Adam Grant says there are "Givers" and "Takers." Some people give credit. Others take credit. The ones who take credit are transactional.

Transactional is practical and useful, but the relationship ends when it's no longer beneficial. Arms Length

Agenda-driven is going to try to achieve this thing it wants, rather than being focused on pleasing others.

Solve the immediate needs such as going to Costco to grocery shop to fulfill our fridges.

Limited interactions with people. Transactional relationships ruin intimacy when creating the most profound and most important connections. It's just business, and the relationship is a thing. Nothing more profound or more in-depth. In those transactional relationships just a constant reminder of fault-finding. All the missteps the other person has made.

Transformational may start as a transaction but can further support each other's social wellness goals.- Closeness

It's all about growth and contribution to keep each other's accountable in personal and business. It's all about asking, don't assume. Work on connecting before correcting. Yes, maintain high standards while focusing on compassing. Get curious, not furious, understand, don't blame. Get Fascinated, not frustrated.

You start to develop friendships where you set a long-term relationship, and it comes across as business transactions. As you begin to create social bonds with diverse individuals, you want to understand the difference between transactional vs. transformational relationships.

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