92: Be Your Own Bae

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I have been in a romantic relationship for 24 years. Y’all I’m 39. That means I’ve had a bae since before I even knew what it meant to be in a “romantic” relationship!

Honestly, having a serious relationship so young, combined with the fact that I was a teen parent left me in a place where I was always putting someone else’s needs before my own.

It resulted in low self-esteem, a strain on my marriage, and poor health. In 2018 I had an epiphany. I realized I needed to treat myself the way I treated my husband.

I gave him the best of me to support him mentally, emotionally, spiritually, sexually and physically.

• Mentally- I gave him the space to process his thoughts, determine his boundaries and encouraged him.
• Emotionally- I supported him in expressing his emotions and experiencing his feelings.
• Spiritually- I covered him in prayer and allowed him to find his way in his faith walk.
• Sexually- I always said “yes”. Always.
• Basic/Physically- I made sure there was food, took care of household chores, etc.

I want to encourage you to be your own bae. What does that look like?

• Allowing yourself to have fun, feel your emotions, set boundaries
• Praying, worshipping and being fed spiritually according to the needs of your soul.
• Getting your sexual needs met.
• Taking care of your basic needs so you are at ease.

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