People often wonder why some succeed while others don't. I believe a big part of this is a marketing problem that sells us the idea that the world is unfair. While it's true that life isn't always fair, thinking that someone like you has succeeded means you can too.The misleading part comes from the belief that you can achieve your goals quickly. That's just not the case. Reaching your goals can take many years. If you make it by the time you're 50 or 60, you've likely done things right.