stripper (with goals), and what incest has to do with it all. Hey, it’s Spin the Bottle. You never know what you’re gonna get.
Pardon the delay, but that tryptophan did a job on us this year… ;-)
We’ve got a lot to be grateful for though; from family, to friends, to recent revelations about Magic Mike and our momma’s good cooking -- the list goes on. Today we say thanks for all the blessings we’ve received in 2017. Thanks for listening and being part of the Spin the Bottle fam. We’re grateful for you!
Every now and again, someone takes liberty with the good Lordt’s messaging. And once in a while, Dani and Dréa take umbrage with incredulous interpretations. Oh, not your pastor, of course....just the folks who throw around “God told me” all willy-nilly and combine scripture with Cardi B. Whether it’s bad behavior or annoying Christian-speak, the truth is, sometimes you just gotta let people know...that’s not in the Bible. (And yes, that phrase should be soaked with judgement and accompanied with a Maxine Waters-like frown.)
In our world (Dani & Dréa here) it’s the most wonderful time of the year! We love the Fall. We love the holidays that this season brings. We love that this is the time of year when we "fall back" an hour and get some extra sleep. In honor of that custom, we are calling this episode our “First Annual Fallback” because there are a few people, places, and things that we’d like to see take several steps back. Hey, it’s not just clocks with us. Tune in to find out what Aslan has to do with “45", why Dréa won’t be responding to your Facebook event notification, and what seasonal spice Dani has beef with. We even threw in a few “quotables” for those moments when you need to end an awkward conversation…immediately.
Join us for a SpinOff where we take it back. WAAAAAY back. Back into time… YES, you guessed it! Today, we are talking about the things that give us all the nostalgic feels. Find out what country Dréa represented in the Olympics, the playground game Dani is an undisputed champion in, and what Cotton Candy & Tiki Punch have to do with being boo’d up.
Join us for our 1st ever Super Spooky Shenanigans episode (AKA Halloween)! Also, give it up for that QUALITY alliteration. ;-) On today’s episode we have some tricks and treats for you. Find out which Disney villain Dani & Dréa turn out to be (per Buzzfeed), along with our "Top 10 Worst Halloween Candies”. Also find out why Dani is being called a trollop and why Dréa’s got beef with roller coasters.
On this week’s SpinOff, join Dani & Dréa as they discuss the people, places, and things they think you ought to be familiar with. Find out which late night host is giving us All. The. Feels. (Hint: It’s not just comedy with him) and which app has got Dani seeing stars. We’ve also got a quiz for you to take in the event you are trying to live your best life… (you know how we feel about self-improvement). "For Your Consideration”, because when something is awesome, you’ve just got to pass it on!
We’ve got a brand new SpinOff for you this week! Tune in as we discuss the things we love...on the low. Find out what TV show has Dani feeling a bit more romantic than she’d like to admit and which restaurant Dréa can’t help popping into from time to time. Guilty Pleasures. Everyone’s got them. Although our inner nerd doth protest, sometimes a bit of ratchetry prevails. After all, there are levels to this thing…
It’s the most wonderful time of the year – Autumn. As we head into the final months of 2017, we are doing a little bit of “healthy housekeeping”. Join us on this episode as we tell you all about the things we are throwing the “deuces” to. Some stuff has Just. Got. To. Go. Find out what Calculus has got to do with authenticity and why we still stand for Captain Crunch. Also, we are open to suggestions on how to keep a head scarf on at night because we’ve been unsuccessful thus far.
Join us this week for one our favorite SpinOff topics, Unsolicited Relationship Advice. This one is for all those people out there who love to give advice about what other people should be doing in their relationships. It’s also for the people out there on the receiving end of said advice. Hey, we are all just trying to live our best life. Find out what Dani considers “faux pas” in the prophetic realm, what Dréa thinks we all need to take responsibility for, and what Swarovski earrings have got to do with it.
Join us this week for a brand new SpinOff where we give practical advice to our favorite fictionals. You’ll find out what we have to say to Tasha & Keisha from Power and why we have second thoughts about open relationships. Hint: Molly, you in danger girl. Lastly, find out how the term “Black Brown Magic and a White Woman” is an adequate byline for history making in Hollywood. Hypothetically Speaking, if you can’t join ‘em, at the very least you can give unsolicited advice.
In the final episode of our Wine & Whiskey series, we chat it up with @domkelley. He was kind enough to sit down with us and discuss love and life from the LGBTQ+ perspective. We are warning you now...this is one of our deeper episodes, but "jew-ells" aboundeth! Trust us. On the lighter side, find out what fad Dani now has major misgivings about, which Disney characters you might want to take a second look at, and what Brandon's Jesus sounds like. We are giving you all the levels on this one...
Hey you. Yeah...you with the brown eyes. We ain’t gettin’ no younger, so you might as well...hit play on this podcast and listen to Dani, Dréa, and Brandon pontificate on the wonders and mysteries of marriage. But first, a PSA, from the nineties.
We’re so excited! So much so, that Dréa reluctantly offers up some truly outrageous karaoke ‘Jems'. #blessed
Today’s “guest” is none other than Jarrett A. M. Johnson, a crucial member of this podcasting trio, and Dréa’s #hubsforlife. Learn how J and Dré came to be as Brandon and Danielle ask for the low-down on what marriage is really like (at least in the Johnson Household.)
And shout out to all our grown and married friends who slid some relationship jew-ells in our inboxes and blessed us with a little maturity. God knows we need it.
adulting #cartoons #wedontwanttochoose
On this third installation of Wine & Whiskey, we dig a little deeper and intimacy is the name of the game. Join us as we unpack what it is, what it isn’t, and how we can achieve true connectivity and closeness in our relationships. This episode is full of fun extras as Dani goes on a blind date in the name of social experimenting, #doitforscience, while Dréa joins in on the married front with Jarrett. In other news, Brandon finally discovers what “does it all” for him, Dani gives pigs in a blanket a whole new meaning, and Dréa dishes about the documentary that’s currently got her crushing. (We also suspect all the Compton City G’s will concur). Also, we have to give a special shot out to TJ Wilkins. Truly, he is an all around gem and we are here for it. Why you ask? Tune in to find out!
Let’s talk about sex baby…let’s talk about you and me… This episode of "Wine & Whiskey" (or "Whiskey & Wine", we can never decide), is all about the "Behind the Scenes" thinking of sexual intercourse. Dani, Dréa, Brandon and friend of the show, Marc Cunningham break down their own process of developing a positive sexual identity. Per use, Brandon drops some gentlemanly wisdom and encouragement, while Dani pontificates on the POWER of being self aware. Dréa is adamant about establishing trust with your partner and Marc let’s us in on a private fetish….that’s not so private anymore. We're going deep on this one guys...and yes, you already know that pun is very much intended!
Join us for the introductory episode of our very first series - Wine & Whiskey. This summer we are focusing on relationships and we couldn’t do the subject justice alone. So, we brought along Brandon Alexander from New Age Gents to help us navigate these relationship streets. We’ve got the wine. He brought the Whiskey. #fusion. On this episode we discuss what it’s like to be single in LA. As many of you know, the dating game has changed drastically since we were asking for phone numbers back in the day. So, tune in to hear all about the 2017 state of dating as Brandon & Dani see it. Also you’ll get to find out what movie release Brandon is anxiously awaiting, what’s got Dani feeling super zen, and a Jew-ell Dréa’s cousin dropped on her back in the day.
You know we can’t go too long without a good old fashioned rant. Enter 'I Feel A Way’; because sometimes you just have to vent about tomfoolery that seems to abound these days. Tune in to find out what disturbing trend Dani is noticing in these dating streets, along with her thoughts about Kevin Hart and the media. Dréa muses about what it means to be "woke" and why most people who think they are ... would be incorrect. What can we say? We take umbrage.
Join us this week as we delve a little deeper into the context of some our favorite songs. Because sometimes, you’ve just got to dig a little deeper. On this week’s Lyrically Tho, find out what lyrics has Dréa cringing on in hindsight and how we feel about Usher. Dani discovers what Nurse Jackie & Future have in common and gives a quality PSA. And for good measure, we figure out the prerequisites to owning a Mercedes Benz. You're Welcome. It takes a village.
Tune in to this SpinOff as we debunk the myths that 'Rom-Coms' so boldly attempt to sell us. Find out why Dréa thinks Insecure may have a hand in changing the genre and if we are still #TeamLawrence. We’ve also got Dani’s musings on what Nazi’s have got to do with romance. And to top it all off, enter J. Cole for some quality jew-ells. 'Rom-Com', you are an enigma but we still love you.
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What up, guys! Please enjoy our short #CurrentlyCrushing session on the chubby, smiling, baby fresh perfection of Asahd Tuck (yes, Tuck) Khaled and some quality TV. Specifically, Hulu's dystopian saga The Handmaid's Tale. Also, we should all join the HASAN MINHAJ movement. As the kids say, "It's LIT." Who's ready?
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This is a very special episode because it’s our first live show EVER! allows time for overwhelming applause We hope you’re ready for this. If you couldn’t be there in person..say no more. We got you, fam. We celebrated one year of podcasting by inviting our friends and family to party with us! Enjoy the comedic emceeing of Crista Jackson, the melodious vocal stylings of Kenyon Dixon, and DJ Leeclaybang on the 1’s and 2’s! We had a great time and we hope you have an even better time reliving it with us!
Also, we’re honored to have partnered with TradeWorks Foundation in an effort to raise funds for their efforts to cultivate economic opportunity in impoverished areas all over the world. If you wish to donate, PLEASE click on the link below. http://www.trade-works.org/donate/
ALSO, Kenyon Dixon’s latest release “We Should Talk” is available NOW on all media outlets. Be sure to check him out!
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We do our best to be “the ladies in the place with style and grace," (Yes…we took it back to "Big Poppa") but every now and again we have an episode where testosterone is required and for this particular show nothing short of a classic man would do. This week we delve into the realm of mystery and magic. You know. Unicorns, leprechauns, GENTLEMEN. We kid…sort of. Seriously though, in a world that is saturated with less than stellar depictions of men, where are the good guys at? Enter Brandon Alexander to hold it down for New Age Gents. He’s here to drop a few jew-ells about this gentleman life. We on the other hand, have thoughts about Captain Crunch and the new Baywatch movie because…content!
You can follow Brandon and "New Age Gents” at the following…
IG: @newagegents Twitter: @newagegents Facebook: facebook.com/newagegents
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Do you ever find yourself wondering why being an adult is a thing? US TOO! So we made a podcast about it. Wanna hear it? Here it goes....LIVE!
Join us for a special 1 year celebration of our podcast: Spin The Bottle w/ Dani and Dréa!
It's been one exciting, fun, wine-drinking, self-learning, politically confusing, random yet revelatory ride!
We can't wait to coast into year two with YOU! Drinks on US!
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Join us this week for giggles and shenanigans as we discuss one of our favorite spin topics, "Rom-Com, You Did Us Wrong". On this episode we dispel some myths, rebuff the idea that breaking up someone’s wedding is romantic, and take umbrage with “dates” at the studio. Hey guys, the home studio date doesn’t work for everyone. You gotta know your audience. But, then again, Dani was on a date with an R&B thug who demanded to be called by his stage name. So, no real surprises there…
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We’re getting down and gritty this episode with our framily member Greg Davis, or as most people know him, @Klarity—the funny guy from the interwebs. Knowing Greg’s back story made him an easy pick to talk about grit, perseverance, and success. From dancing on "Gullah Gullah Island" to shining next to Kevin Hart to collaborating with some of your fave brands, Greg is an ongoing millennial success story. But he wants you to know that it didn’t happen overnight, and that he’s not finished yet. Learn how @Klarity keeps it pushing after hitting both rock bottom and major success. Hopefully, you’ll be inspired to make your own dreams come true.
On this week’s episode, we introduce a new spin we've aptly dubbed “Guilty Pleasures". Join us for a conversation about the movies, books, music, and content we secretly consume against our better judgment and alleged principles. Don't judge us. Our inner goddess is already cringing.
Because Dréa is amazing and lovingly obliged Dani’s birthday wish, join us for our first flashback episode. Everyone has a year that they remember fondly and this episode is all about 1997. Join us as we take a trip back to a time when R&B was king, Steve Jobs was an underdog, and Dani & Dréa were coming of age. This one is filled with nostalgic moments and birthday festivities. Dani even got her 90’s crew together to join in on the reminiscing. Kick off your shoes and relax your feet, party on down to STB’s beat. Just kick it. See what we did there?
As you know, we love hearing from you guys. So when you ask, we answer! This week's mini-spin is in response to a letter from Andrea Breath. Tune in to find out who our favorite artists are from “across the pond”. That’s right! This episode is our tribute to the excellence that has been contributed to our music culture from the UK. Of course it wouldn’t be us if we didn’t infuse a bit of ourselves in there. Hence, a top 5 format. It’s "Spin the Bottle" guys. You know us.
Build boundaries…not walls. This is one of our more serious casts, but it’s incredibly worth it. In this episode, our special guest, Marriage and Family Therapist Kirstin Carl, is letting us in on a few ways to be healthy, happy, and free. Dréa is imploring you to GO TO SLEEP, while Dani contemplates why her mom never rocked a beat face. She is also pretty sure that beauty is in the eye of the male beastly beholder…not the other way around. (You’ll get it on the way home.) Come kick it with us! Fair warning, when it comes to recent revelations, Dréa is in a dark place. In fact, she thinks we all are. We’re hoping she comes out of it soon…you’ve been warned. Someone needs a quality Care Bear stare.
On this mini-spin, we are giving you a preview to the forthcoming “Boundaries" episode we have next week. Today, we delve into the personal responsibility that each of us has to show up in our relationships authentically. In order to do so, we must commit to honesty within ourselves and vulnerability with our loved ones. Sounds a little scary, huh? Not to worry. We are in this thing with you, doing the work. Join us for a man in the mirror moment. Let's make that change together! Damn. MJ truly was a visionary.
Hey guys heyyyy! Remember our last convo about beauty and body image? Well, we weren't quite done sharing food for thought with you. This week's SpinOff is a special beauty outtake on how we - yes, this means you too - can shift culture by starting with the wo/man in the mirror and using our social influence to spread some love, light, and positivity. Of course there's more to it than that, but feeling empowered to act is a huge step in the right direction. Join our challenge and show the world when you feel the most beautiful! You may just change someone's perspective… #currentlycrushingonmyself #ddspinthebottle
Join us on this week’s episode as we dive into a subject near and dear to both our hearts (and most women for that matter) - Beauty & Body Image. To unpack this topic, we brought Damaris Chambers to drop some quality jew-ells and share her journey to self love and body acceptance. We've also got a little Ben Carson and Salt-N-Pepa mixed in for some fun and good measure. Make sure to listen all the way through; we left you a little present!
It's Dani's time to shine on this mini spin as we discover a few historical facts that make California amazing. It's not just "Hollywood" with us. So join us as we pay homage to the Golden State. You're welcome 😊
Women’s issues are everyone’s issues - at least that’s our perspective. Listen as we gripe about the best and worst parts about the feminist movement. From a completely usable 'Word of the Day', to some great tips on saving cash, you’re bound to have a few real life takeaways. Fair warning: we make no promises about potential alternative facts surrounding cucumbers in this episode. We’re just trying to make your eating habits great...again?
We couldn’t let Black History Month go by without our very own "All Black Everything" episode!! This show is filled with melanin amazingness from way back...back into time, right up to Black Twitter. Find out who got a shot out all the way from the 1700’s and which song Dréa has dubbed the new “hustler’s anthem". In true STB fashion, we covered the gamut. So whether it’s a little history, a lot of music, or our many shout outs - join us in celebrating the brilliance that is Black people. After all, we did put somebody on the moon… Insert Slow Clap
On this mini-episode, we dig a little deeper into the lyrics behind the music we have been listening to. Dani discovers that she has to retire one of her tried and true 90’s R&B jams, Dréa learns what Usher really means by "No Limit", and we finally discover who actually put the “Miss" in Misdemeanor. Prepare yourself. It’s not Missy Elliott. Who knew? Lyrically tho?! Because once you know what people are really talking about, it’s hard to bob your head to tomfoolery.
In response to one of our listener letters, we decided to tell you guys all about what we are watching these days. Turns out, there was a whole lot to discuss! We covered all the new shows we are currently crushing on from “OA" to “Atlanta"; decided whether we were Team Lawrence or Daniel, and being the loyal fans we are also gave homage to the shows that we still stand behind. Even if they did kill off a couple 2, 3…7 of our favorite characters. Thanks a lot Shonda. All and all, we think it’s been a great year for TV & Cinema. So, grab your popcorn and join us for a little podcasting and chill – the PG kind.
Join us as we bring in the New Year sharing some of the things we are actively learning and unlearning in 2017. We covered everything from iOS updates to Faith Evans. In this episode you’ll discover our mantra for the year (thanks to Dréa) and we suspect you may want to adopt it as well. It’s just that good. Go right ahead...we won’t even take credit. Also, Dani shares one of her most mortifying moments and we have a little friendly competition between the sexes which we’ve aptly dubbed "Mars vs. Venus". Suffice to say, you’re going to get all you need to start this New Year on the good foot as well as a few laughs at our expense.
Happy Christma-kwan-zakah!! We couldn’t let this holiday season pass without doing a little something on the celebratory kick…Spin The Bottle style! This one is filled with seasonal surprises and revelations. Dani gets (sorta) a chocolate Christmas miracle, and just when we thought it couldn’t get any better, someone got a flawless diamond! Find out what "The Purge", Coca-Cola, Chili’s Gift Cards, and Tony the Tiger all have in common. Meanwhile, the STB family considers seriously celebrating Kwanzaa as a former VP of the Black Student Union drops some quality jew-ells on us (and it is our obligation to stay woke). Dani comes to the conclusion that she is not about that “cuff life”. And last, but certainly not least, for your Grammy consideration we give you a stunning rendition of “The 12 Days of Christmas.” It’s for us. By us. Suffice to say, y’all aren’t ready!
We told you we were going to make it happen so here it is: an episode on Extoverts! When we say that we were ENLIGHTENED?!!! Happy to have Catfish from "Survivors Remorse" and Leah Williams from “Sexless", "Awkward Black Girl", and our favorite gal and producer, Alex Queen-Sneed, stand up for the other (sometimes more outwardly expressive) side. This one is chock full of good insights and funny revelations. Listen to Dréa butcher (like with a rusty machete) the word of the day and then recover like a CHAMP with a dope sentence. Dani drops some Random Factoids, and our guests get vulnerable with their personality. We bring the episode to a close as Dréa attempts to get out of her feelings with a decent Recent Revelation. Also, Catfish tells us the origin of his name!!! Honestly, not what we expected... In short, dope show, dope people. You'll enjoy this one. (Side Bar: Listen, A$AP Rocky...we really are doing our best to turn Dani into any form of a millennial. Please forgive us.)
Singing: “Back in the day when we were young/ we aren’t kids anymore / but some days we sit and wish that we were kids again.” Okay. The fact remains that we are two very grown women still grappling with “adulting”. And although we aren’t kids anymore, that won’t stop us from reminiscing about the good old days. Tune in to today’s SpinOff to find out what Duck Tales and Will Smith have in common. We even have a few jew-ells by way of our favorite cold remedies. So, pour yourself a glass of ginger ale or wine (depending on how you feel) and enjoy a trip down memory lane— 80’s baby style.
After reviewing this episode...we realize we were a tad judgy when it comes to men. But ya'll do give us SUCH strong ammunition! From being sick babies to being romantically “clueless", this mini spin is dedicated to the men we love...to make fun of. You da best!
Yes. It actually happened. Donald Trump is the President-elect of the United States of America. No. You are not in the Twilight Zone. Although, if you are anything like us, this may be pretty close to your worst nightmare. Today, the show goes on but we are feeling ALL TYPES of ways… For more information on Michael Moore’s “5 Reasons Why Trump [won]” check out - http://michaelmoore.com/trumpwillwin/ Van Jones footage provided by CNN.com
Heartbreak. It's part of the human experience and no one is immune. The interesting part about that is, when it's YOUR heart that's broken, no one can convince you that you aren't entirely alone. The good news is, you will come out of it on the other side stronger and wiser. The bad news is, it's going to suck immensely for a while. We brought along four of our friends to talk this thing out. Yes. We brought out the cavalry just for you. This episode comes complete with jew-wels, poetic takeaways, cautionary tales, and a little Toni Braxton for good measure! We even made a playlist called "All Heartbreak Matters" on Spotify (http://bit.ly/allheartbreakmatters) & Tidal (https://tidal.com/playlist/c3ec314b-2d4f-4e9d-b5bc-57a5fa885de6) for you guys to check out, complete with all of your votes for "go-to" songs when you are in your feelings. Also, check out Will’s short film “Stages" on Issa Rae's YouTube Channel. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XARfdtGMUo) We also suggest you check out "His and Hers" by Gabe Roland. You can find his music via all social media platforms at @TheGabeRoland. Check them out!
This Spin-Off is all about the words of the good Lord. We’re not members of the clergy by any means, but we know a few things about what Jesus definitely did and did not say. And honestly, it’s amazing what a quick google search can do. Though Dani will always stand by the notion that cleanliness is next to godliness….Lavender Fabuloso and scrubber in hand.
Age ain’t nothing but a number...a number that we struggle with all the damn time. Male or female, teen or early thirties, we all want to be elsewhere. Either we’re mad because we haven’t accomplished every goal on our list, or we wish we could go back....waaaaay back.... unless of course, we’re 12, then we just want to be 21! (Because NO ONE complains about that!) See what we mean? At Spin The Bottle, we don’t claim to have all the answers, but when it comes to loving the skin you’re in, our hard fast rule has become “Wherever you are, BE there”. Because that’s all the time you get anyway. No need to waste it on being miserable. Enjoy this reflection on life and age. You’ll hear about best experiences, disappointments, and memorable lessons. Hopefully, it will inspire you to “shake the 'Etch-A-Sketch'” and do something that makes you happy.
Do you know the lyrics to all your favorite songs? No, really. Every word? We thought we knew too, but once again, we found ourselves in a real recent revelation. Listen as we uncover the true inspiration and lyrical connotation of a few classic tunes. Who knows, maybe "Uncle Jo Jo" was also a part of your Bone, Thugs and Harmony experience as well...
Have you found yourself in a creative rut? Not to worry, we have Brooks D. Proctor, founder of Square Bear, in the building to help us work a few of the kinks out. From pinky rings to peanut butter and jelly we’ve covered the full gamut in this conversation about how to unlock the je-wels from the right side of your brain. And we promise, there’s a little something in here for everyone because we happen to believe that creativity is an equal opportunist. So cue up your Pinterest page and let your inner artist loose. Haven’t you heard? It’s hip to be YOU! For more information about Square Bear check out: mysquarebear.com Brooks can be found on all social media platforms under @courageouslycreative
Between grown men and flip-flops, elaborate kid birthdays, and selfies while “praying”, we still manage to be annoyed by something else. But obviously, we have our reasons. And we swear they are pretty good...
Well, kids. “To thine own self be true” is the moral of this story. If you love quiet, binging on Netflix and the sound of your own thoughts, you’re in good company. WE SEE YOU. Or if you’re confused by your boo or bestie’s occasional aloofness, or feel they need to “get out more”, you should definitely join us for this mini education on introversion—at least as we know it. Patience, extroverts, your time will come. It always does… Below are some of the articles we referenced on the show… Understanding Introverts https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/understand-other-people/201601/understanding-introverts Inside An Introvert’s Head http://www.quietrev.com/6-illustrations-that-show-what-its-like-in-an-introverts-head/ The Power of Introverts http://www.quietrev.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/QR_ebookMay8-2015.pdf
On this mini-spin, we take a more serious turn to discuss Black Lives Matter and the tragedies which took place over the summer. We would be remiss if we didn’t discuss it as it affected each and everyone of us in a multitude of different ways. Tune in for our take on what it felt like to navigate through and what we plan to do in order to be a part of the solution moving forward. Black Lives Matter. Our. Lives. Matter.
As we prepare to bid this Summer adieu, we take a moment to look back on the many highlights. There are so many moments that made our hearts pitter patter, but the general consensus is that we are currently crushing on all the Melanin Magic of this season. It’s a good look! So, with that being said, join us for a little Netflix reminiscing & chillin’ (the G-Rated kind) while we celebrate all the awesomeness that was this Summer!