GUMBO NIGHTS with Miss Handie: Recent Episodes

GUMBO NIGHTS with Miss Handie

Gumbo Nights is a DELICIOUS and Impactful 10-minute Bi-Weekly Podcast that Combines a VARIETY of SAVORY ingredients about Entertaining, Enlightening, Funny, Interesting, Real Life Encounters, LIGHTBULB MOMENTS, and Mouthwatering Experiences that will leave your EARS wanting MORE.

Just like Gumbo, Life is a Series of DIVERSE ingredients that Shape WHO WE ARE and how WE NAVIGATE our lives.

Tune in to hear the Host, Miss Handie, share what’s Really Going On in these STREETS while SIMULTANEOUSLY giving you the TASTY TALK your SOUL’S Palate has been CRAVING.

Let’s TALK!

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If you’re a successful single woman who’s dating, are the men you meet in love with your accomplishments or uncomfortable with them?
Does your success seem to be a deterrent for men or an attractor? What’s your experience?

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Are the conversations that women have with other women different than the conversations men have with other men?
I’ve been wondering about this lately and examining how much time my female friends and I waste talking about romantic things that need to be discussed outside of our friendship and inside of romantic relationships.
What conversations are you having with men and women and are they different from the ones you have with your romantic partner?

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Friends. How many of us have them? How many of us wonder why we’re friends with the people we’re friends with? If that’s a question you’ve wondered about, this is the episode that you need to hear. Check it out and see if any of my perspectives sound familiar and resonate with you and the friendships you’re in now?

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Are you active on social media platforms? If so, how often and how do you use social media? I haven’t been as active on social media lately because I’m distracted by many of the ways people have chosen to express themselves on a variety of platforms.
In this episode, I’ll share what I’ve noticed, explain the difference it’s making on many of my friends and I, and reveal what we can do now and next to shift the pattern.
I appreciate you being here. Go ahead and press play.

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Something I’ve wanted for a long time has finally happened in my life. I didn’t know exactly when it would happen and there were times when I wondered if this day would ever come and thankfully, it did.
If you’ve ever aspired to free yourself from anything, this episode will either fuel you to keep striving or remind you of the progressive path whence you came.
Put your feet up, press play and celebrate freedom with me!

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I recently dated a guy who criticized me because I don’t cook, and I have no interest in learning. The criticism didn’t inspire me to learn how to cook and I discovered what might have motivated me to learn and it’s a really simple way to win big with me. Press play and hear about my latest aha moment.

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Constructive criticism is valuable for our personal and professional growth, but sometimes feedback is hard to swallow even when it’s delivered in the most loving ways. Are you too sensitive when others share feedback about your performance at work or your behavior with friends or family? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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The human being in us often etches dates in our minds based upon the experiences that we associate with those dates. That approach is harmless when the experiences that happened on that date are aligned with fond and delightful memories. But, when certain dates take us to dark places of recollection, the experience can be debilitating and even worse when we make those actions a pattern every year. I recently discovered that today’s date is just that…a date. Press play and discover exactly what I mean and how it may help you to break up with dates that hold painful memories. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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One upon a time, I hated my job from top to bottom. When I freed myself from that horrible situation, I took the reins on my career and got intentional about creating the good and great experiences that I desired. I’ve been enjoying what I do for a living even though I sometimes encounter difficult people. I learned how to enjoy my work despite others who don’t enjoy what they do. Owning my engagement made the difference. If you hate your job, it’s time to make some decisions that may make you a little uncomfortable now but more joyful later. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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I didn’t have any idea what this episode was going to be about so I just hit record and started talking. My words led me to a story about my friend who recently turned down a guy for a date because of one thing that she didn’t like about him. A few days later, she changed her mind. Press play to find out why the thing she was obsessed about when it comes to dating isn’t such a big deal after all. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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I have experienced some life challenges that tried to break my spirit. There were times when I almost allowed those challenges to defeat me, but five years ago, I got sick of living that way, so I embarked upon a new adventure that led me here… to the podcast launch of “Gumbo Nights with Miss Handie.” February 19, 2019, was the day I recorded and published Episode One, “Toilet Paper Chronicles.” Five years ago and 100 episodes later, we’re still striving to make gumbo that brightens your days and seasons your nights. Thank you for listening to the podcast and giving me a fun and safe place to heal while you listen to my stories about everything from heartbreak to celebrating life. I hope something I’ve shared with you over the past five years and 100 episodes, has inspired you to move towards your healing rather than away from it. Cheers to another year of enlightenment, entertainment and elevation! I love it here! With much love and honey! Miss Handie 💛--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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Recently, a friend shared some rich dating advice she received from an older gentlemen that I want to share with you. Press play to learn five quick ways to tell if you’re romantically compatible with someone before you commit to a long term relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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January finally kicked rocks, so we have an opportunity to make a fresh start in February by making history….Black History. What skills, talents, and resources do you have and how can you use them to better the black experience in your household, neighborhood, community, city, state, etc? What can you offer that will change the world for people that look like us and position you to make Black History?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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The original version of the film changed my life as a kid and helped me to blossom into a woman who, for the most part, courageously uses her voice to stand up for herself, set boundaries, and express her feelings.

I wouldn’t be who I am without the female influence of Whoopi Goldberg (Miss Celie), Oprah Winfrey (Miss Sophia), and Margaret Avery (Shug Avery), but I didn’t realize, until recently, just how deeply their influence shows up in my everyday life.

Press play to learn how this discovery has me rethinking the way I navigate life as a woman.

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Have you ever told someone to make themselves at home? If you have, did you really mean it? Has there ever been a time when you regretted saying that to one of your house guests? In this episode, I’m discussing house rules that guests often violate because we’ve told them to make themselves at home. You may discover something about yourself that makes you a good or bad house guest. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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I don’t do episodes specifically for men very often, but this episode is for the guys. There are some important things that single women, who want a committed relationship, have been quiet about. It’s time to blow the whistle on those little known secrets so that men can understand the real desires, emotions and sentiments of single women who desire a committed relationship.Gentlemen, you may have thought you’ve heard everything you need to know about what single women want, but you ain’t heard nothing yet. Press play and take notes. You’re about to learn something new. #relationships #love #singleladies #romance --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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What do you want more of in 2024? Is it more money, love, sex, patience, or something else? In this episode, I am emphasizing what I want more of and that’s rich friendships. What are your friendships like? Are they fruitful and healthy or are they one-sided, selfish, and envy adjacent?Let’s evaluate the friendships we have and what we bring to the friendship table. What do we want more of in terms of those friendships and what are we willing to give in order to make it happen? #friendships--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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What’s at the top of your Christmas list this year? Is it something expensive, something cheap or something that money can’t buy? Press play to discover what’s on my list and why I have to have it! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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If you’re in a lifestyle, job, or marriage that is accompanied by unhealthy patterns that aren’t changing for the better, how do you know when it’s time to move on? In this episode, I’ll share some real examples in my world that may signal when it’s time to pack our bags. Follow Me on Instagram and TikTok @miss.handie.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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Finding out that others don’t view us with high regard can come as a surprise when we don’t know ourselves better than anyone else. In this episode, we’re going to answer some hard questions that require an honest look in the mirror. What is your reflection saying that isn’t pretty and what are you going to do about it? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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Is anyone having a good dating experience? My friends aren’t having good luck and I’m not sure why they aren’t. Maybe you have some answers. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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It’s about time that I do a couple important things. Press play to find out what they are and discover what it’s time for you to do. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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Wednesday, June 7, 2023, is a day that changed my life forever and one I’ll never forget. Press play to find out what happened on that day and why it’s important to me.


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Sex ranks as the number one aspect of a quality relationship for many people but when times get tough, is sex going to hold your relationship together? Is it the glue that keeps you interested, invested and in love or are there other qualities that are a requirement for you? Let’s talk about it!


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For most of my life, people that I’ve known for long and short periods of time have assumed that they know me better than they really do. There was a time when their incorrect assumptions caused me to audition for them in order to change their minds about the who I am and all that I am. I’ve evolved past the performance desires and settled into a comfortable and confident place of self-awareness and acceptance and if some don’t get me or understand me, that’s their issue…not mine. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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I recently tried something indulgent for the first time and now I’m hooked on the experience. Press play and listen to learn what I did and why I love it! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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I never envisioned I’d become the person I am today. I was locked into patterns of believing, assuming, and perceiving that had been since childhood. Life has a way of removing the boundaries and borders that make up our identity when we allow ourselves to think, do and become something we never imagined we’d think, do or become. Here’s my story of transformation. Who are you becoming as a result of someone’s influence in your life? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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I recently experienced 11 days full of unexpected, unfamiliar, uncertain and intense moments that caused me to reconsider and reevaluate everything and realize that Adulting is TOUGH yet doable!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/misshandie/message

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Black History is all around us…in front, in between, and behind many of the freedoms and privileges that we enjoy everyday. Sometimes we take our Black History for granted. I recently had lightbulb moments that strongly reminded me of Whence I came. What’s your Black History “aha” story?--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misshandie/message

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I have a dream that’s bigger than anything I’ve ever done, and I’m just days away from the manifestation of it. Because of your trust and support of me for the past four years as the host of this podcast, I am confident that I’m on the right path and that an even bigger, better and greater voice lives within me. Thank you all so much for rocking with Gumbo Nights, and I hope that the success of your next Dream Come True is unexpected in common hours just as Henry David Thoreau proclaimed in one of his infamous quotes.

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Do you struggle to let things go even when you’ve done all that you can do to make it GOOD? If this sounds like YOU, then this episode contains a perspective that may make YOUR life more relaxed, peaceful and enjoyable! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misshandie/message

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I’ve focused my life on being courageous, but I recently discovered that there is a big difference between Courage and Boldness. Listen to this episode to find out all that I’ve learned about the distinction and why I live in BOLDNESS. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misshandie/message

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If you’ve been looking for LOVE and having a tough time finding it, you’ve got to listen to this episode. I’ve discovered a REAL reason why you and your friends haven’t found the RIGHT one yet! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misshandie/message

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I recently learned that permed hair is causing major health risks in black women. I’ve been wearing my hair permed for over 30 years, so it was time for me to put my health before my hair. Press play to find out what my journey has been like since I went natural. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misshandie/message

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I’m celebrating a two-year anniversary this week and it’s a big deal! You’ll have to press play to find out what the occasion is and it’s not what you think I’m sure! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misshandie/message

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Everyone is talking about the affair happening between two hosts on Good Morning America, T.J. Holmes and Amy Robach. What do you think about it? Was ABC wrong for taking them off air? I have my own opinions and I hope you’ll press play for some interesting perspectives. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misshandie/message

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Do you offer advice that is unsolicited? Do you get frustrated when people don’t do things the way that you do it? If that sounds like you, press play on this episode for a special message.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/misshandie/message

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Being a good FOLLOWER is just as important as being a good LEADER, yet many people have no clue when they should FOLLOW and when they should LEAD. In this episode, you’ll hear a real and shocking example of poor leading and following that you don’t want to MISS. Press play!


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There are some things I wish I would have known and some things I wished I’d done differently as it relates to love, men, and sex. Press play to hear all about it.


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There are times when you won’t agree with the people you’re closest to but when it happens, what do you do? How does it make you feel? Do you maintain your relationship or choose to walk away?


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It’s easy to celebrate our own success but do you celebrate the progress and success of others? If you don’t acknowledge and celebrate the amazing things that others are doing, why not?


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Do you enjoy being around your family members or do you dread it? If you dread it, why? Do you have family members that don’t have vocal and emotional boundaries? Press play to learn more about these folks and see if you can identify.


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Opportunities to get paid are everywhere but what about those unpaid opportunities? Are you only saying yes when there’s money involved?


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Don’t underestimate the power of good morning!


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Have you ever had a colonic? I have and they are amazing. Press play to find out the benefits of colonics.


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Do you take yourself out on solo dates if not, why not? I do it all the time and it is one of my most enjoyable experiences listening and to find out why I love solo dates so much.


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We often hear about folks being canceled for racist and rude comments, poor conduct, and everything in between. What about canceling the people who we live with and depend on everyday? Are we measuring those closest to us with the same ruler that we use to measure people we only know through social media, the news, or in a work environment? What exemptions are we applying to canceling folks? Should anyone be exempt? Press play to hear my two-cents!


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What women think is sexy if often different from what men think is sexy. Who’s right? Men or women?


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How many times do we think we’re comparing apples to apples, but we’re really comparing houses to hotels? Find out why poor comparisons lead to poor results.


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It’s not only important for us to be honest with ourselves about our strengths, weaknesses and limitations, it’s also important for us to give others an opportunity to do so. 🐝


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Leaving a relationship, job, home or city isn’t always the best option depending on your life situation. If you’ve decided to stay in a particular situation or environment, what attitude or energy are you bringing into it?


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There are some things that have become really popular this year and some have been trending for more than a year. These are the things that I hope somehow disappear by the time the clock strikes 2022. What do you think?


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I recently had to move out of the Office at Work that I’ve occupied for the past two years. The Corner Office needed renovation and the space right outside of it was dusty and full of boxes and storage bins. Despite all of that, I loved the quiet, privacy and natural sunlight. Did I make peace with moving? Listen to find out.


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Extramarital affairs happen everyday but when did it become so cool and widespread to openly cheat on your spouse? Let’s talk about what this means and what could happen as a result.


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I recently discovered how easy certain GOOD aspects of my self-improvement have become. I’m not sure when the pattern of simplicity occurred, but it’s worth acknowledging and celebrating. Becoming a better person was like learning to ride a bike...challenging at first with lots of bruises that suddenly and magically transformed into mastery. Are you riding the bike easily in certain areas of your life and not realizing that you’re doing it? Have you worked so hard to become better that you feel like you no longer have anything to lose? That’s what I’m experiencing, and it’s a wonderful feeling! I hope that you’re experiencing it too! 🐝


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Many women have been programmed to compete with other women...intellectually, financially, physically, and sexually. That competition is getting us nowhere, and it’s ruining our ability to create authentic sisterhood circles.

No matter what job we hold, where we live, how much money we make, or how we look, all women struggle with a limp of some sort. Having a sisterhood circle that makes us feel safe and comfortable sharing our unique truths, can help us to correct our limp.

What’s your sisterhood circle feeling like? Is it sour or is it sweet?


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Have you ever been at the right place at the right time with the right people? I have, and it’s continuing to happen over and over and over again in new and expansive ways. Listen and learn about my latest dates with destiny.


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There’s lots of conversation around feminine and masculine energy and how feminine energy can help women attract high value men. I have some strong opinions about femininity. Listen in and see if you agree or disagree.


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Narcissism is out of control, and people that exhibit these petty and immature behaviors are all around us...family, friends, co-workers, managers, neighbors, and associates. We don’t have to tip-toe around them to survive and be happy. It’s time to give them a different experience so that we can enjoy our lives and they can stop sucking up our energy.


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A loyal Gumbo Nights listener recommended that I address this important question: Is Marriage Overrated? If you’ve been married and divorced, do you believe marriage is overrated? What are the adjustments that can make marriage overrated? In this episode, we’ll explore lots of questions and problematic situations that often pop up after the wedding and after marital counseling. Based on what you know or have heard about marriage, what do you think?


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Nikki Frias is the creator of Girltellme.com, a platform dedicated towards the empowerment of women through comedy.

In this episode of CONVERSATIONS, we’re talking candidly with Nikki about Comedy, Writing, Marriage, Divorce, Dating, Emotional Love, Therapy, Moving On, Empowerment, and all things Girls are deeply interested in. Get ready to Laugh, Learn, and Lean Into what’s really going on out in these Streets.

You can find Nikki writing at the Daily Beast, Forbes and Honey Pot Magazine. When she’s not pushing people to do shit they love, she’s drinking coffee. Follow her on Instagram @girltellme_dotcom.


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If you’ve always wanted to be a CEO, today is your lucky day. I’ve got some gems that will position you for your role as Chief Executive Officer, but this is probably not what you expect to hear. Press play to get the inside scoop on what it means to CEO! #leadership #ceo #boss #leaders #courage #confidence #executives #seniorleadership #ceolife #ceos


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It’s our 50th episode so we decided to switch things up by talking about a variety of delicious topics instead of just one. I hope that your enjoy it. If you do, we’ll try it again real soon.


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If you’re interested in starting a podcast, you don’t want to miss this interesting interview with Rob Greenlee.

Rob is the VP of Content and Partnerships, Libsyn (LSYN), current Founding Board of Governor Member and Former Chairperson of ThePodcastAcademy.com. He is a well-known evangelist of the podcasting industry, and was inducted into the Academy of Podcasters Hall of Fame in 2017. 

He currently co-hosts the "New Media Show," a twice-weekly audio and video podcast that streams LIVE Video on NewMediaShow.com/live, YouTube, Facebook, Twitter, and Twitch every Saturday at 9 am PST/Noon EST and Wednesday at Noon PST/3 pm EST. He is on the Editorial board for Podcast Business Journal.

Rob has presented at conferences and other events all over the world on the subject of podcasting and shares a wealth of valuable knowledge in this episode.


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I heard a social media influencer share an interesting reason why men and women cheat in relationships. I also have my own theory about it, and I really want to share it and find out why you think men and women stray. #extramaritalaffair #promiscuity #cheating #marriage #sidechick #dating


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Women and men often assume that they are better in bed than other women and men. Sometimes that’s true, but there are women and men that can perform just as good in bed as you can and know how to do all of the same freaky stuff that you know how to do. Real relationships are much deeper than sex and physical assets. Press play to find out what really matters cause it ain’t about the sex!


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Our special guest is Nia Richardson, Assistant to the Director for Small Business and Entrepreneurship with the City of Kansas City.

Ms. Richardson oversees the day-to-day operations of the KC BizCare Office, a free business resource, advocacy, and information center for new and existing businesses operating within Kansas City.

Established in 2009, KC BizCare provides guidance and assistance for businesses navigating the City’s licensing, permitting, and vendor approval processes. Her work also includes streamlining initiatives to remove barriers to entry and systemic issues that prevent businesses from growing in Kansas City. She is an advocate between businesses and City departments and helps to address business-related concerns. Nia started with the City in November of 2018, and her work is vital to the City’s goal of becoming the “Most Entrepreneurial City in America.”

This conversation reveals how Nia boldly takes care of business personally and professionally. We’re talking about Entrepreneurship, Advocacy, Leadership, Parenting, Divorce, and Race, Culture and Life in Kansas City, Missouri. Prepare to be enlightened, inspired, and entertained. #entrepreneurship #business #kansascity #startup #kcbizcare #ceo #cityofentrepreneurs #livingcities #citifoundation #griffinandstrong


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I’m sure you’ve heard about lots of challenges that folks are participating in on social media. Well, I am issuing a new challenge to you, and it’s all about getting real with yourself! How have you changed, evolved, and transformed over the years? Has it been for the better or for the worse? How do you plan to grow in the future? It’s your choice! You are the CEO of your own life so the power to grow is in Your hands.


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It’s my Twentieth Year work anniversary, and I’m feeling some type of way about it. Press play to find out what my wicked issue is and what I’m going to do about it.


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Some people hate taking naps, and I’ve never understood why. In my opinion, unintentional naps are the best. I fell into one recently and had to share the benefits. If you aren’t taking advantage of naps on a regular basis, you are really missing out.


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If YOU would like to Lose Weight and are struggling to accomplish your weight loss goals, this is the episode for you. I’m sharing my weight loss journey and exactly what I had to do in order to see results. I’ve managed to maintain my weight with minimal fluctuations since 2014, and my body feels so much better. If I can lose weight, you can too!


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In celebration of the second anniversary of Gumbo Nights with Miss Handie, I want to thank all of my loyal listeners for taking time out of your days and nights to support this podcast. I’m launching our third season with this episode, and I’m getting my weight up! If you don’t know what that is, it’s time to press play and learn.


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Love Season is back, and Valentine’s Day is just a few days away. I’m keeping it all the way SEXY on this episode. Get ready to hear some of the romantic poetry that I wrote for my Mister and I’m answering several questions about LOVE. Enjoy and have a Happy Valentine’s Day!


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Please welcome our Special Guest, Adrianna Gatson, who goes by Adri Monet.’ Adri is a wife, mother, and makeup artist who enjoys making people look and feel more beautiful than they already are! Beauty is her passion, her family is her world, and God takes the lead in every aspect of her life. Adri candidly shares her life experiences as a stay home Mom, wife, physical therapist assistant, and makeup artist extraordinaire. This episode is about much “More Than Beauty,” and there’s something that we can all learn from this deep and interesting conversation. Press play. #MaryKay #makeupartist #stayathomemom #skincare #aging #skincare #makeup #beauty


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February is designated as Black History Month and we have much to celebrate. Let’s not forget to keep acknowledging, studying, and celebrating our phenomenal Black History after February ends. Let’s keep the momentum going all year long. #BlackHistoryMonth #HankAaron #CicelyTyson #JustAsIAm #RosaParks #MartinLutherKingJr #ArthurAshe #HarrietTubman #WhitneyHouston #MichaelJackson #KobeBryant


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Leadership has been overwhelming especially over the past year. Now is the time to call these so called leaders to the carpet because we are not being guided the right way. We may as well talk about it openly instead of talking about them behind their backs. #Leadership #Leaders #Leading #Lead #Lead #ProfessionalDevelopment #Workplace #Teamwork #Mentoring #LeadByExample #Communication #EmployeeEngagement #Motivation #Morale #EmployeeRetention #PerformanceEvaluation #EmployeeSatisfaction #LeadershipPodcast #Trust #Respect


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Today is MLK Day. In honor of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. day, I’m highlighting what he stood for and how it has fueled my MLK...Motivation, Leadership and Knowledge. He was committed to serving others despite the opposition, criticism, and risks. We can learn so much from his life if we choose to dig deep and apply it to our own journeys. Press Play and find out how.


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Are there people in your family or your circle of friends and colleagues who TALK way too much? Do you know anyone who can’t SEEM to keep the main thing the main thing? I have my own theory on why SOME people don’t know WHEN to be quiet. Press PLAY and find out if YOU agree.


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HAD the pleasure of INTERVIEWING Dr. and Mrs. Handie, a Powerful and Successful Husband and Wife on Episode 34 of Gumbo Nights. They candidly discussed the depth of REAL LOVE and the secret to sustaining a healthy marriage, how they parented their three children and ventured into ENTREPRENEURSHIP. Paula Handie is the CEO of Family Business and Doctor Handie is a Podiatric Surgeon. This COUPLE represents the SUBSTANCE of things hoped for and the EVIDENCE of things not seen. #Episode34 #HangingWithTheHandies #PaulatheCEO #DoctheSurgeon #FamilyLegacy #FamilyBusiness #KeepingItHandie


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Ladies, are there strangers trying to talk to you in your DM’s on social media? It’s happened to me too many times so it’s time to set the record straight!


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I often hear single women describe themselves as single as if that’s as big a part of their identity as their name and social security number. I believe that it’s time for single women, who are obsessed with that status, to begin to think of it as merely a box that we check on a form rather than a structure. We are better served by focusing on being and becoming sensational women and describing ourselves as such. When Mr. Right shows up, he will be mesmerized by how sensational you are and ready to change your status from single to taken.


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If you’re a woman, have you ever had uncomfortable and odd work relationships with women who don’t look like you...specifically black or white women? I have, and it’s been bugging me for years. I’ve decided to stop holding my tongue about my relationships with white women. In this episode, I’m talking to my friend Stacy, a white woman, about her experiences with women who look like me. This conversation is deep, real, candid, and maybe more transparent than anything you’ve ever heard between black and white women. Prepare to learn and be shocked at the same time.


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If you’re a woman, have you ever had uncomfortable and odd work relationships with women who don’t look like you...specifically black or white women? I have, and it’s been bugging me for years. I’ve decided to stop holding my tongue about my relationships with white women. In this episode, I’m talking to my friend Stacy, a white woman, about her experiences with women who look like me. This conversation is deep, real, candid, and maybe more transparent than anything you’ve ever heard between black and white women. Prepare to learn and be shocked at the same time.


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Leadership wouldn’t be leadership without strong, intelligent, and successful women like our special guest, Dr. Fatimah Pierce. Dr. Pierce is the Founder and Principal of Hickman Rose Strategies, a certified Women’s Business Enterprise and management consulting firm focused on strategic planning, organizational development, employee development, and program evaluation for service-based businesses, public agencies, and nonprofits. She is committed to helping women achieve sustainable professional success, and she uses her expertise and energy to assist executives and nonprofit leaders in solving their most challenging problems with infrastructure and implementation. Throughout her professional and personal journey, Dr. Pierce has been a dedicated leader, mentor, and advocate, lending her voice to dynamic conversations and conducting research to promote awareness and understanding of key issues facing Black women and youth.


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Often times we assume that we can’t build bridges with people unless they look like us. That couldn’t be further from the truth. The way that we build bridges with people who don’t look us is the same way we build bridges with people who DO look like us. Learn more about building bridges in your life and the lives of others in this episode.


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If you struggle to set boundaries in your life, you’ll learn when and why boundaries are healthy and necessary, and how to identify and confront Boundary Bullies. You can learn more tools and tips for addressing boundaries by listening to Wayne Dyer’s audio book on YouTube called, “Pulling Your Own Strings.” I highly recommend it.


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If you’re a woman and you grew up in a traditional household, you may have been raised and conditioned to put the man you’re married to or dating on a pedestal. It’s one thing to be submissive in a marriage, but it’s another thing to treat a man like you’re his fan rather than his mate. Find out how being in a relationship with a superstar, when it’s one-sided, can impact your life and your feelings.


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All of us have a WILD side. The COVID-19 Quarantine is causing some of us to be a little WILDER than normal. Some of us are expressing our WILD side to the world and don’t even know it. Corona even got us thinking we’re in love with folks that we’ve never even met. Ask yourself, “Are you really love?” Think about it and Press Play on this episode.


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We all have emotions. Some are healthy and others are not so healthy if we remain attached to them forever. It’s normal to experience disappointment, heartache, sadness, and depression. The good news is that those feelings are only temporary if we decide that they came to go rather than to stay. How are you feeling and how are you dealing with your emotions?


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In this episode, we’re chatting with Marvin Lyman about the remarkable discovery that turned his life upside down. Lyman traces the discovery all the way back to his childhood and shares his painful and eye-opening experiences in his book, “Solving for X; Finding the Man Within.” Listen and learn how his life was blown apart at the age of 36. You will be blown away by his story, his bravery, and his honesty. I can assure you that you’ve never heard a story like this one.


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Life sends us the answers to all of our problems. We just have to take the time to look for them. They show up all around us....in the flowers, in the trees, and in our circumstances. If you haven’t found your answers yet, keep looking. You’re closer than you think,


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The world is in the middle of a pandemic and most of us are under stay at home orders in the cities we live in. This lockdown has caused life as we know it to change drastically. Some people are not adjusting well to our new normal. Here’s how I’m handling Operation Corona and her nasty self.


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Are you following your own path or imitating someone else’s? Do you know what truly makes you happy and are you staying true to who you really are? That’s what we’re discussing in this episode


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We’ve all heard that laughter is good for the soul and if you’ve ever laughed til you cried you know that’s true. Here’s a little comedy to brighten your day.


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Find out why I took a short hiatus from Gumbo Nights and what I’ve been up to since December. The words we speak are powerful. Listen as I share an affirmation that has changed my life for the best!


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Around the holidays we often think about the gifts we give to others. Rarely do we think about the greatest gifts that we can give to ourselves. I’m talking about the type of gifts that are impactful like spending time meditating, exercising, getting mental clarity, and focusing on our goals. What is the greatest gift that you can give to yourself all year-long?


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Christmas is just about two weeks away, and you may be planning to purchase gifts for the special people in your life. To avoid buying the wrong thing, I’m sharing some advice on how to pick the perfect gift.


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When life is going our way, why are periodically challenged by obstacles designed to take our eyes off the road? I believe those situations are only tests, and we have what it takes to pass every exam.


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There are some friends who you can call your true friends....the ones that you have soul relationships with rather than superficial ones. My friend Kim is more than a friend. She is my biggest cheerleader, supporter, and encourager outside of my family. Who are your soul friends?


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Our zodiac signs explain a lot about our personal qualities and characteristics. They also help us to understand the qualities and characteristics of other people who may have different zodiac signs. Did you know that we are made up of three zodiac signs? To learn more about three zodiac signs that shape who we are and how we see the world, listen to this episode. It may cause you to see yourself and others differently.


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My childhood friend, Jessica McClellan, shares her experiences with dating and marriage as a Christian woman. If you’re a single or married woman, you don’t want to miss out on Jessica’s pearls of wisdom about finding love with the right kind of man. Jessica is the founder of Giving Hope and Help, a non-profit organization based in Kansas City, Missouri.


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We often pay way too much attention to what other people think about us. We often ask others to make assessments about our behavior instead of taking on that responsibility ourselves.


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In honor of my sixth-month anniversary of Gumbo Nights with Miss Handie, I am taking you behind the scenes to share intimate details about why I started the podcast and what you really think about it. You are the reason why Gumbo Nights exists, so thank you for listening and engaging. You have changed my life forever!


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There are nosey people and then there are NOSEY people. If NOSEY people spent as much time investigating their own lives as they do everyone else’s we could solve some of the world’s biggest problems.


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We encounter difficult people everywhere we go. They are at work, church, in the grocery store, in traffic, and even in our own homes. We must learn how to deal with these difficult people so that they don’t ruin our days or ruin our lives.


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Are there any patterns of numbers that you see repetitively on addresses, bank accounts, phone numbers, etc. If so, I don’t think it’s by accident. Check out this episode to hear about the pattern of numbers that I see on a daily basis.


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PART Two of the Two-Part conversation on the Road in Chicago, Illinois with a Single, Professional Man who Knows what he Wants in a RELATIONSHIP.


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PART One of the Two-Part conversation on the Road in Chicago, Illinois with a Single, Professional Man who Knows what he Wants in a romantic RELATIONSHIP.


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Is there something that you’re afraid of doing but you know you need to do it? What’s on your to do list that needs to be checked off? What are you procrastinating about? If you don’t have the courage to do what you need or want to do, then this episode is for you.


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If you’re in a committed relationship or marriage, are you truly happy or are you settling because it’s familiar and comfortable? Is it as good as it gets or is there something missing from your relationship? Do you need to fall in love again or are you already in love?


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Diversity is being talked about everywhere, but it’s not happening in the places where it’s needed most. Before we can expect diversity to happen at work, in boardrooms, and in communities, we’ve got to delve deeper to find out why it’s not happening. In other words, “What’s the hold up?”


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Have you ever heard the phrase, “There’s no such thing as a dumb question?” I’ve heard it countless times, and I think it’s a myth but what do you think? In this episode, I’m sharing some examples of questions that I’ve been asked, and you can decide if you think they are dumb or not.


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In 2001, I had an amazing and unbelievable Law of Attraction experience that changed the trajectory of my life. Listen in to learn more about this phenomenal, life-changing story.


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In this first episode of Gumbo Nights, I share why I chose the name of my podcast. I also share an embarrassing situation that happened to me three times recently.


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Gumbo Nights is a podcast focused on a variety of compelling topics. We like to mix things up just like gumbo.


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