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Dr. Sean Sullivan

OnePerfect Shift is an audio letter from a psychologist that shifts you into a better state of mind anytime. Each post gives you a fresh look at your relationship to your mind and reminds you how much control you can have over your life experience.

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Hello friend! I hope you've been well and are enjoying a wonderful holiday weekend.

After our brief hiatus, I’m elated to begin sharing beautiful new interactive 3D mindfulness-shifting experiences with you from The Presence Shift.

Take your time exploring our new website and enjoy shifting your state of mind and body anytime.

Stay present,

Sean

P.S. The Presence Shift is a labor of love. We are genuinely pleased to share it with you. Please know that getting a cutting-edge, interactive, web-based 3D technology to function on all mobile and desktop devices is a big challenge. Currently, most of our users complete Presence Shifts on their mobile device(s), which is excellent. However, please also be aware that Presence Shifts do not yet function on all devices. Currently, most recent Android devices, and all iPhone 16, 15, 14, and 13 (except iPhone 13 mini), are supported.

If you ever encounter technical trouble during a mobile Presence Shift, keep in mind that my favorite way of experiencing our 3D Presence Shifts is on as big a screen as possible. For a beautifully immersive presence-shifting experience, you can now visit presenceshift.com on most recent Apple laptop and desktop computers — and many others as well. Our ongoing work is optimizing Presence Shifts to function on as many devices as possible.

You can check out the FAQs below and learn more About The Presence Shift here.

The Presence Shift FAQs

What is The Presence Shift?

The Presence Shift is where you access Presence Shifts, encounter presence, and strategically shift your state of mind, body and being at any time.

What are Presence Shifts?

Presence Shifts are beautiful interactive experiences that mindfully guide you into your selected state of being while teaching you how to shift your state whenever you choose.

What are Mindfulness, Mindfulness Shifting, and Presence Shifting?

Mindfulness is the experience you have when you focus 100% of your attention in the present moment as non-judgmentally as you can (i.e., nonjudgemental present moment awareness).

Mindfulness shifting is using mindfulness skills to strategically regulate your physical and emotional state whenever you choose.

Presence shifting is ‘mindfulness shifting’ in a beautiful, conversational world of peace, love, and humor to learn how to shift your state of being on-demand alongside your loving guide, ‘Presence.’

Does Presence Shifting Work?

We believe it works very well. Over the last four years, ~90% of our surveyed ‘Shift’ app users reported being able to shift into a better state of mind while using the app, usually in less than 10 minutes.

When you master focusing 100% of your attention right here and right now, you can drop into a ‘present’ state of mind and body, and then learn shift your state of being as you choose.

How Do I Learn To Presence Shift?

  1. To develop a foundation of mindfulness shifting skills, begin by completing The 7-Day Presence Shift Starter Program.

  2. Regularly Presence Shift through different states of mind, body, and emotion. You’ll receive one new 3D Presence Shift and one new 2D Presence Shift each week. See below for more details about the types of Presence Shifts you’ll receive.

Your weekly Presence Shifts will cover a range of topics while teaching you our favorite strategies for shifting your state of mind and body on demand. All subscriptions allow you to Presence Shift as frequently as you choose. We recommend Presence Shifting at least once a week to maintain progress.

What Is The 7-Day Presence Shift Starter Program?

The 7-Day Presence Shift Starter Program includes seven introductory daily emails that introduce the core skills for developing your mindfulness-shifting ability in ~10 minutes a day.

What Kinds of Presence Shifts Are There?

ALL Presence Shifts are ~10-minute mindfulness shifting experiences that guide you into a selected state of mind and body.

  • 2D Presence Shifts are consumed by reading an email you receive, as a podcast, or in a more personalized format in the ‘Shift’ mobile app — iPhone | Android.

  • 3D Presence Shifts are beautiful, conversational, 3D mindfulness shifting experiences guided by Presence that teach you how to shift into your chosen state of being at presenceshift.com.

Feel free to repeat any Presence Shift as frequently as you choose. Each experience will feel different because you are different in every moment. In your 3D Presence Shifts, Presence will typically converse differently with you each time.

Does Presence Use AI?

At The Presence Shift, we are committed to using AI in ways that help people learn how to shift into their chosen state of being when they want to. We are also constantly assessing the possible risks and benefits of using AI. Currently, ‘Presence’ uses a very small amount of AI during The 7-Day Starter Program. If you enjoy your early experiences and you want to continue allowing Presence to guide your Presence Shifts, you’ll be informed about possible mistakes Presence can make and asked to agree in order to continue.

As you continue presence shifting, AI will likely be relied upon to optimize your Presence Shifts more. Presence’s AI can help optimize Presence Shifts by learning what does and does not work for you during your Presence Shift experiences. Presence can also learn and improve from other shifter’s input and feedback. If you’d rather stick with low-AI or no-AI Presence Shifts, you'll have excellent Presence Shift options to do so. It’s always up to you.

Who Teaches The 7-Day Presence Shift Starter Program?

The 7-Day Presence Shift Starter Program is presented by Dr. Sean Sullivan. Sean is a licensed clinical psychologist who developed (and fell in love with) presence shifting during over twenty years of personal practice and his therapy practice. In his psychology practice and research, Sean focuses on how to use technology to teach people how to better manage their own psychology better.

Sean began his psychology career after graduating from Harvard University and interning at the Center for Mindfulness and Science at the University of Massachusetts Medical School. Later, he was a clinical psychology resident at the University of Texas Health Science Center in San Antonio and completed post-doctoral training based at the University of California, San Francisco.

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Every cell of our bodies is born of energy and filled with energy.

Our cells interact with each other to produce our experience of life.

We're energetic beings.

We can connect with the awareness of ourselves as energy beings by making what I call the Epic Shift

So let's do it now.

First, say to yourself “I'm making a journey into my inner world to connect to silence” — the energy of life that flows through you.

Now, feel the silence — feel that energy flowing through you by allowing 100% of your attention to focus into your body.

Just feel your body with 100% of your attention.

Notice the tingling sensations percolating on your skin

Allow any thoughts that arise as you focus your attention in your body to melt right back into the energy of silence flowing through you.

Only feeling.

No thinking.

If you get distracted anytime, don't judge yourself.

Just bring your attention back to noticing the energy that is your buzzing body.

Let’s sit together in silence.

Just feel the buzz of your body.

Feel the aliveness of your body

Okay, perfect.

Now, direct your attention away from that silent buzzing of your body — and toward listening outside your body.

Listen to the outer world.

Listen to any sounds that arise that you may usually not notice.

Allow your hovering attention to listen to life.

Be open and receptive to the world.

And again, if you get distracted during this task, same thing — don't judge yourself.

Know that you can bring your attention back to the task you're focused on — listening with 100% of your attention.

Listening strengthens your attention.

It moves you more consistently toward living in presence with full attention.

Let's listen together.

Nice.

Now see if you can feel the tingling in your body as you listen to the outer world buzzing too.

Can you feel your body as part of the buzzing silence of life?

Feel it.

Perfect.

Have a great rest of your day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Let's take a long, deep breath together.

How are you?

How about a couple long, deep breaths?

I hope things are good.

I've been looking forward to saying hello for a little bit here.

Have you been living in a present state of mind and body lately?

It's worth taking stock of that.

When you take stock, you tend to prioritize it more moving forward.

So, how present have you been feeling lately?

Related that topic, one way to think about yourself, and your mental health, and your wellness, and really, your day, is to recognize that we each go through emotional patterns that repeat every day.

Think about a 24-hour day as an emotional cycle.

If you were to map one 24-hour period to another one within some close proximity in time, in all likelihood you would see enormous overlap in the emotional patterns that you roll through during the course of each 24 hours.

We often think of the content that's causing or provoking our emotional cycles to be the important thing to pay attention to.

However, the reality is that if you have an existing pattern of emotion that you repeat regularly — and we all do — then you should instead focus on noticing what that pattern is for you if you want to better understand yourself and your mental wellness.

Developing a baseline understanding of your repeating emotional patterns, and how to improve your patterns, (e.g., by learning to shift your emotional state when you choose to), is incredibly helpful for feeling connected to the present moment of your life more often.

To put that a bit more concretely…

You might wake up in the middle of the night stressed during one of your emotional cycles.

And or, you might wake up happy in the morning.

Later in the day, you might feel guilty.

Maybe you feel guilty because something happened during the day, or maybe it’s because you tend to feel guilty regularly as part of a repeating emotional pattern of yours.

If you do feel shame or guilty regularly, your mind is managing to consistently populate with content (e.g., thoughts, conversation, media, etc.) that provokes you to feel of guilt or shame regularly.

In some future Shift, we’ll walk through a process for evaluating your pattern for yourself. For today, we’ll just notice the fact that we each experience repeating emotional patterns.

Noticing any aspect of your patterns can help you become more aware of how your mental health is evolving, or revolving, repetitively each day. Knowing that your emotional patterns exist makes it easier to recognize them run the future.

Once you notice a repeating emotion, you're in a position to do something about it.

And what is it that we do about it?

We Shift.

We learn how to recognize that when we’re feeling guilty it may just be because we feel guilty regularly (for example) and not for some reason that you actually should feel guilt, or shame, or anger, or frustration, or whatever the repeating emotion might be for you.

So let’s take a long, deep breath and notice how we feel right now.

Relax your shoulders.

Relax your arms.

Sink into your space.

Set an intention to be 100% present for the next minute or two.

Sink deeper into your space.

Feel your body weight against your seat.

Allow your head to fall backwards if you want to.

If that feels good for you, relax even further.

Good.

Now, close your eyes with me — if you're in a place where that's a safe thing to do.

Set the intention to be a 100% present again.

Listen to life and feel life on your skin at the same time now.

Focus 100% of your attention on listening to and feeling life for the next 30 seconds.

Ready?

Listen and feel.

Notice how your body shifts into presence as thoughts or emotional cycles that may bubble up are allowed to relax away, for now.

Release everything into the ether, for now.

Release the content.

Release the emotion.

If thoughts arise to distract you from your pure intention to be present, notice them and let them go.

Notice them as cyclical thoughts that provoke cyclical emotions.

Take another long, deep breath.

Listen.

Feel yourself coming into presence.

Allow your attention to be focused right here, listening right now.

Keep listening to life as long as you want.

Keep listening even after I say goodbye.

Just stay present.

Perfect.

Goodbye for now.

Have a great rest of your day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Let's take a long, deep breath.

Nice.

Let's take another longer, deeper breath.

I hope you're having a great one.

The focus of this Shift is managing your energy level.

A variety of strategies can move your energy level around.

Today, we're going shift our attention in different ways while noticing how alive and awake we feel.

Can you feel the air on your skin right now, for example?

If you want to shift into a better energy state, noticing your body is helpful.

Take your shirt off if you need help feeling the air brushing against your skin.

If you walk with your shirt off, you'll more clearly feel air brushing against your skin.

Take another deep breath and feel the air on your skin.

Are you fully present to the sensations?

Next, notice the thoughts flowing through your mind for a few seconds.

Are your thoughts swirling at a fast or slow pace right now?

Unless it's intentional (if you’re in your creative zone, for example) fast, swirling thoughts usually mean that you’re not feeling present.

If you're feeling low energy, and you're having swirling thoughts, it’s likely a cue that you're not currently fully awake and present.

It’s the same principle when you close your eyes and listen.

Let's try that next.

Take another deep breath and close your eyes and listen as you notice your energy level.

Can you notice your energy level rising?

Even if listening with your eyes closed settles you down, it can also raise your available energy.

Can you feel your level of aliveness and awakeness growing as you listen?

Notice how alert you are?

Can you feel your presence raising your available energy?

Shifting into presence consolidates your available energy.

Let's listen to life and be fully present together for 30 seconds now.

Keep 100% of your attention on listening to life in this moment.

Good.

Whenever you're not in a good energy state, ask yourself: Am I present?

Take another long, deep breath.

Let’s just be here together for a little while longer, listening to life.

Allow your shoulders to relax.

Allow your body to relax fully.

Feel your body weight on whatever you're pressing against.

Just feel the weight of your body for a moment.

Good.

Take a few more deep breaths.

Again, focus 100% of your attention on listening to life.

Listen with your ears.

Listen with your body.

Be present with me for a while longer.

If you get distracted, Shift back into presence.

Place 100% of your attention on listening to life.

When gratitude starts to flow, you're in the sweet spot.

Perfect.

Now set your intention to be 100% present for the next hour of your life.

Make sure you feel your intention anchor in your body.

Nice.

You can shift your attention into the present moment to shift your energy anytime.

And, as a side-note, remember also that light is deeply connected to your physiology.

Bright light can help awaken you anytime too.

Bright light can lighten your inside world — not just your outside world.

So when it’s dark and you're feeling low on energy — or feeling stressed — go get some light in your eyes, and on your body, for a few minutes.

Bright light can accelerate your state shift too.

Have a great rest of your day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Contact us for a team trial or try it on iPhone or Android today.

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Let's take a long, deep breath.

Relax your shoulders.

Allow your arms to fall toward the ground as you settle in.

I’ve been asked about what mindset ‘breakthroughs’ I've experienced that have contributed to feeling more present, more consistently.

We all have fantasies about what we hope might happen in our lives — what we, and our lives, might ‘become’ in the future.

A powerful realization is that when some version of your personal fantasy becomes reality, it will likely simply mean that you've learned to conduct a larger orchestra within whatever domain your personal development(s) (i.e., your personal mastery, or expertise, or growth) has occurred during your life.

The second half of that ‘breakthrough mindset’ is recognizing that being a ‘player’ in the orchestra of life can always be as beautiful a part of your life’s journey as conducting an orchestra can be.

They are different in type, not kind.

When you’re deeply present, you are as fully alive as you can ever be.

When you’re fully embodying your life’s unique journey, sometimes you're playing solo, other times you’re playing in the orchestra, and other times you may be conducting.

That mindset helps keep you from distorting your fantasies about what the future may or may not bring, while also acknowledging that by consistently attending to the present moment you’re living an unfathomably complex and beautiful existence.

Your orchestra may grow, or not, throughout your life.

Regardless, that ‘breakthrough mindset’ encourages you to return your attention to the present moment always — which deepens your unique relationship to life throughout your life.

That’s why I find it so powerful.

Take another long, deep breath and listen to life with me with 100% of your attention.

Allow that idea to sink in a bit, if it resonates.

100% focus, right here.

Nice.

Getting in touch with a sense of yourself as a conductor, an orchestra player AND a soloist can release you from ‘future fear’ too.

The mindset releases you from distortions in your fantasies about what success or failure ‘must’ to look like for you.

Imagining your life as being better in the future can subtly imply to yourself that the present moment will always be a problem — which is a self-defeating mindset.

Instead of trying to control the future, the breakthrough mindset shifts you into living this moment fully.

It shifts you back into awareness that your life is always taking place in this perfect present moment.

Invariably, the breakthrough mindset reminder returns your attention to listening to life to live fully right now.

So let’s do that.

Let’s listen in full presence together for a little while longer.

Feel life flowing into and through you.

The breakthrough mindset is also a reminder that the most wonderful experiences of our lives so often occur when we feel deeply embedded with others — with family, friendship, and or, community.

Within those containers of love, you know and feel yourself as a singular aspect of this miraculous symphony we share.

Let's take one more long, deep breath and shift again with the breakthrough mindset.

The best reminder of life’s never-ending beauty comes from placing your attention fully in the present moment.

Listen to life with me with 100% of your attention for a while longer.

Focus 100% of your attention on listening with your ears, and your eyes, and your body now.

Perfect.

Do you notice a difference in how you feel?

Can you feel any shift that has occurred in your state of mind and body?

Listen to life with me with 100% of your attention for 15 more seconds.

Perfect.

I wish you all the best with your fantasies and your reality — your life’s unique and beautiful journey.

Have a great rest of your day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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A struggling friend who I hadn’t seen in years asked me when and why I learned to strategically shift my state of mind.

My answer became the ‘Shift With An Old Friend’ that follows.

I had an unbelievably difficult emotional experience in college that led me to need to learn how to shift into a better place.

Back then, I'd gotten into emotional places I didn't want to be in anymore.

I'd experienced plenty of incredibly beautiful states of mind and body by then too.

Having experienced the emotional spectrum, I wanted to make sure I knew how to return to a peaceful state of mind and body whenever I needed to.

Actually, I needed to learn.

I was definitely interested in learning how to shift my emotional state in ways that would allow me to perform my best as well.

But my deepest motivation for learning how to shift my state of mind and body on demand was pain-inspired initially.

That’s the motivation that pushes most people learn to ‘shift.’

Shifting shows you that walking with your deepest cut, your deepest pain, can transform you into your joy.

Repeatedly making an inner journey through your pain and into peace and presence enables you to recognize, and eventually embody, your most liberated emotional states.

I found that making that inner journey to presence repeatedly— with a Shift, for example — is required, before most of us develop a consistently accessible present state of mind and body.

It seems that the human condition forces us to repeatedly navigate our unique inner journey back to peace along the path to fully thriving in our lives.

It can take a long time, but it’s a beautiful journey.

So…

Let’s strategically navigate ourselves into presence for a couple minutes together right now.

Start with a long, deep breath.

Relax your entire body and come fully into this moment.

Set your intention to focus 100% of your attention on your inner journey for a little while.

What's the part of your personal story that has been molding you into your purpose during this precious, unique, miraculous life of yours?

Take another deep breath and relax even more.

Allow a question to hang in the space of your inner world:

What's the part of your personal story that has been molding you into your purpose during this precious, unique, miraculous life of yours?

Close your eyes if you want to.

Listen to life with 100% of your attention for one minute.

Notice what arises in your inner world.

What's arising in your inner world?

Whatever arises, just notice it. Then, silently respond to it, as follows:

“Thank you for raising this issue to my attention, but for now I'm letting everything go as I shift into presence for a while.

I’m listening to life with 100% of my attention right now.

I know you will arise again later. And I will greet you later.

For the next minute, I'm committed to letting go of everything — and listening to life with 100% of my attention.”

Listen to life with 100% of your attention.

Listen with your ears and your eyes.

Even if your eyes are closed, listen with your eyes.

Come more fully into presence.

Feel the air on your skin in this moment.

Notice how you feel right now.

Have you shifted toward presence?

Do you feel present in this moment?

Fully commit to listening to life with all your senses for 30 more seconds.

Deepen your presence by listening to and feeling life with 100% of your attention.

Perfect.

A perfect, if brief, inner journey to presence.

The more you shift the easier it gets.

Have a great rest of your day!

Talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Our intention with the ‘Shift Into Presence’ series is to get to the skill level where no matter how you're feeling at any moment, you can shift yourself into presence with just one long, deep breath.

That would be ideal, right?

That's what we're looking for.

It is possible to take one long, deep breath and come into presence — if you've practiced developing the skill of shifting your state of mind and body on-demand.

Take another deep breath, and feel yourself coming more into presence than you felt a moment ago.

Feel your body shift into presence as you take that long, deep breath — and then listen to life with 100% of your attention.

You are 30 trillion buzzing cells right now — always.

You're buzzing as part of the miracle of life.

You're connected to the miracle.

Can you feel the miracle on your skin?

Listen to, hear and feel the miracle for a while.

Breathe the miracle.

BE with all your attention, fully understanding what you're doing:

Being the miracle of life.

Be here, buzzing.

Feel yourself fully as presence.

Allow all thoughts to fade away.

Allow all stress to fade away.

Listen and feel.

Notice what comes up.

Inevitably, you'll be interrupted by a thought, a stress, a to-do list, a worry, an attachment.

What do you do then?

Take another long, deep breath.

Drop back into presence, bringing 100% of your attention to listening, to being.

Turn all your attention to your favorite portals of presence.

If you get distracted again, listen to life again.

Be here.

Be now.

Be okay.

Notice.

If something persistent arises in your inner world, notice — what is it about that thing?

What is it that you can't let go?

Let go of your attachment to whatever it is, for now.

Maybe you're feeling judged negatively, or you're judging yourself negatively?

Are you worried about what you'll have to go back to after you take this respite?

Let go, for now.

If you always return to presence, life gets beautiful.

It takes some time.

And….

It only takes a moment.

Take one long, deep breath.

Return to presence with a long, deep breath anytime you get distracted away.

Perfect.

Allow your shoulders to relax more now.

Allow your arms to fall toward the ground.

Feel your body against whatever you're sitting against.

Feel that body buzz.

Deepen into presence and just sit for a while.

Let's listen to life together for one minute.

Another long, deep breath.

Set that intention to be fully present for a minute or so.

Notice how you feel right now.

Blend how you feel — present — into knowing yourself as aspect of the miracle of life.

Blend your awareness further into the miraculous, buzzing edges of your body — your skin.

There is no separation between the life on your skin and the air you're pulling in.

Be life for a while longer.

Listening.

Feeling.

Being.

Shift fully into presence.

Life is good.

Life is beautiful.

Life can also be stressful.

That's why we practice shifting into presence.

You can always modulate your emotional life by taking a long, deep breath and then opening up to the bigger picture of which you're part — before you zoom back in to the life you're living today.

Remain connected to the body, and the life, you're evolving through.

Feel yourself as buzzing silence for ten, long, seconds, more…

Listen.

Nice.

Have a great rest of your day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

P.S. Shift Into Presence (1)

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Let's take a long, deep breath.

I woke up in a bad mood recently.

It happens from time to time.

It was difficult figure out why it happened the other day.

It could have been my sugar was way too low, or maybe something was bothering me that I wasn’t able to identify.

Usually I have a good sense for what it is that is bothering me.

This last time though, I’m wasn’t sure.

I just had that feeling inside.

Annoyed.

Grouchy.

For some people, that happens every day they wake up!

For some people, it happens rarely.

For me, it happens fairly rarely now, thankfully.

But when it happens, you know it.

So does anyone around you!

On those mornings, especially, I remind myself that I’m just a Shift away from feeling at peace — anytime.

When I'm annoyed, I usually choose a slightly longer Shift to get back to good.

Hopefully, I get all the way back to ‘great’ in a few minutes.

At the worst, you know you can always shift your state enough to get on with enjoying the day — and that’s saying a lot.

To me, that’s the ultimate practical value of mastering shifting your state of mind on demand.

As you learn in the Starter Program, everyone develops their own shifting style and preferences.

For me, the key to getting started with a Shift is to recognize myself as deeply connected to life.

We are each an aspect of life right now — at this unique moment.

We are not separate.

We’re not here to fight life.

We’re not here to fight the day — to struggle — as my recent morning felt like.

Here’s the Shift I used to get back to good that day…

Take a long, deep breath.

Become aware that in a few minutes you’ll be feeling better then you feel right now.

Notice how it feels in the moment that you become aware of the virtual certainty of your shift into a better state of mind coming to pass in a few minutes.

For me, it feels like something to look forward to is around the corner.

Maybe it’ll be a deep feeling of peace that will arise within you.

Or, maybe you’ll encounter a deep insight that will change the course of your day — or your life — as you shift through feeling annoyed.

I suggest you close your eyes for this Shift — especially if you typically read Shifts, try listening today to experiment how that works for you.

Relax and sink into your space, wherever you are — either sitting or lying down.

Allow your entire body to relax.

Relax all your muscles.

Relax from your shoulders and neck on down.

Sink deeper into your seat.

As you let go of all that tension, let go of all the thoughts flowing in your head too.

Let go of any thoughts about what you are annoyed by.

Let go of any thoughts that you aren't even recognizing are there, but that may be contributing to your negative-tinged state of mind and body.

Breathe in and just release them all.

Allow any thoughts that enter your mind for the next few minutes to flow through.

Observe them.

Notice them.

Now, let them go.

For the next few minutes, you are presence.

You are life.

Recognize every journey through life as an impossible, beautiful and glorious experience.

Within your journey, you can choose to release stress anytime.

It’s not always easy.

A good Shift doesn’t even always stick for too long.

Regardless, shifting develops your mental fitness each and every time you do it.

Set your intention to come further into the present moment now.

Keep all of your attention in the present moment.

All of your feeling attention is right here.

Listen to life with 100% of your attention.

Feeling life, without interruption now.

Your mind is clearing.

You’re filling with silence.

Embed yourself fully in presence now.

Your mind and body are connecting to the rest of life.

Feel life buzzing against your skin.

Feel the air on your hands.

Feel your head tingling.

Feel your whole body tingling with life.

Feel and listen for 20 seconds.

Focus 100% of your attention on listening to life for 20 seconds.

Feel life.

Perfect.

Take note of how you feel.

Notice the difference of the feeling inside your brain and body right now.

You've given yourself a shift into the present moment — into a deepened connection with life.

Relax for another 20 seconds.

Just being life.

Feel embedded in life.

Know yourself as an aspect of life.

30 trillion buzzing cells.

Relaxing.

Being.

Being you.

Perfect.

When you’re ready, emerge from your deep silence, but keep all your attention in the present moment — remain present.

Be present as you consider the next step of your day.

Allow thoughts or images of whatever is next in your day to arise within you.

Focus intentionally on whatever is next for you today.

Is there a ‘doing’ that's next for you today?

Is there something that you plan to engage with?

Or, are you going to just stay in presence for a while?

Whatever it is, set the intention to engage with it fully.

Remain fully present as you transition out of your strategic shift and back to your outer life.

We're going to stay connected to the presence that has subsumed our minds and bodies — for the rest of today.

Stillness is the background of your day.

Bring that intention to your next task.

Your intention is to remain present with life during your next task.

Bring full attention to it.

What’s next for you?

Whether it's getting up and making breakfast, or getting to your computer and working on something, or going for a workout, or being with your family, or checking that next step off your list that needs to get done today — clearly see your life’s next step in your mind's eye right now.

See yourself engaging with your next step now — bringing your full presence to it.

Purpose flows through presence.

Purpose flows from presence.

See your next step with increasing clarity now.

Feel it.

Attach to it.

Become it.

Nice.

Open your eyes when you're feeling peaceful and ready.

Have a great one.

Stay present,

Sean

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Listen to waves with 100% of your attention for 60 seconds to Shift today.

As you listen, see if you can notice the distracting sound that arises in the background AND notice how your inner world reacts automatically in real time.

If you get distracted, notice whether you can immediately shift back into presence when you get distracted.

Ready?

Close your eyes if you want.

Listen…

Perfect.

Great job.

Did you notice the distraction? Did it distract or annoy you?

Anytime you get distracted from your intention to have your attention focused where you want it, simply notice the distraction and immediately reset your intention to focus 100% of your attention on what you’ve chosen to focus on.

You can do that to return to presence anytime.

Each time you do it, you’re training yourself to return to present mind state more naturally.

Have a great day.

Stay present,

Sean

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Hello, Hello. How are you?

Let's take our first of several long, deep breaths together.

Are you looking forward to the weekend?

Take another long, deep breath and relax your shoulders.

Now, focus 100% of your attention on listening to life.

Listen for sounds you otherwise wouldn’t hear.

Can you notice a little mini-shift when you put 100% of your attention into listening?

Feel for that shift.

Feel life buzzing on your skin now.

Nice.

Let's set an intention to dive deep into presence as we listen to life together and breath deeply for another minute.

Feel yourself shifting more into presence as you breath and listen to life with your complete attention.

Feel it.

You can always feel a shift when you take the time to intentionally make a Shift.

One of the things that helps me reconnect with that fact is remembering that we each inhabit different mental states throughout our days.

You can't always be in a peak state.

But, you can be aware as you shift through mind states throughout a given day that dropping further into presence is always to your emotional, physical, and health benefit.

Everything about being in presence is aligned with health.

If you spend a lot of time in presence, you know that being present feels like a healthy place.

Presence is a place from which you tend to make healthy feeling decisions too.

Presence is always a positive amplifier of your current state.

It might be that you're getting hyped up in order to generate enough energy to do something important — so you bring presence into that intention.

Or, you might want to come into quiet or silence to chill by yourself — to enjoy your body, your life, your environment, and the sounds that surround you.

Either way, presence is your amplifier.

Let’s come further into presence.

Listen to life with 100% of your attention for 20 seconds.

Nice.

Let’s shift deeper into a beautiful, peaceful Friday state of presence to shift into weekend mode now.

Take another long, deep breath.

Allow your arms to relax even more.

Allow yours shoulders to fall to the ground again.

Had your shoulders tensed up since the last time you intentionally relaxed them?

Notice.

Remind yourself that you can always enhance your state by being exceptionally present.

Take your time.

Enjoy your now.

Feel yourself shifting deeper into presence.

Set the intention to be present and have fun now — and for the weekend.

Let’s take one last deep breath together for now.

Sink deep into now.

Feel it.

Ahhh.

Have a great rest of your day.

Talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

P.S. Here’s an HR News article that may interest you.

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Let's take a long deep breath.

Come fully into this moment.

How are you?

What's going on over there?

Is life good?

Set that intention to come into a present state for a little while.

Allow your shoulders to relax.

Your arms to fall toward the ground.

I like to move my head around in a circle to begin to chill.

Listen to life for 10 seconds.

Really notice that shift inside your body.

That body shift that occurs along with that shift inside your mind.

Nice.

I did a podcast guest appearance recently.

The conversation was so interesting because the person I was talking to mentioned that she felt very anxious regularly.

And, she asked if we could, for this talk, focus on how not to have that anxiety be part of our lives?

I thought that was just brilliant because that’s the purpose of the efforts we make here — to live a life of presence.

To live a life of purpose.

So I thought the idea of specifically talking on a podcast to actually practice being chill together — exploring how we can move through our days percolating at a level of stress that doesn't veer into that anxiety too much — was genius.

We each want a level of stress that allows us to embody a state of mind and body that keeps us feeling connected within the flow of our day — not feeling overly stressed.

That ultimately entails learning how to shift your state back to a state of presence, each time you notice that you've fallen out of that peace.

So we did exactly that practice for that podcast episode.

We loved it.

I’d say we succeeded in being chill together.

We nerded out a bit together and got real too.

It was fun.

I’ll drop a link to that episode of “Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning” below this Shift.

The conversation reminded me again of why we engage with shifting into presence very intentionally and strategically here — and throughout our days.

We anchor ourselves to the objective of coming into chill, into peace and into presence with each other in each Shift, right?

That’s why we set the intention to live presently, peacefully throughout our Shifts and throughout our days.

It's the coolest thing to know that you can make strides towards living at peace just by doing that.

You could literally see changes that happen within your brain if you’ve practiced for a while.

The research shows changes in brains that correlate with producing feeling states that are associated with coming into presence regularly.

So let's get back to being intentionally present, by feeling our bodies now.

Feel that tingling sensation flowing throughout your body.

Place all your attention into your body.

Feel that buzz of life buzzing through you.

How do 30 trillion buzzing cells feel?

Feel the buzz of them cells :)

Your whole body buzzes with life.

Feel it.

Sink into it with 100% of your attention.

Feeling that buzz.

Feel your body buzz for a little longer.

Deep breath.

If anything is interfering with your presence, just take a note of what it is.

Then, let it go.

If you need to, write it down.

Then, let it go.

Come back to it later.

For now, all presence.

Feel that tingling body buzz as you also listen to life now.

Feels good.

Feels so good.

Set that intention to live in presence — to be present — for the rest of your day now too.

Have an incredible one.

Thank you, by the way.

I want to express my gratitude to you for keeping me shifting regularly — by shifting with me.

Community is so huge.

And I feel you.

I feel you out there.

So, thank you.

Have a great rest of your day!

Stay present,

Sean

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Hello, friend!

Shift Psychology’s Future is better listened to than read, IMHO.

Take a deep breath and tap above to begin the audio.

You can learn more about how OnePerfect is building the future of psychology at the link below as well.

Stay present,

Sean

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Let's take a long, deep breath.

I'm sitting in a Zen Garden today.

Join me here.

It's gorgeous out.

Let's set an intention to come 100% into presence by listening to life with 100% of our attention for 10 seconds.

Hear what you wouldn't otherwise hear.

Nice.

Life is good.

Take another deep breath.

Notice how you feel.

Do you feel any more here and now?

Do you feel any more present?

Just being present with 100% of your attention releases stress.

A couple minutes of intentional presence every day is very good for you.

So take another deep breath and set an intention to be fully present for a little while with me.

Setting a specific intention to be present is a big deal.

So feel your intention being set inside you now.

Nice.

So often in our lives most of us (maybe, all of us) feel guilty or ashamed.

We get overrun by a sense of shame or guilt.

Many times though, the judgments that we make of ourselves are judgments that arise from somebody else's standards — somebody else's life experience.

Because we are each unique, I believe one of the most important things we can do in our lives is discover our own truth.

Find the truth out of which your standards flow.

Find the standards that work for you — for your unique life.

Then lean into your truth, your standards.

And lean into your relationships.

Recommit to living your truth moving forward.

Honor your truth, so people know who you are.

Then, you can be present for your people.

And your people can then be present for you.

If your guilt or shame derives from someone telling you you're not enough, become more consciously aware of that today by feeling for it.

Listen for it.

Notice.

Identify your own standards.

Get clear about what your standards are and why they are right for you.

Connect to a personal truth of yours right now.

How present do you feel when you connect to a truth of yours?

Do you feel completely here and now?

Let's listen to life even more fully now.

Feel your life flowing through you for 10 seconds.

Feel your way fully into presence — not thinking about being present, but rather, feeling your body’s existing presence.

Find your state of flow by listening to your life’s unique journey.

Follow your personal miracle by listening for the pace of your miracle.

Listen and live the pace of your miracle by dropping into your body and feeling life fully — with your entire body now.

Feel presence.

Keep listening to life with your whole body.

Feel yourself as life.

Let's listen to life for 30 seconds more.

Focus 100% of your attention on listening to, and with, your body.

Listen to your world.

If you get distracted anytime, just come back into the present moment by returning to listening with 100% of your attention.

Listen and feel life.

Feel life on your skin.

Keep listening and feeling.

Perfect.

That was beautiful.

Stay present.

Have a great rest of your day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Let's take a walk.

Start with a long, deep breath.

How are you?

Let's relax our shoulders.

Allow our arms to be loose, and fall toward the ground.

I'm out here in the fields of a farm nearby where I live.

It's beautiful.

Clouds rolling over.

A perfect time to deepen our connection to presence.

Let's relax into it by listening to life for 20 seconds together.

Notice how you shift.

Set that intention to shift more into this moment by listening to life and noticing.

Perfect.

Some of the best 20 seconds of the day right there, right?

I’ve been getting asked a lot of questions as an interview and podcast guest.

I love talking to people about what we do here — shifting and our Shift Therapy® future.

On some level, all of the questions I hear boil down to one place.

This is a place I think of as a window through which any of us can look.

When you're looking through this window, so much of life is visible to you.

Looking through this window allows you to see, hear, feel and experience so much more of the life that is pouring through each of us each moment.

You can look through that window by connecting to the concept that you, and I, and life, are miraculous.

You are 30 trillion buzzing cells!

You are more than language, or conceptualization, could ever capture in thought.

Listening to that genius of life of you opens you up to life.

Whenever you connect with that genius for yourself, or you speak it in your own language — with your own words — your life opens further.

BTW, that's why in the OnePerfect Shift App you have the ability to record and save your own Shifts in your private library.

Your can record your own Shifts, or save whatever you might be working on.

You can also blend your recorded words into Shifts that you’ll complete down the road.

By doing that, you'll always be reminding yourself of what's most important to you.

Try that feature out on iPhone or Android in a free trial anytime.

Let's take one more deep breath.

Connect to life being beautiful.

Life is miraculous.

You are life buzzing.

Listen.

Perfect.

That wasn't a bad walk, was it?

Let's now set the intention to stay fully relaxed, fully present, for the rest of the day.

Or, maybe you want to drop into a deep state of flow for the rest of your day?

Whatever’s up next for you, set the intention to be present with it now.

I'm going to finish up my walk and stay present for the rest of the day.

I’ll be here listening for whatever the miracle of life shows me next.

Have a great one.

Talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Let's take a long, deep breath.

I woke up in a bad mood this morning.

It happens from time to time.

It's hard to back into why it happens sometimes.

You just get that feeling inside.

Annoyed.

Grouchy.

For some people, it happens every day they wake up.

For some people, it happens rarely.

For me, it happens fairly rarely now, thankfully.

But when it happens, you know it.

So does everyone around you.

On those mornings, I love knowing I’m one just Shift away from feeling at peace.

When I'm grouchy, I usually pick a slightly longer Shift to get back to good.

Hopefully, you can get all the way to ‘great’ in a few minutes.

At least, you can shift enough to get on with enjoying your day.

For me, the key is to spend some time recognizing myself as an aspect of the miracle of life.

We are each an aspect of right now — this unique moment.

We are not separate.

We’re not here to fight life.

We’re not here to fight the day.

Struggle — that’s how my recent morning felt though.

So, I did a Shift.

It worked.

Now, I want to do a Shift with you focused on shifting out of feeling grouchy in the morning.

A Shift for when you wake up on the wrong side of the bed…

Take a long, deep breath.

Become aware that in a few minutes you’ll be feeling better then you are right now.

Right now, you may have a feeling inside you that's angsty, and angry, and frustrated.

Close your eyes for this Shift, if they're not yet closed.

If you typically read Shifts, try tapping ‘Play’ above and listening today.

Sink into the space you're either sitting or lying down in.

Allow your entire body to relax.

Relax all your muscles.

Relax from your shoulders and neck on down.

Sink into your seat.

As you let go of all that tension, let go of all the thoughts flowing in your head too.

Let go of any thoughts about what you are annoyed by.

Let go of any thoughts that you aren't even recognizing are there, but that may be contributing to your negative-tinged state of mind and body.

Breathe in and just release them all.

Allow any thoughts that enter your mind for the next few minutes to flow through.

Observe them.

Notice them.

Now, let them go.

For the next few minutes, we are presence together.

We are life.

Set the intention to come further into the present moment now.

Keep all of your attention in the present moment.

All of your feeling attention is right here in the present moment.

Your body is feeling life, without interruption now.

Your mind is clearing.

You’re filling with silence.

Embedded in presence.

Your mind and body are connecting to the rest of life.

Feel life on your skin now.

Feel the air on your hands.

Feel your head tingling.

Feel your whole body tingling with life.

Feel and listen with me for 20 seconds.

100% of your attention listening to life now.

Feeling life.

Perfect.

Now, take note.

Notice the difference of the feeling inside your brain and body right now.

You've given yourself a shift into the present moment.

Let's relax for another 20 seconds together.

Just being life.

Embedded in life.

Knowing yourself as an aspect of life.

30 trillion buzzing cells.

Relaxing.

Being.

Being you.

Perfect.

Start coming out of deep silence now, but remain embedded in presence.

Stay embedded in silence as you see the next step of your day unfolding in your mind’s eye.

Allow thoughts or images of whatever is next in your day to arise within you.

Focus intentionally on whatever is next for you today.

Is there a ‘doing’ that's next for you today?

Is there something that you plan to engage with?

Or, are you going to just stay in presence for a while?

Whatever it is, set the intention to do it fully.

What's that next step that you're going to engage with?

Remain fully presence as you transition from your Shift and back to your outer life now.

We're going to keep the presence that has subsumed our minds and bodies with us for the rest of today.

Stillness is the background of your day.

Stillness is the background of your entire day.

Bring that intention to your next task.

Your intention is to remain present with life during your next task.

Bring full attention to it.

What is that next task for you?

Whether it's getting up and making breakfast, or getting to your computer and working on something, or going for a workout, or being with your family, or checking that next step off your list that needs to get done today — see your life’s next step in your mind's eye right now.

See yourself engaging with your next step — bringing your full presence to it.

Purpose flows through presence.

Purpose flows from presence.

See your next step with increasing clarity now.

Feel it.

Attach to it.

Become it.

Nice.

Open your eyes when you're ready and get on with engaging your day in peace :)

Have a great one.

Stay present.

Talk to you soon,

Sean

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Hello, friend!

Keep an eye out for a HUGE ‘SHIFT’ ANNOUNCEMENT coming next Thursday, June 1st…

Get ready for June bloom!

Meantime, try this Shift next time you need some motivation to exercise...

Take a long, deep breath.

Are you familiar with the term ‘behavioral activation’?

Behavioral activation is a fancy psychology term for saying that you have to actually take concrete steps in order for the positive change(s) that you’re looking to produce to occur.

So, for example, you can think about doing exercise.

You can plan on doing your workout.

And you can do a Shift to shift yourself toward taking that first step out the door — or even taking the initial steps of putting your foot in your sneaker, and tying it up nice and tight.

But ultimately, you do need to actually take a step in order for the benefits of taking that step to unfold for you.

It’s only when you take the step that you begin to get those juicy emotional rewards that can help you remain consistent with any good life habit over time.

So, let’s ease our way towards taking action together today…

Whenever it was that you committed yourself to working out, there was a reason(s) that you decided on it.

In all likelihood, your reason(s) was connected to your health, and or, to having fun.

It was likely related to your mental health too — to feeling good, and living your best life, and bringing the best of yourself to your relationships and the rest of your life.

Hopefully your reason(s) was also connected to the intrinsic enjoyment of using your body — to play, to feel, maybe even to sweat — to come into flow and have fun.

Undoubtedly, you also want to cultivate a baseline energy level that allows you to fully live your unique purpose with all the umph and gusto that can be required to live a purpose-centered life.

I bet that even in the moment when you set your intention to workout regularly, you knew there'd be times that you wouldn’t feel like doing it.

You also knew it was worth doing anyway.

Whatever ‘exercise’ might mean for you, you decided that the juice was worth the squeeze.

So to find that motivation again right now, let’s remind ourselves of our key reasons for exercising again — and Shift ourselves into a motivated, playful, state of mind and body.

Take another long, deep breath.

Allow your shoulders to relax.

Allow your arms to fall toward the ground.

Allow your mind to clear a little bit by listening to life closely.

Now, invite into your inner world the most important reason that you wanted to exercise today.

What is it?

Got it?

Feel how that reason makes you feel now.

Do you feel inspired by it?

Do you see your ‘best self’ behind that reason?

I do.

Let's give ourselves 30 seconds more in silence to allow our original intention to seep in further and motivate us to take that next step toward starting to exercise.

Let your workout motivation seep in further.

Good.

When I say goodbye, let’s both take the next step towards initiating our workouts.

Ready?

Keep listening to life with 100% of your attention.

Close your eyes if you want.

Remain present by continuing to listen for all those sounds in your environment that you wouldn’t otherwise hear.

Now, invite into your inner world the most important reason you wanted to get some exercise today.

Feel your key reason to exercise expanding inside you.

Feel it?

Nice.

Now imagine how good you’ll feel when you’ve finished your workout.

Perfect.

Open your eyes when you're ready, if they’re closed.

Take another long, deep breath.

Set your intention to stay present right through your workout, and then for the rest of your day.

Let’s do this…

Take your next step toward working out now, whatever that step is for you.

What’s your step?

Are you putting your sneakers on?

Are you walking out the door?

Are you getting in the car?

Are you starting to jog?

Whatever our next step to getting our workout on is, let’s both take it right now.

I'm tying my sneakers.

Have fun!

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Let's take a long, deep breath.

Come fully into this moment.

What do you see in your environment right now that you've never seen quite the same way before?

I see light shining off of a doorknob, projecting its way into a beautiful world.

Put 100% of your attention into whatever you see for the next 10 seconds.

Just notice and feel, with new eyes.

Feel your body come into presence as you merge with life through watching life and listening to life.

Give life all the attention it deserves.

Feel that mini-shift into presence?

Nice start.

Today, I want to talk about attachment.

Over the last decades, “attachment” has come into greater interest in our culture.

Today, people — including therapists — have a much better understanding of different human attachment styles than they did even twenty years ago. This is largely because of the amazing research on the subject of attachment that's been conducted.

I won't go deeply into that research today.

But I will note that research has brought how important attachment relationships are to our mental health, and how connected attachment styles often are to what are traditionally understood as mental health diagnostic categories, to the forefront.

Personality disorders, depression, and anxieties are frequently related to our personal attachment styles and the emotional challenges those styles can lead to.

I would like to offer a way of thinking about the attachment style continuum, for your consideration.

You can think of a continuum from a negative concept of attachment — which we typically think of as a fear-based or need-based attachment — to a love-based concept of attachment.

It is fear that drives the type of attachment that makes you feel that you need to control some thing, some person, or some situation in order to get your attachment need met.

It’s the fear of not having control, of being hurt, and or, of losing love, that is driving the attachment behaviors, at one end of the spectrum.

If you're relating to people from that end of the spectrum, it typically results in all sorts of negative interpersonal consequences in a person's life.

That's one of the things the research has shown us: that there are persistent patterns that occur in the lives of people who have certain kinds of attachment style challenges.

If you're interested in digging in more and you haven't heard of attachment styles, look it up and you'll discover a far deeper background than I'm able to provide today.

In any case, think of that fear-based motivation for love as one end of the spectrum, while the other end of the attachment spectrum is presence love — feeling connected to someone because you know deep in your bones that you are connected to them.

You know that life brought you together and you share that gift through your presence — your time and attention — your love.

Whatever else this life may be, it is a deeply shared experience.

Sharing that experience, sharing a sense of the miracle with someone else — to me that's a beautiful way to describe pure love.

Sharing without need.

Giving fearlessly.

Trusting fearlessly.

And feeling love reciprocated.

One of the most beautiful such love experiences is the expression of unconditional love of a parent for a child— that kind of love that we often think of as creating the conditions for “good enough” parenting in attachment theory.

Now, that doesn't mean that unconditional love doesn't turn into attachment problems or manipulations born of fear of losing that relationship, or of it changing.

We know it does — parent and child relationships are fraught with challenges.

It's a very complicated relationship, because (among other challenges) as both parent and child, you have to navigate through the period of complete need of the parent and grow into someone capable of producing and giving that complete love or experience to another.

That personal journey is one way to think about how we develop in our emotional lives, throughout our lives.

In your relationships, are you loving out of fear, or the love of presence?

Let’s close our eyes and come further into the present moment as we notice how it feels when you think about that continuum, that spectrum of attachment.

Ask yourself - do I love out of fear, or does love pour out of me out of presence — fearless love?

Maybe you sense a range like most people?

Maybe you’re different with different people?

Bring all of your attention into the present moment now, just listening again.

Listen with 100% of your attention.

Come further into silence now.

Quiet down.

Feel your body buzzing.

Deep breaths.

Relax your shoulders.

Relax your neck.

Good.

Think of a specific loved one now. And ask yourself, how does your love for that person feel?

Are there elements of fear in it, or is it all respect, beauty, and shared miracle?

Those are two extremes. How does your attachment feel?

Just feeling for that can help orient you to the way that you’d prefer to love – the way that you want to love in the world.

Nice.

I hope that little exercise had a positive effect for you.

Let’s take one more deep breath as we set an intention to stay present for the rest of the day.

Feel that intention anchor within you.

Perfect.

Have a great one.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Let’s take a long, deep breath and do one of my favorite Shifts of all time…

Set the intention to be fully present for the next little while.

We’ll carry that intention into the rest of our days.

Feel the intention to be present sincerely being set inside you.

Notice how it feels inside your body to be intentional about that.

Listen to life with me now.

I'm gonna step over here to the corner of the hut where I have The Listen Shift poster that we'll go through today.

The Listen Shift poster was created to introduce a book that I wrote ~10 years ago called Be Your Purpose.

What I learned writing Be Your Purpose was the power, importance and value of developing the skill of intentional listening, and building it into your life.

For me, it’s the core of life.

I put the poster on my wall so I would go through it frequently.

‘Read this each morning’ is the instruction on it, in fact.

Let's do that now.

Take another long, deep breath — and close your eyes if you want.

LISTEN

IT’S HAPPENING ALREADY

YOU HAVE ONE CHOICE EACH MOMENT: LISTEN OR BE DISTRACTED.

Read this each morning to master listening...

LISTEN ALWAYS

Your life is not a story about what happens to you.

Your life is an experience happening as you, right now.

LISTEN INTENSELY

Listening opens your path to living fearlessly.

LISTEN FEARLESSLY

Be the most focused you’ve ever been.

LISTEN FEEL

Feel the experience unfolding through you.

LISTEN NOTICE

Notice you’re translating your experience into thoughts.

Notice the pace of your thoughts in this moment.

LISTEN PATIENTLY

Sped up thinking expresses anxiety, stress, resistance, attachment,

pain, ego, fear and misunderstanding what life is.

LISTEN CHILL

Invite your thoughts to slow down.

Don’t tell your story.

Hear to your story.

LISTEN BREATHE

Whatever your dreams, your goals, your faith, your past, your future or your story about how life works, life keeps unfolding into and through you, revealing your next step perfectly, each moment you listen.

LISTEN PERFECTLY

It’s a challenge to consistently remember you are making one choice each moment of your life.

LISTEN REMEMBER

When you forget to listen you become old thoughts and stories.

LISTEN PRACTICE

Practicing grows you into a more consistent listener.

Listen until listening becomes second nature.

LISTEN TRUST

Trust life, over and over.

LISTEN COURAGEOUSLY

Is your inner dialogue running on autopilot?

Are you suffering based on unfounded fears?

LISTEN PLAY

“You are the music while the music lasts. This image of a fulfillment, achieved through mutuality and by the exercise of purely mental powers remained with me throughout my life, telling me that, whatever trouble or frustration may come to me I have only to open a book, listen to a symphony, or run my pen across a blank sheet of paper, and I will be back home.” — Roger Scruton

LISTEN CHOOSE

The meaningful choice you make each moment is whether to listen, knowing life is unfolding through you, as you, right now.

LISTEN HEAR

What you hear in this moment is what you are in this moment.

Remembering this truth invites life to flow unresisted through you.

LISTEN WATCH

Your inner movie is your history repeating.

Watch the story your thoughts are telling.

LISTEN SEE

See your body as life flowing.

See your illusory nature.

LISTEN SHIFT

Shift from a human being having a spiritual experience into a spiritual being having a human experience.

LISTEN MOVE

Walk the pace of your miracle.

LISTEN BE

You are not separate from life.

You are flowering life.

LISTEN GROW

The way you’ll feel, the things you’ll say, the thoughts you’ll have and the life you’ll live tomorrow are a reflection, a by-product, a result, a consequence, a reshuffling of the way you are feeling, the thoughts you are having, the things are saying, and the life you are living right now, today.

LISTEN AGAIN

The human brain and body change through repetition.

Inner change, human change, can occur slowly.

LISTEN DISCOVER

Discover yourself as life.

Discover freedom.

LISTEN KNOW

Bodies and stories are temporary.

You, life, is always.

LISTEN AWAKEN

Awaken to your miracle.

Follow your path.

LISTEN

Can you notice the space inside your mind right now?

The space was hidden moments ago when thoughts ruled, dragging you through noise, filling you, foreground to background thick with sound.

Step further between your thoughts now.

Watch the slow motion symphony, brilliance.

Then, follow silence through the fiction.

See your history return along the way, visiting again, if only a flash veiling your path, an old thought, an old story returns once more.

Step back into space again, each moment.

Release the uncertain.

Those rogue children of thoughts past.

The old noise jumbling.

Soothe the yearning echo, listening, until you arrive in a quiet— a space behind thoughts.

Sit down there, beside stillness.

Look around now, silently.

Slowly.

Up.

Down.

In.

Out.

Take your time.

Rest.

Listen aside the abyss.

You’ll step back from the ledge soon enough.

Ziggidy-zag-a-ding-a-rat-tat-tat-ta-ting you’ll journey back through the thickets of a thousand thoughts where noise fogs over.

If you sit close today though, you may find settlement tonight on some quiet, nearby, nowhere nook.

And before noise fogs again you may drift softly to dreams until tomorrow’s dawn lights your trek back, here again, to the life’s only question:

Will I dive into the abyss today?

LISTEN, LIVE, LISTEN, REPEAT.

You are life animating form.

Be undistracted by convention.

Feel life on your skin.

Hear silence ring.

LISTEN FOLLOW ...

BE YOUR PURPOSE

That's it.

How was your Listen Shift?

That's a morning ritual that I love.

Use it anytime.

Here’s The Listen Shift poster if you want to download it.

For me, reading it is a repetitive reminder that listening is at the core of life.

Listening brings you into presence and honors silence.

Have a great rest of your day!

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present.

Sean

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I want to share something about learning to bring yourself into a better state of mind whenever you choose to.

Let's take a long deep breath.

Come fully into this moment.

Set our intention to be 100% here and now.

Notice how it feels to shift into presence — into silence.

Nice.

A constructive way to think about learning to shift your state of mind when you choose to, is to think about it as like learning a new language.

You already know all the words of this new language though.

Maybe you haven't often used the words in this particular way — to shift you mind.

We don't often say things out loud to ourselves like, “take a long, deep breath.”

It is through practicing speaking sentences like that one aloud though — in an intentional and presence-generating way — that you become able to speak yourself into the state of mind that's better for you anytime.

Learning the language takes some reps and time.

I love thinking about it as like learning a language because it implies that you plan to speak the language aloud.

The capacity to speak yourself into a better state of mind is not that complicated.

It's just a matter of learning the map that you’ll need to navigate to get where you choose to.

It’s a map of you.

It’s a map of your inner world.

Being able to navigate your personal map takes a certain amount of attention and practice.

It takes a certain number of reps to know what works for you — to find your way around your map.

With time, you’ll become able to navigate from the corners of your map, into the silent, present center, when you choose to — and then back out through your map again by shifting toward whatever's up next for you today.

That's why I love the idea of learning to speak your Shift to yourself.

In the OnePerfect Shift apps we have a ‘record’ button on the screen.

And we increasingly encourage you to create your own Shifts — to speak your own Shifts.

And, to share your spoken Shifts with others.

Remember the learning method called, “see one, do one, teach one?”

You’re seeing or hearing one right now.

If you haven't already, hopefully you'll record one soon.

If you share your recording, you’ll be teaching one too.

It just takes 5 or 10 minutes out of your week to shift yourself and someone else.

When you get to that point, you're part of a beautiful, virtuous circle where we can keep giving back to each other.

We’ll keep sharing presence.

Let’s take another long, deep breath.

Set that intention to be present for the rest of our day.

I'll invite you to listen to life.

To see life.

To feel life.

To be life with me, for the next 30 seconds.

Just be.

Notice how it feels to shift into presence, into silence.

Feel the gratitude.

Perfect.

Have a great rest of your day.

Stay present.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Let's take a long, deep breath.

Maybe take more than one deep breath actually.

Put all of your attention — 100% of your attention — into listening to life in this moment now.

Just stop.

Be still.

Close your eyes if you want.

Allow your shoulders to fall toward the ground.

Allow your arms to fall toward the ground.

Relax your neck.

Maybe stretch your arms, or bow your back a little.

Relax everything fully.

Take another deep breath.

Notice how you shift a bit?

Feel that.

Set an intention to be present for the rest of this Shift — and for the rest of the day.

Nice.

Keep deepening your presence.

Dropping in further now.

Good.

Dropping into the present moment when you choose to is the best thing you can do for your life.

I'm going to tell you why I think that’s true.

When you're at work and you're stressed — maybe you have meeting after meeting.

Or, you're at home and something’s stressing you out.

Maybe it’s the kids.

Maybe it’s the next thing that you have to do.

Maybe it’s some hard work.

It happens, right?

Whatever it is that’s stressing you — and actually, it doesn't even have to be that you're stressed.

It can be that you're percolating pretty high, or you’re feeling lazy, and then you realize that you actually want to take a very short period of time to shift your mind, because once you’re truly present that short period of time ends up feeling like a long period of time.

When you're in presence, time slows.

It feels like you have all the time in the world.

When you pair that fact with the fact that you're really only taking 5 or 10 minutes, and then you pair that fact with how good it feels to take that 5 or 10 minutes for yourself, you realize that being able to shift into a state of mind that is better for you right now is your bridge to a place that is better for you anytime you choose.

Shifting is your bridge to a beautiful rest of your day.

So take another long, deep breath.

After shifting for a while, you’re better able to find your personal sweet spot anytime.

It takes some intention, including the choice to take the 5 or 10 minutes.

The more you shift your mind strategically the easier it gets to decide to do that btw.

Drop into a deep breath, and listen with 100% of your attention, and feel with 100% of your attention now.

Maybe you’ll decide close your eyes to shift.

Maybe you won't.

It depends on where you are today — on what appeals to you in this moment.

Ask yourself what approach is going to feed you the most right now.

Listen to life with all your senses.

With your whole body.

With your whole life.

With your presence.

Shift into the presence that life is, with me.

Feel your body relaxing into life, listening, being, feeling.

Inevitably gratitude flows.

Feel gratitude flowing through you.

If a thought or image pops into your head, notice what it is, briefly.

If it's something that is more stressful than you choose to engage with right now, you can just notice it, and then let it go.

And you can reassert your intention to be here, and now — together with me, in this unique moment.

Being.

Let's listen to life together for ~30 more seconds.

Listen to life with 100% of your attention.

Close your eyes with me this time.

Relax and listen.

Keep listening.

Perfect.

All right.

Beautiful.

Open your eyes whenever you're ready.

Or, keep 'em closed if you have more time to chill today.

Stay deep in presence as long as you choose.

Either way, set the intention to be present for the rest of your day today.

Nice.

Have a great rest of your day!

Whatever it is you have to do next, open up to it.

Be present with it.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Let's take a long deep breath.

I have something that I'm going to share with you coming up, that I'm getting increasingly excited about sharing.

I’m having a harder and harder time not talking about it here.

So there's my teaser :)

Good ‘Shift’ things are coming soon!

I want to talk to you about something else today though.

Let's take another long deep breath and deepen our presence first.

Come into the present moment with me by setting an intention to be present for a while — listening to life together.

Be intentional about seeing something in a brand new way for a bit.

See something you've never seen before.

For example, I’m looking at the room I’m in from an angle that I've never viewed it before.

Maybe try that for yourself?

As you look around, notice how you shift increasingly into the present moment as your ‘new eyes’ take hold.

Feel that?

We're back together in the ‘now brain’ instead of the future brain, or the past brain.

Feel it.

A deep question that is worth all of us looking at is whether we collectively, and you individually, and I individually, have become a future person, living in a future culture.

Have we become a future culture, rather than a now culture — a present culture?

I won’t opine here about the consequences of living in the future, or living in the past, rather than living in the present.

Let’s just take a minute to check ourselves on that question for now.

Are you living in the present moment?

Are your present moments the way you would choose them to be?

If you look back and notice how present you’ve been for your life recently, is your life about the future too much, or about the past too much?

If you feel like that question is worth exploring further, or if it's clear to you that you've been living in the future, or living the past too much, let's make a commitment to each other to work on that together — to be intentional about being present for all of the moments of our lives.

Let’s listen to life together again.

Nice.

I was a guest on a podcast earlier today.

I’ll share that podcast episode in a Shift when it posts.

Paul, the host, asked me whether shifting into a better state of mind was like saving yourself time.

I thought that was a genius question.

What he meant was that when you are present, time is different.

You are here!

When you're not present, your mind is typically distracted or racing — you’re mind is future-oriented or past-oriented — and, in turn, time feels very different.

Paul was pointing out that shifting into the present moment actually gives you time.

It allows you to be at peace.

It allows you to notice that five minutes in presence is a very deep experience.

And, it completely changes your experience of the rest of your day — never mind the enjoyable experience of the body shift that takes place over the course of a ~5-minute shift.

Let’s experience that now by being together with intention.

We’ll spend the next minute mostly in silence — just listening to life with 100% of your intention.

Set an intention to be fully present for the rest of our minute together.

Listen to life with a 100% of your attention now.

Notice how your body is shifting.

Feel yourself coming more deeply into presence.

Let any thoughts, any distractions, go.

Relax your shoulders.

Allow your arms to fall toward the ground.

Know that you're recharging, and getting back into sync with the pace of your miracle.

You’re walking your unique path by simply listening to life.

Perfect.

Mark how you feel now.

Make a mental note of how you feel so that the genius of your ~30 trillion cells can be informed by what you experienced.

Let's set the intention now to be present for the rest of our day.

Be fully present in your life by keeping 100% of your attention in the present moment.

Feeling and being fully in our bodies as we move through and interact in the world.

Fully embodying ourselves.

Nice.

Enjoy the rest of your day!

Have a great one.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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This is one of my favorite Shifts.

You need to be as at peace as possible to be your work — to do your life's work.

Take a deep breath.

Release all inner conflict.

Just let it go.

Breathe — for a few seconds.

Your unique personal miracle is happening right now, always.

So walk the pace of your miracle by listening right now, always.

Listen to life deeply for 10 seconds to shift into your ‘listening’ state of mind.

Close your eyes if you want to.

Breathe deeply.

Relax even further.

Ready?

Listen to life with 100% of your attention.

Good.

Did you shift into your ‘listening’ state of mind?

More listening, less talking in your head?

Your listening state of mind is a state of presence.

Let’s keep going, slowly and purposefully.

Staying in the present moment.

Staying in our listening state of mind.

Being fully present to this moment — with intention.

Remain in your listening state of mind.

Focus 100% of your attention on listening to life going by for 10 more seconds.

Nice.

Remember, life is difficult for most people.

And, we are all together in this inexplicably deep and challenging experience.

Your life journey becomes beautiful and purposeful when you realize that you're sharing the miracle with every other person.

So let's honor the miracle by helping each other, and helping others in general, through the uncertain stretches that everyone's inner journey entails.

We can alleviate suffering by teaching about how life and suffering are primarily an internal journey…

The miracle of life flows through your inner world and into your outer life.

So listen to your inner world closely.

You'll hear the pace of your unique miracle — your journey of life.

When you hear it, follow what you hear to walk the pace of your miracle — to be your purpose, as I sometimes call it.

Ready to reconnect to purpose again?

Let's listen for 10 seconds again.

Perfect.

Now's a good time to set an intention to reconnect to presence and purpose whenever you feel disconnected over the next few days.

So feel yourself setting an intention now — an intention to drop into presence consistently.

And also, to become aware when you’re out of presence so you can shift back into presence whenever you notice your attention has been distracted.

Feel the intention?

Good.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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Let’s take a long, deep breath.

And another.

Come further into the present moment by bringing all your attention focus right here and right now.

Enjoy listening to the silence.

Nice.

Have you ever been to psychotherapy?

There are all sorts of theories about what works in therapy, and what doesn't.

And about why things work and why they don't.

Based on 20+ years providing therapy and 60+ years of therapy research often referred to as ‘Process and Outcome Psychotherapy Research,’ I see the main active ingredient in psychotherapy, when it works, is that you are connecting authentically to another caring person who is fully present for you, which has the effect of shifting your state of mind into collaborative presence during therapy — which has a tendency to generalize over time to a more present average state of mind when you’re outside of therapy, and especially when you’re with other people.

If you’re lucky, being in therapy will specifically teach you, and give you practice with, strategically shifting your state of mind and body, and so, your emotional experience.

I can almost say, ‘all people’ I’ve ever worked with — no matter what they came in for, or what their diagnoses might have been, were able to come into a favorable state of mind when we were in the therapy room together — to feel good, to laugh, to have fun, and feel the confidence that comes from connecting to another caring person, and feeling the sense of meaning that so often flows from a dynamic, attentive relationship that is truly taking place in the present moment.

There is so much to psychotherapy.

It’s different for everyone, every time.

So many of the positive consequences that people value from engaging in psychotherapy flow from the collaborative ‘shifting‘ of your state of mind that is repeatedly occurring (naturally or intentionally) as you engage in therapy — and hopefully in between your therapy sessions as well.

So much of what we each glean from psychotherapy comes through consistently returning to the present moment through being engaged in a meaningful present relationship.

Therapy can be so beautiful and helpful when you find the right therapist for you.

Fortunately though, you don't need a therapist to be in a room with you to practice shifting your mind strategically.

Whether you’re in therapy or not, you can improve your ability to shift.

Let's take 30 seconds together and shift even more intentionally into the present moment now.

Relax your entire body.

Breathe deeply.

And listen to life with 100% of your attention again.

Hear all the sounds you otherwise wouldn’t hear.

Listen.

Feel the present moment for while now.

How does your body feel when you’re listening in presence?

Perfect.

Doing that brings you into your listening state of mind where you can feel a sense of presence — you can feel yourself being present.

Noise from thoughts in your head quiet a bit as less content rummages through your mind.

More of your attention hovers here, in this moment.

Let’s discover how listening to life and recharging right now is informing how you will live the rest of today?

Take another 20 seconds, just listening and noticing what is arising right now.

Nice, keep listening.

If your attention gets distracted from your intention to be present in your listening mind, just reset your intention to listen to the present moment, again.

Let’s listen for another 15 seconds.

——

Great job!

Perfect.

Have an incredible day.

Just a reminder, reach out for whatever support you need to take that next best step along your very personal life path.

Connecting with a person who cares as much as you do is often the best step you can take for yourself.

Meantime, Shifts are here for you anytime.

Stay present,

Sean

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Back by popular demand…

Let's take long deep breath.

Your life is your muse.

Your life is your muse.

How is that true for you?

It's true for all of us.

Life gives you exactly what you need to take the next step along your journey.

Your life is your muse.

What is your muse inspiring in you today?

I really love that idea.

I think I love it because anytime things don't feel like they're going right inside you — when you're interpreting whatever's happening in your life in a way that makes you say, ‘This doesn't feel right. I don't like this.’ — if you’re able to remember, ‘your life is your muse’ in that moment, then you're able to shift into seeing your life for what it is: The miracle that provides you with the next step on your path.

Never said it was going to be easy, right?

But it is your next step.

And, it is showing you exactly what step you need to take to make your journey.

Each time you remember that ‘your life is your muse’ it requires you to re-see the world as the miracle that it is — and to see yourself as a miracle connected to the whole.

So it soothes you to know that your life is your muse because it reminds you of what you're a part of.

Let's take a deep breath together.

And drop into the present moment of our lives — our muses.

Listen to what your muse is saying to you now.

Just listen for a while.

Hear those sounds you otherwise wouldn't listen to — the sounds you wouldn't consciously process.

Hear the beauty of life all around you.

And feel it.

Notice how it changes you.

Your muse changes you every time you engage by listening.

Let's just listen for 10 or 20 seconds to what the muse has to share for now.

Did you hear anything?

Did your muse share anything with you?

Or, are you just at peace and presence with the muse of life today?

Nice.

Nice little deep dive.

I'm going to set the intention to stay present for the rest of the day.

I invite you to do that too.

And have a good one.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Let's take a long, deep breath.

Come fully into this moment.

Let's bring 100% of our attention into the space we're each sitting.

Notice what's around you in the environment.

Study your environment for while.

See something you've never seen before.

Be awed by the life all around you.

Notice how doing that shifts your state of being.

It shifts how you feel a little bit — as you notice each new detail.

Notice shading.

Notice the way the light flows.

Notice a plant that's grown a bit that you haven't noticed in a while, maybe.

And now, set that intention to come into full presence for a while.

Nice.

Thank you for shifting with me on this topic that's a bit serious.

Shifting our ‘mental health crisis’ as I keep hearing it called.

Take another long, deep breath.

I recently started talking about shifting as ‘microdosing mental health.’

I think it's an important and helpful way to think about how we can each not only keep ourselves as close to staying on the right track for ourselves as is possible — by making a habit of shifting into a better state of mind (a consequence of which is that you end up understanding more clearly what a ‘better state of mind’ feels like for you) — but also to keep developing the skill of being able to shift toward your preferred state of mind and body whenever you choose to.

That's what Shifts can do for you over time.

And… if you understand how to find a better state of mind when you need to, then I believe that sharing that knowledge with someone else is incumbent upon you — if you want to help the overall, the collective, (i.e., the mental health crisis that we all know is out there).

That might mean that you choose to bring your knowledge of how to come into a better state to someone who's struggling.

Maybe it’s a friend who you think might be interested.

Or, maybe you know someone else who's really struggling.

There is so much homelessness now — so many people without reliable roofs above their heads.

It's so difficult for so many people in so many different ways.

The difficulty even extends to professionals in the health and mental health fields who grapple to understand how to best intervene — when and where to intervene — especially as we're now to the point where there are so many more people with addiction issues and mental health issues.

More people with both of those issues are living on American streets as compared to the fairly recent history of our country.

In the sixties and seventies things were a bit different with mental health care in America.

After that, we stopped allowing people as much time, and space, and love (I would argue) to find what they needed to continue their life journey feeling connected to the whole — to us.

We stopped caring in the same way.

So, we need to re-develop how we care for each other because the way we did back then wasn't a full solution either.

The mental health crisis won’t be solved all at once, but I believe that shared ‘shifting’ can be a part of a health care model that values supporting each other’s journey very intentionally.

Sharing how you shift into a better state of mind is one easy way you can pass along how you reconnect with your mental health and with yourself.

Connecting to the right message (for you) consistently is a core of good mental health.

And a huge part of hearing the right message for you is being fully present to your life — fully present to your unique journey — which can enable you to connect deeply with others too.

That's why I'm such a huge believer in the value of consistently shifting into presence together here.

Let's do that now.

Take another deep breath.

Notice the life flowing around you.

If you make a habit of finding peace regularly, you’ll always know your pathways back to peace.

You’ll become confident that you can find your way there whenever you need to.

So let's just listen to life together now for 30 seconds or so.

Make a commitment to yourself to stay present for a while.

Make a priority of being 100% present for as long as you choose.

And if you want to, share how you shift your state of mind with someone new this week.

Nice.

Let's listen to life for a while longer together.

Let’s be thankful for whatever mental health we do have.

Feel gratitude fill you.

Feel all the blessings you have.

If you're still listening to this, you are blessed — you are able to shift yourself into a better place when you choose to.

One more deep breath.

Listen.

Feel the shift.

Have a great rest of your day or night by setting an intention to stay present for the rest of your day now.

Nice.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Let's take a long, deep breath.

Settle into this moment together.

If you’re listening, you may hear pitter-pattering of rain on the hut roof here.

I hope you enjoy it.

Let's settle into this moment.

Bring one hundred percent of your attention right here.

100%.

Set that intention to be fully present for the next little while.

Bring yourself into a present state of mind.

Let's listen to life for 10 seconds.

What do you hear?

Can you feel a change inside you?

Another deep breath.

There it is — we've shifted our state a bit.

Shifting your state of mind goes back thousands of years.

It probably goes back roughly as far as conscious human thought goes back.

After all, it's fairly easy — as we just experienced.

It's the simple act of intentionally shifting what's going on inside you so that you end up feeling differently.

To shift into presence, for example, all we're talking about is noticing the way you feel when all your attention is 100% right here, right now.

Let’s try it real quick.

Listen to life with one hundred percent of your attention and notice how that feels again.

Feel a difference?

When all your attention is in this moment, you release stress automatically because you're not thinking about five (or fifty) things at once.

You're focusing on one thing at once — right now.

You're focusing only on whatever's arising in this moment and then you’re letting it go.

It might be sights.

It might be sounds.

Let's deepen our presence by just listening to NOW for 15 seconds.

Notice how you shift.

Nice.

When you listen like that, your body changes because feelings of stress are related to having lots of things going on in your head — especially lots of thoughts that are stressful to you.

There's nothing overtly difficult about shifting your focus onto one thing at a time instead of many things at a time.

Again, doing that brings you into presence if you keep it up for a little while.

It's also easy to come into a flow state of mind if you have a little energy and you set your intention.

A flow state is a state in which you're feeling present, but you're also actively engaged in whatever you're engaging with.

In flow, you're engaged in an activity with a fully present state of mind — as opposed to only presence, only the observing mind, the listening mind.

So let’s try coming into a flow state.

Intend 100% of your attention to listening to your flow state.

Listen for it.

Listen to your inner body and then feel life flowing through you.

Listen and feel.

Do you feel that buzz on your skin?

Listen to it.

What's life saying to you when you listen right now for 10 seconds?

What's next for you today?

Nice.

I feel gratitude for shifting with you.

That's what's life's saying to me right now.

I guess that's next for me today.

That's where my flow state feeling is guiding me as I’m shifting with you right now.

It’s guiding me into a Gratitude Shift.

Can you feel a grateful state of mind and body on demand right now if you choose to?

Try that — try feeling gratitude flowing through you next.

We’re shifting states pretty quickly today.

Everyone's had experiences of what feeling gratitude is though.

Everyone knows what it's like to feel grateful.

How does grateful feel to you?

Can you feel it now as you keep listening to life?

One easy way to feel gratitude is to recognize that you are 30 trillion cells buzzing into existence each moment.

That's something to be grateful for.

Feel that?

Feel the gratitude?

Let's sit for 10 seconds with it.

Perfect.

Shifting your mind is really just coming into an awareness that at any given moment you feel a certain way.

If you're not pleased with the way you're feeling, or if it doesn't match the activity that you feel like is the next right activity for you, then know that you have the ability to shift into a state of mind that's more consistent with your intention — more consistent with what you choose.

That's it.

Keep it as simple as possible.

You just need to remember that within a couple minutes anytime, you can shift into a better state of mind if you choose to.

Knowing that shifting is not complicated is helpful because it makes the barrier to starting a shift that much lower.

To get yourself started, all it takes is recognizing that you want to make a change in the next few minutes — and then deploying the strategy that creates that change.

There are plenty of state change strategies when it comes to shifting into presence.

However, your strategy always begins by setting an intention to be present for the next little while.

So let's do that again.

Let's reset that intention to be present now.

Take a few long, deep breaths as you set that intention.

How about three long, deep breaths?

Nice.

Feel the presence.

Perfect.

You'll likely notice after you shift for a little while your brain will more automatically produce those certain states of mind that you've been practicing shifting into.

It all becomes more natural and easy when you allow your brain to direct your focus on just one thing for a while.

You can focus on your breath, or listen to sounds, or look at the world.

Just staring at your environment intensely and noticing things you haven't noticed before can be a great way to come into presence.

If you focus 100% of your attention, each of those directed attention activities will take up big amounts of your brain power.

That means you're focusing in on one thing and that will increasingly bring you into the present moment.

When you focus on one thing, your inner resources are dragged away from distracting thoughts, or other objects of your mind that were consuming your attention before.

It works.

It's simple.

Straightforward.

Easy.

Set an intention to come into presence with me for the rest of your day now.

Feel the intention being set.

Let's listen to life together for a while before we say goodbye for now.

Notice life.

Listen with me.

And notice how your body feels.

A shifted state of mind produces a shifted state of body.

Relax your shoulders.

Allow your arms to fall toward the ground.

Fully relaxed and present.

Listening to life.

Being here now.

Perfect.

That's it.

Shifting is easy.

Life is good.

Have an incredible day.

Wherever you are and whatever you're doing — be present.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hello friend,

Hope you’re having a great day.

Today is my birthday. I’m feeling grateful for another blessed journey around the sun.

I thought I’d share a simple Shift about what shifting has been guiding me toward lately.

Thank you for being a part of the Shift community!

Let's take a long deep breath.

Settle into this moment.

Right now — this moment — is the best part of your day.

It’s the best part of my day because it is the present moment.

It's right now.

And all of our experience happens right now.

All of that connection to life and joy that flows through you — that gratitude for being alive that you can connect to occurs all the time — you can experience it all most deeply when you're connected to the present moment.

So drop in with me by listening for a little while.

100% of your attention listening to life.

As you do that, notice how your body shifts.

Shift your state.

Shift your mind.

Just listen.

Feel.

Notice your body relax.

Allow your shoulders to relax, your neck to relax.

Another deep breath.

There's doing work.

And there is doing your work — being present, being fully here.

Are you doing one, or are you doing both?

Are you getting closer to every part of your day being the best part of your day?

Full presence.

Every time we practice, we encourage that in ourselves.

Let's listen to life together.

I'll step outside.

Let’s listen to waves for a minute or so.

Let all your thoughts go for a while.

Drop into the pool of presence.

Sit in a pool of silence with me for a little bit.

Always listening.

Perfect.

Now if that wasn't a productive few minutes, I don't know what is.

What's next for you today?

Good luck with it.

I'll look forward to talking to you soon.

Have a great rest of your day or night.

Stay present,

Sean

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Let's take a long deep breath.

Bring all our attention into this moment.

Be totally and completely here and now.

Close your eyes if you feel like it.

Relax your whole upper body.

Allow your shoulders and arms to fall toward the ground on your next out breath.

Relax your shoulders and arms.

Let your whole body relax now.

Just be here for a while, knowing that you're gonna feel super present and connected in a few minutes.

Set that intention — that you know that that's gonna happen.

So you can enjoy your respite.

Recharge.

Allow your intention to be present to fill you up until you're completely ready.

Listen to life for 10 seconds.

Shifting overnight is a very cool idea.

I want to talk to you about it a little bit today.

This is something that I've been doing for years.

Let’s consider the concept from a neuroplasticity perspective.

Neuroplasticity is the mechanism through which your brain changes based on the experience that occurs within your brain.

Experiences can be thoughts, emotions, relationships you’re engaged in (or processing).

They can be from drugs, or other chemicals.

Your experiences are all of the things constantly ongoing that are affecting and redefining your brain.

Neuroplasticity is an ongoing process throughout each of our lives.

As you probably know, it is one of the greatest discoveries in the history of science.

It became increasingly popularly understood in the last ~30 years as it became clearer how your brain changes throughout the course of your life.

Again, your brain is an organ that changes in real time throughout your life.

The idea of using the overnight period of your life as a primary training ground for generating the neuroplastic effects that you want — to be at peace, for example — is vital to you emotional health.

You want to live at peace.

You want to feel purpose flowing through you.

When you live at peace, purpose does flow through you.

We can and do go over how to do that in a variety of ways in other Shifts.

For today, I want to talk about shifting overnight.

For me, what that has meant is going to bed with the intention that when you wake up during the course of night, which you likely often do at least once throughout the course of the night, you're going to use that opportunity of waking up, (in addition to the minutes before you go to sleep), to bring yourself into a state of deep peace with an intentional shift — a shift into peace.

When you do that before you go to sleep, it has a compounding effect as you sleep.

When you do it when you wake up in between sessions of sleep, you're using these periods of time that you otherwise might not be intentional with at all, to target the most important priority of our lives, which is to live at peace, to live purposefully.

That's what I wanted to share with you today as a concept.

I'm going to suggest you shift before you go to sleep, and shift anytime you wake up during the night too.

Sound good?

For right now, let’s continue with the intention we started with today…

We're gonna shift into the present moment and we're gonna shift into peace as a result of that.

Let's listen to life as you let all that sink in about shifting overnight.

Doing that regularly will have a major impact on your life — when you get yourself to simply make that commitment to use those overnight hours (or minutes) to shift yourself into peace — because it changes your brain.

You'll be using all of that overnight time that otherwise might have not been used at all intentionally.

You'll be pointing toward a peaceful brain.

A peaceful life.

A purpose-driven life.

Or, whatever else you choose.

That's what I do.

But, motivate yourself.

Shift the way you want to, to build the brain you want.

See how all that sets with you now.

Relax yourself even further by taking another deep breath.

Come deeply into this moment again.

Close your eyes if you haven't already.

Just sink into now with me.

Feel gratitude arise.

Gratitude that we can have this journey of 30 trillion cells of our bodies functioning as one within this broader one — this presence that we live within.

Presence always fills me up with gratitude.

You can access presence to amplify that effect of peace in your life by shifting overnight.

Let's sit for 30 seconds in silence, letting it all seep in.

Fill yourself with presence now.

So good.

Thank you for shifting with me.

I love being a part of this community.

I love shifting every day and night.

It's my favorite thing.

Have a great one.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Hello there, how are you?

Hope today is going all right for you so far.

Shall we settle into presence together?

Let’s take long deep breath.

And notice the sunlight shining through and onto you — and onto the space that you're in right now.

Notice how the light falls around you — even if the light is not sunlight.

And then, notice the shading.

Relax into this moment.

All your attention right here.

Notice those details that you don't usually notice — how the fabric flows and falls against whatever it's being worn by.

100% of your focus right here.

There's a concept that I think is so useful for connecting yourself to presence, dropping into the present moment, dropping into peace, dropping into a recognition of the enormity of what each of us is —> of who you are.

And that is, a remembering that our minds automatically produce models of the world.

In fact, when you are looking at your environment what you are seeing is a synthesis and reproduction of the data that comes into your mind and body through your looking.

That data gets translated through models that your mind has created to represent the world to you in a way that makes sense.

And those mental models that you are automatically creating are applied to all sorts of different things inside you.

When you observe that one of the things your models apply to is your model of yourself — of what your boundaries are, of who you are — then you can recognize that model as a story.

It's a narrative that is defining you in a particular way within this world.

When you recognize that, you can take a long deep breath and drop into this moment.

And very intentionally let go of that mental model.

Sometimes it helps to close your eyes and say, ‘Thank you model for getting me through the day. But right now, I'm dropping into peace, and presence, and quiet, and stillness.’

And rather than the model that is built of the idea that we are separate from life, and that we need to maintain a container of separation in order to move through life — in order to communicate with life — when we're in presence, feeling silence, we can let go of the model.

Breathe life in.

Know yourself as one — as life without models.

Just being.

Feel that.

Let's feel together for a little while.

Just be.

Be at one with me.

How's it going?

Anytime a thought comes into your mind — or an interruption (like this one) — recognize that as an experience of your mental model returning within you.

So let’s let it go again.

Another deep breath.

And recognize yourself as one with life.

Recognize yourself as life.

Blend into the miracle.

Let's blend into the miracle together for another 30 seconds.

Feel peace.

That's perfect.

Have a great rest of your day.

Remember that your models are defining your experience.

And when you can notice your models — the rules that you have for yourself — you can make shifts to them and open more to your potential, to broaden your experience of your life.

Whenever you want to, you can shift into presence.

You can shift into peace by dropping your models for a while and being fed by the oneness that we share.

Alright, I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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It’s not necessarily fun to think about your worst triggers, but I’m sharing this Shift (with minor updates) because it’s a useful Shift to repeat from time to time…

Hello.

How are you?

Are you feeling present?

Is 100% of your attention focused right here, right now?

Let's take a long deep breath together.

Come fully into this moment with intention.

Listening to life.

All of our attention right here.

Notice how you feel right now.

Now take 5 seconds to invite your attention 100% to listen to the present moment.

Ready?

Listen.

Good.

Can you pick up a difference in how you feel after 5 seconds of intentional listening?

I notice a difference inside my body.

As you consistently do little exercises like that you develop a more nuanced capacity to notice the difference in how where you place your attention impacts how you feel.

Inner shifts can happen fast.

When you grasp how tight the relationship is between where your attention is and how you feel, it helps with all sorts of choices that you make about how you place your attention throughout the day.

Getting clear about the relationship between where your attention is and how you feel helps shape where you place your attention and why you place your attention as you do.

Let’s take another deep breath.

You’ll often notice yourself experiencing a ‘negative shift’ — a shift characterized by a felt deviation away from peace — as you get pulled away from your awareness that you can ride the wave of presence even when challenging ‘things’ happen.

Negative shift = losing your connection to peace or presence.

We often characterize the challenging ‘things’ that provoke our negative shifts into a bucket that we call ‘stress.’

If you notice your inner experience in the moments when stress is arising you can dial in on what produced your negative shift — which helps you avoid repeating the same negative shift in the future.

You’ll notice that your negative shifts typically begin when you start thinking about something that upsets you.

It could be a family member.

It could be someone close to you who you’re having conflict with.

It could be your issues with health.

It could be your issues with work.

It could be your issues with money.

It could be the re-emergence of your historical view of yourself as flawed somehow.

Or, maybe you’ve been reminded that your view of the future is not what you want it to be and thoughts come into your mind and change your physiology.

Your worst triggers always increase your stress levels and usually create negative shifts.

So, what’s your worst trigger?

Notice what arises as you pose that question in your inner world.

What’s your worst trigger?

What shifts you negatively most often?

Good.

It’s a good exercise just to pose the question and notice what arises.

The reason I'm going into detail about all this is that the more you can recognize those very specific negative thoughts that occur and shift you — your worst triggers — the better off you’ll be.

Consistently noticing the first thought that shifts you out of connection with the present moment is an incredibly powerful practice.

When you notice a trigger, rather than being shifted negatively you can instead be triggered to think to yourself, “Oh yeah, I have to deal with that. That's negative. That could spiral me. That’s going to separate me from living in presence.”

Noticing triggers in real time is part of the nuance I referred to at the beginning of today’s Shift.

When you can notice that nuance in real time, you can shift away from it.

It might be that you have something that you need to deal with, so you also notice that as you notice the trigger.

If you recognize the trigger consciously, instead of experiencing an immediate negative shift, you're reminded to make an intentional positive shift.

Then you can deal with whatever you need to deal with from a feeling of presence.

You don't need to go on an unpleasant emotional ride first.

Notice the trigger event, make a note to yourself if you need to do something, and then reinforce your intention to remain fully connected to life at this moment.

When you consistently address your life challenges that way, the way you end up addressing issues is much less likely to encourage the issue to repeat in the future with the same intensity.

That's the true power of living (and coping) from presence throughout your life.

Let's take another long deep breath.

Come fully into the present moment again.

100% of our attention right here.

Feel the inner change — notice it again.

Notice how your body changes after listening to ideas for a while, and shifting by listening to life for a little while.

Do you notice the difference?

For most of us, it's a lot easier to notice when other people get triggered.

You might say to yourself, “Oh, that person is having a hard time today because they always lose their connection with their peace when x, y, or z happens”.

You intuit that life is beating them down and they've succumbed to a negative shift based on some trigger that arose inside them.

The closer you are to the person the better you may recognize their patterns — and the more obvious their triggers may be to you.

However, real personal growth and development comes when you notice those things about yourself AND THEN you shift in real time.

Shifts are super-valuable to complete consistently because they help you improve your ability to notice your worst triggers.

In future Shifts, you can strategically provoke your most persistent triggers and then practice dealing with them (i.e., shifting) in real time.

For today, let's take 30 more seconds quietly in presence.

Listen for 30 seconds and then we'll intend our presence for the rest of today.

Ready?

Listen.

Listen to and hear all those sounds that you wouldn't otherwise notice if you didn’t set that intention.

Purrrfect.

All right, have an incredible day being fully present.

Set that intention now.

Set the intention to shift whenever you need to for the rest of your day.

Notice when your presence is threatened by anything that could produce a negative shift.

You do that by noticing your triggers in real time to bring them into conscious awareness.

If you happen to miss noticing your trigger, shift back into presence anytime you notice you’ve become disconnected from presence.

Okay?

Did you set your intention to shift whenever you need to for the rest of today?

Feel that intention settling inside your body.

Nice!

Nice Shift.

Have a present day.

Sean

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Let’s shift into inner peace together.

Starting with a long deep breath.

And another.

Take your time.

Bring 100% of your attention fully into this moment.

Bring it into the space we're sharing — this stretch of time we're sharing.

All your attention right here.

Release any concerns — and breathe.

Trust silence.

Trust life.

It turns out that being at peace is something we're ALL capable of.

Feeling that peace inside is an incredible feeling.

We all seek it.

We all run away from it at times too.

When you come fully into presence you can listen to the miracle of life of which you are an aspect and you can listen to and feel peace flowing through you.

To do that anytime, take all your attention and place it into feeling that tingling buzz of your body.

Our bodies buzz all the time.

You can easily notice that tingling by choosing a body part.

Let's try feeling our left foot together.

Close your eyes.

Then, silently ask yourself —

“How do I know my left foot is there when I can't see it?”

You know because you can feel it.

So feel for the buzzing of your left foot.

Feel that?

Now, feel your left ankle while you keep feeling your left foot too.

Got it?

Now keep tracking that beautiful buzz up your leg and around your whole body.

Feel the buzz spreading all around your body.

Feel the tingling of 30 trillion cells buzzing you into life each moment.

Just take 30 seconds or so to feel it and notice how your body changes.

Feel yourself as life — alive.

Nice.

You are thirty trillion cells interacting in countless trillions and trillions of ways every single instant — completely outside your control.

That is producing your experience of life.

And that is miraculous!

Did you feel it?

That's what we're going to trust.

That’s inner peace.

Breathe into it again and feel your body buzz for 30 seconds longer.

Ready?

Go.

If you lose your focus anytime, just bring your attention back to feeling the buzz — the buzzing life of your body — the buzzing peace of you.

The buzzing miracle of you.

Feel it.

Feels like slipping on your favorite sweater.

Feel life brushing against your skin and warming you up.

Nice.

All of us seek peace and all of us know how to find it.

We just did.

We're sitting in peace together right now.

Do you feel it?

Nice.

Anytime you want, you can say to yourself — ‘Listen to life with 100% attention right now.’

Then, notice how you feel as you listen.

Feel for the peace within you.

The peace that is you.

Let’s feel it again with 100% of our attention.

Can you feel that?

It works because presence is peace.

And listening with 100% of your attention is presence.

When you trust life by listening to life fully, life returns you to presence — to peace.

When you know that, you also know that your baseline experience of life can be peaceful.

That's an incredible piece of knowledge that any of us can apply anytime.

You can also start tracking your experience of daily life throughout the day.

Just notice how often you are getting pulled out of your baseline peaceful experience of life throughout your days.

Notice when you are pulled into some anxiety, or annoyance, or frustration, or fear, or projection — some story of an unknown future, for example.

Notice when you get distracted by some regret over a past that's done and gone — some storyline that has nothing to do with the present moment.

Notice when you feel out of contact with yourself as 30 trillion buzzing cells that are an aspect of a shared miracle.

When you notice any of those experiences occurring in your inner dialogue — the 24/7 conversation occurring in your head (unless you’re deep in silence) — when you notice your inner conversation has been overtaken by any fears of the future, or regrets of the past, remember…

You have a way to shift back into peace anytime.

If you shift into peace throughout your days, you'll start to notice you're spending more of your time in peace — just by setting and following that one intention.

If you’re consistent with this strategy, you'll begin to notice some discipline developing around shifting back into peace whenever you notice you've strayed.

You’ll begin to notice more frequently and that’s a self-reinforcing practice.

It will become contagious in your life.

And it will become contagious to those around you too.

Peace will grow throughout your days.

If you do this for a little while, you’ll start to hear particular inner conversational patterns that repeat throughout your days.

After a while, the inner conversation cycles that bring you into anxiety or stress will begin to reduce naturally — just because you're noticing them.

So keep calling them out.

Keep shifting back to peace.

Anytime you notice peace is missing, reset your intention to come back into presence by listening to life.

Let’s do it again.

Feel buzzing silence flowing through the world and into your body, as you.

Feel the silence flowing as your body, as your life.

Can you feel it?

Feel and listen.

What do you hear when your listen with 100% of your attention?

I hear gratitude welling up inside.

Gratitude bubbling out of reconnecting to the knowledge that I can find peace anytime I choose — just like you can.

The knowledge that we can shift back into this place of pure presence, and listen for that next step along our personal journeys — our unique journeys through life.

It’s a gift.

Let's accept the gift.

Take one more deep breath for now.

Set your intention to live completely at peace for the rest of the day — by trusting and listening to life.

Life will guide you to peace if you listen consistently.

Is your intention to remain present set?

Can you feel it?

Nice.

Have an incredible day.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Hello there, friend.

Let's take a long deep breath and focus on the master skill for enjoying a peaceful life.

Knowing how to shift your state of mind when you choose to is the master skill of life.

Shifting into peace consistently is the master skill of living a peaceful life.

Let's take another deep breath.

Feel your body relax as your shoulders fall towards the ground.

Allow all your muscles to relax.

Just settle into presence with me for a little while.

Set that intention to shift your mind and body away from whatever has been consuming your inner world.

Maybe it’s repetitive thoughts, or a feeling of never-ending responsibilities.

Let them all go for now.

Whatever your body's carrying, let it all go.

Just relax.

Stretch out a little bit.

Move your head from side to side.

Pull your shoulders back for a few seconds.

Then relax them on your next out breath.

Good.

Let’s set a specific intention to shift our state of mind and body now.

Set the intention that in a couple of minutes you'll feel yourself in a more peaceful state of mind and state of body.

Can you feel that intention being set inside your body?

Feel it.

Good.

Let's listen to life together for a short while.

Listen with 100% of your attention.

If you notice anything distracting you — any thoughts, any tasks that you're supposed to do, anything that was bothering you — just breathe into whatever arises in your inner world.

Then let it go — as you return to listening to life for a while.

Let’s notice the sounds of life that we wouldn't otherwise notice.

Perfect.

Whenever we shift our minds we affirm that we can take ownership of how we feel whenever we choose to.

We can shift how we feel.

That’s a big deal!

We can shift our state of body.

We can shift our state of mind.

In some cases it takes just a few seconds.

Other times it takes a little longer.

Some days, it’s so much harder to shift than it is on others.

But if you practice, as we do here, you can become able to shift into a better state within a couple minutes most of the time.

Whenever you notice that you're feeling out of whack somehow, take a long deep breath to begin shifting your state of mind and body.

Then, intend yourself into presence by listening to life with all your attention.

Feel life and be life for a while.

Sometimes shifting takes a little bit more focus.

That might include having a conversation with yourself to remind yourself to notice whatever it is that’s filling your mind and body with stress, and therefore, pulling you out of the present moment.

If you’re particularly stressed, you might need to listen to your own inner dialogue closely for a while in order to fully hear the conversation that’s propelling and maintaining any stress you're feeling.

Let’s do that now.

Close your eyes if you’d like to.

Take another deep breath.

Relax further.

Relax your shoulders again.

Come into this moment again — the present moment.

Re-assert your intention to come into peace and presence.

Listen to your inner world with 100% of your attention for ~20 seconds.

If any thoughts or feelings arise to add stress to your inner world — to your mind or your body — just notice them.

Take note of each distraction.

Then take a deep breath, let it go, and allow yourself to relax further again.

Let everything go and listen to your inner world again.

Anytime you get distracted, just note whatever arose and the release it — return to your intention to listen to your inner dialogue again.

Listen.

Nice job.

Did you notice any distractions arising in your inner world?

It's so helpful to make a note of what you observe.

If you do that consistently you'll begin to see patterns of what arises in your inner world when you get stressed.

Over time, you’ll more easily connect to the present moment.

That’s our Shift intention today — shifting into peace and presence.

So again, let everything go now.

Place 100% of your attention into being fully present in this moment.

Allow peace to envelope your entire body.

Feel peace moving into your toes, and through your feet, and slowly up your entire body now.

Feel the tingling of life subsuming your body for a while.

Feel peacefulness arising within you.

Feel life.

Feel presence.

Feel stillness.

Feel silence filling your body with peace.

Listening to the sounds of the world with all your attention, without making any judgement, fills you with peace.

Listen to whatever arises and whatever fades away.

Do you feel peace?

Enjoy it.

Perfect.

Notice how you feel right now.

Has there been a shift away from your thinking mind?

If you shifted at all, you proved to yourself that you're able to shift your mind and body whenever you choose, in just a couple of minutes.

Don't forget that.

Each time you use that skill — each time you shift strategically — it becomes easier and easier to do it again.

Great job!

Have a wonderful holiday season.

Listen to life and to your loved ones with all your attention.

Love someone.

Stay present,

Sean

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Hello there, how are you?

Let’s take a long deep breath.

Notice yourself coming into presence.

Notice your body coming into presence as you release any distractions.

Today we’ll listen to waves with 100% of our attention for a minute to shift into presence.

As you’re listening, see if you can also notice the subtle but distracting sound that arises in the background during your Shift.

See if you can also notice how your inner world reacts to the distraction automatically in real time.

Can you immediately shift back into presence at the moment when you get distracted?

OK, let’s step outside and listen and get ready to notice your reactions with that intention.

Notice how you shift automatically.

Then notice how you can shift intentionally back into presence by listening with all your attention.

Hear the waves?

Let’s listen together…

  • Again, notice how your mind shifts automatically when you’re distracted.

  • Then, notice how you can shift intentionally back into presence by listening with all your attention.

Ready again?

Close your eyes if you want.

Listen.

Perfect.

Great job.

Did you notice the distraction?

Did it distract or annoy your presence?

Anytime you get distracted from your intention to have your attention focused where you want.

Just notice the distraction, and then reset your intention to focus your attention 100% where you want to — where you chose to.

You can do that to come back into presence anytime.

Each time you do that, you are training yourself to return to presence.

All right, have a great day.

Stay present.

Talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hello, hello. Hope you’re doing well.

Let’s take a long deep breath to get started.

Invite our attention fully into the present moment for the next few minutes.

And shift loneliness today.

Life can be very lonely sometimes, can't it?

It's not only about the perspective you bring to any given moment that relates to how lonely you feel.

Life cycles — regardless of your perspective.

So sometimes you're naturally more oriented to particular aspects of life.

One of those aspects of each of our lives is the human experience of being separate and feeling separate.

And therefore, potentially feeling particularly alone and lonely at certain times.

And, of course, life events can provoke loneliness too.

Experiences of loss, unrequited love, a bad day — it’s all part of most every human life.

When you drop deeply into presence though, it's very possible to reconnect yourself to life and shift your inner experience.

To me, that is the most obvious way to shift out of loneliness in the moment anytime.

And we’ll do that today together.

But it's also useful to think about another approach to shifting loneliness.

Think about this idea as a complementary approach to shifting into connection with life…

Putting your love into the world.

Let’s step inside and take another deep breath together.

Feel silence flowing into and through you.

Connect to that.

One way to think about loneliness is to understand it as a reaction to not feeling love coming toward you.

That's why this this idea, this action — this activity of putting your love into the world — is so useful and important.

It is your ‘putting love into the world’ that is part of the cycle of feeling the love that is within you.

The challenge can be, especially when you’re feeling down sometimes, that it feels like you have to put so much love into the world in order to see and feel that love coming back.

But, it might be that the love that you're putting into the world is bringing love back to you in a way that you're not fully noticing — or that you didn't anticipate.

And that recognition — if you can see it — can also impact a sense of loneliness that may be underlying some idea that you're putting love in the world and you're not feeling it back.

Putting love into the world is expressing the love in you, and therefore it connects you to love in your life.

When you do that, and you listen closely and feel deeply, you’ll often feel that life is loving you back.

Let’s do that today.

But first, here are a few ways to address loneliness anytime —

  • Dropping into presence fully, (i.e., the most obvious and fastest way to shift loneliness).

  • Putting your love into the world, (i.e. make sure you're doing that to participate in shifting yourself out of loneliness).

  • Noticing whether love may in fact be coming into you, but you are looking for it in a different form than it is appearing.

  • Being very realistic by understanding that things often take time, and feelings in your life ebb and flow like the seasons. So sometimes you may need to keep putting love into the world for a while before you feel it coming back to you.

I’m not a big fan of pretending that there's not genuine, painful, authentic, and accurate feelings of loneliness that we each experience throughout life.

Loneliness is part of our lives.

But I am suggesting that shifting out of that experience in the ways that we're talking about today — those that feel authentic to you — is a great practice and definitely helps.

So how are you putting love into the world?

And, is it possible that it's coming back to you (if you're feeling lonely) in a form that you weren't anticipating — but nevertheless in a beautiful form?

Maybe sit with those questions as we dive in the silence for a minute together.

Let’s take another long, deep breath.

And another.

Think about this form of love in your life:

The fact that you are a miracle — you're a living miracle, buzzing with life.

When I say ‘living miracle’ some people get turned off by that language.

What I mean to communicate is something very practical and scientific though.

It’s that you (i.e. your body) are literally composed of roughly 30 trillion cells that are buzzing you into life each moment.

And your body, your cells, are completely dependent upon and connected to your environment, including the air that you breathe in — the air that feeds you.

The oxygen that gives you the breath of life.

So you are miraculous and never alone in that sense.

You are fully connected to life, and to your environment which is part of life.

Can you feel a shift within you when you come more deeply into awareness of those facts?

How does that awareness shift loneliness for you?

Just notice any inner changes that may have occurred for a few moments.

Does acknowledging those truths help you see love coming back to you in a different way than you were expecting, or hoping for?

Let’s sit with all that for a few moments.

Spend some time in pure silence before I talk you through entering silence through your body specifically.

Good.

Now place all your attention into your body — 100% of your attention.

Notice your body’s buzzing aliveness.

If it helps you connect to the buzzing feeling within you, you can squeeze your thumb really hard — squeeze yourleft thumb for three or four seconds.

Then release your thumb as you notice the sensations that arise when you release — the buzzing aliveness of your thumb.

Doing that can help you pick up the strong buzzing of you.

Then feel that buzzing, that tingling life, in your entire hand.

And then allow the feeling to spread from your hand to your entire body.

That trick can help you pick up the buzz of you — your body buzz.

What is that buzz?

That's you, alive, aspect of life, never alone, but sometimes lonely.

Feel that.

Sit in that feeling state and see what arises for you for the next minute.

All your attention feeling your body and listening to life.

Perfect.

Did anything come up?

As I listened, I heard a question: How are you putting your authentic love into the world?

Is it flowing through you as a reaction — as gratitude to being aspect of life, to being alive and connected to everything?

How is that awareness flowing through you into the world today?

Is it flowing in the form of gratitude, or care, or love, or sensitivity, or your art maybe?

How is it flowing today?

Can you notice that within that flow — within that giving of yourself — you are more deeply connecting to life?

A lot of times coming deeply into that awareness absorbs and subsumes any sense of loneliness for me.

Is it doing that for you today?

Anyway, food for thought, and for feeling better :)

Let's take another couple more deep breaths and say goodbye for now.

Remember, you are always welcome here.

Let’s set an intention to remain present for the rest of the day.

Nice.

Have a great one.

Stay present,

Sean

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Hello friend.

Let’s take a long deep breathand shift together.

I was looking back at last year’s ‘Shift Into The Holidays’ which we’ll revisit in a few moments.

It’s a reminder that deep bonds with others and with life, however expressed, are core to what being human is.

Your bonds form the spine of your life’s journey.

Ideally, the holidays offer some space to take stock of your journey.

Are you feeling actively engaged in live?

Are you living as you want to?

Are you remembering you’re a part of a miracle beyond conception?

Is your relationship to life feeling right on to you?

I ask myself those questions every day.

There's a lot of gratitude and peacefulness in my heart and life today.

I hope there’s a lot of peacefulness in your heart too.

The right track is never too far away though, regardless of where you are right now.

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You can always take a deep breath and come into presence.

Let's do that together.

I'll make a few suggestions about how we can have a great holiday with family or friends in a minute here.

All our intention just listening in this moment for now.

Full presence.

We can be here 100% whenever we choose to.

Assert your intention to place your attention in the present moment.

And listen to life with me for 20 seconds.

Perfect.

Let's step outside and listen to the beach waves in the background as we shift into the holidays.

Set an intention to be intentional about how you're going into the holidays.

Take another long deep breath and listen.

Who is the person that you want to be for your loved ones, and with your loved ones?

It's a good question to ask and answer before you engage with other questions about what you should do in those difficult moments — or with those difficult loved ones.

Or, with those people who you don't feel love for — but who are there in your family circle, or your friends circle, somehow.

Those choices will flow out of your answer to the first question…

The first and most important question is, how do you want to be?

Who is the ‘you’ you'd like to bring to your holidays?

Do you have a sense of your answer?

If you can capture it in a phrase, you might want to jot it down so you have an easy reference when an inevitable challenge comes up.

Once you have a sense of the immutable you — the present you — you're in great shape, because you’ve connected to your intention.

Feel it?

Good.

If you also want to do a little pre-troubleshooting around things that could come up, keep in mind that your expectations are huge drivers of actual events — and of other people's behaviors.

What you expect is going to happen will influence what does happen.

So be careful about what you expect as you troubleshoot.

That point also suggests that the idea of troubleshooting really should be a process of catching yourself — noticing yourself when you shift out of your prioritized, intentional state of being with your loved ones, or with your time off.

So let's sit with the intention to primarily return yourself to an intentional state of mind whenever any “trouble” arises, or any stress arises, or anytime you get pulled out of your intention — distracted from it, somehow.

First, you’ll notice the distraction. Then, you’ll return to your intentional state ofmind.

Reset your intention now.

Spending a minute getting into sync with our intentions by bringing them into our bodies helps your intentions to become a reality set within you for the next few days, if not longer.

Ready?

We’ll take about one minute.

Close your eyes if you want and bring your intention to mind — the state you intend to shift back into if you ever notice yourself getting triggered emotionally.

If you bring your intention to mind enough, you'll shift into the feeling state of that intention in your body.

If it's love you intend, you'll start feeling love.

If it’s gratitude you intend, you’ll start feeling gratitude.

See yourself in your intended state in order to bring yourself into it right now.

Do you feel the state welling up?

Picture a scene of you expressing yourself as you want to, and being as you want to now.

Are you smiling?

Are you interacting?

How are you feeling?

Feel it.

Amplify it now by really sinking in, diving deep into the feeling state — your intention.

Embody your intention.

Got it?

Awesome.

Have a great time with your time off.

Return to your intention when you need to.

Talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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In today’s Shift that follows, we’ll set an intention to come into presence each morning for three days in a row — to support a key weekend habit.

Ready?

Hey there, how are you?

Let’s take a long deep breath and get started dropping into presence — as we often do.

And out.

Feel that immediate mini-shift?

We’re going to Shift into this weekend today.

We do a live Weekend Recharge event every so often, beginning with this…

“Monday morning will be the third morning in a row that I begin my day fully connected to the present moment.”

We set that intention together during our Weekend Recharge events to get started.

And you’ll set that intention during your Shift today.

“Monday morning will be the third morning in a row that I begin my day fully connected to the present moment.”

During Weekend Recharge events, we commit to that intention during a brief Zoom Shift talk I give on a Friday evening.

Then, for Saturday, Sunday and Monday morning everyone has set an intention AND put a plan in place to come into presence at the beginning of each day.

We provide plenty of options for shifting into your present state of mind in the morning, of course.

And we plan ahead to practice for three mornings in a row.

By Monday morning you're feeling ready for the week.

You've also created the beginning of a habit — if you stuck with it.

If you want to ever change something in your life, setting an intention for three days in a row — something very achievable, but also incredibly meaningful — is a powerful act.

Let's come into presence together now.

Take another long deep breath.

All your attention focused right here with me.

Let's just listen together while noticing how your body feels as you listen to the world going by for the next 30 seconds or so.

Listen to live.

Feel your body.

Can you feel your body relaxing into the world, relaxing as one with the world, as you just listen to life going by?

Listen to yourself as part of life going by.

Good start.

I cordially invite you to join us for a Weekend Recharge event sometime btw.

Until then, set the intention yourself for coming into this weekend to make sure you make the most of this weekend — to optimally recharge for your week.

Often times that means taking a break from your primary work — to allow yourself to recharge.

You can focus on a different aspect of your life work if you need to work this weekend.

But know that your life’s work is best accomplished in presence.

So maybe shift your focus to a more creative aspect of your work, or maybe do more exercise.

However your life fits together best, bring presence to it.

Commit to coming into presence at the beginning of the day for three days in a row — and see how that feels for you.

Let’s set that intention now, whatever day it is for you…

For the next three days, I’m going to come into presence first thing.

Good.

Now, let’s use the next couple minutes to be very intentional about fully recognizing ourselves as aspects of life unfolding.

There are many ways that you can recognize the miracle that you are — and that you are also aspect of.

  • You are hurtling through space and time at millions of miles per hour and you don't even perceive it, (1.3 million mph or 2.8 million mph depending who you ask).

  • Your body is trillions of cells that function completely outside your control to enable you to be an experiencing entity in this miracle hurtling through of space and time.

  • You can also choose how you experience whatever you perceive — to produce your experience of life.

For me, those ways of thinking about the miracle of life bring me into presence.

Take a minute now to connect with your version of how you fit into the miracle of life — and notice how you’re an aspect of the miracle of life for the next minute or so.

Just listen again, and connect to your deepest truths, and feel yourself coming into the present moment.

Then, carry that intention of staying present through the day. I'll remind you of that part again at the end.

For now, just connect to your deepest truth and come fully into presence by listening to life.

Ready?

Go.

Bring the miracle of life into your body — into your awareness.

And listen.

Perfect.

Do you feel a difference?

Keep that intention to stay present to your awareness of yourself as an aspect of life's unfolding miracle for the rest of your day.

Be present to every moment.

Be present to every context.

Be present for yourself.

Be present for your people.

Be present for your work.

Be present for your weekend!

One more time, let’s reset our intention to be fully present for three mornings in a row this weekend.

Feel that?

Is your intention set?

Nice.

Enjoy your life.

Enjoy your weekend!

All right, have a good one

Stay present.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hope you had a good weekend!

Let’s take a long deep breath.

OnePerfect Shift on Monday morning.

Holy moly, let's get after this.

Here we go.

This is what we’re here for, right?

Our work. Our work.

If you have a typical workweek that starts Monday morning, the idea right now is let's get connected to our purpose…

Why we do what we do.

Maybe you do what you do because what you do is the clearest expression of presence flowing through you that you can imagine — whatever your Monday morning activity is, that is.

Or, maybe you're in your role as a step towards the clearest expression of presence flowing through you that you can imagine.

If it's not one of those two, then maybe you should think about listening to presence flowing through you as we go here — and consider how you can take a step in your life toward at least feeling like you are on the path towards the free flow of presence, and purpose, into the world.

Whatever category you're in right now, you can take the same step on a Monday morning to get yourself into flow to start the week…

Come fully into this moment.

Let's do that together.

All of our attention right here.

Allow your shoulders to relax.

I'm going to pull my shoulders back a little bit after I relax them.

We're getting into the right state of mind and body to get after it this week.

Allow your arms to relax.

Your whole body should be relaxed.

Place all your attention, 100% of your attention, right here.

Listen.

Be in your environment.

Allow presence to flow unobstructed and unresisted through you.

Feel it.

Feel the buzzing of your body now.

Just keep breathing deeply.

Notice that tingling sensation of your alive body.

All your cells coming together, tingling with presence to express truth through you.

Feel that?

You're an embodiment of truth in form.

Ever-changing every moment.

Aligned with the intention of that truth — your purpose.

Another long, deep breath.

Let's set an intention together to have an incredible, an incredible week.

Set that intention — A week of presence flowing through you.

You got it?

Alright, let's listen to life for 30 seconds, and then we'll get rolling.

Ready?

Go.

Staying fully present.

If your mind wanders, just bring it back to your intention to allow presence to flow through you.

100% of your attention right here.

Perfect.

Another 10 seconds.

Nice.

As we tie our Shift up, set that intention to stay present throughout the day.

All right.

Great job.

Stay present and have an incredible week.

Sean

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Hello! I’m sharing one of our most popular Shifts today.

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Let’s shift into confidence.

I’m recording in a busy park today.

Please bear with the background sounds (if you’re listening).

It will be worth it.

This truly is so simple and straightforward.

First of all, a lot of lack of confidence comes from some form of doubt about yourself.

You think that you're kind of being a fraud somehow.

But that's just this feeling that people get because we can't possibly know everything.

We know that we have to make a lot of assumptions in life just to get by — and we know we don't know everything.

Those factors (and others) can create a sense of uncertainty, potentially….

Until you remember that you’re a living miracle — you’re a perfect specimen.

The way to come into physical, bodily, state awareness of that fact is to come into presence strategically.

The way you do that — especially when it's about confidence — is to focus all your attention on listening.

I know what you may be thinking…

What about if I'm speaking?

Why am I focusing all my attention on listening?

Therein lies the magic of this suggestion.

Put 100% of your attention into listening to your voice as you speak, and take deep breaths anytime you need to — people respect your deep breaths.

Deep breaths are a sign of somebody who is taking sincerely what they're talking to you about.

They're being authentic.

They care.

They're taking their time.

So, whenever you need to take a little bit of emotional recharge, take a deep breath.

Then, continue to assert your intention to listen with all your attention — whether you’re speaking, or someone is speaking to you, or there is silence between the words.

Remember, there's silence constantly, even when you're speaking.

When you come into that space of listening, you are authenticity.

You are confidence.

Confidence and authenticity are massively overlapping.

So let's practice right now.

Take a long deep breath.

By the way, this is one of the reasons why in the OnePerfect Shift app (iOS | Android | Enterprise) you are able to record your own insights anytime.

You're always one tap away from being able to record your voice, because speaking your truth out loud, and listening to it, and hearing it, are all components of bringing yourself into authenticity.

When you're in that place, life is good.

You're having far fewer doubts and questions about yourself being good enough, or your ability to meet the fears and challenges that you encounter.

You realize you're 100% worthy.

So let's listen to life in silence together for a minute.

Then, we'll finish up with one more thing.

Ready?

Listen.

(If you’re listening to the audio right now, close your eyes and listen to life with 100% of your attention for a while.

If you’re only reading this post, just listen to life in silence for as long as you choose, before you continue reading.)

Just listen.

Keep listening.

It's a practice in confidence.

It's a practice in authenticity.

Be totally intentional about your relationship to life — your willingness to listen to life.

Perfect.

Now, I suggest you do a couple reps inside your mind's eye of seeing yourself succeeding in whatever it is that you're about to go do next.

See yourself succeeding while knowing that people genuinely want you to succeed.

That's what the people who matter to you want for you (i.e., the people who should matter to you — the people who care about you).

They want you to succeed.

So, know that you are supported.

You are loved.

And no matter what, there’s always tomorrow.

So just be yourself.

Be authentic.

Be confident.

See yourself succeeding now in your mind's eye.

Feel that feeling of success in your body.

Perfect landing every time.

Nice.

Alright, have a great day.

Sean

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Let's start with a small shift.

Set an intention to shift into a more ideal state of mind over the next few minutes.

Let's do that together.

To set that intention really make your mind go there by saying to yourself:

“I'm going to shift from where I am right now to a better place over the next few minutes.”

Is your intention to shift clearly set?

Okay, good.

Now, take a long deep breath.

Nice.

Okay so you're annoyed with someone.

This is painful.

Interpersonal difficulty is painful.

Interpersonal difficulty often has the effect of reducing our connection to what's most important to us.

The associated emotions that come along with feeling annoyed with someone often produce a temporarily myopic point of view which translates into an unwanted mind state.

Right?

Being annoyed can disconnect you from the more deeply held beliefs that you’re usually more in touch with.

That’s why now is the moment when you’re most in need of a Shift — a quick reminder that reinvigorates your connection to what every spiritual tradition tells you…

Life is a miracle.

Your life is a miracle.

Your journey through life is an aspect of that miracle.

Your spiritual journey is about navigating through your miracle.

The inner journey that's occurring within you is part of the miracle.

Difficult moments along your path are opportunities offered by the miracle to step forward on your path with integrity in this moment.

So… this moment of being annoyed with someone is an opportunity to come back into touch with what you know is most true in your life.

So, what's most true to you?

What's most important to you in life?

Let's lean into your truth — whatever you believe.

Take 10 seconds to think about that question and notice what comes to mind.

What's most true and important to you?

Be fully in the present moment by placing 100% of your attention to just listening to yourself.

Listen to your thoughts for the answer to the question…

What's most important to you?

Okay, good.

Whatever you came up with, good start.

Let's keep going slowly.

Take another deep breath.

Release the tension in your body by relaxing your neck.

Allow your shoulders and your arms to fall toward the ground too.

Allow your hands, your arms, to relax completely.

How about another question?

How do you want to remember yourself when you're looking back on your journey tomorrow — or when you look back from the end of your journey?

Do you want to feel proud?

Impressed?

At peace?

Picture what you want to feel like right now.

How do you want to feel looking back?

Bring that vision into a feeling state in your body now.

If you were most satisfied looking back on your life, how would you feel?

Got your answer?

Good.

Now ask yourself…

How would that feeling inside you — that answer to what feeling proud of your life would look and feel like — how does that feeling and answer inform how you want to deal with the interpersonal struggle that you're going through today?

Take a few seconds considering that question in silence.

Observe how answering that question impacts how you feel — and how you want to cope — now that you're more connected to what's important to you.

Doing that will give you some space from any annoyance you’re feeling.

Any ideas about how you might deal differently with your annoyance?

How are you going to cope so that you respect your own decision?

Do you feel any better, knowing that answer?

How do you feel now?

How's your mind and body state right now?

Well, stay present.

Always reconnect to what's important to you — especially if the annoyance starts to return today.

Okay, have a great day.

Talk to you soon.

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Hello, hello! How are you?

I'm looking forward to the next several minutes with you.

A question frequently raised is ‘What is presence?’

Presence is an experience.

Let's have that experience together.

Notice how you're feeling right now.

Now dedicate all your attention for the next few minutes to coming into complete presence with me.

Let’s have the experience that emerges when 100% of your attention is focused in the present moment.

Doing that translates into an incredible feeling — presence, aliveness, connection, peace.

Freedom from fear.

Take a deep breath in.

And out.

Settle into this moment with me.

Listen to life with 100% of your attention.

Good.

Now, invite all your attention to observing this moment, wherever you are.

Feel all the sensations.

Notice your body pressing against whatever you're pressing against — a seat, the ground, a bed.

Feel every sensation.

Release any stories that are buzzing through your mind.

Maybe 10% of your attention is focused on the past or thinking about the future.

But right now, bring all your attention 100% right here.

Listening.

Being.

Feeling.

And knowing that by returning your attention to the present moment, you're strengthening your ability to shift into presence anytime you choose throughout your day.

Notice how you feel right now, and just mark it.

Notice how life is when you’re fully present.

Good.

Now let's set an intention to sink deeper into presence.

Can you feel your intention being set?

For 20 seconds or so, just look around your environment slowly.

Notice details.

Move your visual field around your environment.

Stop and study objects if they appeal to you.

Ready?

Go.

Beautiful.

Keep looking.

Study your environment.

You are deepening your presence.

Good.

Coming into presence allows you to focus your attention wherever you want to focus it next.

So let's shift our attention again.

Now that we're more present, we can more easily notice that silent tingling of our bodies.

Focus all your attention on your body now.

Start by squeezing your left thumb hard for three seconds and then releasing it.

Feel all the blood rushing into your thumb.

Squeeze your thumb hard again for a few seconds, and then release your thumb and feel the tingling again.

Can you feel it?

Good.

Focus on that sensation.

Focus on that silent buzzing of your body, the buzzing of life in your body.

Notice the feeling pulsating through your whole body at once now.

Feel life energy flowing through your body.

That energy is producing your experience of life in this moment.

Feel fully present in your body.

You can close your eyes anytime you want to.

Just settle in.

Let's do that for a short while together.

Feel the buzzing.

Feel that tingling aliveness.

Ready?

Go.

Feel the buzzing of your body.

Feel your life flowing into form each moment.

Can you feel that?

That's presence.

Do you notice a shift in how your mind and body feel compared to just a few minutes ago?

The more you practice, the more contact you'll have with the creative peace that's buzzing through you all the time.

Presence buzzes through you into your life — as your life — each moment.

So live presently.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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Let's take a long deep breath.

Allow your shoulders to fall toward the ground.

If you have something behind your neck, allow your head to fall backwards slightly.

Just relax completely.

Come into this moment.

100% of our attention, right here.

Let’s just recognize that life is not easy.

It's not always easy for anyone.

Please know that, if you're struggling.

All of us have ups and downs.

When we're down, we have a hard time finding our way back up sometimes.

That's just because we forget that there's a pathway there.

Maybe we need to practice a little bit to find our way back up consistently.

The first step is recognizing there's a pathway, and the second is traveling it.

Identifying what that pathway is for yourself is a part of your journey.

But there are some principles, some basics of full attention in the present moment, that allow you to find your way to your right place — back to peace, and to feeling like you're able to take that next step in your journey — to feeling like it's not too hard.

It's doable.

Know that you're not alone.

One way to do it is to take a deep breath.

Come into this moment.

100% of your attention here.

Place all your attention in your body.

Just feeling your body buzz for a little while.

The genius of you.

Whether you feel like you love your body, or you don't love your body, if you keep going into your body you'll recognize that there's a buzzing genius within.

There is a genius that buzzes trillions and trillions of cells that connect in trillions of ways every second, to produce your experience of life — to produce you.

When you see that, you see how connected you are to the entire environment around you.

The breath that comes into your oxygen.

The nature that surrounds you.

The chair that you're sitting on.

And me, and everyone else.

We all share the miracle.

We all buzz at one on some level.

So find that space inside you — where you’re buzzing as one with life.

Feel the buzz.

Let's feel the buzz for 30 seconds.

And then we'll try something.

All your attention — feeling your body.

Close your eyes anytime you want to.

Mmm, it feels so good.

Now let’s release our intention to focus on the body, and just be.

Release the intention to have any intention for a while, and allow yourself to be with me.

No intention.

Just be.

Are you being?

Come into being.

Let everything go.

And now, listen from a place of full presence to hear the next step on your journey.

See what's next for you.

Perfect.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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Hello there! Hope you’re doing well.

Let's set an intention together to make a shift into a different state of mind.

We’ll take a deep dive into our inner worlds to honor our practice of being intentional about coming deeply into presence, at least once for the day.

It doesn’t need to take a long time to do that.

It’s so valuable.

We'll do it today by shifting into a breakthrough.

I discovered years ago in my own shifting practice, and then while working with people to get their own practice going, that a real breakthrough in your practice — and in your life actually — comes when you're able to shift intentionally between your thinking mind and your watching and listening mind.

Your ‘thinking mind’ to your ‘listening mind.’

When you can do that reliably it means that you clearly know the felt difference the difference in how it feels to you between those two states of consciousness.

So let's experience this breakthrough intentionally together right now.

Take a deep breath.

Relax.

Settle into your space.

Focus 100% of your attention — invite all your focus into the present moment, into the space you're sitting.

Get all your senses attuned to right here and right now.

Let everything go.

Let go of any thoughts that you brought with you, or any thoughts about the future, just let them go for a few minutes here.

Close your eyes if you want.

And listen inside your inner world.

See if you can notice any thoughts that are popping through now.

What thought is occurring in your mind right now when you just listen?

When I’m speaking, you may be processing the words I speak.

And meanwhile, you're also likely thinking about something — maybe peripherally related, or even completely unrelated to these words.

Can you identify any thought that you're processing?

Noticing your ‘thinking state of mind’ (as we are doing) is a great way to start coming into a ‘listening state of mind.’

Let’s do that.

Close your eyes now, if you haven’t already.

See if you can notice ongoing thoughts produced by your thinking mind for the next 20 seconds or so.

When you notice a thought, don't get carried away by the thought.

Observe the thought.

Allow it to flow through your mind.

Allow it to leave your mind.

Then, just return to the intention of noticing your next thought.

Ready?

Go.

Good.

Did you notice any thoughts arising in your mind — in your inner world?

I'm sure you did.

Now we're going to make our shift.

Set an intention to shift away from your thinking mind that you were observing, and completely into your non-thinking mind over the next couple minutes.

Shift away from your thinking mind and into your non-thinking mind.

Making that shift entails being committed to letting go of your thoughts completely for a while.

Don't worry, they'll be there when you return.

They always are.

But for now, just be committed to allowing your thoughts to fade out of the foreground of your awareness for a little while.

Let's set a clear intention to let thoughts go for 20 seconds.

Drop below thinking into complete inner silence.

Just listening.

Just being.

Dropping into complete silence now.

Complete inner silence.

Listen to life.

Listen as life.

Perfect.

Did you experience a few seconds of pure silence — pure listening mind?

Can you feel that difference between being occupied by your thinking mind, versus how it feels to become your watching mind, your listening mind, your silence?

That's the breakthrough you want to focus on.

Notice which state you're in at each moment.

When you can move back and forth intentionally, you've had your breakthrough.

You'll come to more clearly identify and feel that difference as you practice shifting more — the difference between your thinking mind and your listening mind.

Being able to make that intentional shift when you want to is the most important skill you can develop.

Once you’re in your listening mind you can move your attention into anything you want to just by resetting your intention.

So, what do you want to do next?

You’ve refilled from a place of stillness, a place of silence, a place of listening to life as life.

Now, set your next intention focused on whatever is up next for you today.

So what is next for you today?

Set that intention to shift towards whatever is next for you now.

Can you feel your intention being set inside you?

It can help to actually see the next part of your day in your mind’s eye.

See yourself fully present, embodying your next intention for today.

Got it?

Good!

Have an incredible day.

Stay present,

Sean

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Hello, hello.

Let's take a long, deep breath.

Settle into this moment intentionally and strategically by setting a clear intention to shift deeper into presence for a while.

Feel that intention being set inside you.

Let’s feel presence flowing through us now by listening to the sounds of life for 10 seconds.

Listen with all your attention.

Perfect.

After shifting into the present moment on demand becomes a habit for you, you won’t need to set your intention to live in presence as frequently because living presently will increasingly become your default state of mind and body.

That’s a big deal because living in presence feels like freedom.

Can you feel a shift has occurred within you already today?

Let’s listen to life and feel for freedom for another 10 seconds.

Nice.

Coming deeper into presence.

Feel the air on your skin now.

Feel the air against your skin.

Settle into your seat even further, if you're sitting down.

Allow your shoulders to relax — and your head to fall backwards.

Get fully comfortable.

Just feeling and being for now.

Trusting life.

Know that you’re loved by life.

Two of my favorite lines —

Love life. It loves you back.

It's true.

Loving life allows life to love you back.

Life is dying to love you back.

Let’s breathe into loving life together for a little while longer.

Deep breath.

Express your love for life.

Feel the freedom.

Perfect.

Have a great one.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Let’s take a long, deep breath.

I woke up to the news that Roger Federer is retiring today.

What a run.

What a gift he's been to all of us.

He ushered back in an era where you could be friends with your opponent — where you could honor your opponent.

Where you valued the work that they put in.

Where you knew that if you played at the top of your game against the best in the world, you were doing it just to give yourself a chance at winning, Roger used to say.

You worked all year round, all day, to give yourself a chance at winning.

And when it came to the match, you were able to put everything out of your head — animosity, any negativity — and play at the peak of your powers.

And still, with all of that you just put yourself in a position to win — to give yourself a chance to win.

And if you didn't win, you still succeeded.

That's what I love about Roger Federer — he is all about the present moment.

In a lot of ways, what he did was usher back in a previous generation of tennis.

The Australians of old who my dad would tell me about.

There was Rod Laver and Ken Rosewall.

This was when tennis was amateur, turning professional eventually.

And so they would travel around together as buddies.

They would practice together.

The tournaments were smaller so they would play against each other a lot.

They were building something together.

We saw the same thing happen on the women's side.

Women's tennis wasn't as big — there weren't as many players, but the passion was there.

And they got together.

A handful of them, led by Billie Jean King, of course.

Eight of them would travel to tournaments, and they would play together.

They became great friends.

They respected and honored each other.

I've never seen in my lifetime that tradition honored — what tennis really is — it’s community at root, it's putting forward your best, it's competing as hard as you can to give yourself that chance to win.

And when you win, there's nothing better.

You're the only one standing after this tournament whittled everyone down.

I always say that tennis is a painful sport.

After the first day of the tournament, half of the people go home.

Half the people have lost.

After the second day of the tournament you've gone down from 32 players to 8 players, so only a quarter are left.

It's really a difficult sport.

You need that camaraderie.

You need that friendship.

If you lose on the first day, you have a whole week until the next tournament.

You need to put your head down and keep training.

Keep that vision intact.

And somehow convince yourself that next week will be a better day.

Tomorrow will be a better day.

Federer lived that in front of us for decades, in spades.

He brought the sport to a new level — an entirely new pedestal.

And those who came after him have carried that mantle.

We’ll miss him from the sport.

I'm sure he'll be with us for a long time in whatever capacity he continues in.

Let's shift together.

Give ourselves a chance of being present in this moment.

Inspired by Roger Federer.

Another deep breath.

Close your eyes with me, if you want to.

Relax into the space that you're sitting in.

And just be here.

Feeling life.

Connecting to life.

What do you feel?

I feel gratitude for the decades of Roger Federer tennis that we got to witness.

Thank you, Roger.

Thank you for being such a big part of my life, and tennis life, and now what has turned into the life of the whole world.

Let’s sit in silence together for a few seconds.

Just be.

Listening.

Feeling.

Letting everything else go.

Perfect.

Can you notice how your body changed?

Do you feel recharged for the day?

Do you feel inspired by the bar that Roger Federer set for being a human, for being a tennis player, for living a life?

Great job.

Have a great day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present,

Sean

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Hello, hello.

How are you? How's your day going?

Let's take a long deep breath.

I'm looking at some beautiful flowers.

Bring 100% of your attention to looking at something — giving it all your attention.

Let your love flow through you into that object.

It's easier if it's something beautiful like a sunflower, which is what I'm looking at.

But you can send your love into anything with all your attention.

So just study anything — notice it with attention in ways you've never noticed it before.

That's a way of giving love to it, right?

That in itself.

Notice how you shift a little bit as you study or interact with your object.

Doing that brings you into the present moment.

I’ve been noticing lately how a real challenge of life is to learn to consistently say “No” to a lot of things — but, also to say “Yes” to the right things.

When you don't say “No” to a lot of things, your life ends up becoming overly filled.

We naturally want to say “Yes” to life.

So, we have a vulnerability in the direction of saying “Yes” to too many things.

But then, what do you say “Yes” to?

How do you make decisions about what you say “Yes” to?

The better you get at solving that challenge for yourself, the more you're able to walk your own path — the more the journey feels right, feels purposeful, feels like the life you were meant to live.

For me, connecting to presence as a priority is the way that those “yeses” and “noes” get answered most effectively.

Part of that means coming into silence very consistently and listening for what feels right, and what doesn't feel right.

What feels like too much chaos?

What feels like the next step along your path?

Take another deep breath.

Depending on which words you use and how you think about life — “presence” very much overlaps with love.

Presence is life.

And love flows through life.

So getting connected to presence enables you to feel connected to love.

So… another way to make those decisions about what you let into your life is by asking: Is it growing love? Or, is it not growing love?

Does saying “Yes” feel right when you're present?

When your attention is fully here, you're not distracted by thought after thought, or stress after stress going through your head.

You're able to sit, and feel, and be, and notice what feels right — so you can live your life very deeply from that place — and not be distracted from your life.

So, of course, that's why we shift into presence so consistently.

Let's do that together and feel for what feels right, right now.

Listen with me.

I'll step outside.

Let’s listen to waves for a minute together as we feel.

With all our attention just being here.

Notice if you get distracted.

And let whatever it is that distracts you — that flows through your mind — to just keep flowing out of your mind until you come into full quiet.

Listen to life go by for 30 seconds or so.

Alright, perfect.

How do you feel?

Are you feeling like saying “Yes” to this moment?

I feel so grateful today.

I’m grateful to be able to drop in a presence and feel life flow through me.

Feel the meaning, the purpose that is associated with that experience of walking your personal path with as much full attention as you're able to in every moment.

Take one more long deep breath.

Have a great day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present.

Sean

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Did you know that ‘unhappiness’ has increased worldwide by over 43% between 2007 and 2021?

Source: Gallup 2022

Let’s Shift Unhappiness together.

That seems to be the call of our era.

So let’s take a long deep breath.

Bring 100% of your attention into the present moment by listening to the life occurring around you for a few seconds right now.

Feel your body shifting into a deeper connection with this moment, as you listen.

Feel that?

Twenty five years in psychology has taught me that most people are capable of learning how to strategically shift their state of mind when they choose to.

OnePerfect has been measuring that observation for years now.

It turns out that shifting how you feel in a few minutes is not that difficult to do for most people completing Shifts.

Over 95% of post-Shift surveys confirm that the person shifted toward or into their desired state of mind while completing the Shift.

That’s important news right now because shifting your state of mind strategically can help alleviate each of the 5 components of ‘unhappiness’ that Gallop measures and reports on —

  • Sadness

  • Stress

  • Anger

  • Worry

  • Physical pain

We’ve found that the most difficult part of shifting is simply getting yourself to recognize that you need to begin shifting your state in the moments when you really need to.

Shifts help you address that challenge too because completing Shifts develop the self-awareness that is necessary to identify those moments when you need to shift yourself into a better state — so you can take action.

Developing that skill requires repetition of practice which is why I focus on delivering enjoyable Shifts to subscriber’s inboxes.

Thankfully, people are loving Shifts.

I suspect that’s because the Shift community is purpose-focused.

A large portion of the worldwide increase in unhappiness is related to a decline in people feeling a sense of life purpose.

So we prioritize shifting into peace, presence and flow because those mind-body states cultivate an implicit sense of personal meaning.

Feeling connected to your life amplifies your sense of connection to others which nourishes foundational aspect of yourself.

That’s what I love most about shifting.

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Shifts take you beyond happiness.

Feeling supported, valued and loved are feelings most of us need in order to feel consistently at peace.

And feeling at peace helps connect you to meaning and purpose.

That’s why ‘shifting’ includes becoming aware of what's occurring not only in your outside world, but also in your inner world — the world that exists inside your brain and body.

Your inner world is the world through which your thoughts and intuitions — and all those things that trigger you out of presence — flow.

Observing your inner world requires dropping into presence.

You need to create some space inside yourself (some presence) in order to listen and see what's occurring within.

When you do that you start to see some patterns playing out in your inner world.

When you listen to your inner world closely you see a world of relationships being maintained within you in every moment — a moving world.

Your history of relationships is accessible when you become present to your inner world too.

The more often you shift into presence, the more clear your inner world can become to you.

When you see your inner world clearly, you can influence so much more of your life experience.

Perhaps most important though is that completing Shifts makes it easier to navigate yourself into a better state of mind and body in those moments when you really need to shift.

Shifting always starts with attending all your attention in this moment.

So let’s take a long deep breath.

Again, bring 100% of your attention into the present moment.

Focusing your attention again on listening to life.

Listen to the sounds you otherwise would not hear for 10 seconds.

Notice the subtle change that occurs in your inner world as you focus all your attention on listening to life.

Feel that?

I feel it.

I love shifting with you.

Shifting together is being in community.

Shifting together is a form of supporting each other.

Let’s set an intention to remain fully present to each moment of our lives for the rest of today.

Can you feel that intention being set inside your body now?

I can.

Feel it.

Perfect.

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Shift Anger

Shift Being Scared or Anxious

Shift Feeling Horrible

Shift Loneliness

Shift How You Judge Yourself

Shift Addiction

Shift Into Complete Presence

Shift Into Life Purpose

Shift Into Inner Peace

Shift to Recharge Completely

Shift Into Your Body

I’ll let you know when Shifts that target physical pain become available — and add them to the list of Shifts above.

Have a present day.

I’ll talk to you soon.

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Hello.

How are you?

Are you feeling present?

Is 100% of your attention focused right here, right now?

Let's take a long deep breath together.

Come fully into this moment with intention.

Listening to life.

All of our attention right here.

Notice how you feel right now.

Now take 5 seconds to invite your attention 100% to listen to the present moment.

Ready?

Listen.

Good.

Can you pick up a difference in how you feel after 5 seconds of intentional listening?

I notice a difference inside my body.

As you consistently do little exercises like that you develop a more nuanced capacity to notice the difference in how where you place your attention impacts how you feel.

It all happens fast.

When you grasp how tight the relationship is between where your attention is and how you feel it helps with all sorts of choices that you make about how you place your attention throughout the day.

Getting clear about the relationship between where your attention is and how you feel shapes where you place your attention and why you place your attention as you do.

Let’s take another deep breath.

You’ll often notice yourself experiencing a ‘negative shift’ — characterized by a felt deviation from peace — as you get pulled away from your awareness that you can ride the wave of presence even when challenging ‘things’ happen.

Negative shift = losing your connection to peace or presence.

We often characterize the challenging ‘things’ that provoke our negative shifts into a bucket that we call ‘stress.’

But if you notice your inner experience in the moments when stress is arising you can dial in on what produced your negative shift — which helps you avoid repeating the same negative shift in the future.

You’ll notice that your negative shifts typically begin when you start thinking about something that upsets you.

It could be a family member.

It could be someone close to you who you’re having conflict with.

It could be your issues with health.

It could be your issues with work.

It could be your issues with money.

It could be the re-emergence of your historical view of yourself as flawed somehow.

Or maybe you’re reminded that your view of the future is not what you want it to be.

Thoughts come into your mind and change your physiology immediately.

Your worst triggers always increase your stress levels and usually create negative shifts.

What’s your worst trigger?

Notice what arises as you pose that question in your inner world.

What’s your worst trigger?

What shifts you negatively most often?

Good.

It’s a good exercise just to pose the question and notice what arises.

The reason I'm going into detail about all this is that the more you can recognize those very specific negative thoughts that occur — your worst triggers — the better off you’ll be.

Consistently noticing the first thought that shifts you out of connection with the present moment is an incredibly powerful practice.

When you notice the trigger, rather than being shifted negatively you can instead be triggered to think to yourself, “Oh yeah, I have to deal with that. That's negative. That could spiral me. That’s going to separate me from living in presence.”

Noticing triggers in real time is part of the nuance I referred to at the beginning of today’s Shift.

When you can notice that nuance in real time, you can shift away from it.

It might well be that you have something that you need to deal with and you can notice that as you notice the trigger.

But if you recognize the trigger consciously, instead of experiencing an immediate negative shift, you're reminded to make an intentional positive shift.

Then you can deal with whatever you need to deal with from a feeling of presence.

You don't need to go on an unpleasant emotional ride first.

Notice the trigger event, make a note to yourself if you need to do something, and then reinforce your intention to remain fully connected to life at this moment.

When you consistently address your life challenges that way, the way you end up addressing issues is much less likely to encourage the issue to repeat in the future with the same intensity.

That's the power of living (and coping) from presence throughout your life.

Let's take a long deep breath.

Come into the present moment.

Feel the inner change — notice it again.

Notice how your body changes after listening to ideas for a while and then shifting by listening to life for a little while.

Do you notice the difference?

For most of us, it's a lot easier to notice when other people get triggered.

You might say to yourself, “Oh, that person is having a hard time today because they always lose their connection with their peace when x, y, or z happens”.

You intuit that life is beating them down and they've succumbed to a negative shift based on some trigger that arose inside them.

The closer you are to the person the better you may recognize their patterns — and the more obvious their triggers may be to you.

However, real personal growth and development comes when you notice those things about yourself AND THEN you shift in real time.

Shifts are super valuable to complete because they improve your ability to notice your worst triggers.

In future Shifts, you’ll strategically provoke your most persistent triggers and then practice dealing with them (i.e., shifting) in real time.

For today, let's take 30 more seconds quietly in presence.

Listen for 30 seconds and then we'll intend presence for the rest of today.

Ready?

Listen.

Listen to and hear all those sounds that you wouldn't otherwise notice if you didn’t set that intention.

Purrrfect.

All right, have an incredible day being fully present.

Set that intention now — an intention to shift whenever you need to for the rest of your day.

Notice when your presence is threatened by anything that could produce a negative shift.

You do that just by noticing your triggers in real time to bring them into conscious awareness.

If you happen to miss noticing your trigger, shift back into presence anytime you notice you’ve disconnected from presence.

Okay?

Did you set your intention to shift whenever you need to for the rest of today?

Feel the intention settling inside your body.

Nice!

Nice Shift.

Have a present day.

Sean

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Prologue —

Welcome to your final Starter Program Shift!

In case you missed any Shifts…

Starter Shift 1 of 4: The Presence Shift

Starter Shift 2 of 4: The Mind Garden Shift into Flow

Starter Shift 3 of 4: Shift Your Inner Voice

Starter Shift 4 of 4: Shift Together follows below.

Today, we’ll navigate into our inner worlds and shift into a deepened connection to life — and to each other…

Hello friend.

Let’s take a deep breath.

Set an intention to notice the subtle shift that occurs in the moments after you change where you’re placing your attention.

Ready?

Listen to life with 100% of your attention AS YOU NOTICE any inner world change that occurs in the following moments.

Listen.

Notice the change.

Do you feel yourself shifting toward presence?

I feel it.

It's that easy to start a Shift.

It’s also quite easy to forget that staying connected to presence is a priority in your life.

That’s why shifting together is a big deal to me.

Having this ongoing conversation and relationship with you — speaking, listening, and exploring our inner worlds together — returns me to my priorities every day.

Thank you for being on this journey with me.

What a trip it’s been!

By completing these Starter Shifts, you’ve developed a solid base for strategically shifting your mind whenever you choose to.

You now know everything you need to shift your state anytime.

You can return to the Starter Shifts to remind yourself how and why shifting works so well.

If you’re subscribed to OnePerfect Shift, you'll keep receiving new Shifts every week.

Between the OnePerfect iPhone and Android apps and the website, you’ll have access to thousands of Shifts.

1-minute Shifts to 10-minute Shifts.

Choose the title you need for any given moment, or open the app and create a personalized Shift for yourself.

Alternatively, record and save your own perfect Shifts in the app to codify what works best for you anytime you need a reminder or a boost.

I’ll also be offering LIVE Shifts to our community, so keep an eye out!

Why don’t we step outside for our final Shift in the Starter Program on this Fourth of July weekend?

Can you hear the waves crashing?

For those of us in the United States, July 4th marks our annual rebirth — a celebration of what’s best in us collectively and what unifies us.

We are one.

Just as you are 30 trillion different cells — different pieces of one life, ever-adjusting and perfecting yourself — Americans are 330 million different pieces of one, ever-adjusting to perfect ourselves together.

However we feel at any moment, we each have the ability to shift our 30 trillion cells to produce the state of mind and body that we want to experience next.

Think about that.

By setting a clear intention, you instruct your army of 30 trillion buzzing miracles to organize — these warrior of you — to shift your life in any direction you choose.

Let’s experience that power.

Set the intention to remain aware of both your personal miraculousness and also your interconnection with everyone else.

Sync to that intention by shifting in honor of Independence Day.

Let’s Shift Together.

Close your eyes with me and feel that intention setting inside you.

Feel your intention to come into an awareness of both your oneness and our connection to each other.

Relax your shoulders.

Relax your whole body.

Take a deep breath.

Fully come into this moment.

Bring 100% of your attention here.

Being fully present.

Feeling your connection to life.

Listening to life works for bringing yourself into peace because presence is peace, and listening with 100% of your attention is presence.

When you know that, you also know that your baseline experience of life can be peace, anytime you choose it.

That's one of my favorite pieces of knowledge.

Let's come into awareness of ourselves as fully connected to each other now.

We’re going to connect through our shared environment by noticing the air we are breathing.

The air that enables the life that you're living.

Feel yourself merging into your environment.

You’re a buzzing piece of life’s puzzle.

We are not separate from life.

We're embedded in life.

Let’s listen to the waves.

Immerse into life.

Now, invite your connection to the people who are closest to you into your inner world feeling.

Feel the love you have for them.

Feel it?

Feel it growing.

Nice.

Now, take that feeling of love and share it with everyone.

Project your love outward, in every direction.

Feel yourself sharing your love to all 330 million pieces of one America.

Feel the love building, flowing into and through you even more.

See yourself as energy building now, so bright.

Lighting up.

Let's connect together in that light.

Can you see it lighting your inner world?

Do you feel the light?

It reminds me of the silences between the explosions of fireworks — how it feels, how you release tension into the silence.

Those explosions of color and light drown out all the voices, ushering us into the perfect silence between the noise.

They viscerally remind us that we live inside a massive universe of mystery.

See your world as an explosion of light, streaming across the entire world now.

You are light streaming through space, merging with other lights.

See every light and color blending into one.

Beautiful.

Breathe into Independence Day.

Perfect.

Relax.

Breathe.

Nice.

Open your eyes when you’re ready.

Congratulations!!!

You’ve completed the Shift Starter Program.

You now know how to strategically shift your state of mind, anytime.

It’s been an honor shifting with you.

Let’s keep it up together.

You're always welcome here.

We’ve come to an end — and a new beginning.

We’ll stay in touch through new Shifts every Thursday.

Perhaps we’ll meet on a live Shift someday too.

Let's make this a great year together — starting with a great Fourth of July.

My love to you and yours.

I'll talk to you soon.

Stay present.

Sean

P.S. Great job completing the Shift Starter Program!

Shift with me anytime.

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Prologue —

In case you’ve missed any Starter Program Shifts…

Starter Shift 1: The Presence Shift

Starter Shift 2: The Mind Garden Shift Into Flow

Starter Shift 3: Shift Your Inner Voice (found below) has an introduction right here.

In today’s Shift, you’ll listen to the silent words flowing through your Mind Garden to shift your inner voice.

I often complete the ‘Shift Your Inner Voice’ sequence before starting a therapy session, a meeting, or recording a new Shift.

Hello friend.

Let’s take a long deep breath and close our eyes.

Get comfortable.

Relax.

Allow your shoulders to fall toward the ground.

Settle in and listen.

Listen to life.

Listen to the words flowing in your inner world now — the words flowing as your inner voice.

That’s what we’ll be doing today.

Let’s start with that.

Listen to hear the words flowing through you in this moment.

Can you quickly identify any words or any ideas emerging out of the silence of your inner world?

Do you hear anything floating around in your Mind Garden right now?

What words or ideas is your inner world producing when you listen without judgement?

What do you notice?

Whatever you noticed, let it go.

Let everything go.

Release all words and thoughts.

Let’s come into quiet, into peace, into inner silence.

Sit and listen to life with all of your attention.

Empty your inner world of words.

Nice.

The following two terms will help us focus this Shift.

Mind Garden refers to your inner world, imagined as a living garden.

Weeds refer to persistent, unwanted aspects of your Mind Garden. They’re usually perpetuated by words and ideas that flow repetitively through your Mind Garden.

We’ll pay close attention to our Mind Gardens and Weeds today.

To Shift Your Inner Voice you’ll navigate through your Mind Garden and notice how authentic the words that are flowing inside you feel.

Your authentic voice is never far away.

One reason that our authentic voices are so powerful is that the journey to finding your voice has inevitably taken many turns.

You navigate through life’s challenges and rediscover personal authenticity along the way.

Your authenticity is reflected in your voice.

Your authenticity is experienced by anyone who hears your voice.

Anyone who listens to you hears, on a primal level, what you’ve traversed on your way to becoming your voice.

Your life is embedded in your voice.

Let’s take another long deep breath.

The stamp of your voice carries all of your history and all of your dreams.

All of your living dreams and all of your broken dreams.

They’re all condensed into now, through your voice — through how you express yourself.

When you connect to your voice, everyone who hears you, knows you.

You also come to know yourself by consistently listening to whatever automatically flows through your inner world and into your Mind Garden as your voice.

Knowing your authentic voice is key to being able to shift your mind on demand.

And that’s our Shift Starter Program intention.

Now, let’s make an intentional visit to your Mind Garden and listen with even greater focus.

Imagine yourself sitting at the center of your Mind Garden now.

Find your patch of grass or your favorite, most comfortable seat, placed at the exact center of your Mind Garden.

Sit down there at the center — settle into your Shifting Seat.

Settling into my seat feels like falling into a soft, thick, pillow-cushioned recliner that slowly recedes as I’m immersed into it.

Feel yourself enveloped.

Relax completely into the space of your inner world.

Can you see yourself sitting at peace in your Mind Garden?

See and feel the colors, the textures, and the movements of your Mind Garden.

Flowers opening and blooming.

Your Mind Garden is alive.

You can almost smell it.

Your beautiful, peaceful, blooming inner garden.

Feel yourself settling in even further.

Nice.

Keeping your eyes closed, listen to the words flowing through your Mind Garden now.

Let’s listen closely for words or thoughts flowing through our minds.

Good.

Listen and feel the impact of the words that you hear in your Mind Garden now.

Listen without judgement.

Closely feel your inner world’s subtle reactions to whatever is arising — whatever you notice or hear.

If you listen closely, you’ll notice that there's a feeling associated with the ideas and the words that you hear flowing through your garden.

What does it feel like?

Perfect.

Good start.

Okay, let's take another step deeper into our Mind Gardens now.

At the center of your mind garden — right where you're sitting now — there's a hidden opening that leads you even more deeply into the silence that surrounds you.

You’re sitting at the hidden entrance right now.

As you deepen your connection to inner silence, you’ll begin to feel your hidden entrance opening slowly beneath you.

Listen to your inner world with all of your attention.

Feel yourself sinking now as the hidden opening carries your Shifting Seat downward, with you in tow.

Shift slowly down, through the bottom of your Mind Garden.

Keep drifting down until you find yourself floating weightlessly below your Mind Garden, and into the pristine space of silence.

I’m down here now, enveloped in silence.

Breathe in the cleanest oxygen.

Feel the soft air tickling your skin, buzzing your body and recharging you.

Feel it?

We're fully at peace.

Nothing to fear.

No worries.

Let's stay here in the silence and listen together for a little while.

Take another long deep breath.

Feel yourself sinking even more deeply into the silence, into life.

Feel the buzz of silence through your entire body.

Blend into the silent world below your Mind Garden.

This is the world where your silent words are flowing from — into and through your Mind Garden and into your life.

With your next breath out, feel yourself centered, completely at peace and floating in silence below your Mind Garden — merged with silence.

Find perfect inner silence.

Good.

With your eyes still closed, look a few feet out in front of you now.

Keep breathing deeply as you look through your closed eyes.

Open your inside vision — though your eyes remain closed, look out in front of you a few feet, as though you're looking through your forehead, rather than through your eyes.

Doing this will help relax your gaze and keep you connected with the silence.

You’re just looking and listening to life right now.

You may see a sea of lights in your inner world.

Of course, you’ll usually see darkness too.

You're deep in your inner world now, below your Mind Garden.

Whatever you see, whatever you hear, whatever you feel when you’re down here in silence is your inner world speaking.

Listening closely from down here shifts your inner voice.

From down here, you can see your Mind Garden.

If you shift your gaze upward, you'll see the bottom of your Mind Garden.

You’ll see its soil bed.

You’ll see the bottom tips of your longest roots, leading up to the flowers, the weeds, and the rest of your Mind Garden above.

Just look.

Good.

See if you can feel the energy that's flowing from your Mind Garden now.

The energy state of your Mind Garden is always projecting outward, in every direction.

Feel yourself melting further into presence as you look up at the bottom of your Mind Garden.

Just feel.

Remember, ‘weeds’ are persistent, unwanted aspects of your Mind Garden.

They're often perpetuated by the words and ideas that sustain and repeat in your Mind Garden.

Listen and feel for any roots of weeds catching your attention right now.

Listen for any unwelcome words that you've been repeating lately.

Listen for any ideas or words rooted to a Mind Garden weed.

I call this process ‘weeding’.

Keep relaxing your entire body and listening for your inner voice.

Settle in further.

Whatever regularly distracts you in your life is connected to a weed.

Notice the distraction that comes to mind next.

There's a feeling associated with the ideas and the words that you hear.

This feeling comes from whether you feel authentic about what you’re hearing.

What do you hear?

What do you feel?

If no weeds have popped up, bring to mind any issue you've been grappling with.

Whatever weed you notice, set an intention to spend a few seconds focused on connecting with its roots.

If you can, imagine seeing a root coming from that weed through the bottom of your Mind Garden.

Whatever you notice, feel any automatic reaction to the experience.

Don't respond to it.

Just observe it.

Good.

You've heard — and perhaps seen — a root.

Let the genius of your mind address it from here.

You’ll return to listen again later.

That’s great shifting for now.

Listening from silence cultivates your inner voice.

That’s how you shift your inner voice into authenticity.

That’s all it takes.

You shifted your inner voice by simply listening and watching closely.

We’ll make many more visits to observe our Mind Gardens and shift.

Open your eyes whenever you’re ready.

To finish up, set an intention to be fully present for the rest of your day or night.

Feel that intention.

Nice job!

Stay present.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Sean

P.S. If you enjoyed Shift Your Inner Voice, check out the ‘MORE SHIFTING’ suggestion I’ve shared below the ‘Recap & Prep’ that follows.

Recap & Prep —

Starter Shift 3: Shift Your Inner Voice

You now have strategies for shifting into peace, presence, flow, and for shifting your inner voice anytime.

And, you’ve seen that shifting isn’t hard.

It just takes a few minutes of listening to life.

Anytime you notice that peace is missing as you listen, reset your intention to come back into presence with a Present Shift.

If you notice that the conversation occurring in your head has been overtaken by any distractions — fears, shames, regrets, stresses (i.e., weeds) — take a few minutes to garden your mind.

As you continue shifting your mind, you’ll notice you're spending more of your time in peace.

If you’re like me, you’ll discover that shifting is a self-reinforcing practice. It’s contagious in your life — and it will become contagious for those around you too.

You’ll begin to hear specific inner conversational patterns repeating themselves throughout your days.

The more you take note of the inner conversation cycles that bring you into anxiety, stress, sadness, or any other weed-driven state, the more they’ll begin to reduce — just your noticing them will shift your inner voice.

Keep shifting and peacefulness, presence, and flow will take deeper hold in your days.

Congratulations! You’ve completed Starter Program Shift 3 of 4.

You’ve almost completed the Shift Starter Program.

Starter Shift 4 is right here.

MORE SHIFTING —

Shift Your Inner Voice with the OnePerfect app.

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One of the primary reasons I built the OnePerfect app was to provide you with a tool that teaches how I create Shifts, to help you to create and share Shifts that work for you.

Using it, we can collect our best ideas as we Shift together.

I use the app all the time, because speaking my insights (in private, or to share with others) is a deeply rewarding practice.

If you save your recorded insights, you can listen to them and track what's important to you anytime — and as you refine your insights, you’ll refine your voice and your life.

I recommend that you begin using the app by recording whatever you most want to remember about the Shift Starter Program.

That way, you’ll always have the insight that’s most relevant to you, saved in your own words — to blend into your personal Shifts anytime.

To record a private insight in the OnePerfect app —

Download and login to the free app trial on iPhoneorAndroid.

Then you get to the dashboard, tap ‘Shift My Mind’ to create your first personalized Shift in the app.

When prompted, record a personal insight.

Add an insight title and privately save your insight into your audio journal.

After you save your recorded insight it will appear in your app’s private audio journal.

Enjoy your personal Shifts!

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Prologue

In case you missed it, the Shift Starter Program Program begins here.

Starter Shift 2 (found below) has an introduction righthere.

In today’s Shift, you’ll assess the current state of your Mind Garden before shifting into a focused state of mind called ‘flow.’

Mind Garden is your inner world, imagined as a living garden.

Flow is a state that people report when they are fully involved in an activity to the point of forgetting time and their surroundings except the activity itself.

Flow can correspond to a state of presence, but it also entails a sense of being focused and absorbed in your current activity — often for optimal performance.

I often Shift Into Flow to channel energy wherever I want to focus next during the day.

Hello, friend.

Let’s take an extra-long deep breath together and prepare to explore our Mind Gardens — in our inner worlds — and then shift into a ‘flow’ state.

Because this is a Starter Shift, we’ll move through each step slowly, in detail.

In future Shifts, you can shift into flow more quickly if you choose.

Let’s first assess your current ‘flow’ state by answering the following three questions.

Your answers should be provided on a scale from 1-10 where 1 is the worst score and 10 is the best.

Let’s do this together.

I suggest that you close your eyes and listen as I ask you the three questions.

Closing your eyes can enable access to brain power that would otherwise be used for processing sight.

It can help you more precisely sense how you feel at any moment.

So let’s close our eyes and listen to our inner worlds.

Take another long deep breath.

Focus 100% of your attention into the present moment.

Good.

Ready for question #1?

If feeling mentally scattered is a 1 and feeling completely clear-headed is a 10, how do you feel right now?

Your answer doesn’t need to be exact.

We’re just generally assessing the current state of your Mind Garden right now.

Got your answer?

Good.

Let’s keep going.

Question 2

On a scale of 1-10, how at peace versus stressed do you feel right now?

Take your time.

Got your answer?

OK.

One more question.

Question 3

On a scale of 1-10, how engaged versus disconnected do you feel right now?

Got it?

Okay, if you add up the three numbers from your three answers, what’s the total?

It should be somewhere between 3 and 30.

Got it?

Good.

Keep track of that number until you’re done shifting today.

Great start by the way!

Next, let’s shift into deep peace to prepare your shift into flow.

Notice how much your state changes as you shift into peace over the next two minutes.

Keep breathing deeply.

Get yourself as comfortable as you can.

Settle in.

Get even more comfortable.

Feel gravity settling your into your space.

Feel your weight against whatever you’re sitting on.

Relax.

Notice presence starting to emerge from your mind noise.

I’ll guide you through the 3 steps of a Presence Shift now — to prepare you to shift into a flow state by first shifting into peace and presence.

A Presence Shift is a great way to start any Shift.

In The Presence Shift Step 1, we set our intention to shift into a peaceful state of mind over the coming minutes.

So embody your intention to shift into an even more peaceful state.

Truly feel your intention inside you.

Good.

Step 2 — We listen to life and relax our bodies more.

Listen to life flowing out of silence with 100% of your attention.

Hear all those sounds you otherwise wouldn’t hear.

Listen.

Feel the sounds of life.

Feel silence flowing through the world and into you.

Feel life.

What do you hear and feel?

I hear gratitude welling up inside.

Gratitude bubbling up from reconnecting to the knowledge that I can find peace anytime I choose — and so can you.

Take another deep breath.

Nice.

Since we set our intention to drop into a flow state today, let’s keep going.

Step 3 of The Presence Shift is checking in on how present you feel right now.

Shift your attention from only listening to life, to also noticing what you hear and feel occurring inside you — in your inner world.

Notice how you feel as you listen to your body.

Allow any thoughts to slow down.

Release them.

Feel for the peace bubbling within you.

Sink into your peacefully relaxed body.

Feel the peace inside you.

Feel it?

Perfect.

All of us seek peace, and all of us can find it.

It’s what we just did.

We're sitting in a place of peace together, right now.

Now that we’ve shifted into peace with The Presence Shift, let’s keep going.

Remember that the living world inside your brain and body that you just shifted into peace is your Mind Garden.

So with your eyes closed, visualize your Mind Garden by seeing your inner world as a flowing garden.

You might envision a brand new garden that you’ve never seen before.

Or maybe you’ll see a beautiful garden that you’re familiar with.

If you’re not a visual person, just focus on feeling your Mind Garden.

This Shift Into Flow will still work for you.

See and feel the colors and textures and movements of your Mind Garden.

See a soft wind blowing.

Flowers opening and flowing.

Your garden is alive.

It’s spectacular.

You can almost smell it — your perfectly peaceful Mind Garden.

Let go of any remaining distractions.

Only peace is flowing through your Mind Garden right now.

Complete harmony.

Do you see it?

Do you feel it?

Perfect.

You’ve assessed your current state of flow, shifted into peace and observed your Mind Garden.

Once you’re at peace in your Mind Garden, you can shift your state wherever you choose.

So with your eyes still closed, let’s shift into flow.

Imagine yourself sitting in the verymiddle of your Mind Garden now.

Find a patch of grass, or place to place your favorite comfortable seat, at the exact center of your garden and settle into it.

Sit down there on the grass, or on your seat.

This seat at the center of your Mind Garden is your Shifting Seat.

Relax completely into the space of your inner world.

Can you see yourself sitting at peace in your Mind Garden?

Nice.

Say these words with me silently as you see yourself sitting in your Mind Garden—

Over the next few minutes, I’m going to shift from a peaceful state of mind into a peacefully focused state of mind.

Feel the intention to focus your mind settling inside of you.

Say it one more time…

Over the next few minutes, I’m going to shift from a peaceful state of mind into a peacefully focused state of mind.

Feel it.

Truly feel for that intention setting in your body.

Know that you are intending to shift your state into flow.

Know that it’s beginning to happen.

(Closed your eyes now if they’re open.)

Nice.

Now that we’ve set the intention to shift into flow, let’s see ourselves in flow inside our Mind Gardens.

Remember, a flow state can correspond to a state of presence, but entails a sense of being mentally focused too.

So stay relaxed, seated in your peaceful Mind Garden.

Intending to shift into flow.

What do you want (or need) to be engaged with for the next hour of your life?

It doesn’t matter if you’re working, or with your family, or getting ready for bed.

The question is, how do you want to spend the next hour of your life?

What will you dive into next today?

Got it?

What does being in flow with that experience look like?

Are you standing, or sitting, or lying down?

See it occurring inside your Mind Garden.

Picture yourself inside your Mind Garden fully absorbed in the next experience you want to engage with today.

Maybe you’re sitting alone.

Maybe you’re talking to someone.

Maybe you’re writing, or reading, or working out.

Whatever it is, see it in happening now in your Mind Garden.

Spend 10 more seconds observing yourself at the center of your Mind Garden, now fully engaging with that task you choose to be at flow with for the next hour.

Good.

Let’s amplify your immersion in flow by connecting to why coming into flow is so important to you right now.

Why do you want to be in flow today?

Do you want to feel and share your best?

Do you want to live your purpose?

Do you want to feel connected to your purpose?

(Maybe you just want to feel your best.)

Imagine being in flow with your vision, completely connected to your purpose for the next hour now.

Be fully present with this moment — with your intention to shift into flow.

Keep seeing yourself being fully involved in the flow of your chosen activity.

See yourself so immersed in the flow that you lose track of time and forget your surroundings.

You’re focused on nothing but the activity itself.

Feel flow happening inside you.

Can you notice how your Mind Garden is changing as you shift into flow?

See your entire Mind Garden in a state of flow now.

Perfect.

Strategically connecting to your intention, vision and motivation for being in flow cultivates your flow state.

Great job!

Your Mind Gardening has been shifting you into flow.

Let’s assess your flow state once more.

Rate the three flow state questions on a scale of 1-10. I’ll read each question in order again.

Close your eyes and answer each question with a number.

On a scale of 1-10, how scattered or clear are you?

On a scale of 1-10, how at peace or stressed are you?

On a scale of 1-10, how engaged or disconnected are you?

What’s your total Mind Garden flow score?

Please answer the poll question below if the poll is open today...

If your total went up, congratulations! Great work!

Your total can go up, but it also may stay the same, or even go down. When that happens, just complete the Shift again, or start another Shift from the beginning.

Being persistent is how you’ll improve your ability to shift your mind, and is especially important in the early days of your Shift Starter Program.

You can do this.

Great Mind Garden Shift Into Flow today!

Return to your intention to remain present and focused now — to flow for the rest of your day.

Do you feel it?

Are you ready to begin the next hour of your life in flow?

Have a great one.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Sean

Shift Recap

Nice Mind Garden Shift Into Flow today!

If your Mind Garden total went up, you shifted toward a flow state as intended.

Flow is a state that people report when they are fully involved in an activity to the point of forgetting time and their surroundings except the activity itself.

Flow can correspond to a state of presence, but it also entails a sense of being focused and absorbed in your current activity — often for optimal performance.

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Brain science tells us that a variety of things likely shifted inside your brain and body as your state shifted…

Your physiology changed because of increased neural coherence.

Your connection to a sense of purpose increased.

Your thoughts became clearer and more organized.

Your fear was silenced.

Your mind became more focused.

The depth of your felt connection to the present moment increased.

Your flow state emerged.

Review Your Starter Program Progress

Your Starter Program intention is to learn to strategically shift your state of mind whenever you want.

Shifting into presence with The Presence Shift was the first step to learning how to shift your mind strategically.

When your intention is to shift into presence to feel at peace, stop there.

When your intention is to shift into a state of mind for some other purpose — like ‘flow’ — continue shifting after shifting into presence.

Assessing your Mind Garden and shifting into a ‘flow’ state was your second step to mastering strategically shifting your mind.

You can shift into flow to channel your creative energy anywhere, anytime you choose.

Congratulations! You’ve completed Starter Program Shift 2 of 4.

The Introduction to Starter Shift 3 is here.

You can Shift on iPhone or Android anytime.

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Prologue to The Presence Shift

In case you missed it, your Shift Starter Program introduction is here.

In your first of four Starter Shifts (found below), we’ll work together to shift into peace with The Presence Shift.

You can use The Presence Shift technique to shift into a peaceful state of mind anytime.

I often use the technique to start my day in peace, and to fall back asleep anytime I wake up in the middle of the night.

In the Shift that follows, we’ll use The Presence Shift to shift out of stress after waking up from a nightmare in the middle of the night.

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It’s 3 AM here.

I’m in bed.

Shaking still.

Stress is coursing through me.

I just woke up from a recurring nightmare.

I’m not thinking clearly yet.

But I know from experience that I need to make a shift right now.

Whenever I wake up from a nightmare like this, I usually feel like a failure.

I feel lazy.

I’m feeling like a bad person.

I’m sure you’ve been here before — or somewhere in the emotional neighborhood.

We all get stressed.

We all ruminate.

But here’s what’s important.

Just as we all have those stressful moments, we can all learn to use them to shift our minds and bodies back to peace, whether in service of our purpose or to melt stress and get back to sleep.

Let’s do that now, together.

The first step of The Presence Shift is always to take long, deep breaths as you set your clear intention to shift into a better state of mind over the coming few minutes.

So breathe deeply with me.

Take your time.

You’re going to a good place.

So there’s no rush.

But setting a clear intention is vital.

It’s also vital to make sure you actually feel the intention being set inside your body.

So don’t just think about the intention.

Feel the effect of the intention inside your body as we speak our intention together.

Feel your body shift as you repeat the following with me:

“I’m going to shift into a peaceful, present state of mind over the next few minutes.”

“I’m going to shift into a peaceful, present state of mind over the next few minutes.”

Now, feel that intention lodging in your body.

Feel it?

I feel it.

When you feel your intention lodging inside your body, you’ve completed the first of three steps of The Presence Shift.

Your intention to shift into presence is now set, so we move to the second step.

The second step of The Presence Shift is to relax your body as you listen to life with ALL your attention.

With a little practice, you’ll be able to do this in your sleep, (i.e. you’ll be able to shift into presence quickly, any time you choose to).

So relax your body as you listen to life with all your attention.

Let’s allow our bodies to relax completely for a few seconds.

Allow your shoulders to relax and fall toward the ground.

I’m feeling my body pressing against the bed.

Feeling gravity.

Settle into your space too, wherever you are.

Let gravity settle you in.

Nice.

Feel your entire body relaxing further.

Breathing deeply.

Good.

Now that you’re relaxed a little bit, can you feel your whole body buzzing with life?

I love the feeling of the body buzz.

When you can pick up that body buzz, you know you’re on your way to presence.

Notice your body buzz as much as you can.

Tingling buzzing of your body.

Tingling and buzzing with life.

Don’t worry if you don’t feel any buzz.

You don’t need to feel the buzz to complete a presence shift, but the body buzz feels great, so if it’s easy for you to notice it and feel it, why not feel it?

We’ll spend more time specifically connecting to your body buzz in other Shifts.

With practice, connecting to your body buzz will become second nature.

OK, for now — now that we’re a bit more relaxed — let’s finish Step 2 by listening to life with 100% of our attention, just for a few seconds.

You can close your eyes or keep them open anytime while you’re shifting, by the way.

Just do whatever works best for you in this moment.

I’m closing my eyes.

Keep breathing deeply throughout The Presence Shift.

And now listen to life with 100% of your attention.

What do you hear?

I hear my heart beating.

I hear far-away waves crashing.

Listen with all your attention.

Feel silence pulling you into presence.

When any of your attention gets distracted, as it will at times — maybe 10% or 20% of your attention might pull you into thinking about something else, even as you intend to just listen solely to life.

When that happens, remind yourself of your intention to listen to life with 100% of your attention in order to continue your presence shift.

Let all the thoughts go for now.

And re-assert your intention to listen with 100% of your attention.

Keep listening.

(Listen to life.)

Perfect.

Do you feel any change in how your body feels right now?

Do you feel any different from how you felt before?

Notice anything and everything.

Notice any subtle changes in how you feel.

And keep feeling.

Let’s do that until our physiology feels chill.

By the way, listening to yourself like we just did — to notice how you feel — is Step 3 of The Presence Shift.

You listen to life with all your attention, and you connect with life to drop into presence in Step 2.

And then in Step 3, you notice the changes that occur and are occurring inside you — by intentionally changing where you are placing your attention.

That’s how you feel whether you’re on the right track with your presence shift.

Whenever you start to feel at peace, you know The Presence Shift is working.

So, how do you feel?

Make a mental note.

(Has your state of mind or body shifted?)

Noticing your inner experience while you listen improves your shifting abilities.

So be sure to listen and notice.

You don’t need to do anything more than that to make a presence shift.

With practice, all three steps of The Presence Shift can happen in just a few seconds.

Eventually, you’ll make The Presence Shift on demand.

Hopefully, you experienced the power of ‘listening’ with all your attention as we progressed — I know I did.

Listening is our most important shifting strategy.

If you’re ever so stressed that you can only remember one thing, that’s fine — don’t panic — as long as the one thing that you remember is to listen to life with all your attention.

As long as you have that, you’ll be fine.

Listening with 100% of your attention brings you into presence. Listening can immediately unlock peace for you, anytime.

So let’s listen to life together with all our attention for another 10 seconds.

Let the presence seep in.

Deepen your connection to presence.

Notice how your inner world subtly shifts as you listen to life with all your attention now.

Listen and feel.

Feel peace coming into every cell of your body.

Nice.

Great.

How are you feeling?

I’m feeling so much more at peace now than I did when we started a few minutes ago.

I feel completely present and at peace now.

The nightmare, and fear, and rumination are all a distant memory.

I’m ready to fade back to sleep.

I hope you’ve shifted toward peace too.

Let’s keep diving into presence and around our inner worlds together in upcoming Shifts.

I’ll show you how to deeply feel that body buzz, and we’ll tend to our inner gardens together.

I love and value Shifting, and I’m so glad you’re here doing this with me.

I’m so glad that I’m now laying at peace with a smile on my face from the idea of you reading this, listening to this — completing this Shift.

I also know we’re off to OnePerfect start with this Starter Program.

Let’s set an intention to stay present throughout the rest of your day, or your night — whatever the case may be for you.

Again, feel that intention lodging in your body.

Can you feel it?

Nice.

Nice work today.

I’m going to shift back to sleep now.

Talk to you soon.

Sean

P.S. Great Shifting! The three steps of The Presence Shift are summarized below for easy access.

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Great Presence Shift today!

Let’s review the highlights so you’re crystal clear about what we’re doing in the Starter Program and why we started with The Presence Shift.

Your Starter Program intention is to learn to strategically shift your state of mind whenever you choose to.

Shifting into presence is the first step to shifting your mind strategically.

We shifted together out of my nightmare because the best way to build confidence in your ability to shift your mind on demand when you need to is to successfully practice shifting your mind when you’re experiencing emotional pain, or some other mental challenge or difficulty.

The 3 steps of The Presence Shift

Step 1 — Take deep breaths and set your intention to shift into peaceful state.

Step 2 — Relax your body and listen to life as you feel your body buzz.

Step 3 — Notice what you hear and feel shifting inside of you.

*Rinse and repeat until you’re feeling at peace in presence.

Congratulations! You’ve completed Starter Program Shift 1 of 4.

Begin Starter Program Shift 2 of 4 when you’re ready.

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Let’s take a long deep breath.

Come into the present moment fully.

It helps to invite your attention in, as you get started on a deep dive into the present moment.

Notice how your body feels.

Notice that subtle change you can often pick up when you come initially into the presence intentionally.

Feel that?

When you dedicate all your attention to looking and hearing, listening, feeling.

Relax your entire body.

Another deep breath as your body melts into wherever you're sitting, or lying, or walking.

Melt into life.

Life takes place within you.

Your inner life — where you process everything about your experience, and where you feel your experience — occurs within.

Your life occurs inside you.

I often talk about your inner life being the world inside your brain — inside your body.

And your outer life being what's occurring outside your brain your body.

It's helpful to remember that your inner life is your life.

When you come into presence in your body repeatedly, as we did at the beginning today — by noticing how your body changes, how it feels differently inside you when you come into presence intentionally, and then as you deepen into presence in silence — you start to recognize that presence obliterates fear.

It melts fear.

It subsumes fear.

Because it helps to make you recognize that your life is an inner journey.

The peace of your inner life comes from removing your idea that the outer life should be able to determine your level of peace.

Your inner life is yours.

So let's do a deep dive into silence and presence together.

Let's come into presence and just sit and feel your body.

Feel how your body experience changes over the course of a minute, when you focus all your attention on just listening to life.

Ready?

Listen.

Perfect.

How do you feel?

Do you have a deeper recognition that your inner life is your experience of life?

If you're feeling chaotic or fearful inside, it's being driven by the thoughts that are arising in your mind in this moment.

So notice the thoughts.

Allow them to fade away.

Commit to the priority of presence now.

Commit to presence for the rest of your day.

Have a great one.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hello there, how are you?

Hope you're having a good one so far.

Let’s spend a few minutes in presence together.

Come fully into the present moment intentionally.

Bring all your attention here — into this moment.

Looking around your space, as you listen to life.

All your attention focused on observing your environment.

Listening to life.

Can you feel that little bit of a shift that always comes into your body immediately when you drop fully into now — into the present moment?

When you bring your attention fully into the present moment, you shift into a different mind state.

Can you feel it?

Let’s set an intention to remain in silence now, to deepen your connection to silence over the next few minutes.

Feel your intention being set inside your body.

Nice.

Let’s think a little bit about what mind states are, and why it's important to recognize which mind state you're in, at any given moment.

One way to think about mind states is to think about the filter through which you're perceiving life.

What’s the filter through which you're thinking about whatever you're thinking about in this moment?

Is there anger in the filter?

If there is, then you have a mind state tinted with anger.

Is there tiredness?

Is there joy?

What are the filters through which you're processing life in this moment?

How is your filter particularly colored in this moment?

Answering that for yourself is a clean way to think about what a mind state is.

It's also an good way to recognize the current mind state that you're in.

Can you distinguish when you're in particular mind states — or identify subtle changes to your mind states?

By intentionally noticing the different mind states you experience, you'll also start noticing more subtle shades and colors that make up your mind states.

Then, you’ll notice shifts to your mind state as they occur automatically throughout your day more naturally.

You'll also get better at shifting intentionally whenever you identify that you're in — or tinted by — a particular state of mind.

Noticing a mind state filter, as opposed to continuing to live through that filter, can trigger you to set an intention to make a shift.

Let’s do that.

What's your mind state like right now?

How would you characterize it, if you wanted to give it a couple adjectives?

Mine feels a bit tired.

It's fairly late here, and I didn't sleep great last night.

When I get tired, I can get frustrated a bit more easily.

My tolerance for stress goes down.

So those qualities are coloring my mind state right now.

What’s coloring your mind state?

Now that we've identified some of the colors influencing our inner worlds, let's drop more deeply into presence and feel our unwanted mind states falling away.

To drop more deeply into the present moment, close your eyes — and put all your attention into noticing your body — the buzzing life of you.

Let go of all thoughts with me for a while.

Just feel the miracle — the buzzing life of you.

Knowing you don't need to do anything right now.

Your body's taking care of all of it.

Keeping you alive.

Rejuvenating.

Buzzing.

Taking in oxygen.

Feeding itself.

Allow that process to happen on its own, naturally.

Just be with your body.

Be with yourself, listening and feeling for a minute.

Feel that tingling amplifying in your hands and your arms now.

Feel it throughout the rest of your body too now.

Your body buzz will get even more noticeable as you drop deeply into presence.

Feel your body buzz growing.

If you get distracted, just bring your attention back to noticing your body buzz.

Let whatever mind state you noticed and identified earlier merge into presence.

Melt into life.

Perfect.

Do you feel any different?

Has your mind state shifted at all?

Do you feel more at peace?

Notice.

Keep feeling your body buzz as long as you want to.

Stay present for the rest of your day or night too.

I'm gonna sign off.

Have a great one.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hey there, how are you?

I hope you're doing all right.

I'm reaching out to say hello and spend some time in presence, largely because I was inspired by a conversation I had earlier.

It brought me back.

It was a gentleman who grew up near where I did, around Boston.

We were talking about how we might work together, but first we were just connecting — getting to know each other.

It was great.

He told me something that I thought was just brilliant — about how he perceived OnePerfect.

If he wants credit for this, he can he can tell me.

He was talking about how he was going to travel this summer.

He is going to France.

He's American and he’s excited about his trip.

Although he considers himself a very poor linguist in general, he decided that he wanted to learn French before going on this trip.

Before we continue, why don’t we take a minute to drop into presence together for a little bit.

Then, I'll share what my new friend shared with me.

I think his idea is so helpful to support the objective of learning to shift your state of mind effectively.

It’s a great way to frame that intention for yourself as you engage with the challenge of getting better at shifting your mind.

Before we get to that, let’s take a long, deep breath.

All of our attention right here.

Listening.

I feel jazzed up today because it's beautiful out.

So I'm going to keep my eyes open.

I'm just going to notice something I've never noticed before about the beauty of our environment.

What do you see in your outer world that you've never noticed before?

Noticing something new brings you into the present moment.

It’s the painters eye — as I think of it sometimes.

I have a friend who's a great painter.

If you watch a painter, they just look, and they look, and they study.

And then they see what they want to see, or what they need to see.

They see what that next step is for them to see in order to paint the perfect piece of art for this moment.

So let's just look at life for another 10 seconds.

If you want to become a painter, you're going to have to look for a lot longer than 10 seconds.

But 10 seconds is all it takes to come fully into the present moment.

Nice.

It can be easier to sit in silence for a bit when you know that you have something to look forward to afterwards.

Do you notice that sensation inside you as you listen?

That anticipation of what’s coming next.

It can pull you out of presence, but it can also keep yourself in presence — to know you have something coming next.

I'm looking forward to flushing out this idea with you.

The basic idea is that learning a language — a new language from scratch — requires you to learn words.

You learn words and then clusters of related words.

You learn words in a certain order.

Before you know it, you have a little bit of knowledge.

From that knowledge you can build in some grammar, and you can build in some sentences.

Before you know it again, you’re stringing sentences together.

Not to make it sound easier than it is, because it could take a while.

But suffice it to say, there is a process to that learning experience.

When you follow the right process, you're going to learn a lot faster because you're going to learn the words that you need to learn first, to learn the language.

And eventually, you're speaking French, or whatever it is.

This new friend was pointing out to me the analogy between learning a language and learning to shift your state of mind effectively — learning the skills necessary, the words and the language necessary, to know how to make shifts to your mind, to your life — to your wellness.

Once you have some of the basics down, you can go on to other things and learn more.

Or, you can just be completely satisfied with the core skill of be able to shift your state of mind into peace anytime.

I so appreciated the brilliance of that observation — the parallel between learning a language and learning to shift your state of mind — learning for wellness, learning for mental health, learning how to connect to life in the way that you want to, so that you feel at peace consistently, even in moments when you’re not shifting.

It's all about living in the present moment.

And living in the present moment is all about remembering to reconnect to the present moment whenever you get disconnected.

That's what Shifts are all about.

That's why I record these Shifts all the time.

That’s why I complete Shifts every day.

And it’s why I believe in sharing Shifts.

When you get something that works for you, share it.

But I also recognize that the same thing doesn't work every day.

Because you’re different every day.

You're in a different place each day.

You've changed — maybe learned something new and you want to build on that.

So ideally, you want to be connected with from a place that enables you to take the right next step on your path.

And that's not the same place as it was for any of us today as it was yesterday.

That's another thing that I love about Shifts in the OnePerfect app — they meet you where you are.

I want to encourage you to try the OnePerfect app to learn faster.

Within the app you can truly personalize your experience.

You can actually record your own voice, your own Shifts, or parts of a Shift.

And you can blend your recordings into your Shift experiences.

You can learn how to do that in a way that makes you a faster learner by getting targeted in terms of what you want to focus on during your Shifts.

There are great ways to focus on all of that in the app.

So just a little pitch for the app there because I'm seeing how much people love the Shifts on the email program from OnePerfect Shift.

The Shift Starter Program is coming soon too — it’s beloved in testing now.

But to me, the app is a very well conceived approach to learning how to shift your state of mind at any moment, because it meets you where you are right now.

So take advantage of it.

I’ll drop app links below.

Check it out.

Thank you to my new friend for sharing that analogy that I passed on today.

Before we tie up, let’s spend a little more time in silence and in presence together.

Another long deep breath.

What do you want to do this time?

Do you want to close your eyes and be at peace?

Let's feel our body buzz for a while.

Close your eyes.

Take all your attention and place it into any body part you choose.

Feet and hands are great choices.

Let's do that this time.

Feel both of your feet and both your hands at the same time.

Notice that tingling buzzing life.

The miracle of you that's buzzing — that’s intersecting with life.

Feel that?

Once you feel that sensation in your hands and feet, spread the sensation from the outside in, to fill your whole body buzzing with life.

Ready?

Feel.

Feel it in your head too.

Don't forget the buzzing of your head.

Let's feel together for a while longer.

Do you feel that body buzz?

It’s the miracle of 30 trillion cells buzzing as one, totally outside your control.

You are miraculous.

Perfect.

Keep going if you want.

I'm going to sign off by suggesting we set the intention to be in presence as much as we can for the rest of the day.

Have a great one.

Sean

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Hello there, hello from the ocean.

Let’s listen and take a long deep breath.

Come fully into presence.

Allowing your shoulders and your neck to relax.

Settle into your space.

Allow your arms to fall toward the ground.

Bring all your attention into this moment — the present moment.

Let’s intend to be ALL here for the next few minutes.

100% of our attention, right here.

Nice.

Here's a psychology tip related to ego.

Ego develops as a conditioning happens to each of us as we grow up.

We begin to increasingly associate our thoughts with our self.

Initially, your thoughts largely derived from the context that you grew up in — your culture, cultural conditions, and the thoughts and beliefs that those conditions provoked inside you.

So your history plays a huge role in creating your ego.

Soon enough, your ego becomes what you consider to be you yourself — what you consider to be you.

Over time, people increasingly tend to come to believe their thoughts are truth, objective truth, some objective reality and some piece of themselves — as opposed to just being our best tool for navigating life.

By the way, your ego doesn't need to be understood as a negative thing.

It can be perfectly positive.

It's just that to really understand it, it's helpful to know that it's built upon stories you were told, and then stories you tell.

And those stories are artifact of your history.

Let's take another long deep breath.

Settle further into the space you're sitting in, or lying in, or walking in.

Come back intentionally and fully into presence.

And let that psychology tip sink in a little bit.

What does it mean for you that your ego is conditioned by your past?

Each time you have a thought that you become aware of, and you recognize that thought was created unconsciously based on your history, based on your old conditioning, knowing that and seeing that helps you see behind the thoughts.

It helps you put your thoughts into perspective.

So let's do that now by connecting to the unchanging space, the silence, the stillness, out of which your thoughts arise into the landscape of your inner world.

Your thoughts often arise into your mind unconsciously.

You can see that as you observe them consciously.

Listening in silence gets you in touch with your thoughts from the perspective of the unchanging space of silence.

So you can observe and see the truth out of which, and into which, your ego arises.

This is a place that's far more sustaining and real than the ego stories.

This is the silence of your inner world out of which, and into which, every experience you have flows.

So with your eyes closed now if you like, just look a few feet out in front of you.

Look into that silent darkness in your inner world with soft closed eyes.

And notice the specks of light that you'll usually see against the darkness.

Notice the lights within stillness.

Stillness, the place where you can come to rest and rejuvenate and reconnect with your true self.

Settle into the vastness on the shores of stillness for a little while.

Just looking at the lights within stillness.

Being and looking.

Choose one light now, if you can — and follow it for a little while.

You may lose it.

If you do, just pick another light and keep following it as long as you can.

Good.

Now turn your attention to feeling stillness in your body

Keep stillness close.

Good.

Now that we’ve quieted down, let’s observe any thoughts that arise.

As a thought arises into the stillness of your inner world, just notice it.

Then, let it go.

Can you notice how your unconscious thoughts arise automatically, even without any intention from you?

Just notice each one, and then let it go.

Let’s sit still in silence — in stillness together for a while, listening.

You have the ability to observe what arises in your mind, and to let it go whenever you choose to.

You can be objective about the reality that your history of thoughts that rise in a re-arise in your mind come from long ago in your life oftentimes.

They may or may not be valid for you now.

It's only when you can see them, look at them, and observe them objectively that you can make that decision.

Let’s sit in silence listening to thoughts for a little longer.

Just watch and listen.

Good.

Life flows through you always, each moment.

Your option is to free yourself — free your concerns — by being one with life.

Or, resist life by wanting something else in this moment.

When you let go of resistance and just listen, you let go of stress.

Life immediately looks and feels so different.

And when you open your eyes again you can see and feel life teeming all around you.

So let’s open our eyes now, and feel life flowing through you.

Let’s invite life to flow through us for the rest of the day too.

Set the intention to be fully present to life for the rest of your day.

Can you feel that intention being set inside you?

Got it?

All right.

Have a great one.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hello, friend.

Let's take a long deep breath.

Come fully into the present moment.

It helps to invite your attention in as you get started on a deep dive into the present moment.

Set a little time aside.

Notice how your body feels.

Notice that subtle change you can often pick up when you come initially into presence intentionally.

Feel that shift that happens when you dedicate all your attention to looking and hearing, and listening, and feeling.

Relax your entire body.

Take another deep breath as your body melts into wherever you're sitting, or lying, or walking.

Melt into life.

Nice.

Your inner life — where you process everything about your experience, and where you feel your experience — occurs within.

Your experience of life is being driven by the thoughts that are arising in your mind in this moment.

So notice your thoughts as often as you can.

And then allow them to fade away when you want to connect to peace.

Your life occurs inside you.

Your inner life being the world inside your brain and inside your body.

And your outer life is what's occurring outside your brain and your body.

It's helpful to remember that your inner life drives your life experience.

What's happening in your inner world is determining how you’re experiencing your life.

When you come into explicit awareness of that reality, it can be helpful for shedding stresses — like FOMO, fear of missing out.

When you attend to your inner world as primary, you can get a real handle on what's actually driving you to have fears of missing out, or stresses, or fears about anything else.

When you come into presence as we did at the beginning today, you can notice how it feels different inside when you come into presence intentionally.

You can see how easy it is to shift your inner life.

And then you continue to shift and deepen into presence, into silence.

You’ll see that your fears of missing out, and anything else, diminish.

And as you settle into it you recognize that silence, presence, obliterates fear.

Presence melts fear.

It subsumes fear.

The peace of your inner life can remove the idea that the outer life should be able to determine your level of peace at all.

Your life is yours when your inner life is yours.

So let's do a deep dive into our inner lives together and release stress.

Come into presence by sitting still and feeling your body with all your attention.

Notice how your experience changes over the course of a full minute when you focus all your attention on just listening to life and feeling your body.

Ready?

Listen.

Allow stress to fade away.

Allow any fears of missing out to fade away.

Be at peace.

Perfect.

How do you feel?

Has your stress shifted?

Let’s set an intention to be present for now, and for the rest of your day.

Feel it.

Nice.

Have a great one.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hello, friend.

Take a long deep breath.

Come into the present moment.

Listen to life with all your attention.

100% of your attention.

It's beautiful today.

What a cool thing to do during the course of your day — turn your mind toward taking a deeper look at whether you're in the space you want to be in right now.

:)

Let's take another deep breath.

Intend to be 100% here right now.

Spend just a moment with all our attention in silence.

Listening.

Completely listening.

Nice.

I've been thinking about the definition of emotional progress.

It's an interesting one.

You can answer it from a lot of different perspectives, right?

What do you think of the idea of your emotional progress relating to your repetition of particular stories in your head?

In other words, when you have less repetition of a story in order to move back into peace than you used to have, that's emotional progress — because you're not being repetitively distracted by an old conditioned story as much.

You're more free, to be present.

To live in the present moment.

That idea holds nicely for whether you're really engaged deeply in something — maybe you're on a project at work that you're interested in so you've decided, ‘This is how I want to spend my time for now.’ — and so you're able to be completely in it, when you're in it.

Or, on the other hand, it also applies when you're at leisure completely and you are able to just enjoy being quiet, being still.

Having a loving mind.

Alternatively, you’re repeating old stories — churning them in your mind.

As you reduce that repeating activity, you reduce the resistance in your life — the resistance inside your inner world.

That psychological resistance that adds a touch of stress to everything you're doing.

Or perhaps, you’re adding more than a touch of stress, depending on the circumstance.

If you can remove some of that experience from your days, you're making emotional progress, I would say.

Removing inner noise ushers in inner peace.

Inner silence can connect you to a sense of purpose that flows out of the silence when you listen to it deeply, without distraction…

Let’s get deep into silence and listen, for 30 seconds.

Feel that?

Nice.

When you really are undisturbed by cycles of thought — concerns or thoughts about the past, or thoughts or fears about the future — you can let it all go, as much as possible for a while.

When you're quiet enough you become present.

And you can feel for that next step in your life.

You can feel life flowing through you.

And if you don't resist it — if you listen — you hear it, and you feel it.

Then you can walk it.

You can walk the pace of your miracle, as I like to call it.

So the removal, or reduction, of cycling thoughts and concerns — at least the ones that are interfering with your connection to presence, and purpose — that is emotional progress.

What do you think of that?

Let's come into presence for 30 more seconds together.

And see how that feels before we say goodbye for now.

All right, 100% of your attention again right here.

Just listening with me.

Eyes open or closed.

What's flowing through you?

Nice.

That's perfect.

Stay present.

Have a great day.

Sean

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Let's take a long deep breath.

And another.

Nice.

Come fully into this moment.

All of our attention right here.

Listening, looking, seeing, being, feeling.

Noticing all the details.

Perfect.

Let's set that intention to shift into a state of mind that you want to be in for the day.

Did you set the intention?

Can you feel that intention to shift bubbling up inside you?

It’s part of the Shift — it’s how you get started.

One reason that I often reflect on about why it's so useful to start my day with shifting into a better state of mind when I wake up — I shift fully into presence, usually by talking through a Shift like this — is that:

The state of mind that you are in at any moment precedes the nature of the inner experience that you'll have in any moment.

A big part of your inner experience is the thoughts that your mind and body produce.

So the key to remember is that the thoughts that you will produce occur within a state of mind and body that enables those particular thoughts.

So when you bring yourself into a state of mind and a state of body that feels light, that feels present, that feels alive, that feels engaged, that feels right here and right now, fully present — as opposed to ruminating about the past, or fearfully projecting the future, the thoughts that flow through you will take you into that next step of your day with the least amount of resistance.

Certain states of mind and body allow you to feel like you want to connect with the people you love — like you want to connect with life.

Depending on your state, how you connect and love is going to be completely changed — completely different.

Intentionally shifting into the state of mind you want to be in —which begins with shifting into presence — is so incredibly powerful.

That fact is something we often overlook.

Often, when we’re having a negative sequence of thoughts we will try to think our way out of that situation — think our way out of that sequence of thoughts — rather than first shifting our mind and body intentionally into a better state of mind, before we review what thoughts are emerging and how we want to shift them.

When you shift into a better emotional state first, you have a much better opportunity to address whatever it is that you might have been struggling with — whatever those thoughts are that you want to shift when your state was lower, and heavier, and less present.

So let’s take another deep breath and come fully into this moment.

Come fully into presence.

Let’s sit together in silence for a little while.

Observing and appreciating life.

Listen to life going by for a while.

Feel it.

Feel that shift?

Now ask yourself, what are you grateful for in your life?

So often for me, it’s as simple as the sun shining through the window.

The sun is such a cue to connecting to the miraculousness of the life that we each get to engage with — that we each get to live, every moment, every day.

You notice it if you’re present.

Does connecting with that make you feel grateful and connected too?

What else is it for you?

What's the smallest thing that triggers you to shift into a state of presence?

What's that tiniest cue that you can take away from today knowing that you can always turn to it as a trigger into presence?

What presence cue can you take with you today?

Got it?

Perfect.

Have your unwanted thoughts shifted at all?

I hope so.

I wish you a present rest of your day.

Talk to you soon.

Have a good one.

Sean

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Hello there.

Let's take a long deep breath.

And shift out of bad news.

I really like this idea.

It's so relevant for all of us at so many different moments of our lives.

Let's dig into it.

Beginning with listening for a little while.

Intending all of our attention into the present moment by looking, and feeling, and breathing deeply.

Relaxing.

I'm gonna step outside.

Let's just listen to life.

Let's listen to waves together for a few seconds, before we dig into a deep shift out of bad news.

Hear the waves?

Listen.

Perfect.

Now let's get to it.

If you're feeling like you just got some bad news you probably want to shift fully out of it right away — rather than just making a quick mini-shift.

But with shifting out of bad news, it can help to first think through how you're receiving this bad news and how you might prefer to receive it.

Before we continue though…

I want to acknowledge that the range of bad news is endless, so it is tricky to offer a single Shift for all ‘bad news.’

As you listen or read, please know that my heart is with you.

I never mean any disrespect or to minimize the intense pain, or the senselessness of some experiences.

And if you need to get more support to get through it, please reach out for support.

Please do that.

People care.

I'll leave some helpful resources at the end of this Shift so we all have easy access to it, whenever we might need it.

Okay?

Let's get back to shifting out of bad news — as much as we can for now.

Hearing about bad news always reminds me of an old parable.

You might have heard about the farmer whose son fell off a horse and broke his leg.

The neighbors came over and said to the old man, “We're so sorry. Nobody can help you take care of the farm now. It's such bad news.”

And the old man responded by saying, “Maybe, maybe not. We'll see. Who knows.”

The next day, the son couldn't be conscripted to the war that had just broken out.

And again, the neighbors came to the father and said, “Wow, that was lucky. Breaking his leg wasn't bad news for you after all. It turned out to be good news.”

And again, the father said, “Maybe. We'll see. Who knows.”

The idea that's deeply embedded in the wisdom of the old man is that we don't ever know what tomorrow will bring.

We don't even know what the next moment will bring.

And we certainly don't have enough control over the events in our lives to always predict what is good news and what will turn out to be bad news.

In fact, if we want to use our powers of reason and deduction, and our strategies for controlling our experience — and if we look back into the history of our own lives, and certainly in the history of difficulties that have surrounded us over time — we’ll find that often times the most difficult periods, those periods that got categorized automatically as ‘bad news’ initially, were the catalysts for the greatest changes in our lives.

Unfortunately, that doesn't mean that your bad news isn't gonna sting — or hurt you deeply, possibly.

You have a certain momentum and a trajectory planned for your life.

You have expectations and attachments, (i.e., you love people, and animals, and many other things perhaps).

The story of your life is laid out in your mind and body in a certain way.

So when you hit an obstacle you feel it as ‘bad news.’

But the more quickly you can see that you don't really know the deep meaning of the event that you're framing as bad news, the better.

Time will flush that out.

Meanwhile, the way that you can support it being flushed out most quickly is to shift.

Shift your mind into a recognition that while this seems and feels right now like it's bad news, no matter how tragic it seems, and feels, it still has the potential to be a seed, a spark — of new life, new story, a new trajectory.

Maybe it has the potential to spark you to drop some old story completely for a while and listen to life.

So let’s listen for the lessons of this experience — this bad news.

Listen so deeply in presence that you can hear that next step along your path.

That next step can sometimes be a step back, a step into quiet, a step into silence — a step into listening and watching life for a while, to see what emerges next.

So let's do that together.

Come into full silence.

Let the bad news go for now, as much as you possibly can — whatever it is.

Know that tomorrow's another day.

And the sting of this bad news will transform with time.

If you're able to embrace the idea that you don't know definitively what bad news is, or what good news is, you may be able to cope with the sting by coming into presence for a while.

Drop into silence and feel towards stillness and peace.

You will emerge with a new perspective.

A shifted state of mind and body.

Try that with me now for a minute or two.

Just let it go.

And listen to life.

Relax into your space even deeper now.

Allow your whole body to fall towards the ground.

A deep breath in.

Feel the seat against yourself.

Connect to the world.

Feel gravity holding you on this earth.

Always there.

You're a part of life — no matter what happens.

You're an aspect of the miracle.

Let go of any pain that may be emerging.

Let go of the bad news for now.

Accept life as it is right now.

Resist nothing.

Perfect.

The feelings associated with what you characterize as bad news may return.

They likely will.

That may be inevitable.

Even though I wish you peace always, sometimes the best we can offer each other during difficult times is a different perspective.

While also recognizing that you're allowed to have feelings that are negative as you move through the pain — it’s human.

The idea of a Shift though, is to shift yourself to the broader perspective — the perspective that's always true, even when the smaller perspective of good news and bad news shakes you up.

That broader perspective is the awareness that you are connected to life.

You are life.

You are on a completely unique journey that can only flow through your unique body and into your unique life.

And these moments — these hiccups, these obstacles, these losses, these pains that feel like bad news — they are each part of that journey.

And that journey is your gift — your opportunity to live the unfathomable miracle of uniqueness that is you.

If it helps, keep coming back and completing Shifts every day.

It's a hard time right now.

Come shift when you need to release pain, anytime.

You are always welcome here.

Let’s take another 20 seconds in silence together before I say goodbye for now.

Just listening.

Let go of everything.

Nice.

Feel better.

Feel presence.

Have a great day if you can.

Talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hello there, how are you?

Hope today is going all right for you so far.

Shall we settle into presence together?

Let’s take long deep breath.

And notice the sunlight shining through and onto you — and onto the space that you're in right now.

Notice how the light falls around you — even if the light is not sunlight.

And then, notice the shading.

Relax into this moment.

All your attention right here.

Notice those details that you don't usually notice — how the fabric flows and falls against whatever it's being worn by.

100% of your focus right here.

There's a concept that I think is so useful for connecting yourself to presence, dropping into the present moment, dropping into peace, dropping into a recognition of the enormity of what each of us is —> of who you are.

And that is, a remembering that our minds automatically produce models of the world.

In fact, when you are looking at your environment what you are seeing is a synthesis and reproduction of the data that comes into your mind and body through your looking.

That data gets translated through models that your mind has created to represent the world to you in a way that makes sense.

And those mental models that you are automatically creating are applied to all sorts of different things inside you.

When you observe that one of the things your models apply to is your model of yourself — of what your boundaries are, of who you are — then you can recognize that model as a story.

It's a narrative that is defining you in a particular way within this world.

When you recognize that, you can take a long deep breath and drop into this moment.

And very intentionally let go of that mental model.

Sometimes it helps to close your eyes and say, ‘Thank you model for getting me through the day. But right now, I'm dropping into peace, and presence, and quiet, and stillness.’

And rather than the model that is built of the idea that we are separate from life, and that we need to maintain a container of separation in order to move through life — in order to communicate with life — when we're in presence, feeling silence, we can let go of the model.

Breathe life in.

Know yourself as one — as life without models.

Just being.

Feel that.

Let's feel together for a little while.

Just be.

Be at one with me.

How's it going?

Anytime a thought comes into your mind — or an interruption (like this one) — recognize that as an experience of your mental model returning within you.

So let’s let it go again.

Another deep breath.

And recognize yourself as one with life.

Recognize yourself as life.

Blend into the miracle.

Let's blend into the miracle together for another 30 seconds.

Feel peace.

That's perfect.

Have a great rest of your day.

Remember that your models are defining your experience.

And when you can notice your models — the rules that you have for yourself — you can make shifts to them and open more to your potential, to broaden your experience of your life.

Whenever you want to, you can shift into presence.

You can shift into peace by dropping your models for a while and being fed by the oneness that we share.

Alright, I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Take a long deep breath.

Feel presence.

Be presence.

Feel your body relax.

One of the things I love about Shifts is that they bring us into a deeper intimacy with ourselves.

That leads to a deeper intimacy with each other.

When we can be honest, and personal, and of quiet mind and body with ourselves, we can observe more closely what's going on — and then we can do that same thing with the people in our lives.

We can share presence.

There seems to be a need for that, and a movement toward that — and often times over the last many years, a dearth of that.

For me, that's what the activity of shifting has brought into my life.

It speaks to a level of quietness that enables us to hear our personal internal discussion of development through our lives — the progression of our lives.

After all, the conversation you're having with yourself is determining the next step on your journey.

Each next word is influencing the following.

Each word is a step into your future.

The way to have the most awareness and impact on that future is from the present.

The present moment is the only one that exists.

When you pay full attention to it, you have the most opportunity to follow it in a way that aligns with what you want, what you feel — what your purpose is.

Rarely do we go deeply inside, and feel in a very honest way, and leave that experience feeling like we are less on track in our lives.

Rarely does that happen when you sink into a Shift.

What happens is that you come into alignment with your truth.

You come into alignment with the truth of what's unique about you.

And the truth of what this moment is here to teach you.

You feel and see what your next step is.

So let's do that.

Let's come fully into the present moment together.

Set the intention to be here for the next few minutes.

Listening for the next step on your journey.

Listening for that inner dialogue.

Allowing it to quiet.

And just being with it.

Drop into a state of body, and mind, and presence that you feel most authentic in.

And see what arises from that.

Ready?

Feel your authenticity.

Feel your being.

Feel nothing but the truth inside you.

Listen.

Close your eyes if you want.

Relax your neck and your shoulders.

Your head can fall back.

Just settle into a deep chill as you listen to yourself.

If you ever notice that you feel rushed, or like you need to get to the next thing — that often happens, so be aware that it’s normal — and just recognize that reaction is an aspect of your inner dialogue proceeding, pulling you forward.

That is your inner conversation defining your life.

Notice the feeling that is pulling you out of the present moment.

Then allow it to fade away.

And come back fully into listening and being.

Let's sit together for a whole minute now.

Just feeling — and returning back to that intention to listen to whatever arises inside you if you get distracted.

Ready?

Listen.

Perfect.

Wow, it's amazing what a minute can do.

It's amazing what setting the intention to make a shift over the course of a few minutes — and really intending yourself into it — can do.

Notice how different your body feels.

Notice how much more presence you're going to bring into the rest of your day.

I wish you a great rest of your day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hello there, how are you?

Let's take a long deep breath.

Come fully into this moment.

I’m going to step outside and listen for a moment.

Listen to the waves.

All our attention right here.

Shifting your state of mind entails first shifting into presence — a shift of your mind fully into the present moment.

So we begin our shifts by bringing 100% of our attention into wherever we are and whatever we're doing in this moment.

Sometimes that might mean closing your eyes and listening to the thoughts arising in your mind.

Other times it might mean opening your eyes and paying close attention to something you're looking at — as though you want to draw it.

We want to notice all the details we can experience to bring ourselves into as much presence as possible.

Doing that by completing shifts like we're doing right now for example, or by completing exercises when you're in therapy or coaching perhaps, are examples of life happening as you practice.

When you understand that your practice in this moment is your life, (i.e., that there is no difference between the moment that we say goodbye at the end of a Shift and the rest of your day spent in presence), you become more effective at remaining present for more of your day.

Connecting more to that insight helps you stay present for as much of your day as possible.

So let’s understand our moments of practice as moments of our lives.

That way, when your child looks up at you it’s another moment of practice, and it’s also a beautiful moment of miraculous life that you receive and respond to as such.

As you experience your life that way, you are bringing more presence into your life.

As you do that more and more, practice fades away and a life of increasing presence emerges more within you.

Once that happens, anytime you notice that you’re not present it will feel like an aberration for you.

So you'll notice when you don’t feel present.

And you'll think to yourself, “I don't feel very present. What's going on here?”

In those moments, maybe you'll come back to do a Shift to practice again for a little bit.

And when you come back to practice, you’ll remember again that practice is life.

Each moment is life.

Whether you call it practice, or you are working, or living your personal life, or making art, or relaxing, or sharing, or supporting someone — giving your love — it's all one piece.

It's all of a piece.

It's all beautiful, miraculous life.

Let’s take a long, deep breath.

And drop into this moment of life.

I'm seeing beautiful cloud formations over the candles from the hut today.

What do you see?

Bring all your attention into right now.

And let's just listen, and look, and feel.

Feel our bodies buzzing with life.

Buzzing as life.

Buzzing as presence.

Let’s take a minute in presence together before we get back to our days.

If your attention ever gets distracted from your intention to stay present — to have all your attention here and now, listening, seeing, feeling, being — just invite your attention back into silence.

And notice how your body feels as you return to inner silence.

Perfect.

Nice deep dive.

Let's take away from today the idea that a deep dive into presence that we take when we complete a Shift together is the same presence as the dive you can take back into your life at the end of a Shift.

So let’s dive back into whatever we are doing next today.

Dive into presence again.

Have a great one.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Here's one of my favorite meditations.

Let's begin by taking a deep breath in.

And out.

Come into the present moment — even more fully than you are now.

Invite all your attention in.

Feel your attention coming into your body.

Feeling yourself aligned with the space you're sitting.

Notice your body pressing against whatever you're pressing against — a seat, the ground, a bed.

Notice.

Release all the stories in your mind for a little while.

Just focus here, listening.

Being.

Feeling.

And know that by meditating, you're strengthening your ability to do this in real time throughout your day — throughout your life.

And that allows you to focus your attention wherever you want to focus it throughout your days.

So again, bringing your attention back to feeling your body now.

Can you notice the tingling in your body?

Notice either your whole body or part of your body.

You can squeeze your thumb, and then release it, and notice all the blood rushing in.

You can pick up that sensation as a way of noticing a feeling in your body, if that helps.

It's a good way to engage with your tingling body — the life energy flowing through your body.

Then you can notice your whole hand from there.

So put your attention into your hand.

Just notice it for a while.

Can you capture the feeling of your whole arm now buzzing with aliveness?

Feel it tingling.

Good.

Feel that presence and stay with it.

If you want to, bring your attention out to your entire body at once.

Notice your entire body tingling now.

Relax into your body.

Noticing it.

Just being here with me.

Take a deep breath.

Let's sit in silence for a while.

Perfect.

Have a great day.

Sean

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Hey there, how are ya?

I almost made it through the whole day without really taking a deep dive into presence.

I was working on a Shift during my deep dive this morning.

Sometimes when I tinker, I'm not taking my own deep dive as much as usually benefits me.

So if you missed yours for the day so far too, join me in a deep dive now.

Let’s take all of our attention and come into the present moment.

I'm going to start by listening to life.

I'm out for a walk.

Coming up on sunset here.

I hear some birds in the background.

What do you hear?

I hear the ocean rolling.

And now let's take all our attention and notice the trillions of cells that buzz us into existence.

Let’s just focus on our buzzing life.

Allow ourselves to be rejuvenated by projecting nothing onto ourselves — just straight aliveness, straight being.

Feel and be.

Notice that mind coming into silence.

Everything quiets down as you listen and feel.

Let any thoughts that you notice to fade into silence.

Just a silent mind, a silent body.

Feel that buzz of presence.

You'll notice as you take a bit of consistent time just coming into full presence, listening to life, being life, that you will recharge more and more quickly as you do it.

You'll drop more deeply into your deep dives into presence more rapidly.

And you'll get filled up by that pure clean energy of being connected to your buzzing life.

So let's spend another 30 seconds or so, sinking totally into the deep dive of the presence of your body and your life now.

Just feel and be.

You feeling at peace?

Are you feeling rejuvenated?

Or, did you get distracted?

Let's take another 15 seconds, just being in peace.

Let everything go.

Beautiful.

All right, nice recharge.

Have a great day or evening, whatever it is for you.

And set that intention to stay present.

And I will talk to you soon.

Sean

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Let’s take a long deep breath.

Try to stay present.

All your attention right here.

Not getting distracted.

If you do get distracted anytime, just bring your attention back to listening to life.

Listen to life for a little while.

What’s the next step in my life?

It’s such a persistent question with we humans, isn't it?

We're always asking, What's next? What's next?

One thing that helps with knowing your ‘What's next?’ answer is to recognize that anyone that you've ever talked to, or met, or learned about, who did what they were meant to do for their life — who lived their purpose and fulfilled their destiny — if they would tell you that, they would also tell you that they felt for it to find it.

Then they followed what they felt.

They knew who they were because they felt it.

So much of our world is driven by thinking, and the mind, and figuring things out.

Running facts, running logic has gotten us so much comfort and safety for so many people — we have a long way to go, but we've made a lot of progress because of that.

That said, to the degree that progress is at the expense of our shared understanding that the feeling life — feeling for what's right for you, for what's next for you — is the genius of what the human body is.

Feeling is what human life is.

Let's not forget our connection to that.

That is our connection to life.

It’s our connection to our environment.

Our recognition of our connection to each other.

Life is fundamentally about being connected to your world.

It’s about your presence.

It’s about the recognition that taking a long deep breath is pulling in oxygen that is part of you.

It’s intersecting with you.

It's turning into you.

It's feeding you.

And then, you are sharing something out back into the environment.

You are literally not separate.

Connecting with that and making a practice of it might be necessary in order to counter our logical thinking impulse.

So let's take a deep breath.

Intend to just feel together for the next minute, two minutes — however long we go.

I'm going to walk outside again.

You feel life wherever you are.

Ready?

Just feel life.

Be.

So nice.

Just listening.

I’m going to reaffirm my commitment to taking a deep dive into presence daily.

To make sure that I'm feeding that sense that I need to be able to feel deeply into my world in order to hear and follow my purpose — my unique journey.

It's a primary commitment to me.

Let's just do another 30 seconds together.

And set that intention, if you want to.

Just come into presence with me.

Listening to and feeling life.

That's perfect.

Now stay in the present moment as I say goodbye.

Listen as long as you want.

And have an incredible day or night — whatever it is for you.

Sean

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Let's take long deep breath.

Your life is your muse.

That's the sentence that's been riding on my shoulder all day.

Your life is your muse.

How is that true for you?

It's true for all of us.

Life gives you exactly what you need to take the next step along your journey.

Your life is your muse.

What is your muse inspiring in you today?

I really love that idea.

I think I love it because anytime things don't feel like they're going right inside you — when you're interpreting whatever's happening in your life in a way that makes you say, ‘This doesn't feel right. I don't like this.’ — if you’re able to remember, ‘your life is your muse’ in that moment, then you're able to shift into seeing your life for what it is: The miracle that provides you with the next step on your path.

Never said it was going to be easy, right?

But it is your next step.

And it is showing you exactly what step you need to take to make your journey.

Each time you remember that ‘your life is your muse’ it requires you to re-see the world as the miracle that it is — and to see yourself as a miracle connected to the whole.

So it soothes you to know that your life is your muse because it reminds you of what you're a part of.

Let's take a deep breath together.

And drop into the present moment of our lives — our muses.

Listen to what your muse is saying to you now.

Just listen for a while.

Hear those sounds you otherwise wouldn't listen to — the sounds you wouldn't consciously process.

Hear the beauty of life all around you.

And feel it.

Notice how it changes you.

Your muse changes you every time you engage by listening.

Let's just listen for 10 or 20 seconds to what the muse has to share for now.

Did you hear anything?

Did your muse share anything with you?

Or, are you just at peace and presence with the muse of life today?

Nice.

Nice little deep dive.

I'm going to set the intention to stay present for the rest of the day.

I invite you to do that too.

And have a good one.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Hey there. How are you?

Can you hear the beach waves crashing?

Come on inside the hut.

And let's start with a small shift.

Let's set an intention to shift into a more ideal state of mind over the next few minutes.

You set the intention?

Okay, good.

And take a long deep breath.

And another.

Take your time.

Okay.

Here's a Shift out of feeling held back.

To feel at peace and in harmony, as though you're following the path you're meant to follow for your life, there is only one way through.

And that is, coming to respect and love yourself so that your self-judgments don't get in the way of your relationship to life — your ability to love life, to love the world that's just waiting to love you back.

We've all done things that give us pause.

Things that truly require forgiveness of ourselves by ourselves.

And as a result, the job of forgiving yourself is a primary task of living.

We are here to come to love ourselves fully though.

And commit to doing our best moving — whatever that is.

If that means forgiving yourself now, forgive yourself.

It's a gift only you can give.

For a lot of people, self-judgment sits on top of everything so persistently that it's hard to even see.

It becomes transparent to you.

So a good question to ask yourself to tease out where the judgment challenge is for you — to test whether you have a challenge with loving yourself at all even — is to ask, “What am I judging myself negatively for right now?”

What are you judging yourself negatively for?

Just sit with that question for a while.

And if it's a difficult question to answer, pause and sit a little longer.

We aren't going to change it all today.

So let's just try to identify one area for now.

Take another long deep breath.

We're gonna release any self-judgment for today, and get on with loving life.

That’s our intention.

When you get to the three dots below, I want you to look out into your environment and come intentionally into this moment — by focusing your attention wherever you are right now.

Become 100% focused in your environment for 10 seconds, while breathing deeply.

Observe your breath coming into your body, and out again.

And just observe your environment.

Ready?

Go.

Good.

Now see if you can notice your mind quieting down, releasing all self-judgment — and all judgment of others.

Just being here.

Present with each word you hear, or each word you might be reading.

Feel your love for life.

Feel it.

Feel it.

Give that love the next 10 seconds of your life.

Ready?

Go.

Feel your love of life for 10 seconds.

Perfect.

Now feel that love for yourself.

Feel your intention to shift into a self-loving state of mind.

Experience life as one perfect moment during which you feel fully forgiving of yourself and loving of yourself.

And do it for the next 10 seconds.

Just feel it.

Go.

Great job.

That’s how you release yourself from feeling held back.

Are you feeling more open and less judgmental about yourself and others?

I hope you do.

Seize your day, my friend.

Sean

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“When you find yourself in but the Love you give, you have found yourself.”

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When you have a few minutes, check out the new Shift website designed to make finding the Shift you want easier and more enjoyable.

In today’s Shift that follows, we’ll set an intention to come into presence each morning for three days in a row — to support a key weekend habit.

Ready?

Let’s take a long deep breath.

And out.

We do a live Weekend Recharge event every so often, beginning with this…

“Monday morning will be the third morning in a row that I begin my day fully connected to the present moment.”

You’ll set that intention during your Shift today.

“Monday morning will be the third morning in a row that I begin my day fully connected to the present moment.”

We commit to that intention during a brief Zoom talk I give on a Friday evening.

Then, for Saturday, Sunday and Monday morning everyone has this specific intention AND put a plan in place to come into presence at the beginning of each day.

We provide plenty of options for shifting into your present state of mind, of course.

You plan it ahead and practice for three mornings in a row.

By Monday morning you're feeling ready for your week.

And you've also created the beginning of a habit.

If you want to ever change something in your life, setting an intention for three days in a row — something very achievable, but also incredibly meaningful — is powerful.

Let's come into presence together now.

Take another long deep breath.

All your attention focused right here with me.

And let's just listen together — and notice how your body feels as you listen to the world.

Do you feel your body relax into the world, relax as one with the world, as you just listen to life going by?

Listen to yourself as part of life going by.

Good.

I cordially invite you to join us for a Weekend Recharge event sometime.

We’ll make the announcement when we're going to do a Weekend Recharge event in various ways.

Until then, set the intention yourself for coming into this weekend to make sure you make the most of the weekend — to optimally recharge for your week.

Often times that means taking a break from your primary life work for a little while so that you recharge.

Or, you can focus on a different aspect of your life work.

Your life’s work is best accomplished in presence, right?

So maybe shift your focus to a more creative aspect, or more exercise — however your life fits together best.

Commit to coming into presence at the beginning of the day for three days in a row to see how that feels for you.

Do that now, whatever day it is for you…

And now let’s use the next couple minutes to be very intentional about fully recognizing ourselves as aspects of life.

There are many ways that you can recognize the miracle that you are — and that you are also aspect of.

You are hurlting through space and time at millions of miles per hour and you don't even perceive it, (1.3 million mph or 2.8 million mph, depending who you ask).

Your body is trillions of cells that function completely outside your control to enable you to be an experiencing entity in this miracle.

And you can choose how you perceive what you perceive to produce your experience of life.

For me, those ways of thinking about the miracle of life work well.

Take a minute to connect with your version of how you fit into the miracle of life — and notice how you’re an aspect of the miracle of life for the next minute.

Just listen and connect to your deepest truth to come into the present moment.

Then carry that intention of staying present through the day.

I'll remind you of that part again at the end.

Okay, ready to feel your miracle and come fully into presence?

Go.

Bring that miracle into your body — into your awareness.

Great job.

Now keep that intention to stay present to your awareness of yourself as an aspect of life's miracle for the rest of your day.

Be present to every moment that you're in, every context that you're in.

Be present for yourself.

Be present for your people.

Be present for your work.

Be present for your weekend.

Let’s reset our intention to be fully present for three mornings in a row this weekend now.

Intention set?

Enjoy your life!

All right, have a good one

Sean

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Hello,

Let’s take a long deep breath and shift our state of mind.

Remember, setting an intention to shift your state of mind is a huge part of bringing yourself into a preferred state of consciousness.

We tend to only set that intention after we recognize that we want to shift our state of mind.

That’s why building a habit of shifting regularly at a certain time every day, and also being intentional about using moments of emotional discomfort as cues to take a few minutes to make an intentional shift to your state of mind, are both great strategies.

You can apply those strategies to shift your state anytime.

Let's take one more deep breath.

And be even more intentional about setting the intention to make a positive shift to our state of mind together over the next few minutes.

I want to talk to you about something to get started.

I've been playing with an idea and refining it in my own mind to express it as efficiently and concretely as possible.

Basically, the idea is a recognition that your satisfaction with your life — with yourself — is usually a consequence of how you are judging your life against some standard that you have for yourself in any given moment.

That standard likely shifts throughout the course of your day, and over time in general as well.

But knowing what you are measuring yourself against is an important step in being able to assess whether you are judging yourself fairly.

We could have a long discussion about the idea that completely letting go of self-judgment helps you come into the present moment.

After all, you're leaving behind your thoughts when you come fully into presence.

So if you aren’t able to notice your thoughts at all, it can be difficult to intentionally leave them behind to come fully into presence.

Presence involves separating the miracle that you are, and that life is, from any thoughts that you might be having in this moment.

The self-judgments that I'm referring to today — the ones we are going to be intentional about noticing and shifting — can often be observed as thoughts.

In reality though, negative self-judgments tend to be rooted even deeper in your body than surface thoughts that you might observe.

That’s part of the reason I'm bringing up this issue —

Your felt experience of your life arises out of your unconscious history and then into your thoughts and body each moment.

So coming into as much awareness as you can about how you’re judging yourself is key because the roots of self-judgement can be difficult to identify.

Particularly, if you're not feeling good about yourself (or your life) on a regular basis, coming into awareness of what it is that you're judging yourself negatively for, and why — and then making an assessment as to whether you actually want to be judging yourself on those domains — is very helpful.

Once you develop some awareness, whenever you are feeling negatively about yourself you can start to cue yourself to think about steps you can take to address that.

But first you need to know exactly how you are assessing how you're doing — i.e., how you are judging yourself.

So let’s do that now.

Take a long deep breath.

Come into this moment again.

Pro tip — Assessing whether you are in a state of mind that you want to be in by using a measurement of your presence, (i.e., how frequently you're in presence, and how deeply you are remaining in presence throughout your day), can be a useful way to ‘judge’ your personal progress along the continuum of living in a state of mind that you want to live in.

After all, being in a good state of mind usually syncs closely with judging yourself positively.

So, that’s one way to think about it.

You can definitely get even more concrete with your expectations of yourself than that.

But that strategy is a nice heuristic to start.

It’s an easy and immediate way to notice whether you're living the way that you want to live in any moment.

Just notice each moment.

What is the emotional state?

What is the psychological state?

What is the state of mind that is flowing out of the way you're living?

So, think about making a habit of noticing your state as often as you can.

Let's spend a minute answering today’s main question now.

Am I judging myself in a way that I want to?

Another form of that question is: Am I satisfied more or less with my life — and with my state of mind — overall?

If you find that you’re not satisfied, just observe what arises for you — about how you might shift the way you’re assessing yourself a bit.

It could be that how you are judging yourself is the root of the emotional pain you’re experiencing.

Pro tip — It tends to be the case that the distance between how you expect your life to be, and how you assess it to be, is a measurement of your life dissatisfaction.

Let's come fully in this moment again — with all our attention.

Look around your environment.

You've already laid the foundation of what you're going to allow your mind to process for the next minute, so just come into this moment completely.

Trust your unconscious mind to bubble forth something useful for you.

Notice the beauty in your environment — the light streaming through the window maybe.

Feel yourself comfortable in your seat.

Allow your arms and shoulders to relax.

And let's just listen together for whatever arises for the next minute.

And try not to judge it for a while.

Just notice.

Listen.

Perfect.

Did anything come up for you?

One other suggestion is to notice how you think and feel when you wake up in the morning.

What is that first sequence of thoughts that you're having?

And what’s the emotional experience that's attached to those thoughts?

Noticing that information will give you some clue if you're having a hard time noticing how you're judging yourself, and whether you're judging yourself in a way that is ideal and fair.

That's what you're looking for.

You want to have a standard for yourself that is clear to you AND ideal to you.

Your standard will change over time, but tracking it is helpful.

Otherwise, you may be judging yourself in a way that is not providing yourself with enough information to actually embody the life you are expecting of yourself.

That would be setting yourself up for failure.

Whereas, you actually want to set yourself up for success.

Let’s take 30 more seconds now.

First, intend for tomorrow morning when you wake up — before you even open your eyes — to notice what's that first sequence of thoughts for the day, and also notice how you feel.

That strategy might shed some light on how you're judging yourself.

Good.

Now, for the next 30 seconds intend to reset what you expect of yourself.

Let’s get a little bit more clarity on it before we come back into our outer life for the day.

Listen for your expectation of yourself now — for how you are judging yourself.

Listen.

Okay, got something useful?

There are different domains that most of us implicitly judge ourselves on.

It's not an easy task just to summarize it into one thing.

You have your personal life.

You have your achievement expectations.

And there's a whole history that you're contending with.

There’s your social development that's going on.

And your ongoing journey through life — your inner journey

All of these are moving parts.

That's why I love the idea of noticing how your state of mind is throughout the day.

You can then use what you notice to calibrate yourself whenever you come out of your awareness of the perfect present moment and yourself as an aspect of that.

You can notice the depth of your feeling fully connected in your life.

And you can make a shift anytime you need one.

If you do that for a while, whenever you get pulled out of your preferred state of mind you'll start to notice what it was that pulled you out.

As you do that repeatedly, your life questions and personal judgements have a way of working themselves out.

To finish up, let’s set our intention to be present for the rest of the day.

To keep our states of mind fresh and clear and present.

Got your intention set?

Come fully into the present moment now by bringing 100% of your attention into whatever you want to focus on next today.

Got it?

Nice.

Have a great day.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

P.S.

That was a lot to pack into one Shift, wasn’t it?

I hope it wasn’t too much to bite off.

Remember, none of us are perfect with being where we want to be emotionally all the time. So expecting perfection is not a fair expectation of yourself.

But, being strategic and intentional (and fair to yourself) definitely helps.

I’d love to hear your feedback about today’s Shift — or any thoughts you want to share.

Just hit reply to email me.

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Hi there,

Let’s take a long, deep breath.

Why does meditation give me stress?

I hear that question frequently. It's a helpful one to understand if you're interested in making changes to your inner experience.

The basic answer is that most of us cope with our stress by distracting ourselves — by moving our mind and body to something different from the experience of stress that can arise into our mind and body when we sit still, and listen, and feel.

Meanwhile, meditation does the reverse of that.

Meditation asks you to sit, and feel, and experience the present moment fully — whatever arises.

To take a deep breath…

…and notice everything that's going on in the present moment — without judging it, or shifting away from it.

That includes observing the feelings in your body — what you see, what you feel, what thoughts are flowing through your mind.

And maybe even noticing how those thoughts are connected to the emotions, such as the anxiety that might arise in your body during meditation.

It is only after you do that for a while, that the anxiety you may notice when you meditate — the anxiety that creates that desire to get up and move and distract yourself — will start to fade somewhat.

At that point, you will have taken massive control over your life experience because you’re becoming more able to operate from presence when you choose to, instead of from avoidance, or reacting with mental distraction.

One of the unfortunate aspects of meditation is having to go through a little discomfort in order to get more in touch with presence.

It would be nice if we didn't have to go through that, but we wouldn't do it if we didn't have a need to — if there were not some catalyst for us to go internal and come into this moment.

It’s true for most people, at least originally, our movement toward meditation is driven by a perceived need for increasing wellness or performance in our lives.

So let's take another deep breath.

And see if we can sit for one minute without reacting to the urge to be distracted — without taking our cue from that impulse to avoid the present moment.

Let’s just feel, and be, and know the present moment as perfect.

There's nothing wrong right now.

We're together.

We're here.

We can take a deep breath and come into peace and presence together.

We can come into presence anytime we choose.

Let's sit together for one minute.

100% of your attention listening to life.

Listening.

Noticing.

Feeling.

Alright, perfect.

How was that for you?

Did you notice any anxiety?

Were you able to come fully into presence to subsume that anxiety?

I hope so.

Keep it up.

The more you practice, the more able you will become to shift out of any distractions that arise in your inner world, that you’ll inevitably be confronted with — and return back to presence.

Pro Tip — “The faculty of voluntarily bringing back a wandering attention, over and over again, is the very root of judgment, character, and will. No one is compos sui [master of himself] if he have it not. An education which should improve this faculty would be the education par excellence.” William James, Psychology: Briefer Course, p. 424 (Harper Torchbooks, 1961)

All right, have a great day.

Talk to you soon.

Sean

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"You learn how to suffer. If you know how to suffer, you suffer much, much less. And then you know how to make good use of suffering to create joy and happiness." — Thich Nhat Hanh

Today, let’s take a deep breath.

Sometimes when you sink deeply into presence you see things, and questions arise from those things, and answers arise from those questions.

Being able to listen to yourself, to your own inner world — to your thoughts, to see your motivations — that is life watching itself.

And it's a beautiful dance.

Because once you see that and consistently come into it, now you have a different relationship to life.

And that can change everything about what motivates you, about the importance of connecting to your own purpose — to listening deeply to yourself, and learning to follow what you hear by developing that sensitivity.

So let's do that.

Let's take a deep dive together and develop our sensitivity.

I think I'm going to sit outside.

Let's take all our attention and just bring it into this moment.

However you feel like doing that today.

I'm going to listen to life while I feel my body, while I know I'm deeply connected to life.

And, I'm going to recede into life even more deeply as we take a deep dive today.

So I'll walk you through what I'm doing.

I'm going to close my eyes and put all my attention into my body feeling that tingling sensation that you can just pick up from those 30 trillion cells buzzing.

Buzzing with life.

Buzzing as life.

Buzzing life into you and through you.

So just feel that buzz.

Let's feel the buzz for a minute.

Perfect — feel your buzz.

Are you staying fully intentional about feeling the buzz?

Bring your attention back if it faded away on you at all.

Let's go for a little longer.

Be open.

Be honest.

Be loving.

Listen.

That's what I hear.

What do you hear?

Alright, perfect.

That was a nice deep dive.

I hope you are having a present day.

That will help us reset the intention to stay present for the rest of the day.

Have a good one.

Sean

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Let's take a long deep breath in, and out.

Little mini-shift into presence.

And talk about mental fitness — mental training for performance.

First of all, this is such an interesting topic.

Syncing your mind with your task — whether that's in sports performance, or work, or daily life — is the most desirable situation for us.

To be fully present with what you're doing at each moment along your journey.

But of course, that's not the way we always function.

So the process of learning to notice when you fall off that train — I call it the Train of Presence that navigates at the pace of your miracle.

When you fall off of that, and you need to find your way back on, recognizing that you've fallen off is an important skill.

And then, shifting back onto your train by connecting to presence and then listening to life — listening to your journey — is another important skill.

Practicing those important skills turns them it into immediate, experienced things, rather than just exercises that we can describe or talk about.

As you get better at using those key skills, the distracted moments — when you're feeling out of sync with whatever you're doing in the present moment — will reduce.

And your performance, in turn, will improve.

This practice largely applies to emotions — a lot of this is about Emotional Intelligence.

It’s a practice in how to cope with relationships in a way that leaves you feeling free, and creative, and engaged, and connected, and enthusiastic, and curious.

Pro Tip — I’m referring to your relationships with others, your relationship with yourself and your relationship to your life. We pay attention to each of those relationships during Shifts.

So let's take another deep breath and practice a bit right now.

First, just notice.

Ask yourself, what's a recent distraction that's been popping into your mind lately?

Maybe it's a relational one.

Or, maybe it's another kind of distraction.

Just take a few seconds to define that for yourself.

Allow it into your mind.

And allow it to distract you now too.

Get engaged with the emotional aspect of that for a few seconds.

It's gonna come back anyway, so may as well observe it and deal with it now.

Just observe how it feels in your inner world for a few seconds.

Good.

And now shift out of that experience, that sequence of thoughts — that distraction in your inner world.

Just allow it to fade away by completely connecting to this moment.

Take all your attention and focus it fully on your body right now.

Feel the buzzing of your body — the miracle of your body.

I call the miracle that's flowing through your body and then out through you into the world, “silence.”

Feel silence by feeling your body.

Feel the miraculous 30 trillion cells that are buzzing as your body, as you.

Bring all your attention into your body right now.

Listen and feel for a little while with me.

Feel the buzz?

If you get distracted from your intention to feel that buzz, just reset your intention — 100% of your attention feeling your body for a little while.

Good.

That cleans your inner-etchasketch quickly.

You can do that anytime.

And then you can go right back to taking that next step along your journey — whatever’s next for you in your day, and in your life.

That's how you get back on the train that's moving at the pace of your miracle.

You get back on and you stay with presence.

And then whenever you notice yourself getting knocked off, you know you have a quick way to get back on.

And we, of course, do longer drops into the present moment to practice in a variety of ways.

We’ll do that for the next little bit here, by again placing 100% of your attention in your body.

Think of this deeper dive as inoculating yourself against distraction by deepening your practice.

Practice gets better when you can notice yourself falling off your Train of Presence.

And also when you know how to stay with that felt, embodied experience of the pace of your miracle.

The more you connect to that the more you’re able to embody it to walk the pace of your miracle — to hear the next steps on your personal path, and to take them.

So another long deep breath.

Let’s spend a short time in our bodies.

Paying 100% of your attention to how your body feels again.

Notice that tingling in your body all at once.

Pick it up now.

Close your eyes this time if you want.

You can start again by focusing 100% of your attention on the sensations of your left hand.

And ask yourself, how do you know your left hand is there when your eyes are closed?

Because your hand buzzes.

So feel it — it buzzes with life.

Can you feel the buzz?

Good.

Now allow that buzzing sensation to spread to your whole body.

Just spend 30 seconds or so listening to and feeling your body in silence.

Fully present to your experience in this moment.

Good.

Good job!

That was a dose of a mental performance training in the form of a Shift.

It’s good to remember that’s what we’re doing each time we shift — in one way or another.

We’re dropping into presence and strategically shifting our state of mind.

And we’re training our minds to perform at their best.

So nice work.

Have an incredible day.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Sean

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Take a long deep breath.

Another.

Breathe life and remember...

The problem is usually just the feeling that you want something to be different than it is right now.

When that problem is eradicated, you are living in peace — at least for those moments post-eradication.

You're in presence then.

You're not being pulled into thoughts of something else.

You're here — with all your attention.

You’re at peace.

So let's come 100% into this moment together.

You can rid yourself of that feeling that you want something to be different.

Just say, ‘I'm coming 100% into the present moment.’

When any thoughts arise, commit to letting them go for a while.

Just notice the thoughts — and let them go.

Come back into the present moment.

Come into this space where you recharge completely by listening to life.

Just for a short while, get 100% in touch with your body in your environment — without any intermediating thought process that can stress you out.

Release your attention from focusing on any tasks for now.

Let go of doing — you're just fully in being now.

Recharging.

Being.

A few minutes a day does wonders for your energy.

Keeps the fuel burning clean.

So take all your attention, and let's focus for a minute more today.

We’ll do this one quickly.

Listen to the sounds in your environment.

I'm going to walk outside so we can hear the crashing waves.

Let’s just listen for a minute now.

If your attention gets distracted from listening with all your attention, reset your intention again — come back to listening with all your attention.

It’s a basic, powerful recharge practice.

Take another 30 seconds to listen now.

Since this Shift went so quickly, let's extend it.

Let's do another 30 seconds of just listening and being and feeling life together.

Recharge by placing all your attention in this moment.

Be fully in your body.

Be fully in your environment.

Feeling life.

Hearing sounds.

Feel the experience — the air on your skin.

Take your time.

Hear and feel that miracle.

Perfect.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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Prologue —

This Shift is fairly simple. In fact, most effective emotion management strategies are fairly simple.

When you are caught in an emotional tornado it’s usually hard to remember (or implement) any strategy — never mind a complicated one.

So, shifting is about noticing your inner world state in real time. And then bringing enough presence to your inner world that you can experience your current state of mind and body more clearly.

Just doing that — observing your inner world — has an immediate initial emotional impact on you.

Intentionally observing your inner world when you’re caught up emotionally also helps you listen to yourself long enough to remember any strategy you might have developed for shifting your state — such as the one you’ll develop today.

Bringing presence to inner chaos allows you choose your best next step in real time.

So, what will your next inner world step be?

Let’s begin by taking a long deep breath…

Shift Out of Anger

Hey there, how are you?

Maybe you're angry at the moment — if you're here to do a shift out of anger?

Or, maybe you’re curious about how to deal with anger the next time it arises.

Either way, this Shift will be useful.

Let's listen to the ocean for a minute together — or at least for 10 seconds to get started.

Start to create a little space between you and your current emotion.

Take a minute to make a small shift to your state — a mini-shift.

Picture the waves rolling in in your mind.

Close your eyes if you want.

Now let's go inside and get specific about how you're going to shift out of anger whenever you choose to.

Set the intention — it's implicit already, but get explicit with setting an intention to shift into a different state.

Shift out of anger.

Relax your body.

Relax into whatever you're sitting or lying on — or even if you walking, relax your shoulders and neck.

Relax into your environment.

Melt into it.

You're part of life.

Be present to it.

Okay.

In your personal life, it can be difficult to notice when you're repeating an old pattern that has repeatedly not worked for you.

So that's what we want to focus on doing today — notice and change any such pattern.

If you're angry, it's worth taking that anger as a cue that trying to shift the anger by making a different choice than you typically do is a good idea — even though it likely will feel very uncomfortable to do that.

So let's do an experiment.

Think of it as an experiment in ignoring the emotional experience that's moved you to make a choice that hasn't served you well in the past — that has kept you in anger, or contributed to repeating the anger.

Not that there aren't times that anger is justified.

But whatever you're feeling right now let's experiment with a new way to address it.

If you’re not actually angry right now, imagine something that has made you unreasonably angry — you can work with that today.

In years of doing psychotherapy, I've seen repeatedly that patients who make the most progress are the ones who are able to test out changes to their unhelpful and unwanted patterns — both emotional patterns and also changes to their behavior patterns — how they choose to act, or react, once they have a feeling.

These folks are able to figure out how to move through emotions that have been pushing them in an unhelpful direction — often for many years.

And they're able to do that not just during our therapy sessions — when they're done with the sessions they're able to remember their intention to deal with things in a new way by experimenting.

The truth is, anyone can do that. You just have to get clear on your intention and then stick with it.

It's worth trying something new, if you're finding that a particular unwanted emotion, or sequence of emotions, or pattern is repeating — like anger.

Setting a new intention might not work.

But the likely worst case if you experiment is that you'll learn something new about what happens when you make a different choice.

And just from demonstrating the capacity to choose something different, you'll have opened a whole new world of possibility for yourself.

At best, you'll find that the approach that you experimented with worked better than the old one you've used.

So, now is the time to try a new approach — to experiment.

Is there anything that you want to plan ahead for?

Let’s use this time to plan ahead for the next time you get stressed out or frustrated.

Take 20 seconds in silence to think about the right new approach for you.

What would you want to do next time you get angry?

Make a plan for how you will react differently when you notice that anger arising next time.

What are you going to do with it?

Then, let's commit to implementing a new strategy.

Alright?

So first, take a little time to consider this emotional pattern that you want to experiment with.

How are you going to deal with it differently this time and next time?

What are you going to do?

Are you going to take time away?

Are you going to shift to doing something else?

Are you going to go for exercise?

Are you going to talk about it?

Are you going to take a long break away from it?

Or, are you just going to recognize that you have the ability to choose how you respond in this moment?

It’s up to you to develop your own plan and set your own intention — because when you're angry, you're not going to be told what to do by anyone.

So make your own choice and start a new experiment by intending a new behavior.

Make a new plan by setting your intention before it happens next time.

Ready?

Take some time in silence to set a new intention as to how you’ll deal with anger next time you notice it arising.

Maybe a few deep breaths and just drop into it and notice.

What new intention is desirable?

Got it?

OK, write it down or record it to help yourself remember it.

As my little sister likes to say, ‘Future You’ will appreciate anything you do to make it easier to recall your strategy later — because it’s always hard to remember a plan when you’re getting angry.

We all know that.

Did you write your plan in a place where you’ll see it when you’re getting angry next time?

Pro Tip — Record your intention and plan in your OnePerfect app’s private audio journal. I dropped the app links at the end of this Shift.

Good.

Okay, here's the big question —

Are you feeling less angry now — because you're being solution focused about this?

I hope you do.

I hope doing some reflective planning worked for you.

That's usually how it works with anger.

You can take some control of it that way anytime.

Good luck breaking the anger pattern.

Good luck sticking with your intention for the rest of the day — and the next time the anger arises.

Have a good one.

Sean

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Let’s listen to waves with 100% of our attention for 60 seconds to shift today.

As you listen, notice the distracting sound that arises in the background — and also notice how your inner world reacts automatically in real time.

Can you immediately shift back into presence when you get distracted?

Ready?

Close your eyes if you want.

Listen…

Perfect.

Great job.

Did you notice the distraction?

Did it distract or annoy you?

Anytime you get distracted from your intention to have your attention focused where you want, just notice the distraction, and then reset your intention to focus your attention 100% where you want to.

You can do that to come back into presence anytime.

Each time you do that, you are training yourself to return to presence.

Alright.

Have a great day.

Sean

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Prologue —

Happy New Year! Your personal Shift to start 2022 off right is ready below.

If you missed Shift Into 2022, Part 1 — our Collective Shift into 2022 — that’s a good place to start before completing Part 2 — your Personal Shift.

If you’re ready for Part 2, let’s go…

Part 2

There’s a lot in this Shift.

I packed everything in so it’s our longest Shift yet.

I suggest you set aside enough alone time to give 100% of your attention to start your new year as strategically and intentionally as possible.

I also suggest you listen to Part 2 as you read — there are moments in today’s Shift when closing your eyes and listening to life may benefit you.

Listening can help you take the time to allow your Shifts to deepen too.

Let’s go…

Hello, hello. Are you ready?

I am very excited for you about the value you’ll get from completing this Shift.

If you complete it, and commit to the intention you’ll develop during this Shift as you move forward this year, you will receive incalculable value from doing so.

That said, there’s a lot in here — if you need to complete it twice (or more) to feel like you got it right, I suggest you take the time to do so.

For now, let’s come into presence and plan to get it right the first time.

Ready?

Take a long deep breath.

Relax your entire body.

Intend 100% of your attention into this moment — as always.

Full presence right now.

All our attention here.

Today we are Shifting into 2022 by strategically connecting our Monday nights to our Tuesday mornings.

I’m talking about waking up with the same pure intentional mindset on Tuesday as you do on Monday — and then stitching together those intentional mindset mornings everyday … day, after day, after day.

Mastering this one detail — I refer to it as connecting Monday nights to Tuesday mornings — is among the biggest challenges I’ve focused on over the course of my adult life.

And it’s provided the the biggest benefits — the biggest rewards.

Is it one of your biggest challenges too?

It requires consistent attention and commitment to master it.

That’s why I chose this Shift to get us ready for 2022.

If you get clear on your intention for how you expect to live, you can strategically connect your days and your emotional life together consistently.

It takes some time and focus to get clear about what you want to bring to the world — how you want to be in the world — to hone in on that ideal state of mind and body for you.

So let’s do that together now to kick-start this year off right…

Setting an intention to live in presence each moment is the ideal place to begin.

So let’s do that first.

That means, set an intention to focus 100% of your attention on whatever you’re doing — each moment, each day.

We’re going to set that intention for the year.

If you’re relaxing, you’re relaxing.

If you’re reading, you’re reading.

If you’re listening to life, you’re just listening to life.

If you’re just being, you’re just being.

If you’re working, you’re working.

If you’re loving your people, you’re loving your people — 100% attention.

Even if you’re multi-tasking, you’re multi-tasking — 100% of your attention shifting intentionally at will.

And if you’re shifting, you’re shifting.

100% of your attention here and now, focused as you choose, always.

As little of your attention is leaking out into the past, the future, into fears, as possible.

Setting this first intention will allow you to be successful with it as much as possible.

No one is perfect.

No one is 100%.

But setting the intention and holding yourself to it is going to bring you as close to 100% as is possible for you.

Living in pure presence is a beautiful place to live.

You can’t even begin to imagine what doing that will usher into our lives over the course of the year. That’s why we start with presence as the core of our intention.

What we are building today is our ‘Ideal State Intention.’

The core of it is this intention to be present consistently.

If you start there, you can then wrap anything that’s vital and personal to your life around the core.

So set an intention to live in presence to get started.

We’re not going to just talk about it and think about it.

We’re going to do.

So now truly feel that core intention being set inside your mind and body.

Can you feel it rising inside you?

Feel the core of your Ideal State Intention forming.

We’re creating a powerful Ideal State Intention today — and this is the core.

Feel the core.

Presence.

Sit with it for a little while.

Be the core — your intention to live in presence.

Can you feel it embedding into your body?

Got it in you?

Perfect.

Next, we’re going to pose a key question.

I’ll give a little background and detail — BEFORE you settle into listening for a response to the question in your inner world.

The question that will flush out your Ideal State Intention is…

What’s most important to me in life?

You can break it down into related questions…

What’s most important for you to be oriented to each day?

What do you want to put into the world?

What do you want to share of yourself?

What do you want to look back on and know you lived out as your priority during your life?

I’ll give you some pure silence in a minute here to listen and feel for where your unique path guides you in answering the key question.

Let’s look forward first to give a bit of context to how the Ideal State Intention you define will help connect your Monday nights to your Tuesday mornings.

Just a little context to get clarity before we move forward.

We are doing this intention planning because connecting how you go to sleep to how you wake up is the key to keeping any personal intention burning bright and clear.

It’s so key that I’m going to say it again…

Connecting how you go to sleep to how you wake up is the key to keeping any personal intention burning bright and clear — year round.

That’s why we’re focused on doing that today.

You’re prepping for a masterful 2022 right now.

Okay?

Let’s define and refine your Ideal State Intention.

Be mindful that any intention you set right now will evolve over time.

So today’s intention is a draft intention — an intention in the process of perfecting itself.

And as you follow it each day, it will take on more nuance and more feel.

Following it will guide you over time.

So today’s intention is not a final draft — it’s today’s draft.

In fact, it’ll never be a final final draft.

It will always be a ‘final for right now’ draft.

It’s an intention that feels right for right now — and it naturally amends over time as you embody it regularly.

Over time, it will come to feel perfect for you in every now because it evolves.

Make sense?

Nice.

Let’s keep going.

In a minute, you are going to ask yourself…

What’s most important to me?

Start to let the question sink in a little bit.

Defining that intention clearly and connecting to it deeply each night and each morning will sync you with your ideal state consistently.

Here’s why that is so important…

When you connect to your Ideal State Intention at the end of each day, and you also commit to connecting to it at the beginning of each day, it becomes a whole lot easier to reconnect to it during the day.

So not only will you start your days off right, you’ll also have better access to your ideal state of mind and body — to what’s most important to you — at those moments when you need to reconnect the most — those moments when you drop out of your connection during the day.

That's the holy grail of living your evolving purpose — being your purpose — following your unique life journey.

To recap one more time, before we move forward to answer the question…

Our core intention is to live in presence.

And now, you’re going to answer a question to define a personal intention to wrap around your core intention — which will create your Ideal State Intention.

You’ll use Ideal State Intention to sync with your ideal state each night and each morning — and any other time you need to access it.

Alright?

One thing at a time…

Take a deep breath.

Let’s prep.

Allow your body to relax fully.

All our attention right here and now.

Close your eyes if you want.

And pose this question in your inner world —

‘What’s most important to me?’

Let it resonate…

What’s most important to me?

And just listen for life’s response.

Trust life.

Listen as life plays the soundtrack of your most important personal intention.

It’s in there.

You’ll hear it if you listen, and trust.

Don’t look for perfection.

Just keep listening.

What’s life whispering to you?

Keep listening.

What’s most important to you?

Do you hear a nugget of an intention?

Maybe you’re flushing out something you were already aware of.

Or, maybe something new is coming into focus?

Remember, whatever you hear WILL evolve for future nows.

Your focus right now is on hearing a kernel of truth that speaks to you in this moment — for this moment.

Okay.

Got something?

Listen a bit more to allow it to refine.

See if you can hear your intention being expressed in a single sentence now — or perhaps see it as a single image or idea.

Just listen and watch.

It should speak to you deeply.

It needs to be very personal to you.

Got it?

Okay.

Now write your draft intention down — or type it into your phone — or record for yourself.

Whatever works best for you.

But definitely get it down.

We want to concretize it.

Here’s a format you can use:

Your Ideal State Intention should begin with your core intention — to live in presence.

It should also include your personal intention sentence or image.

And all of it should have special meaning to you when you read it or hear it or think of it.

Here’s an example Ideal State Intention spoken and written in one sentence —

I live in presence as the father of my family.

That sentence, for the person who it’s right for, is going to have deep meaning.

Very special meaning.

It’s powerful.

It’s short.

I live in presence as the father of my family.

Waking up to that would purely inspire the person who its right for.

So what’s right for you?

Try to get your Ideal State Intention nice and tight and short.

It’s a draft, but concretize it for now.

Got it down?

Nice, good job.

Okay, let’s take a test drive of dropping into your Ideal State Intention right now.

Take another long deep breath — maybe two in a row.

Relax completely as you exhale.

Making sure 100% of your attention is in this moment — focused on this task.

Now, as you read your Ideal State Intention back to yourself be very intentional about feeling your mind and body shifting into your ideal state.

Notice it.

You’re connecting to what’s most important so you should be able to feel a shift.

Try that now — read it and feel it.

Can you feel it?

Don’t expect or look for anything momentous to happen. Momentous happens over time because of clear intention and the consistent embodiment of your Ideal State Intention.

Right now, allow yourself 10 seconds to connect to your Ideal State Intention even more fully.

Ready?

Speak your intention to yourself quietly or out loud — and feel.

Go.

Feel it being absorbed by every cell of your body.

Allow it to settle into you.

It is you.

Allow it to become you.

Know that it is you.

Feel it.

Feel the buzzing life of you.

Full presence.

Full attention.

Fully immersed.

Nice.

Good job.

Nice dress rehearsal.

Perfect.

Let’s finish up by defining and committing to a daily plan, starting with tonight.

TONIGHT —

Right AFTER you close your eyes to go to sleep, you’ll silently repeat your Ideal State Intention to yourself as you fade off to sleep — to connect to it.

Read your intention to yourself, or play a recording of it back to yourself if that helps you shift into it.

Then…

TOMORROW MORNING —

At the moment you wake up, BEFORE you open your eyes, you’ll notice your first thought of the day.

You want to notice whether or not your first thought is your Ideal State Intention. If it’s not, immediately reintroduce your Ideal State Intention — take 10 to 20 seconds to sync yourself with it.

Sync your attention with it — feel yourself shift before you open your eyes.

Why are you going to do this?

Because once you know your Ideal State Intention, and you also notice your first thought of the day, you're able to use your intention to connect to your ideal state of mind immediately upon waking — which is the best way to start the day.

It take some discipline but it doesn’t take a lot of time.

Just takes a little bit of focus and energy.

Again, you definitely want to shift BEFORE you open your eyes, BEFORE you say good morning, BEFORE you look at your phone — BEFORE you do anything.

That’s the key to connecting your Monday nights to your Tuesday mornings.

That, and doing it consistently every day.

That’s how you’ll shift into your intended state for the day first thing every day.

This will work for you — if you do it.

Let’s finish up by spending 20 seconds reinforcing the second half of our intention now…

Speak these words aloud or silently to yourself —

‘I intend to listen for my first thought of the day upon waking — and then to shift immediately and deeply into my core personal intention each day — my Ideal State Intention’

Say that silently to yourself now.

You can even speak it aloud if you really want to get into it.

‘I intend to listen for my first thought of the day upon waking — and then to shift immediately and deeply into my Ideal State Intention for the day.’

Make it personal.

Got it?

Is your intention set?

Do you feel that intention being clearly set in your inner world?

We’re almost done so take your time.

You want your intention to stick with you overnight and greet you in the morning.

Feel it?

Got it?

Alright, perfect.

Nice.

Great job.

Let’s make 2022 our best year yet.

In fact, let’s finish up with that.

I’m going to personally set that intention with you right now.

Join me.

Say it with me…

2022 will be my best year yet.

2022 will be my best year yet.

2022 will be my best year yet.

Believe it.

Perfect.

Let’s do this.

By the way, we received incredible engagement from Part 1.

I’ll incorporate that feedback into an upcoming Shift.

Keep an eye out for that.

We’re rolling into 2022 with purpose together.

Have a great day, night, and all your tomorrow mornings too.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Sean

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P.S. — You can easily and privately record the Ideal State Intention you developed today using the OnePerfect app. Just open your private audio journal inside the app to record and save.

The app makes it easy to play your intention back to yourself and refine it anytime.

I use that feature regularly. It works nicely because hearing your intentions spoken back to you with conviction is powerful — especially when spoken in your own voice.

That’s an easy way to keep what’s most important to you organized and accessible.

Pro tip —

You can blend your Ideal State Intention into your future Shifts using the OnePerfect app anytime. That’s the best way to keep your Shifts personal and your intentions fresh.

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Hello there. How are you?

I hope you’re doing great and looking forward to a present new year.

Today begins our first 2-part Shift together.

This Shift is Part 1 of two Shifts designed to guide us into 2022 with crystal clear intention for the year — to set us up right.

In Part 1, we’ll focus on shifting collectively into the new year as strategically as possible.

In Part 2, we’ll focus on shifting personally into the new year as strategically as possible.

Let’s start by coming into presence. Then, we’ll take a look back before moving forward together…

Take a long, deep breath.

Ahhh….nice.

Settle in.

And intend yourself fully into the present moment.

Be here for a little while together.

Set that intention to take a bit of ‘let go of everything to reconnect and recharge’ time.

Can you feel the intention being set inside your body?

Relax your shoulders.

Relax your neck and arms.

Exhale into it.

Feel your body settling.

Feel deep relaxation with me.

Nice, feels good.

Okay.

To shift us into the new year, I thought I’d share what I’ve seen and learned during our initial months shifting — and then pose a key question to all of us.

First off, the initial Shifts have been incredibly well received, which is great news.

Engagement with Shifts has been growing substantively week after week.

In fact, I’ve never seen this level of engagement with attention and emotion training in 20+ years living this work.

I love to see it. It feels good to know I’m shifting with you as we do it here — at different times and in different places — and whenever works best for you.

Our most popular Shifts to date have been:

Shift Into Your Life Purpose

Shift Out of Addiction

Shift Into Your Wife’s Next Step

Shift on Monday Morning

Close runner-ups:

Shift After a Difficult Breakup

Shift Into Inner Peace

Shift Out of Loneliness

Shift Into Confidence

We’re off to a great start.

I’m looking forward to seeing how much presence we’ll be pouring into the world over the coming months.

The more the better as far as I’m concerned…

Imagine us shifting toward a better state of mind over 10,000,000 times each week.

Given our trajectory, plans, and intention, I see us growing into that.

And I expect we’ll keep growing from there.

After all, this is a uniquely challenging period for almost everyone, right?

And everyone benefits from dropping into presence consistently and polishing emotion navigation skills while being connected to a supportive community.

So it’s likely we’re just at the beginning of this presence-pouring-juggernaut-that-could.

We’re building something remarkable — just by being here consistently together.

I am so grateful to be connected to a group of folks who are proactively regulating their state of mind and body.

Let’s do it again…

Take another long, deep breath.

Clear your inner-echaskech by bringing 100% of your attention into this moment, again.

Dropping fully into presence for a while.

Be here and now completely.

Can you feel that shift?

Relax your entire body again.

Pull in your next long, slow inhale, and exhale.

Release all tension.

For 10 seconds now, focus only on feeling that buzzing life vibrating though your body.

Completely relaxed.

Ready?

Feel the buzz.

Nice.

And now listen to life too — while remaining connected to your body buzz.

Feel the buzz and listen, just for a little while.

What do you hear?

Listen and release.

Listen and release.

Listen and release.

Perfect.

Now, share a minute of your presence with us all by connecting to your best thoughts and ideas for us in 2022.

i.e., How can we benefit the most people in 2022?

Before responding, let’s be sure we’re fully connected to the present moment and fully oriented to the moment we are living through.

Take another long, intentional, deep breath.

Recall that collectively we are living in a uniquely challenging time.

Recall also that one inspired idea at the right moment can shift the world toward peace.

And connect to a universal truth — inspiration comes from everywhere because inspiration is everywhere.

It’s inside you.

Breathe into that deeply and listen to life.

Are you fully present?

Is 100% of your attention here and now?

Access inspiration.

Now, take one more deep breath as you ask yourself —How can we benefit the most people in 2022?

Close your eyes for 15 seconds.

Listen for what comes up for you.

Keep listening.

What do you hear?

Okay.

What came up for you?

Reply to this email to share your thoughts with me directly.

My best idea for today is for all of us to start sharing the Shifts we like.

People love Shifts and sharing only takes a moment.

Just tap ‘Share’ below to forward any email, or to post on social media.

You can push a lot of love and presence into the world very quickly by sharing.

Thank you in advance.

I love sharing these experiences with you.

Being here inspires me.

I deeply value your time and your presence.

And I can’t wait to hear any ideas you have to make the most of 2022.

Remember to keep an eye out for Part 2 — we’ll shift personally into the new year with deep intention.

Here’s to an ever-present 2022.

Sean

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Prologue —

Hello, hello. Hope you are doing great and enjoying some down time.

I enjoyed recording this Shift a lot :) But fair warning, the audio is a bit choppy at moments because I was driving. So you may want to read along if you’re listening.

Enjoy…

Shift Into Your Wife’s Next Step.

That title is just too good.

It was a typo originally.

When I saw it, I thought — this email is going to be opened more than any other.

Because, well, most guy's are going to wonder, “What is this?“

And most women are going to think, “This looks ok. I can get on board with this.”

And everyone else must be curious how this topic can possibly help shift us ALL toward the new year.

The title was intended to be — Shift into your life’s next step

But it typo’d into — Shift into your wife's next step

So here we are.

The demand is overwhelming.

We're going to do a shift into your wife's next step.

As always, I will be frank with you.

Number 1, I've never been married.

Number 2, I didn't do much preparation to record this Shift, unless you consider a lifetime of working in this area as preparation.

And also, in this particular case, laughing pretty hard about this topic with Casey, who I work with here.

Really, Casey thought even more than I did that this topic was far more interesting than shifting into your life’s next step.

So, thank Casey…

Why don't we take a long deep breath and intend ourselves into this moment?

It strikes me how cathartic humor can be — especially in tense times.

It’s a reminder that there is nothing inherent about presence, or about wellness, or about trying to get yourself through something, or about performance, that is in conflict with, or in any way diminished by humor at the right moment.

It seems to me that laughter is the exhaust of joy.

When we're joyful, we are smiling.

When we're smiling, we are one moment away from laughter.

Just about anytime that we can bring any of that into our lives, it's a positive.

I've spoken many times about my general philosophy in psychology practice — providing therapy.

It’s something you won't see overtly in psychology textbooks.

And you won’t learn it in graduate school.

In practice though, I found that if we could spend time together in a good or great place in the therapy office — and that typically means a lot of laughter, and a lot of connecting around what may be painful, but is inevitably also often funny about life, and our life experiences — then whomever I'm working with absorbs a model (either a completely new, or a newly refined model) of our ability to feel good, to feel connected, to feel joyful in spite of difficulty, that they can take with them outside of our therapy sessions.

So, I came to see joy as a core piece of therapy.

For the reason that I just noted and for another reason too…

Laughing together, being joyful together, having fun together, connecting — which could be through humor, or it could be through connection in any emotional way that has resonance, and empathy, and depth — if we can do that together, we're going to create a relationship in which we can both thrive.

We can both be honest, share our challenges, and walk our unique journey through those challenges with the support of someone who we know cares, and who we know gets us — and who we know we can trust.

So humor became a touchpoint of therapy for me.

It makes it a lot of fun.

And it became universally true — we have a good time.

That doesn’t mean it was always a good time.

We roll our sleeves up to be intentional about not avoiding whatever the person had come into the therapy for — or whatever might be present in the room that day.

But yeah, that's it…

Is that where we went from shift into your wife’s next step?

Sorry wives.

I didn't do a very good job for you there — in terms of getting your partners on board with your next step.

I guess I'm going to leave that part to you.

I’m thinking the main message here — whether you’re a wife, husband or anyone else with a partner — is to be intentional about connecting to your partner with joy, or in any other emotional way that has resonance, and empathy, and or, depth, as regularly as possible.

And maybe, if you can get them laughing you’ll have easier time getting them to take out the trash — or whatever that next step that they need to shift into is.

Alright, please don't send me email on that. I’m aware that everyone takes out the trash!

Okay, since we're here together why don’t we do what we do, which is…

Take a deep dive into the present moment and rejuvenate ourselves.

Hopefully, as we do that today we’re doing it with a smile on our faces and joy in our hearts.

You know, just being able to talk to you like this reminds me again how grateful I am to have found this community and this way to share what we have to share.

So, thanks for listening, and or, reading.

Let's listen to life together for a minute or so before we get on with our days or nights.

There’s some background noise here, so I’m going to pull over so we can sit together for a minute in silence.

When I do, (if you’re listening) we’re both going to notice what a nice difference it is when we drop into full background silence — without any movement at all.

Ready?

Here we go.

You're in the middle of the mountains with me now.

Pure silence.

Listen.

Place 100% of your attention on listening to life.

Drop into now, through the portal of joy.

Perfect.

Let’s keep up our intentional shifting together as we head toward 2022.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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OnePerfect Shift into inner peace.

Let's start with a long deep breath together.

And another.

Take your time.

Bring 100% of your attention fully into this moment.

Bring it into the space we're sharing — this stretch of time we're sharing.

All your attention right here.

Release any concerns.

And breathe.

Trust life.

Trust silence.

It turns out that being at peace is something we're ALL capable of.

Feeling that peace inside is an incredible feeling.

We all seek it.

And we run away from it at times too.

Know that when you come fully into presence, you can listen to the miracle of life of which you are part.

And peace will flow through you.

Just take all your attention and place it into feeling that tingling buzz of your body.

Your body buzzes all the time.

You can pick up that tingling by choosing a body part.

Let's try our left foot together.

Ask yourself — how do you know your left foot is there when you can't see it?

If your eyes are closed, for example.

You know because you can feel it.

Feel the buzzing in your left foot.

Feel that?

(Close your eyes anytime you want.)

Now feel your left ankle too — as you keep feeling your left foot.

Keep tracking that beautiful buzz up your leg and around your whole body.

Feel it spreading all around you — the tingling of 30 trillion cells buzzing as you into life each moment.

Feel it — yourself as life.

Thirty trillion cells interacting trillions and trillions of ways every single instant — completely outside your control.

Producing your experience of life.

That's miraculous.

Can you feel it?

That's what you're gonna trust.

That’s inner peace.

Breathe into it and feel for 30 seconds.

Ready?

Go.

If you lose your focus anytime, just bring your attention back to feeling the buzzing truth — the buzzing life of your body — the buzzing peace inside you.

The buzzing miracle of you.

Feel it.

Feels like slipping into your favorite clothes — like your favorite sweater brushing against your skin and warming you up.

Nice.

All of us seek peace and all of us know how to find it.

We just did — we're sitting in a place of peace together right now .

Anytime you want, you can say to yourself — ‘Listen to life with 100% attention right now.’

Then, notice how you feel as you listen.

Feel for the peace within you.

The peace that is you.

Let’s feel more.

Feel it?

It works because presence is peace. And listening with 100% of your attention is presence.

When you trust life by listening to life fully, life returns you to presence — to peace.

When you know that, you also know that your baseline experience of life can be peace anytime.

That's an incredible piece of knowledge you can apply anytime.

I suggest you start actively tracking your experience of daily life too.

Just notice how often you are getting pulled out of your baseline peaceful experience of life throughout your days.

Notice when you are pulled into some anxiety, or annoyance, or frustration, or fear, or projection — some story of an unknown future, for example. Or maybe, you get distracted by some regret over a past that's already gone — already done.

When you notice any of those experiences have occurred inside your inner dialogue — the conversation occurring in your head — when you notice your inner conversation has been overtaken by any fears of the future, or regrets of the past, remember…

You always have a way to shift back into peace.

If you use it throughout your days, you'll start to notice you're spending more of your time in peace — just by setting this one intention.

If you’re consistent with this strategy you'll begin to notice some discipline developing around shifting back into peace whenever you notice you've strayed.

You’ll see that it’s a self-reinforcing practice.

It’s contagious in your life — and it will become contagious to those around you too.

Peace will grow throughout your days.

If you do this for a little while, you’ll start to hear your particular inner conversational patterns that repeat during your days.

After a while, inner conversation cycles that bring you into anxiety or stress will begin to reduce naturally — just because you've noticed them, you keep calling them out.

Anytime you notice peace is missing, just reset your intention to come right back into presence by listening to life.

So again now, let's feel the silence flowing through our bodies — flowing through the world and into your body, as you — as life, your life.

Can you feel that?

Feel and listen now.

What do you hear?

I hear gratitude welling up inside.

Gratitude bubbling out of reconnecting to the knowledge that I can find peace anytime I choose.

The knowledge that we can shift back into this place of pure presence, and listen for that next step along our personal miracles — our unique journeys through life — is a gift.

Let's accept the gift.

Take one more deep breath for now.

Set that intention to live completely at peace by trusting life.

Trust that life will guide you to peace — if you listen consistently.

Okay.

Is your intention set?

Got it?

Can you feel it?

Nice.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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You need to be as at peace as possible to be your work — to do your life's work.

Take a deep breath.

Release all inner conflict.

Just let it go.

Breathe — for a few seconds.

Your unique personal miracle is happening right now, always.

So walk the pace of your miracle by listening right now, always.

Let's listen to life together deeply for 10 seconds.

And shift into our listening state of mind.

Close your eyes if you want to.

Breathe.

Ready?

Let's listen.

Good.

Did you shift into your ‘listening’ state of mind?

More listening, less talking in your head?

Your listening state of mind is a state of presence.

Let’s keep going. Slowly and purposefully.

Staying in the present moment.

Staying in our listening state of mind.

Being fully present to this moment — with intention.

Remain in your listening state of mind.

Focus 100% of your attention on listening to life going by for 10 more seconds.

Nice.

Remember, life is difficult for most people.

And we are all together in this inexplicably deep and challenging experience.

Your life journey becomes beautiful and purposeful when you realize that you're sharing the miracle with every other person.

So let's honor the miracle by helping each other, and helping others in general, through the uncertain stretches that everyone's inner journey entails.

We can alleviate suffering by teaching about how life and suffering is primarily an internal journey…

The miracle of life flows through your inner world and into your outer life.

So listen to your inner world closely.

You'll hear the pace of your unique miracle — your journey of life.

And when you hear it, follow what you hear to walk the pace of your miracle — to be your purpose, as I sometimes call it.

Ready to reconnect to purpose again?

Let's listen for 10 seconds again.

Perfect.

Now's a good time to set an intention to reconnect to presence and purpose whenever you feel disconnected over the next few days.

So feel yourself setting an intention now — an intention to drop into presence.

And also — to become aware when you’re out of presence so you can shift back into presence whenever you notice your attention has been distracted.

Feel the intention?

Good.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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Prologue

This is an incredibly loaded topic and can provoke very strong emotions.

Especially after a difficult year(s) for so many of us, offering public opinions or suggestions on this topic can be fraught.

But it’s worthwhile, I believe.

Please know that I don’t intend to represent any idea as categorically accurate for every individual, situation, ‘addiction’ or moment.

In fact, some of what I’ve shared below is clearly not of primary relevance for everyone, or for every situation.

My words come from love. We are here to lift each other up and shift our state of mind anytime…

Take a long deep breath.

I get asked about addiction sometimes.

For advice about how to help someone else, or how to help yourself.

I can't say it's been a specialty of mine in practice.

But I do know one very powerful and frequent shift out of addiction.

A lot of times people tell themselves they want to stop.

And they try to stop.

But it doesn't work.

There’s no magic bullet.

But when you get this insight deeply into your mind and body — it's the one to me that's the most powerful.

And that is…

A recognition that you want to love fully now.

You come to the conclusion that you can't love fully as long as you have this addiction that is consuming your attention — and your body, your presence.

You can only give so much to someone else — and or, to life, or to yourself — if your attention is possessed by addiction.

So choosing love is very powerful.

Loving is embracing life in the present moment, which can transcend fear, and pain, and unwanted habits.

But still, addiction can be very tough to overcome.

A lot of times it's not overcome.

And often then, there's a not so good ending.

If you're struggling with it, reach out for help.

That's another important turning point — telling someone.

“Hey, this is going on with me. And I want to change it.”

Alright, let's take a long deep breath.

Come fully into presence — fully into this moment together.

All your attention right here.

Fill our hearts up with love.

Love for life.

Love for the journey.

(Deep breath)

Feel love coming into your heart.

Relax your whole body.

Relax your shoulders.

Relax your arms.

(Deep breath.)

Just drop in.

Let's sit in silence for a minute or so.

Ready?

Listen to life.

Sometimes we need to go all the way to the edge, and look over, and then say —

‘Okay, I see. I'm gonna go back. I'm not done yet.'

And that's another moment — a moment when we can change directions, 180 degrees sometimes.

Any degree of a turn, and a shift, can be a positive though.

I wish you the best on your journey — and presence for the rest of today.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sean

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P.P.S. — After I completed recording this post I found myself thinking a lot about the range of what each of us might think qualifies as an addiction — and the myriad ways we come to engage with, or perhaps even feel we are being intentional about addiction.

By definition of being human we each live a unique life. And, painful turns are as fundamental to our lives as learning and growing and triumphing.

On any given day, life is harder for some of us than it is for others. And, each of our circumstances can change at any moment.

Hold judgement softly.

Listen hard.

Share silence.

Listening together is healing for anyone.

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Life can be very lonely sometimes, can't it?

It's not just about the perspective you bring.

Life cycles, regardless of your perspective.

So that means sometimes you're naturally oriented more to different aspects of life.

And one of those aspects is the human objective experience of being separate.

And therefore, potentially feeling alone and lonely.

When you drop deeply into presence it's very possible to connect yourself to life — to connect yourself to everything.

That, to me, is the most obvious way to shift out of loneliness in the moment.

And we can do that today.

But I think it's also useful to think about another approach to shifting out of loneliness too.

We can think about it as a complementary approach…

Putting your love into the world.

One way to think about loneliness is to understand it as a reaction to not feeling love coming toward you.

That's why this this idea, this action — this activity of putting your love into the world — is so important.

Because it is your ‘putting love into the world’ that is part of the cycle of bringing love to you.

The challenge can be, sometimes, that it feels like you have to put so much love into the world in order to get love back.

But it might be that the love that you're putting into the world is bringing love back to you in a way that you're not noticing — or that you didn't anticipate.

And that recognition — if you can see it — can also impact that sense of loneliness that may be underlying some idea that you're putting love in the world, and you're not feeling it back.

So there are a few ways to address loneliness —

Dropping into presence.

Putting your love into the world, (i.e. making sure you're doing that to participate in shifting yourself out of loneliness).

Noticing whether love may in fact be coming into you, but you are looking for it in a different form.

Being very realistic by understanding that sometimes things take time. You may need to put a lot of love in the world before it comes back to you.

I’m not a big fan of pretending that there's not real, sincere, and genuine, and authentic, and accurate feelings of loneliness that we each have throughout life.

But I am suggesting that shifting out of that experience in the ways that we're talking about today — those that feel authentic to you — is a great practice.

So how are you putting love into the world?

And, is it possible that it's coming back to you (if you're feeling lonely) in a form that you weren't anticipating — but nevertheless in a beautiful form?

Maybe sit with those questions as we dive in the silence for a minute together.

Long, deep breath.

Another.

Think about this form of love coming into your life:

The fact that you are a miracle — you're a living miracle, buzzing with life.

And when I say ‘living miracle,’ a big part of what I'm talking about is the 30 trillion cells of your body that are buzzing you into life each moment are completely connected to your environment.

The air that you breathe in, that feeds you.

The oxygen that gives you the breath of life.

So we're not alone in that sense.

We are fully connected to life and to our environment.

If you feel that, is that another way that can bring you out of loneliness?

Or, into seeing the love that's coming back to you in a different and clearer way?

Sit with that as we just connect with our body.

I’d like to spend some time in pure silence with you today.

So I'll just talk you through entering your body.

Place all your attention into your body.

Notice its buzzing aliveness.

I use to remind people that you can squeeze your thumb really hard — squeeze yourleft thumb for three or four seconds.

And then release it, noticing the sensations that arise when you release — the buzzing aliveness of your thumb.

And that will help you pick it up strong — that buzzing, tingling life in the rest of your hand.

And then bring it into your whole body.

What is that?

That's you alive, aspect of life, never alone, sometimes lonely.

So feel that.

And let's just sit in that feeling state and see what arises for you for the next minute.

All your attention feeling your body and listening to life.

Perfect.

Did anything come up?

As I listened, I heard a question:

How are you putting your authentic love into the world?

Is it flowing through you as a reaction — as gratitude to being aspect of life, to being alive and connected to everything?

How is that awareness flowing through you into the world?

Is it flowing in the form of gratitude, or care, or love, or sensitivity, or art?

How is it flowing?

Do you notice that within that flow — within that giving of yourself — you are more deeply connecting to the world?

That awareness absorbs and subsumes the sense of loneliness a lot of times.

Anyway, food for thought :)

Let's take another couple deep breaths and say goodbye for now.

Set that intention to remain present.

And have a great day.

Sean

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Hi there, let's take a long deep breath.

And come fully into this moment — into presence — by intentionally focusing 100% of your attention into what you’re reading or listening to at this moment.

Nice.

I came across a young man last night — in his 20s.

He was telling me that he had just had a breakup with his girlfriend of six years.

He was two weeks out of the breakup and is now trying to get back to meeting people, and starting a new life — because he'd moved to a new place.

It made me reflect on breakups.

And what we go through when we are struggling to make a major change to our life, and our lifestyle.

Facing the reality that — especially when you break up with someone who you've been really close to for a long time — the cells and the cellular networks within your brain and body that represent your attachment to that person don't just go away because the breakup happens one day.

They can take a long time to shift.

It takes time to find a new style of attachment — to find a new kind of feeling associated with the experience of bringing your person (your former person) into your inner world, and to change how thinking of that person affects you.

Those are some of the thoughts I had as I sat with my new friend and chatted a little bit. So I wanted to talk about that today.

I also want to wish everyone who's going through a breakup — especially if you’re fresh with it — I wish you well.

Know that it's normal to have very difficult feelings for a long time, both for the physical reasons that I just described and also for all of the emotional reasons that are more self-evident.

If that's something you're going through right now, hang in there.

Why don’t we come into presence further to continue.

Then I'll share one other idea that I think is worth thinking about if you're going through difficulty — a breakup of a relationship, or something similar.

Let’s first scan the space we're each in.

Place all your attention — 100% focused wherever you are.

This is a good exercise for bringing your attention into the present moment.

It's one thing to close your eyes, to go internal and listen deeply to your thoughts, and to explore your inner world to see where you're at.

But if you're like my friend from last night, maybe you're wanting to come back into the outer world in a new way. Scanning your environment is a beautiful way to intentionally experience the outer world.

So bring your attention outward now to get deeply connected to the unfathomable beauty that surrounds you constantly.

See the forms and shapes and colors and lights that the outer world takes.

Coming into appreciation of all that is a way of reconnecting with the outer world, which you may be looking to reconnect with in some new and very personal way if you're going through a breakup.

Take 30 seconds to look around your space.

See where your eyes decide to stop.

Enjoy the experience that seeing brings to you.

You can bring yourself into it by noticing changing light that reflects anywhere.

Or just notice the little details you don't usually notice — the shadows, or the layers of background.

Looking around your environment now — taking it in.

And keeping that intention of coming 100% into full presence.

Perfect.

Keep up with that if you're enjoying it.

Or shift to listening to life too, if you want to switch something up…

Try listening to life as you pay attention to your environment visually.

And I’ll say a little bit more about what I tried to share with this friend last night.

Without necessarily speaking advice to him, I just tried to share the experience of the outer world with him, and the awareness that what you are putting into the world is coming back to you.

If you’re wanting to come back into the world, or even just to change your relationship to life generally, rest assured that being positive and expecting life to give you love back is the way to approach the world — to re-engage with the world.

Because it is true that life loves you back.

One of my favorite sayings is…

Love life. It loves you back.

Those words powerfully encapsulate the true power of how you bring yourself to the world — and the influence that has on your life experience.

If you're ready to go back into the world, intend that for yourself.

Intend to love life.

And allow it to love you back.

Smile when you see people.

They will smile back at you, mostly.

Just authentically smile because you love life.

Life won't always love you back in that moment.

But if you are oriented to seeing love in the world, you're going to see it a lot.

And that's a great way to step back onto your journey.

Go out and smile. Say hello to people.

Love life. It loves you back.

That's what I wanted my new friend to experience and see.

We had a fun time actually.

So it did work out in that way, which was great.

Why don't we do one minute of a deep dive before we get back to our outer lives for the day?

Let’s continue where we left off — listening to life.

Close your eyes now if you want.

I’m going to close my eyes.

Let’s listen to life for one minute — to the sounds of life that you otherwise wouldn't hear.

Listen to the buzzing silence all around you.

Just listen.

That's perfect.

Keep listening as long as you want.

I’ll sign off now.

But first I’ll wish you — if you're struggling with having to move away from somebody in any kind of way — good luck with your journey.

Know that the world is out there waiting.

It’s ready to love you back when you're ready to jump back in.

Alright, have a great day.

Sean

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This is a Shift for when you’re having a tough time — and to share with someone who may be struggling today.

Hello hello,

I'm so glad you stopped by.

Come listen to the sounds of the beach in the background, and shift your state of mind with me anytime.

OnePerfect Shift out of feeling horrible.

So you’re feeling horrible, huh?

That sucks.

You may find what I'm going to share with you to be helpful though.

It has been for me.

And it definitely has been for a lot of people I've worked with and people I’ve lived with.

So know that there’s some hope, just from that.

And let’s get going — let’s start with just a small shift.

Set an intention to shift into a more ideal state of mind over the next few minutes.

Got it?

Did you set your intention?

OK, good.

Now let’s take a long deep breath.

Good.

And one more.

Nice.

As I thought over the challenge of making a shift, and the importance of making a shift when you’re feeling really down, I thought about the times I felt worst in my life.

And I thought about the people I love most, and the many other people I've met when they were feeling near their worst, or at their worst.

We’ve all been on that spectrum — the spectrum of feeling horrible, or feeling terrible, somewhere along the way in life — at least once or twice, if not more often than that.

So you are unique.

But you're not alone with this experience of feeling horrible, or horribly.

It's part of real life.

It’s also a fact that you are always welcome here, to OnePerfect Shift.

We’re part of your community now.

And just reminding yourself of that is a step toward feeling better.

Otherwise, the best I have to offer you right now to make a shift is to share a few of the most effective things that I know of that you can do when you're feeling really down.

So, we already went over the first one — know that you can come back here to practice shifting into your more ideal state of mind anytime you want to.

And be aware it may take regular steps.

It takes a little time.

But there's definitely hope that things will get better.

And that’s a great thing you can do to amplify them getting better, and to accelerate it.

So let’s take together now the biggest, deepest, longest breath you've ever taken, to begin a shift.

Breathe in and hold it.

Now breathe out.

Okay, even deeper this time.

Breathe in.

And hold it.

And out.

Can you go even deeper this time?

Ready?

Breathe in.

Hold it.

Hold it.

Hold it.

And out.

All right.

That’s a good start.

Now, get yourself something to eat or drink.

Your priority right now is to get yourself comfortable.

And then we'll continue.

So go grab some comfort food.

Pause if you need to.

Okay, got your comfort food and drink?

Good.

I want you to come 100% into the present moment with me right now.

We're going to do that by choosing any object in our environment.

Just pick an object.

Any object will do.

Got your object?

And recognize the fact that you can shift your attention into any object you choose means that you can direct your attention in any way you choose, anytime.

In other words, you can choose to shift your attention anywhere you want to shift it, anytime you want to.

You have control of your attention.

You’ve just demonstrated that to yourself.

So get ready to study your object now for the next 10 seconds, just looking at it.

And while you study it, notice something new about it, like the way the light shines on it, or fades away from it, or how it's in the shade, or any little stains you hadn’t noticed before, or just the beautiful colors of life.

Be with it.

Ready?

Study your object for 10 seconds.

Good.

Now that your attention is more focused in the present moment, you're a little bit more present, right?

And you're a little bit less distracted by thoughts that amplify concerns or judgments spinning in your mind.

The fact that human beings feel horrible sometimes, and that those same human beings also feel great sometimes, gives us this undeniable hope that you will likely feel different in the future than you felt earlier.

In fact, you may even feel great in the future.

And the best way that I know of to move into your future when you're feeling down, is just to take particular steps in the direction of connecting to your personal unique purpose.

Your purpose — why you're here.

And a great step towards connecting to purpose is to develop effective strategies for shifting your attention, just as we're doing now.

But when you're feeling horrible, basically I suggest you don't try to bite too much off.

So for today, just set an intention to complete reading this post, or listening to this post, and remain as present as you can for the rest of the day.

So set that intention.

You’re going to remain as present as you can.

Letting all the distracting thoughts and judgments go for the rest of the day.

Did you set the intention?

Okay, good job.

That's strategic.

So now, let's move on to trying a different object.

Choose a different object for a little while.

Focus 100% of your attention on it.

Let's go for 15 seconds this time.

And if your attention wanders any time during that 15 seconds, if you get carried away by stories in your mind, just choose a different object, and focus on that new object for 15 seconds, instead.

Ready?

OK, study your new object for 15 seconds.

Go.

Great job.

Good.

You've taken a mini-step now towards feeling better. And you've connected to the present moment intentionally in order to do that.

It's very simple.

It's a simple first step.

And you’ve reminded yourself by doing that, there's always an opportunity to refocus your attention, and release unwanted mental activity, and just come into presence.

And, of course, you shared this experience with a community — a community that wants you to triumph, that wants you to move past current life struggles and get back to feeling your best.

So let's finish up by taking one more deep breath.

Hold it.

Hold it.

Hold it.

Hold it.

Release.

Okay, can you notice whether your mind state has shifted at all in the last few minutes?

Are you feeling less horrible?

I hope you do.

We offer ways to shift deeper into presence anytime.

And other than that, I suggest just try to have a great rest of your day.

And come back and see us anytime.

All right, bye bye.

Sean

More about the OnePerfect app

It’s very personal.

One big reason that the app is very personal is that you can add your own personally recorded insights into your own app Shifts — so they become extremely targeted to your personal objectives.

The app also tracks your progress and has lots of targeted multimedia Shifts and programs.

You can download the app and use the free trial month to see if you like it.

iPhone | Android

Over 95% of surveyed app users report being able to shift effectively in 5-10 minutes

Try it for a while to see if you like the benefits.

Did you know that the OnePerfect app is free if your employer, your school, or some other organization subscribes on your behalf?

Feel free to tell an organization you care about tocontact usfor a free trial.

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However, if your employer subscribes to OnePerfect for you, you’ll find links to support that your employer provides on your OnePerfect app profile screen.

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Wanna Talk About It is another good place to begin connecting with support.

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A Shift is a digital experience that navigates with you into an intentional state of mind.

Hello again,

I love sharing Shifts with you, and that so many people have been enjoying them.

You’re always welcome to shift your mind and body with me.

Thank you for being here!

In over twenty years in psychology, intentionally shifting into the mind state that you want to be in is the most beautiful and useful activity that I’ve found.

So in each Shift we do — including this one — we’ll take a rejuvenating dive into presence and we’ll explore our minds and then strategically shift our states together.

Today, I’ll also share more about why we shift repeatedly — and I’ll say more about how you can get the most out of doing it.

If you’re subscribed, you’ll receive at least 1 new Shift in your inbox each week.

Let’s take a long deep breath to begin this Shift.

Set your intention now to become fully present for a while — and to maintain that presence for the rest of our day too.

Set that intention now.

Did you set it?

Is all your attention fully here now?

Are you doing one thing at a time — committed to being fully present to that one thing?

Okay.

Let’s amplify our intention by dropping further into presence.

Just listening to life together for our next 10 seconds here.

All our attention focused on only listening to sounds in your environment.

Listen to the world go by.

Ready?

Listen.

Nice.

I’m hearing the branches scratching against the top of the beach hut here.

Nice little mini-shift there.

Why do we shift?

I shift because shifting develops your ability to focus your attention when and where you choose to.

And I’ve needed to develop that in my life, repeatedly.

In my experience, shifting consistently — even if you don’t feel like you NEED to right now — improves your ability to shift your state of mind in those moments when you do feel like you NEED to right now.

As you get better at shifting yourself on demand, you’ll also improve a couple key aspects of your emotional intelligence — your self-awareness and your self-regulation skills.

But what really motivates me to drop into a Shift each day — to take a deep dive as we’ll do today — is that shifting feels amazing because it brings you more fully into presence.

It’s intentional.

Depending on your day, you might want to release some stress, or get yourself more motivated, or feeling more confident, or more purposeful — more purpose-filled.

Shifting gets you more connected to the big picture.

We all need each of those things at different times, right?

A few minutes shifting invariably leaves you feeling more connected to a sense of purpose, which can then drop you deeper into your work, or your art, or your family, your love — your life — whatever it’s important for you to be present for right now.

For me, shifting is the core daily activity that keeps me feeling present and purposeful and intentional.

So it’s actually the life experience that consistent shifting leads to that keeps me shifting regularly — and has done so for years.

I love recording them.

And, I love shifting with you.

I also massively appreciate that you’re listening, and reading, and enjoying the benefits with me.

So all that bodes well for a future of Shifts.

In case you’re not aware, if you ever want to you can hear the waves rolling in the background usually by tapping ‘play’ at the top of any Shift.

Come listen here in the beach hut with me.

Listening can deepen your shifting experience.

Or, you can just read slowly through any Shift.

As you listen or read, breathe deeply — so long as it feels good to you.

Let’s breathe deeply for 2 deep, intentional breaths.

Nice.

Slowing down intentionally.

Find your groove.

Take your time to get the most benefit.

Deep presence.

It’s worth it, if you get yourself into it.

It’s helpful for being intentional about being present for family, and friends, and appreciating the gift of life that we share together.

Again, coming into that big picture — even when it’s not always easy.

If you want to further your shifting you can try the OnePerfect app too.

I won’t spend too much time on it here as we shift, but there are lots of years of love and presence in that app.

It’s very personal.

And it works extremely well if you invest your time and attention.

I’ll share more about the app at the end today — how you can try it free.

Take a look at it if you want to.

If you like Shifts you’ll love the app.

Okay, let’s take a deeper dive into presence now.

When I say ‘deep dive’ during a Shift, by the way, what I'm talking about is setting an intention to come more fully into presence by placing 100% of your attention into the present moment for a while, for an extended while — not just for a few seconds.

Because sinking deeply into that space for a while, and just being in that place, in presence, at peace, connecting to life intentionally, is a way of rejuvenating.

Sometimes I'll talk you through some of that, depending on what the Shift topic is.

But for today, let's just take a pure deep dive to shift together.

Starting with another deep breath.

Reset that sincere intention to come fully into presence with me for the coming minutes.

How about 3 deep breaths in a row?

And on your third breath, bring all your attention into noticing the sensations of your breath.

Notice the air brushing against your nostrils.

Feel it?

And now notice the sensations of your whole body.

Shift from noticing the sensations of your nostrils, into your whole body.

Feel the tingling aliveness of you.

Nice.

Keep feeling your body buzz.

OK, good.

If you’ve closed your eyes, open them up.

Let's shift to studying our environments now.

I'm seeing the sun pouring in here through the hut window, onto my arms, and onto the couch.

Every time I look, I see something new that reminds me of the beauty that we're all embedded in, and we’re all surrounded by.

When we come into presence and just observe, you can’t help but notice it.

So just live for a while.

Just be.

What do you see?

Be with it.

The beauty of presence.

Allow all your thoughts about the future or the past to fade away for a while.

Don't get dragged around by the future.

Be here, in the present.

Why don't we walk outside for a little bit?

And listen to waves for a minute.

Just listening to life.

Fully in this moment.

Nice.

If you only have a little time each day that you want to dedicate all your intention and your priority to living as presently as you can, place that intention into this moment, right now.

Let's recharge together.

Listening to life with ALL your attention.

(Keep listening)

Waves crashing.

Perfect.

All right.

Feeling good? Feeling present?

Stay with it if you want.

That catches you up from here and sets us on the right path:

Presence for the day.

Hope you're having a beautiful, present day wherever you are.

I’ll talk to you soon.

Sean

P.S. Sharing the right Shift at the right moment can rescue a friend’s, or loved one’s, or colleague’s day.

You can share any Shift with someone you care about by tapping the blue button (or the arrow-looking thing) and sharing by email, or however you like.

Share it with friends on social media. Let’s spread the word.

Alright, have a great day.

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Using the app, over 95% of people who've been surveyed reported that they were able to shift toward or into their ideal state of mind in 5-10 minutes.

The OnePerfect app is like an on-demand therapist one tap away anytime you want to shift into a better mind state.

Start your day off right, make a shift on your coffee break, get yourself motivated to perform your best, shift out of stress, or sadness, or loneliness, or even fall asleep.

OnePerfect is very personal.

One big reason that the app is very personal is that you can add your own personally recorded insights into your own app Shifts — so they become extremely targeted to your personal objectives.

The app also tracks your progress and has lots of targeted multimedia Shifts and programs.

Download the app and use the free trial month to see if you like it.

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Hope you had a good weekend!

Listen to (or read) this Shift on a Monday morning walk with me if you can.

Long deep breath. OnePerfect Shift on Monday morning.

Holy moly, let's get after this.

Here we go.

This is what we are here for, right?

Our work. Our work.

And so if you have a normal, typical workweek that starts Monday morning, the idea right now is let's get connected to our purpose…

Why we do what we do.

Maybe it's because this is the clearest expression of presence flowing through you that you can imagine — whatever your Monday morning activity is.

Whatever your role is.

Or maybe it's that you're in your role as a step towards the clearest expression of presence flowing through you that you can imagine.

And if it's not one of those two, then maybe you should think about listening to presence flowing through you as we go here — and considering how you can take a step in your life toward at least feeling like you are on the path towards the free flow of presence, and your purpose, into the world.

Whatever category you're in right now, you take the same step on a Monday morning.

And that is to come fully into this moment.

So let's do that together.

All of our attention right here.

Allow your shoulders to relax.

I'm going to pull my shoulders back a little bit after I relax them.

We're getting in the state to get after it this week.

Allow your arms to relax.

Your whole body should be relaxed.

And all your attention, 100% of your attention, right here.

Listening.

Being in your environment.

Allowing presence to flow unobstructed, unresisted through you.

Feel it.

Feel the buzzing of your body now.

Just keep breathing deeply.

Notice that tingling sensation of your alive body.

All your cells coming together to express — to tingle with presence, to express the truth through you.

Feel that?

You're an embodiment of truth in form.

Ever-changing every moment.

Aligned with the intention of that truth — your purpose.

Another long, deep breath.

And let's just set an intention together to have an incredible, an incredible week.

Set that intention: A week of presence flowing through you.

You got it?

Alright, let's listen to life for 30 seconds, and then we'll get rolling.

Ready?

Go.

Staying fully present.

If your mind wanders, just bring it back to your intention to allow presence to flow through you.

100% of your attention right here.

Perfect.

Another 10 seconds.

And as we tie up, set that intention to stay present throughout the day.

All right.

Great job.

And have an incredible week.

Sean

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More about the OnePerfect app

It’s very personal.

One big reason that the app is very personal is that you can add your own personally recorded insights into your own app Shifts — so they become extremely targeted to your personal objectives.

The app also tracks your progress and has lots of targeted multimedia Shifts and programs.

You can download the app and use the free trial month to see if you like it.

iPhone | Android

Over 95% of surveyed app users report being able to shift effectively in 5-10 minutes.

Try it for a while to see if you like the benefits.

Did you know that the OnePerfect app is free if your employer, your school, or some other organization subscribes on your behalf?

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Hello,

I'm grateful to be able to be going back home to see my brothers and sisters and parents soon. And I'm really looking forward to it.

It's been another year full of learning and growth. There's a lot of peacefulness in my heart and life this year. I hope there’s a lot of peacefulness in your heart too.

The right track is never too far away though, regardless of where you are.

You can always take a deep breath and come into presence.

Let's do that together.

And then I'll make a few suggestions about how we can have a great holiday with family or friends.

So all our intention just listening in this moment for now.

Full presence.

Just with the intention to be able to place our attention in the present moment — and be here 100% whenever we choose to.

Just listening to life for 20 seconds.

Perfect.

Now let's step outside and listen to the beach waves in the background.

Let's continue by setting an intention to be intentional about how we're going into the holiday — the upcoming holiday.

Long deep breath.

Who's the person that you want to be for your loved ones, and with your loved ones?

It's a good question to ask and answer before you engage with the questions about — what do I do with those difficult moments, our those difficult loved ones?

Or those ones that you don't feel love for, but that are there in your family circle, or your friends circle, somehow. So a totally different topic.

The first and most important topic is how do you want to be?

So what is the ideal ‘you’ that you'd like to bring to this time off — time away from work?

You got that — got a sense of it?

You might want to jot it down for yourself, so you have easy reference when the inevitable challenge comes up.

But once you have that, now you're in great shape.

You know your intention.

If you do want to do a little pre-troubleshooting of the things that could come up, keep in mind that your expectations are huge drivers of actual events, and other people's behaviors.

What you expect is going to happen will influence what does happen. So be careful what you expect as you troubleshoot.

And that point also suggests that the idea of troubleshooting really should be a process of catching yourself and noticing yourself when you shift out of your priority — your intentional state of being with your loved ones, or with your weekend, with your time off.

So let's just sit with that intention — to primarily return yourself to your own intention whenever any “trouble” arises, or any stress arises, or anytime you get pulled out of it somehow.

Notice, and then return with your intention.

So set that intention now.

And let's just spend a minute getting into sync with that intention so that we bring it into our bodies — so it becomes very true and real as an intention that's going to last for a couple days, at least.

Alright.

Ready?

One minute.

Close your eyes if you want.

Bring the intention to mind — the state you intend to shift back into if you ever notice you got triggered emotionally.

If you bring it to mind enough, you'll bring the feeling state of that intention.

If it's love, you'll start feeling the love.

See yourself in that state to bring yourself into it.

Can you feel the love welling up?

Can you picture a scene of you expressing yourself as you want to, and being as you want to?

Are you smiling?

Are you interacting?

How are you feeling?

Feel it.

Amplify it by really sinking in, diving deep into the feeling state — the intention.

You got it?

Awesome.

Well, have a great time on your time off.

Return to your intention when you need to.

And have a great, present rest of your day too.

Sean

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Hello there,

Albert Einstein showed us that the mass of objects bends the trajectory of light.

Now, you can try to wrap your mind around what that means.

But if you do, you may well miss what Einstein really told us when he gave light to unseen laws of nature.

Take a long, deep breath.

Allow your shoulders and neck to relax.

Your arms to fall toward the ground.

What Albert really told us, is that what you see is a distorted truth.

That fundamental truth and lesson is at once the most important to understand on your path to peace each moment — and meanwhile, it's the most difficult to continually not forget.

After all, your eyes and your ears and your other senses, they're constantly at odds with this broader truth.

Your senses present and argue for a different truth.

And that's a big part of what makes it such a challenge to remain in awareness of life's deep truths moment to moment.

This is the challenge we rise to when we meditate — or shift.

Most people that I've worked with, who make a consistent commitment to meditate, experience a couple things.

Number one, the consistent commitment pays dividends by providing structure to your day — by reminding you of your intention to value what's really important to you in life.

And number two, repetition of practice — when you do it properly — has the effect of changing your brain to improve your capacity to put your attention where you want to — and, when you want to.

And that actually leads to number three...

Being able to put your attention where you want to when you want to enables you to strategically reduce your experience of stress — anytime stresses and distractions come into your life.

That enables you to move consistently toward the results you want.

Now, it's not easy building consistency of meditating into your life.

But it does bring enormous rewards, especially over time.

Once you put some intentional and strategic practice hours behind you, after a while the floodgates to freedom open a bit.

And then they open more and more as you progress.

And peace, joy, love — they all begin to flow much more unresisted through you.

And you begin to connect to others more deeply — to be more open to others.

And to enjoy this brief time we have together here, alive.

That's why I meditate.

And it keeps getting better.

Let's focus on the breath for a little while together.

Breathe in.

And out.

Just noticing the in-breath.

And the out-breath.

All your attention focused on your breath, for the next minute.

All the sensations.

Returning your attention to your breath, over and over.

Good.

Sean

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Shift into confidence.

I’m recording in a busy park today.

Bear with the background sounds (if you’re listening to the audio).

It will be worth it.

This truly is so simple and straightforward.

First of all, a lot of lack of confidence comes from some form of doubt about yourself.

You think that you're kind of being a fraud somehow. But that's just this feeling that people get because we can't possibly know everything.

We know that we have to make a lot of assumptions in life just to get by — and we don't know everything.

Those factors (and others) create a sense of uncertainty, potentially….

Until, you realize that you are a living miracle. You’re a perfect specimen.

And the way that you come into physical, bodily, state awareness of that fact is to just come fully into presence.

And the way you do that — especially when it's about confidence — is to be fully present by focusing all your attention on listening.

And now, I know what you may be thinking…

What about if I'm speaking? Why am I focusing all my attention on listening?

And therein lies the magic of this suggestion.

If you put 100% of your attention into listening to your voice as you speak, and you take deep breaths anytime that you need to, people respect your deep breaths.

Deep breaths are a sign of somebody who is taking sincerely what they're talking to you about.

They're being authentic.

They care.

They're taking their time.

So, whenever you need to take a little bit of emotional recharge, take a deep breath.

And continue to assert your intention of listening with all your attention — whether it's you speaking, or whether it's someone speaking to you, or whether it's the silence in between.

There's silence constantly, even when you're speaking.

When you come into that space, you are authenticity. You are confidence.

Confidence and authenticity are massively overlapping.

So let's practice right now.

Take a long deep breath.

And by the way, this is one of the reasons why in the OnePerfect app (iOS | Android | Enterprise) you are able to record your own insights anytime.

You're always one tap away from being able to record your voice.

Because speaking your truth out loud, and listening to it, and hearing it, are all components of bringing you into authenticity.

And when you're in that place, life is good.

You're having far fewer doubts and questions about yourself being good enough, or your ability to meet the fears and challenges that you encounter.

You realize you're 100% worthy.

So let's just listen together for a minute.

And then we'll finish up with one more thing.

Ready?

Listen.

(If you’re listening to the podcast audio right now, close your eyes and listen to life with 100% of your attention for a while.

If you’re only reading this post, just listen to life in silence for as long as you choose, before you continue reading.)

Just listen.

Keep listening.

It's a practice in confidence.

It's a practice in authenticity.

Be totally intentional about your relationship to lifeyour willingness to listen to life.

Perfect.

And now, if your eyes were closed you can keep them closed, or you can open whenever you're ready.

I just suggest to you, do a couple reps inside your mind's eye of yourself.

See yourself succeeding in whatever it is that you're about to go do.

And know that people genuinely want you to succeed.

That's what the people who matter to you — who should matter to you, the ones who care about you — that's what they want for you — for you to succeed.

So know that you are supported.

You are loved.

And there is always tomorrow.

No matter what happens today.

So just be yourself.

Be authentic.

Be confident.

See yourself succeeding now in your mind's eye.

And feel that feeling in your body.

Perfect landing every time.

Nice.

All right.

Have a great day.

Sean

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OnePerfect Shift out of overthinking.

Hello.

How are you?

Can't stop ruminating on the same thing (or person) over, and over, and over, and over, and over, huh?

Sorry.

I couldn't resist.

Actually, humor is a good way to interrupt anything.

“Overthinking” is included in anything.

You know, it's usually something not too funny, is what's hijacking our attention though, right?

So, accept my apology.

I’m not trying to be insensitive here.

But inject some humor into your life — helps you get perspective.

So let's set an intention together to shift out of overthinking.

That was a secret, hidden, mini-shift we just did by laughing at it a little bit.

But set your intention to come into a more ideal state over the next few minutes.

We're going to commit 100% of our attention to letting go of whatever's hijacking your attention today.

So set your commitment to that.

Say to yourself — ‘I'm committing 100% of my attention to letting go of whatever's hijacking my attention.’

Okay, good.

Say it out loud to yourself — ‘I'm committing 100% of my attention to letting go of whatever's hijacking my attention.’

Good.

Long deep breath.

Feel yourself sinking into the surface you’re sitting on, or laying on.

Just melt into it.

Feels so good to direct 100% of your attention exactly where you want to.

And you can do that.

Just be present.

We're shifting out of overthinking together.

When your brain power is used to obsess over something that's either not essential at this moment, or something you just can't do anything about anyway in this moment, your inner space, your quiet, your silence, your peace fills up with this repetitive noise.

And it blocks you.

It sits as a dense, and often a thickening layer, in front of your peacefulness.

And it thickens as you repeat the same thoughts over and over.

This rumination is blocking you from paying attention to what you want to focus on — or taking actual useful, strategic steps that you want to, to move forward in your life — because obsessing hijacks your attention from the present moment.

It drags you around in this purgatory of repetition.

So, let's interrupt it.

Let's interrupt it further.

Let's reconnect to the present moment intentionally, strategically, by taking another longthis time an intentional breath by inhaling deeply to a count of 4.

Ready?

1, 2, 3, 4.

Hold your breath for 4.

1, 2, 3, 4.

Now exhale for 4.

1, 2, 3, 4.

And finally, relax for a count of 4.

1, 2, 3, 4.

OK, good.

The timing doesn't need to be exact.

That was just a practice one, to find your rhythm and relax into it.

Let’s try it again.

This time, focus 100% of your attention on the sensations you feel as you’re breathing in and out.

And I’ll… I’ll… why don’t you count it for yourself?

I’ll just give the instruction.

Ready?

Inhale deeply for a count of 4.

Hold your breath for a count of 4.

Exhale for a count of 4.

And finally, relax for a count of 4.

And we’re going to keep doing that, to calm yourself down.

It can take a little while.

It could take a little repetition to break that inner noise.

So take your time.

Don’t be in a rush.

It’s a great way to start bringing yourself back to center, back to peace.

And if that rumination returns, return to this breathing ritual, until you’ve slowed it down a bit.

And then we’ll keep going.

Let’s do one more before we keep going.

Ready?

Inhale deeply for a count of four.

Hold your breath for a count of four

Exhale for a count of four.

And relax for a count of four.

Good.

Now you’ve shifted your repetitive thinking pattern a bit loose — it's time to insert some new instructions into your brain.

And those are your instructions.

They’re up to you.

The most important part is to identify what you want to be focused on for the next period of time.

Think about it as the next hour.

What mind state do you want to be in?

Do you want to be at peace?

Do you want to be engaged in learning something new?

Or practicing something you're trying to master?

Do you want to read, or write, or call a friend, or exercise, or work?

Set an intention.

Do you want to meditate?

Do you want to nap?

Maybe you want to sleep.

Whatever you choose, the key to breaking that rumination is replacing it.

Calming down first, as you've done.

Coming further into presence — that breaks it up a little bit.

And then replacing it with a better option for your brain to engage in for the next hour.

So, what's it going to be today, for the next hour?

Take 20 seconds.

Think about that.

Commit to it.

Decide and commit to it.

Ready?

Go.

You can decide on whatever you want.

You have complete ability to shift your attention with intention.

Just put enough intention behind it.

Another 10 seconds to decide.

What's up next for the day?

Got it?

If you do, you've almost finished implementing a strategy for shifting your attention into whatever you want to be doing.

Can you notice whether you're feeling more relaxed and less ruminative right now?

I hope you do.

If you do, you've made a shift.

Let's take one last step.

The last step is actually engaging in what you want to be doing for the next period of time — say the next hour.

Ready?

All right.

I'm going to sign off, and you're going to get to it.

Go.

Have a great rest of your day and night.

Sean

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Hey there. How are you?

Not feeling so great, I guess, if you’re checking in on this post.

Or maybe you just enjoy the shifting, no matter what we're shifting from, because we always end up in a better place than when we started.

But today is OnePerfect Shift out of being scared or anxious.

So we'll focus on that.

Let's start with a small shift.

Just by setting that intention to shift into a more ideal state of mind over the next few minutes.

It's important to set the intention.

Skipping steps doesn't help.

So did you set your intention?

Okay.

And take a long, deep breath.

And another.

Prepare ourselves.

Prepare our bodies and minds.

Good.

All right, let's do a specific shift now, for when you're feeling scared or anxious.

If you're struggling with fear or anxiety, a great way to think about your life journey — to sort of re-conceptualize how you're seeing the world:

Your life journey is the sequential removal of fear from your life.

I really love thinking about it that way.

And I say that because removing fear is the gateway to revealing the next step in your life.

Moments of clarity emerge as your fear recedes.

So, that begs the question, what removes fear?

Connecting to personal truth, to universal truth, to the miraculous nature of life, removes fear.

So how do you get in touch with life's deep truths?

That's what our question is now, right?

So let's take another long, deep breath together.

And do that.

Acknowledge the anxiety inside you.

We're just going to sit with it.

We're going to strategically sit with the anxiety for a while, even if it may feel scary, or it may feel unpleasant.

It likely does.

But the best way through it is to allow yourself to acknowledge it and feel it.

We're not hiding.

We're here.

We're facing fear.

So locate the feeling of anxiety in your body.

Do you know where it is?

You got it?

Now, say hello to it.

Befriend it, by sitting with it.

Don't turn away.

Just feel it for a while.

Can you feel the sensation change at all?

I'll give you a second.

But notice if you feel the sensation at all as you just sit with it, and feel it.

Let's do that for 10 seconds.

Ready?

Go.

Good, good.

Did you notice a change?

Let's next come into full presence intentionally, by connecting to your deepest truth.

And I'll give you an example of how I do it.

And then you can apply what your deepest truth is.

I come into full presence by connecting to deep truth in me. One way I love to do it, like today, is just looking at a beautiful garden, sitting in a beautiful garden.

It evokes, for me, an amplified awareness of my deepest truth.

And as I sit, I just direct my attention to feeling my buzzing body, surrounded by, enveloped by, immersed in the garden’s beauty.

Noticing my buzzing body, it reminds me immediately, that my body is thirty trillion-plus cells, interacting in countless ways each moment, completely outside my control.

Life flowing into form, as me, producing my experience of life.

Think about that — 30 trillion cells interacting outside your control, as your body!

So this to me is the undeniable truth, that I'm a miracle.

And I'm immersed in a broader miracle.

This garden reminds me of that.

Something so much bigger than this idea of me as an individual.

Every flower absorbing sunlight, producing oxygen, bursting with life.

All part of the same truth.

So take another long, deep breath with me.

And allow each new inhale of oxygen to remind you of the miracle that sustains your life.

We are each part of this miracle of life.

So breathe into it with me.

However you frame that version of truth for yourself, let's do that together for 10 seconds.

Just breathe deeply.

And be.

Okay.

And now, close your eyes.

And let's for 20 seconds, after closing our eyes — imagine that you're sitting with me here in this beautiful garden.

We'll drop into full presence together.

Allow yourself a little time before we get going, to slow down even further.

Come into alignment with this moment, the present moment.

Relax.

Allow your body to relax.

Allow any stories that were producing fears or anxieties to dissipate.

Thoughts and stories, just fading away for now.

And sit with me here in the garden in your mind, without any distractions, for a little while.

Let go of wants, or needs, or the future, or the past.

Just be.

Be now.

Feel the truth of now.

Listen to life.

And let's just be together for 20 seconds this way.

Ready?

Sit in the garden with me, being.

Go.

Perfect.

Keep feeling life flowing through you.

Keep your eyes closed.

Life flowing through the air, the space, and the silence — connected to your body, connected to truth, part of one miracle.

No one can ever take that from you.

It is you.

Only you can become distracted from this realization.

Are you feeling less anxious now?

How about 10 more seconds?

Let's do 10 more seconds to really reduce anything, any inner form that's creating noise inside you, that could produce anxiety — just let it go finally now.

Ready?

Sit with me in silence, in the garden, in your mind, proving to yourself that you have complete ability to shift your attention wherever you want it, whenever you want it.

Ready?

10 seconds.

Listen to the sounds of the garden.

People working in the garden, as part of your miracle.

Can you hear that?

Listen.

You’re never alone.

You feel better?

Feel less anxious?

I hope you do.

You can always complete this post again anytime to deepen your chill.

And love life. It loves you back.

Have a great day.

Sean

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Okay.

Let's start with a small shift.

Set an intention to shift into a more ideal state of mind over the next few minutes.

Let's do that together.

Set that intention.

Really make your mind go there and say —

‘I'm going to shift from where I am right now, to a better place over the next few minutes.’

Got it?

Okay.

And a long deep breath.

Nice.

Okay so you're annoyed with someone.

This is painful.

Interpersonal difficulty is painful.

And it often has the effect of reducing our connection to what's actually important to us — most important to us.

These associated emotions that come along with feeling annoyed with someone often produce a temporarily myopic point of view — worldview.

Right?

They disconnect you from the more deeply held beliefs you usually are in touch with.

These moments are when you are most in need of a reminder that reinvigorates your connection to what every spiritual tradition tells you.

Which is that life is a miracle.

Your life is a miracle.

Your journey through life is an aspect of that miracle.

Your spiritual journey is about navigating through your miracle — this inner journey that's occurring within you is part of the miracle.

And difficult moments along your path are opportunities offered by the miracle to step forward on your path, with integrity in this moment.

So this moment of being annoyed with someone is an opportunity to come back into touch with what you know is most true.

So what's most true to you?

What's most important to you in life?

Let's lean into your truth, whatever you believe.

Just take 10 seconds to think about that question.

And just notice what comes to mind.

What's most true and important to you?

Be in the present moment.

100% of your attention just listening to yourself.

What's most important?

Okay, whatever you came up with, good start.

Let's keep going slowly.

Let’s take another deep breath.

And let's release the tension in our body.

Relax your neck.

Allow your shoulders and your arms to fall toward the ground.

Allow your hands, your arms, to relax.

How about this question —

How do you want to remember yourself when you're looking back on your journey tomorrow — or from the end of your journey?

Do you want to feel proud?

Impressed?

At peace?

Picture what you want to feel like right now.

How would you feel?

Bring that into your body.

If you were most satisfied looking back on your life.

Got it?

And now, all you do is you say:

How would that feeling inside you — that answer to feeling proud of your life — how would that inform how you want to deal with your interpersonal struggle that you're going through?

So just take a few seconds.

And see how that impacts how you feel and how you want to cope.

Now that you're more connected to what's important to you, which gives you some space from whatever your frustration that you came in with was.

Any ideas about how you might deal differently with your annoyance?

How you are going to cope so that you respect your own decision.

And do you feel any better, knowing that?

How do you feel?

How's your state right now?

Well, stay present.

Always reconnect to what's important to you — especially if the annoyance starts to return today.

Okay.

Have a great day.

Sean

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The app also tracks your progress and has lots of targeted multimedia Shifts and programs.

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Hello hello,

How are you?

I'm looking forward to the next several minutes with you.

It's a question that is frequently raised — what is presence?

Presence is an experience.

So, let's have that experience together.

Notice how you're feeling right now.

And then bring all your attention, and dedicate it to…come into the beach hut…and dedicate your attention, and your intention, for the next few minutes here, to coming into complete presence with me.

Have that experience of 100% of your attention focused in the present moment, which translates into an incredible feeling of presence — of aliveness, of connection, of peace, of freedom from fear.

So take a deep breath in.

And out.

Settle into this moment with me.

Just listening with 100% of your attention.

Invite all your attention to observing this moment, wherever you are.

All the sensations.

Notice your body pressing against whatever you're pressing against, the seat, the ground, the bed.

Feel the sensations.

And release any stories that are buzzing through your mind.

Maybe 10% of your attention is focused on the past, before we got started, or thinking about the future.

But, right now, all your attention, 100% right here.

Listening.

Being.

Feeling.

And knowing, that by returning your attention to the present moment, you're strengthening your ability to shift into presence anytime you choose throughout your day.

Notice how you feel right now, and just mark it.

Fully present.

And then, let's set an intention to sink deeper into presence.

For 20 seconds or so, just look around your environment.

Slowly noticing details.

Moving all your visual field around your environment.

And stopping and studying objects if they appeal to you, for 20 seconds.

Ready?

Go.

Beautiful.

Keep looking.

Studying your environment.

Deepening your presence.

Coming into presence allows you to focus your attention wherever you want to focus it next.

So let's shift it now.

Now that we're more present we can more easily notice that silent, tingling of our bodies.

Focus all your attention on any party your body.

Just, you can squeeze your left thumb and release, and then feel all the blood rushing into your thumb.

Let's try that.

Squeeze hard, for a few seconds, and then release, and feel the tingling.

Can you feel it?

Good.

Focus on that sensation.

That silent buzzing of your body, buzzing of life into your body.

And now, notice it pulsating through your whole body at once.

Feel life energy flowing through your body, producing your experience of life in this moment.

Full presence in your body.

You can close your eyes if you want to.

Just settle in.

Let's do that for a little, short while together.

Close your eyes.

All your attention in your body.

Feeling that buzzing, that tingling aliveness.

Ready?

Go.

Feel the buzzing of your body.

Your life flowing into form each moment.

Feel that?

That's presence.

Can you notice a shift in how your mind and body feel compared to just a few minutes ago?

The more you practice, the more contact you'll have with that creative peace that's buzzing through you all the time.

Buzzing through you, into your life, as your life, each moment.

So live presently.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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Let's take a long deep breath.

And allow our shoulders to fall toward the ground.

And if you can have something behind your neck, allow your head to fall backwards slightly.

And just relax completely.

Coming into this moment.

With 100% of our attention, right here.

Let’s just recognize that life is not easy.

It's not always easy for anyone.

Please know that, if you're struggling.

All of us have ups and downs.

When we're down, we have a hard time finding our way back up sometimes.

That's just because we forget that there's a pathway there.

And maybe we need to practice a little bit to find our way back there consistently.

The first step is recognizing there's a pathway, and then traveling it.

Identifying what that pathway is for yourself is a part of that journey.

But there are some principles, some basics of full attention in the present moment, that allow you to find your way to your right place.

Back to peace, and to feeling like you're able to take that next step in your journey — to feeling like it's not too hard.

It's doable.

Know you're not alone.

One way to do it is to take a deep breath.

Come into this moment.

100% of your attention here.

Place all your attention in your body.

Just feeling your body buzz for a little while.

The genius of you.

Whether you feel like you love your body, or you don't love your body, if you keep going into your body you'll recognize that there's a buzzing genius within.

There is a genius that buzzes trillions and trillions of cells that connect in trillions of ways every second, to produce your experience of life — to produce you.

When you see that, you see how connected you are to the entire environment around you.

The breath that comes into your oxygen.

The nature that surrounds you.

The chair that you're sitting on.

And me, and everyone else.

We all share the miracle.

We all buzz at one on some level.

So find that space inside you — where you’re buzzing as one with life.

Feel the buzz.

Let's feel the buzz for 30 seconds.

And then we'll try something.

All your attention — feeling your body.

( Close your eyes anytime you want. )

Mmm, it feels so good.

And now, let’s release our intention to focus on the body, and just be.

Release the intention to have any intention for a while, and allow yourself to be with me.

No intention.

Just be.

Are you being?

Come into being.

Let everything go.

And now, listen from a place of full presence to hear the next step on your journey.

See what's next for you.

Perfect.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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Hey there.

Hope you're good.

We're out on the balcony listening to waves.

Let's set an intention together to make a shift into a different state of mind.

Take a deep dive.

And honor this practice of being intentional about coming deeply into presence, at least once for the day.

Doesn't need to be — doesn’t need to take, a long, long time.

But today, we'll do it by going through OnePerfect Shift into a different state of mind.

I discovered years ago, in my own meditation practice, and then working with people to get their practice going, that a real breakthrough in your practice, and actually, in your life, comes when you're able to…

Shift intentionally between your thinking mind and your watching and listening mind.

So your ‘thinking mind’ to your ‘listening mind.’

When you can do that reliably, it means that you clearly know the felt difference the difference in how it feels between those two states of consciousness.

So let's experience this breakthrough intentionally right now.

Take a deep breath.

Relax.

Settle into your space.

100% of your attention — all your focus, invite it into the present moment, into the space you're sitting.

All your senses attuned to right here and right now.

Let anything goany thoughts that you brought with you, or any thoughts about the future, just let them go for a few minutes here.

And listen inside your inner world.

See if you can notice those thoughts that are still peeking through, or popping through.

What thought is occurring in your mind if you just listen right now?

You may be processing the words I speak.

And meanwhile, you're also thinking about something, maybe peripherally related, or even completely unrelated to these words.

Can you identify any thoughts that you're processing?

This is a good way to start coming into a ‘listening state of mind’ — noticing your ‘thinking state of mind.’

So close your eyes.

And see if you can notice ongoing thoughts produced by your thinking mind for 20 seconds or so.

And when you notice a thought, just don't get carried away by the thought.

Observe the thought.

Allow it to flow through your mind.

And then just return to the intention of noticing your next thought.

Okay.

Ready?

Go.

Good.

Did you notice any thoughts?

I'm sure you did.

So now we're going to make our shift.

Set an intention to shift away from your thinking mind that you were observing, and completely into your non-thinking mind.

Making that shift entails being committed to letting go of your thoughts for a while.

Don't worry, there'll be there when you return, they always are.

But for now, just be committed to allowing your thoughts to fade out of the foreground of your awareness, for a little while.

Let's set a clear intention to let thoughts go for 20 seconds.

Drop below thinking into complete inner silence.

Just listening.

Being.

Close your eyes if you want.

Ready?

Drop into complete silence.

Complete inner silence.

Go.

Listen to life.

Listen as life.

Perfect.

Did you experience just even a few seconds of pure silence, pure listening mind?

Can you feel that difference between being occupied by your thinking mind, versus becoming your watching mind, your listening mind, your silence?

That's the breakthrough you want to focus on.

Notice which state you're in, each moment. And when you can move back and forth intentionally, you've had your breakthrough.

You'll come to more clearly identify and feel that difference as you practice.

The difference between your thinking mind and your listening mind.

In my view, being able to make that intentional shift when you want to, is the most important skill you can develop.

Because from that listening mind, you can now move your attention into anything you want to just by resetting your intention.

What do you want to do next today?

Refill from a place of stillness, a place of silence, a place of listening to life, as life.

And then, set your intention — what's next for you today?

So, what is next for you today?

Set that intention to shift towards it now.

Got it?

Good.

Have an incredible day.

Sean

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Hello, hello. I'm so glad you stopped by.

Come listen to the sounds of the beach in the background and shift your state of mind with me anytime.

To prepare to make a shift anytime, set a conscious intention to shift into your ideal state over the coming few minutes. Then, select a OnePerfect Shift post in one of two ways.

You can scroll through the post titles until one catches your eye.

You can choose a post title that corresponds to how you're feeling right now.

And then just read the post to shift towards your ideal mind state.

And if listening to my voice helps you shift, then play the audio along as you read.

Or, you can just close your eyes, and listen for a few minutes to make your shift.

Whatever works for you.

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This Welcome Shift starts you off with a key personal question.

And answering this one question will help you see why strategically shifting your state of mind is the most valuable skill any of us can develop.

And why it's worth learning to do this as well as you can.

And I’ll also touch on some core psychology concepts and some other ways you can shift your mind when you need to, as we continue through this first post.

Okay?

All right.

Onward.

I’m a psychologist who loves to strategically apply psychology to produce results like reducing anxiety and sadness, and increasing peace and wisdom.

I've been applying psychology to my own life, and with my therapy patients, at least since I was asked a personal question by Dr. Jon Kabat Zinn, over 20 years ago.

The question was, what do you fear most?

I'll share my own answer with you at the end today.

But what's more important than any one person's answer is the psychological journey that the question points to.

The ‘inner journey’ that we each must make in order to cope with our fears and our challenges, and to triumph through the inevitable trials of our lives.

We have so much beauty and potential inside us.

Meanwhile, so many of us are struggling.

We’re going through fears — financial fears, health fears, fears about not being lovable, or not being good enough.

Some of us have real fears about not having enough food, or other essentials — or living in constant physical or emotional danger.

Some fears are real.

Some fears are not.

All fears are related to future — to future uncertainty.

So they pull you out of the present moment.

The good news is that coming into the present moment, i.e., coming into a present state of mind, melts fear.

So, we’ll practice coming into presence together to shift our state of mind and body out of fear strategically.

Let's take a step towards fearlessness by pulling in a long, deep breath.

And relaxing for a moment.

Breathe deeply again.

Good.

Now focus 100% of your attention on identifying what you fear most.

I'm not referring to physical dangers that you might reasonably fear.

I'm asking, what psychological fear is limiting you most?

Your answer might relate to a fear of being unworthy, or unlovable, or some imagined failure, or embarrassment, some fear of the future.

Just close your eyes and breathe deeply for 10 seconds.

Ready?

Get yourself present before you ask the question.

Good.

What's your greatest fear?

And when you get it, writing your answer down privately is going to help you get more clarity.

Doesn't need to be perfect.

And you can always edit it later.

Just take your time.

I'll give you a few more seconds.

Got it?

Good work — if you've written your answer down.

Your biggest fear typically influences many of your choices because of how much it influences your inner conversation — that's this ongoing conversation you're having with yourself 24/7.

We're all having this with ourselves.

Regardless of your age, or your agelessness, or your race, or your non-race, or your gender, or your non-gender, you progress through your emotional life just like I do.

We all engage in a silent inner conversation that drives our emotions and our behaviors.

It drives how we experience our lives.

So when you listen inwardly — to start facing your biggest fear, for example — there will come a time when your fear of those outcomes that you're projecting will subside.

And that's when people tend to move more freely into action. And life begins to shift toward peace, and curiosity, and gratitude, and abundance, and eventually, to freedom.

Freedom from fear.

Strategically listening to your inner conversation is the key to progressing along your life journey with the least amount of resistance.

Life is emotionally challenging for all of us.

Listening to your inner conversation strategically and consistently is hard to do.

Especially when stress accumulates, it can feel impossible to listen and shift into a more ideal frame of mind — especially if you don't have any guidance.

That is why I share Shifts — so we can practice shifting our state whenever we want to, or need to.

OnePerfect Shifts flow from exactly the same intention as the hyper-personalized OnePerfect app (iOS | Android | Teams) — to provide better tools to support coping with life, and thriving, for all of us.

Shifting works because strategically listening to yourself over time, and shifting your state intentionally, rewires neural pathways and increases your emotional intelligence.

So by shifting strategically, you can play a huge role in how your life develops, and how connected to life and to others you feel.

Let's be clear.

Shifting your mind is not always easy, obviously.

From Harvard Business Review

“It's impossible to always block difficult thoughts and emotions. Effective leaders (and by that they mean anyone, all people) are mindful of their inner experiences but not caught in them. They know how to free up their internal resources and commit to actions that align with their values.”

— Harvard Business Review, Emotional Agility, Susan Daid and Christina Confleton. (The parenthetical is mine.)

What most people find is that as you practice listening to yourself strategically for a while, you become increasingly clear about what your most important fears and truths are.

And you'll evaluate both of those two aspects on the spectrum of how you experience life with a sharpened eye.

As you improve your abilities, fears and anxieties that have been living inside your mind and body will begin to diminish.

And so your ability to grow through emotional suffering — that arises for all of us — can develop into what feels like a superpower, if you get great at paying attention to your inner life strategically.

So that's what we do here.

That's what we do in the app too.

The intention of everything that we do is…

Pay attention to your inner life strategically — listen — so you can shift your state of mind when you choose.

And if you're listening experience is like mine — your inner journey listening — you'll begin feeling more connected to a silent peace that's ever-bubbling through your body and into your life.

And you'll know with assurance how to reconnect to that truth and peace and purpose — that feeling of presence — whenever you notice your connection is waning.

Let's do this together.

If you’re just getting started, a good next step is The Shift Starter Program.

Sean

P.S. My greatest fear was the fear of not living up to my potential. That was what I wrote down when asked the question.

Hopefully you’ve identified your greatest fear today too and wrote it down.

It's not too late to do that right now, by the way.

That’s how you start facing it.

It’s how you begin to overcome it.

Okay.

Let's practice together.

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Using the app, over 95% of people who've been surveyed reported that they were able to shift toward or into their ideal state of mind — typically in 5-10 minutes.

The OnePerfect app is like an on-demand therapist one tap away anytime you want to shift into a better mind state.

You can start your day off right, make a shift on your coffee break, get yourself motivated to perform your best, shift out of stress, or sadness, or loneliness, or even fall asleep with OnePerfect.

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