If you've been on social media AT ALL lately, then you're probably familiar with the #softlife. Inspired by an episode of Go off, Sis!, this episode explores the unique and challenging relationship between the soft life and the strong black woman. We typically don't see the words "soft" and "strong" in the same sentences, which infers that you can either be soft OR strong, but not both. Black women aren't typically given that choice as feely as others, but I think it's time we reclaim our softness and embrace the soft life that we deserve.