ChiderahTalks: Recent Episodes
Chiderah Beulah Ojukwu
This is the first episode of the Season 3 of Chiderah Talks ~ To the Men Who Want to Love a Woman.This new season was kicked off with this episode addressing men who cheat on their spouses. Core to the message is to enlightene men that cheating is also attractive to women, however, if they decided to culture themselves, men can also do that. Ensure to listen to the end, drop your feedback, share and follow.
Labels may sound harmless - “single mother,” “too young,” “too old,” “illiterate” “poor”, but if you’re not careful, they can become invisible chains, quietly limiting how high you believe you can fly. 🕊️In this episode of Confidence Unleashed, I share how to break free from society’s boxes and reclaim your wings. Because you are not what they call you - you are who you decide to be.
Being the only one can feel intimidating - but it’s also your strength. In this episode of Confidence Unleashed, I share my journey of standing out as the only female group leader in law school and the only Nigerian in my MBA class.Your difference isn’t a weakness - it’s your power. 💡
Ever achieved something big… yet felt like you didn’t deserve it? 🤔Like any moment, someone will “find out” you’re not as capable as they think?That’s Imposter Syndrome, and it’s stealing the confidence of even the most qualified people.In this episode of Confidence Unleashed, I share how to spot it, stop it, and step boldly into spaces you’ve already earned the right to be in.
Have you ever been told to tone it down? That you're too bold, too confident, or too much?This week on Confidence Unleashed, we’? are unpacking the lie that you need to shrink to be accepted. 👏🏽There’s a difference between being rude and being real. And when you’re simply walking in truth - with respect and confidence - others’ discomfort is not your responsibility.✨ You weren’t created to blend in. You were made to stand out - fully and unapologetically.
Still waiting for the “perfect moment” to speak up, apply, launch, or lead?Here’s the truth: confidence doesn’t come before the action - it comes because of it.In this episode of Confidence Unleashed, I share a simple but powerful reminder:✅ You don’t need to feel ready to take the first step.✅ You don’t need to have it all figured out.✅ You just need to start.Your next level isn’t waiting for perfection; it is waiting for movement.
Ever said "yes" when your heart screamed "no"? In this episode of Confidence Unleashed, I open up about my own struggle with people pleasing and how I learned to set boundaries, say no without guilt, and own my decisions - no matter who’s involved.
Do you find yourself shrinking when others disapprove or staying silent just to be accepted? In this episode of Confidence Unleashed, we explore how to stop hinging your value on other people’s opinions or approval.Your worth isn’t determined by applause or criticism; it is rooted in who you are.Tune in for a powerful reminder that you don’t need permission to take up space. 💥
Hinging your value on things or possessions is risky, as your sense of self worth would deplete in the absence or insufficiency of those appendages. This episode speaks on understanding and settling the matter of your self-worth.This is the first episode of the series "Confidence Unleashed". The series was inspired by the book titled Confidence Unleashed: How to Speak up and Stand your Ground Anytime Anywhere by Chiderah Beulah Ojukwu. To get your copy of the ebook, kindly follow this link: https://forms.gle/MUnavW5V4o7KC8Ct5
Every human being is programmable. You can change your bad behavior. You can adopt a good character. It is about how willing and committed you are to go through the process of change that matters.
I have proven this theory over and over again. The push/motivation you get to start now may not remain for a long time. You need to utilize the moment to make the plan, start the project, make the inquiry, take action and more.You may need that which you started today as a support to what you will do tomorrow. Then, you'll not have to start afresh. There's wisdom in taking action NOW.
Your perspective in life is formed by the knowledge you have acquired.Hence, acquiring correct knowledge has a great impact in shaping your perspective in life, and improving your decisions, actions and responses in life.
Every woman should know that they are essential, important and in high demand. Don't go about life searching for a man to make you feel complete. No! It is you that is being waited for and highly anticipated.
Every single man should look out for a lady who accepts them as they are and are capable of making sacrifices for the greater good.
If God, through you, sets up something today, in twenty years time, that which God set up through you will compete effectively and excel above things that just came up that twentieth year.
You need to have a staying ability when it seems you do not know how to continue with that vision or idea. Help will come!
Be willing and ready to act on ideas, visions, inspirations etc that drop into your mind. Any time is good time!
Sow the seed now! Implement the idea now! You don't have to get people's approval to feel qualified enough to bear and carry out that vision!
It is not enough to have access to the Supreme Divine Mind, it is expedient for you to make use of your access.
Whatsover invention there may be on earth is usually conceived by the mind. The equation of the mind cannot be taken away when it comes to human advancement in whatsover sort. Though the human mind is this powerful, it is yet limited. What can expand the horizon of the mind?
Giving is a proof of love. Love gives, gives and forgives. A stingy man should not go close to a woman because it is in the nature of a woman to be loved and cared for. One of the ways to do that is by meeting her material needs.
A man is the visioneer, the driver and the leader. It is necessary for him not to be tossed about by what people say and think. You are your own person!
Lording it over a woman does not prove your manliness. The proofs of leadership by Dr Mike Murdock are provision, promotion and protection. Get to know them!
Low self-esteem in a man can put a woman off. A man needs to be confident in himself and his vision in other for a woman to trust him with her future. Conquer low self-esteem today. You are worth much more!
Most men may not know about some traits they exhibit that turn a woman off. Season 2 of ChiderahTalks~To the men who want to love a woman is devoted in highlighting those traits and proferring possible solutions to men.
Loving your woman transcends beyond her; it also affects your children positively. One of the ways to love your children is to love their mother.
Stay faithful to your woman. It is a decision you make whether you are commended for it or not.
Say what you will do and do what you say. Make good your promises. Let your credibility not be lost in the eyes of your woman!
Build your woman's security. If you are truly her protector, you will shield her from internal and external attacts. Prove your headship!
Question and answer with Zainab. Crucial questions with precise answers on the issue of being romantic as a practical way to love a woman.
To adore your woman means to love and respect her deeply that you hold her in high esteem. If you adore your woman, let it show in your thoughts, words and actions.
Every woman is unique in her own way. Therefore, for you to love your woman the way she wants to be loved, you have to study her!