BITTERNESS IS  ANGER THAT HAS SETTLED IN FOR THE LONG TERM.  IT IS AN ANGERNTHAT  HAS BIRTHED RESENTMENT , THE FEELING THAT WE HAVE BEEN TREATED HARSHLY.  THE POSION OF BETTERNESS , LEFT  UNCHECKED, CAN DESTROY US. AND THE  MOST  DANGEROUS THING ABOUT BITTERNESS IS THAT  IT RENDERS FORGIVENESS  INACTIVE ,  WHICH PUT VOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD AND OTHERS ON HOLD.