Instagrams favorite therapist SitWithWhit discusses her new book Toxic Positivity and how it influences our mental health

  • How do we define toxic positivity?
  • Where did we develop this mindset from an evolutionary perspective?
  • Why it’s difficult for us to sit with challenging emotions within our relationships?
    • What areas do we see this most in?
  • How the illusion of control plays a role in our need to be positive?
  • How are manifestations and affirmations different from toxic positivity?
  • What is Groupthink?
    • How does it stifle creativity and intimacy?
  • How we perfect the art of pretending and how this harms us?
  • The numbing behaviors we use to deny our feelings?
  • How do we align our affirmations with our values?
  • Why our “negative” emotions are so important to feel and how to make use of these experiences?
  • Why the pressure to feel gratitude can create shame and be unproductive?
  • What is the difference between emotions and feelings?
  • How does labeling our emotions help us use our emotions in a more adaptive manner?
  • How does a false sense of vulnerability actually hurt us?
  • The other end of the spectrum: a victim state of mind?
  • What is radical acceptance and strategies/tools to use to implement this frame of mind?
  • How the pursuit of happiness can get in the way of our experience of joy?
    • Happiness Driven vs. Value Driven
  • What are positive fantasies and how do they help us through difficult times?
  • How toxic positivity plays a role in our perception of health?
  • What is helpful positivity vs toxic positivity?

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