Book mentioned:

The Deeply Formed Life

https://www.amazon.com/Deeply-Formed-Life-Transformative-Values/dp/0525654402/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3RI0HPSED4LH9&keywords=the+deeply+formed+life+by+rich+villodas&qid=1663190089&sprefix=the+dee%2Caps%2C115&sr=8-1